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-~ -~ ,~: - -- Dear Anne Hlirst: Like sa mary women ho put love first, I f el hard for a man who posed as single: even the friends whô iniroduced us didn't know he had a wife in another city. 1 dlidn't find it out until 1 was to much in love to care. Though that was eight months ago anid 1 arn still -in love, 1I must escape. Love of itseif is not enough for, me now. "realize wvhat I have danc. I was flot brought op> to behave like this, and 1 arni wondering whether it is too late ta be-good again? No one here knowvs about us, but feeling, my gujît 1 wouid Hsk your advice as to Ieavinig, haýw and when. "'The mian is swect, generaus, and very mruch respected, but hE, evidently is a man without morals whio sees nothing ,irregu- lar in our relationship, Hie wouid neyer understand whjy I cannot keep on like this. .1.How can 1 get awayý withiou-t any argument? Can I ever re- gain my good namne back home?', REGINA" it ltis neyer too late to turn) *to the right. The fact that *your relationship is flot sus- *peeted where you are no- w ,Ill *protect you ini your homne *town. You have b)een circum- *spect, and yaur guilt exists *Only in your own minç¶. *As ta the manner of yoiur *goinig, àit would seem iwise from every angle ta leave a llnote saYing you have gone. *Make it brief. and firm.,, and *add that he wil be ind not *ta trY ta find you or even re- *p1y. *You are stili in love, but you 'are noQ longer blind. Go home, * iesumre your former life there *and hold up yaur head as ai.- *ways. You will find people Sless curious than you expect;ý ~in your absence t-hey haveý Sbeen busy with their own ai'- fairs, and there "s every rea- KHaif-Size Fashion' 4659 SIZES î,4'1-2,11ý PRINTED PATTERIN PRINTED directions on each atcnpart! Takes sa littie tireta makle tis figure-fiat- 'ýérih dress! Simple, sliminiýlg hines are prefectly proportioned frthe lhaif-sizer; fo iaateration ,,rcb!èrns - easiest sew,:ing Printfed Patteral 4659: Hcait 4-1I.es14,1 ,18,2 , 21, 4%.Size 1takes 3 yards 35-inch. P rin t ed directions on ea ch patt1ern part. Easýier, faster, ac- elrate. Send FORTY CENTS (40e)ý (stÊamps cannot be accepted, use ~atlnote for safety) for this týattern, Please print plainly PMZE, NAME, ADDRESS, STYLE tNUtMBER, Seànd arder ta ANNE ADAIMS, kt x 1, 123 Eigýhteentb St., New yýrontü, ont. ISSUE 20 - 1957 *son ta believe you wiii be wel- *comned by ail yaur aid frhcnds,,. (1 (Ihavec edited yaur letter *carefully for your own. pro- *tectian.) ** BOY MIXED UP "Dear Anne Hirst: I arn 17, and came ta !ive witb My cousin and bis wif e because there was aiways sci mnucb trouble at home. My fami.iy bad eight kids, and 1 workled bard atter scbool and neyer had time for fun. But ýI dan't get along witb my cousin, or bis wife, eitber. "We are a mean farnily, and ,the chip an my shoulder is a sîze tao big. 1 don't smake or drink, and I'd be ail rigbt if I weren't wanting ta raise Cain al the timie. "Cani you inherit- a bad tem- per? Or sbouid I see a doctor? 1'l.soon be 1,n'the service, and mnaybe atter that l'Il be mare of a real guy. TROUBLE" 1 tbink yau'vle bad enough *quarrelingr in yaur young life. *Wby don"(t you make a. vow *neyer to listen ta a% fuss, and *neyer start n e xyourself? *Quarreling is a habit somn(- *times farrned early tbraugb *hearing athers Jose their te-ni- *pers. It ýis an adolescent trait * nd bias no place in a man's *make-uip. *Naw tbat you are physical- l y away frorn your family and * ntcnd ta mnake sametbing of *yaurseif, do learni self-contrai. *ÊI you can't, yaui neyer wili *make iasting friends; if you, do, *you'ii nat anly be a regular *guy, but whhi bhave a rich and *wonderfui ]Ife at yaur own. *Start today! *t Itmight be a good idea to h ave your cousini's famnily doc- '~tas give you a comnplete physi- *cal, * * lu any heur of indecisioni, asic Anne Hlrst's counsel. She ýwllI weigh ail the angles of your situ- ation and withhoId revealingede- tails. Address -fer at Box 1, 123 Elghiteenthl St., New Toronto, Ont. modern Etiquette by Roberta Lee, Q.How should the butter kuife be placed on the ilidlvld- Ual butter plates, herizoutally acress the top or vertically at the right side? A. There Js no set rulq about this, but tbhe consensus is tbat it, 1 ooks better placed -in the samie direction as, the ather silver. Q. When a young mnan intends te senti a corsage te the girl he is escesting te Soule functien, is it al sight fer him tIo nquire what caler ef gewu she is geing te wear, se that the flowers will basmenize? A. Yes; although there are sarne fiawers that are suitable for any color of gawn. Q.Is it pesmissable te leani acsoss ene person te shake hands w;lhanether? A. It is usualiy better ta- avoid th-is, if you cani. Ho-wever, if the other persan seemns bent on sbaking bands with you, be sure ta be t he pardon of' the per- son acros.s hoir. you reacb. 