However, after a taste of life in the big city, Lydia decided that there wasn't much excitement for a young teenaged girl on a rural farm. After graduation she remained in Chicago where she found employment with the William Haase Family in Oak Park. The census lists her occupation as a maid, but she was probably more of a family helper since the Haases had young children.
Emil was born on March 4, 1888 in Melrose Park, Illinois where he spent his childhood years. His family may have farmed at some time in Melrose Park, because Emil acquired a life-long interest in agriculture.
After he completed his education Emil was hired as a time-keeper for Kellogg Switch board and Supply Company in Chicago; Kellogg made early candle-stick and hand cranked telephones. It was during this same time that Lydia worked for the Haases. The future couple met at the church that they both attended. Perhaps someone played matchmaker, because soon Emil and Lydia were engaged.
Later, a retail store for the business was opened in town and the Mesenbrinks moved into a comfortable home at 219 Brainerd Ave. The Mesenbrinks spent the remainder of their productive lives here in Libertyville. They raised three children; Gertrude, Francis and Paul. Emil spent 37 years running his successful floral business. When he retired, Emil sold the business to Russell Proctor. The business still bears the Proctor name today.
Emil died on September 25, 1961, after suffering a stroke at the age of 73. Lydia died at the age of 89 on August 16, 1979. Just as they worked side-by-side in life, they are buried next to each other in Lakeside Cemetery.