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FROM PG. 3 Conference workshops.packed The smallest workshop. Widowhood, was-conducted for a group of three women by Dorothy MacNaughton, chapter leader of THEOS (They Help Each Other Spirtually).. As women met between workshops or over lunch at the Durham Dining Lounge, there was a constant buzz of conversation. They sharec confidences and comparec workshops. They offerec each other support, suggested books to read and people to belp witli «problems. In workshops tbey savw their inadequacies pointed ont and laughed sym- pathetically with -one ianother. They rejoiced in their strengths, and deter- niined flot to let'society ser- ve them, up as weaknesses. "It was just great;" was the most common comment about almost any workshop, although a few wornen found some 'workshops were flot what they expected. One woman said she had ialways -11ad trouble under- standing investments fromn h er econornist husband, but after listening to Kim Bail explain Financial Planning it was suddenly very clear. And, she said, Bal managed to make it funny too. / « Another woman found Womnenand'Famlly Law in- formative even if she wasn't delighted to discover that rnany of the recent refo;rrs would leave some women -Worse off than before.' Susan Diamond, 14, found Self Defense' For Wornen "useful to any age." She learned among other things that a yeil that cornes from the stomach is more effec- tive than one that cornes from the throat. Some women got specifie suggestions for diet and use of '01mines from. Kathryn Bro«' to control premen- Durham graduation May. 24 This year, Durham College will hold two Convocations on Satur- day, May 24. The morning con- vocation will be held at 10:30 a.m., and will be for Business Division graduates. The guest speaker wlll be Frank Wisniewski, a Durham College graduate, and an employee of Courtice Steel Ltd. The afternoon Con- vocation will be held at 2:30 p.ni. and will be for Applied Arts, -Health Sciences, and Technology graduates. The guest speaker will' be Dr. Keith PIemon, a Bowmanvllle physician, and past Board Chair- man of Durhamn College. The cerrnonies and an strual syndroms, plus the news of a link between use of "the pill" and PMS.* Women, aged 13 to 82, carne from across- the region to attend. Altbough it was billed as a women 's conference, five men also registered. "It wasa very good con- ference,"' Doug Barton said. "There were a lot of good things for both sexes." He said teenagers, par- ticularly young women, could use a lot of the infor- mation offered. "lWe sbould have more conferences, more often. " The organizers are Women. ani By JAN DODGE Free Press Staff Women are mucb more likely than men to be labelled masochists says Laura Caplan, keynote speaker at a women 's con- ference at Durbam College last weekend. Speaking to 150 women from across Durham Region author of Tbe Myth of Women's Masochism said this is la rgely due to Freudian* teacbing whicb says women tbrough evolution have been selec- ted for suffering. Freud bas labelled women as masocbists, and even bas said that if men are behaving in a masocbistic way, they are sbowing their feminine side. Womnen are accused of taking pleasure in pain, she said, but most examples gîven by psychiatrists demonstrate the ability to endure pain and to achieve greater good. This is not to say women bave enjoyed it.i When a woman is taught to delay gratification, Caplan said, she is labelledi a "good woman". However, already thinking of the next one. One idea they're working on James said is the possibiity of forming a nietwork to continue on what was. begun at the conferen-. ce. They're also tbinking of another conference - possibly one that would in- clude womnen and men, a real exercise in equality. Those interested in bearing keynote speeches by Barlow on Women and Well.being or by Caplan on ber recent book, The Myth of Women's Masochism sbould check Channel 10 for viewing time. d suffering when her suffering- was discovered, psychiatrists came up with a theory to blarne it on herself. A "good woman" inter- nalizes ber problems, Caplan said because she bas poor self esteem. "She tbinks, 1 won't lave this job or Fred, because I'm lucky tob ave ajob or man ... If a woman leaves, people say she's a failure as a woman and a wife" Caplan said wben women are self-denying as when mothers make sacrifices for th eir children, they are labelled masocbists. Society blames' mothers for everything that happens to children, she said, s0 mothers try to cover all the bases, and are then« called overprotective and told, "You need to let go." If women let go, tbey are called cold and uncaring. Wben women endure suf- fering tbey are called masocbists, she said. Tbey are asked, "Wby do you do this to yourself?" If a woman protests tbat she does not enjoy' pain, she SEE PG. 30 WHITBY FREE PRESS. WEDNESDAY, MAY 14,1986, PAGE 27 2 DAYS -ON LY TH-URS. & FR1. 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