'If V've teld yeu once, I've told you tell imillin Utimes - doni't exaggteralte' AN- H41R STJ TROPICUTIE - Marge Nelson, Miss U.S.A. in 1956, now graces the line of showgirls ait the Hotel Tropicana, Las Vegas, Nev. Along with dancing -al- ent, ffhe lne halds more thon 50 beauty awards. Jilting itters What is the reason, for a man jilting bis fiancee? It'S not a)- ways because another girl has comie into bis 11f e, In sarne cases it's brought on by- engye,- sis, a) reCentlly Cdiscovered nrervouis complaint. Chief symptoms are anxiety, loss ofwegt insomnia, and ini- abihity ta cancentrate. "ýTPe comi-pla)int seern mainly to affc mnen who reg'ret their engage- ment and deveiop guilt feelings because they lack thle courageý to break it offl," says Dr. David Davies, who stuLidied fhfty vie- tims at the Maudsley Hospital, Gamiberw.eii. Thirt-on f these -thirty of them mn-adto be treated as in-patients because "i ey were sa seriouisly afftected. The ji'iing Jit1ters are often set in mnotion whien the wedding day is close at band and the bridegrxoom-to-be suddenly re- alizes the irrevocability of bis a'ction. Then, says Dr. Davies the maLn usually t elis his fiancée, "You con sec how iii.1 arn - it, wolntbe fair to go on with the marriage." Witb utter d3is- mnay, he hears the reply: "I love yrou and wvilI stand by you." Dr. Davies says thiat ýat this paint the' patientI's symptOms>ý çteadiIy become worse. Eleven cases -were solved mnereiy by ad- rnitting the patients into baspi- tal. The h)eaihy partner b-roke off the engagenment in the be- !cf that the patient %vas noiw 'mrrental!" No bride of 1957 would like ta wvear aid shoe-s on her weddinig Iay, yet ift was once thugtthat a June bride wha did so would never lose thé loveý of her hus- band and waul be biessed witlt at ieast two cbiIdr-en. i Iý June-The Month 0f Weddings June hbas always been con- sidered a lucky month for wed-. dings, and some youing couples have been mak-ing plans sitnce January this year. Mýinisters are inundated withi requests for June cerernonies and bakerrs confirma that they have already received many ord!ersý for June wvedding. cakes. The iucklest of ail wedding days in the year, according ta the supers titi ouriS, 1 on the day of the full moon in June. This year it falis on June l2th, a Wednesday. But a June bride should make sure that no h-re and no cat crosses her path while she is on her way to the cere- mony. These were axcientlIy believed to be unhappy omens. The June bride, on the other hand, who happens to catch si'ght of a spider or a toad on her wedding day wi]l have an exceptionaliy happy marriage. A June wedding custom. seldom observed nowadays, was for the bridegroom to place severai gold pieces in the bride's hand when the words: "With al my woridly goods 1 thce endaw,"e werc ut- tered. C-jetNotrFAe . tRM Thre wcýatbier, insofar às we are cancernied, was made ta as- der, Sa much extra wvasbing; 50 mrany people comning and g- ing. One znan ta take away baied straw; another ta pick up benis; stili another ta load a chiekenx-pen, It bias been a strangely busy time for, an Eas- 1tes week-end. And while tbe weatber lias bielped cansiderably It bias also made thingus a little harder iii another 'way. As Partner put it ycsterday - "Leaving the farm- doesn't seem too great a hardsbip wben the weathcer is coid and miscrable but wben' the sun cames out, warms up) the gaod earth and tbings start ta grow,ý, then it doesn't seemi such) a goad id"a". That's the wholc tbing in a 'nutsheli -- it's the living, graw- ing things we bate ta leave - the trees we've planted; sbrubs and spring fiawýering bulbs a nd even the rbubarb. Hawever wve have per-mission ta take anything out of tbe' garden tbat we specially, value se I suppose wýýe Sbouidn't campiain. Anather regret is lcav/ing acur neLighbbours. There neyer wvas a better neighbourbaaod than this. 0f course we bave got awýay from ncighbouring in the aid wiay, There is't 'as mucli 4' changing hands" as there ue ta be; naor the huge meais ta get for tbreshers and siio-filiings. We dan't necd ta sun t[the neighbburs nOw te bùrrow extra plates or aýn aversize pot tao cook potataes in. Na, that kind of îneighbourliness bas mare or icss dïed out but tene-*ghbourly spirit sthli Survives. Just let trouble comne taa, family and sec, how ready the neigbhbours are ta hcip. 0Or whensomeone leaves the crnmunity r',,s w,,eare do- ing - then the iieigbbourLs are neyer satisfied until tbeyý have found sane Way of exprcssing their gaadwilL lxi. inaur case about tbirty Mf them staed a fare,ý\e11 party last wedrlésaay -- sucb a nice friendly g' lherrng -- and in addition aur hrkstess biad in- vted aur owý,n ùfailv. We wvere really surpriscd. First alanigi came Bo'b, Joy and B3aby Ross -! Who was very mruch admired! About tfUteen minutes 1lates 111 camve Dec, Art, David and Ed- ward Dui.ng tle even-inlg we weepresented with a very, iaeySpode teaset -- teapot, cwream- and sugar - in a goad, generouis size. So now we ar& ali set ta) serve tea, ta old frieni but -n a jnew jhome. And I 1cx- peet aur uext calumn wiiibe writtcn from aur ncw ,location1 - îf wc survive the ordeai of mov.., ing. 1 an sti"li ,vondering wherec we shail pu.t ail tle situff we a(re taking. It's a mrercy there is a big basement. In thie meantimre surveyors are cbasing ?raund here like ants round a bi, Measurinig, measur- lng-, always nmeasuring, while anc of the party m-akes entries on a Pad. We notice they are jputthngc downl cernent block markers. Wben yau tbink, of the tirne spent an this anc smail section of road it is smnall wý,ondles that an entire bigh way takýes sa jlng ta buiid, i certainly hope we çlon't run inta any road-buildin-g crews elsewhere. But yau n eyer can tel - nat witbl the network of highways that wil presently be under construction. I can quite imagine that in a few years we may drive alang this stretch of road, look round in "Is that where we used ta !ive?" At thc mioment Ait isn't notice- ably chan 'ged sa whîle it stilà looks and fleels like home we are planning ta have one last famnily meai hn this century-aid bouse - that is an Easter Sunday. Actually, we have little te complain about - not in eorn- parisani witb a little Hungarian womnan who cornes in bere quite frequently. A wee k ago she had just. pîcked up a letter at the post-affice- from hier aid home in Hungary. But she was terri- fied ta open it. "My first letter since 1935., Iam afraid, sa ter- ribiy afraid of wbat I shail read.» Today, she was here again. Her first words were about the let- ter. "They are gane, my farnily. Ail 'gone, except anc brother. hie who wri tes the letter. My mrother, sîster and other brothers - ai] gane. Last wPek I cannot ,work for weeping.- Thepoor littie soul - doesn't' it make you ashamed for al the littie everyday tbings, we find ta fuss about. Some of us may have ta move, practicaliy against aur wvill, but at least we can keep in touch witb aur friends - by visiting, by letter or by tele- phane. And so a change of lo- cation can hardly be called a major tragedy. And that Is for- tunate because, since Christm-as, the Clarke connections have been the "Mavingest" people ever, There seems ta be no end ta it. Betty and ber family t rom Niagara Falls have gonL ta, Sud-. bury; mny sister and nephew are migrating ta Peterborough; Dec and hier family are maving t» Indian Road -- j ustea block ýaway tram High Park. Babe, as you may reernber, went ta Eliott Lake early in the year - wbere Cbuck has been ane, ..'the vic- time of the infectiaus outbreak of jaundice and was* in bed two weeks. Blind River must be quite a~ place. Tbey arc having ta buiid another jaita accam- niodate the iaw-breakers. This is tao ridiculous. I just iaaked at the thermiometer and it's 80 in shiade- and1 90 in the sun! JMODERrI ETiQUETTE by Reberta Lee QIf a wedding m iust be posi- puned, must the sanie people bit invited again? A. Usuaily, yes. Howcver, if somethîng seriaus bas caused the postponemnent, sucb as a death in, the fam-ily or se-vere financial reverses, and the wfed- ding is ta be greatiy simrplifled, then the iist of guests woult have ta be, eut down. KlSS~ DISC - A talking love letter, the laiest craze in Iqam- burg, Oermany, is seoted with a kiss by this Iovely Fraulein cit a recording siot machine, The automatic recorder, which costs about 25 cents ta operate, produces an unbreakoble platter safe for mailing. lFA SHION HINT '