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Section Two The Canadian Statesman, Bowmanville, August 20,1987 5 KNOB HILL SPECIALS AVAILABLE ALL WEEK, MON.-SAT.! PRODUCT OF CANADA - FRESH & PREVIOUSLY FROZEN CHICKEN LEGS "BACKS ATTACHED" 5 LB. LIMIT kg CANADA GRADE "A" ROASTING CHICKENS Omlb.avg.)Q|M kg 3 BIRD LIMIT L g 2.18 CASHMERE by SCOTT BATHROOM TISSUE LARGE 8 ROLL PAC wooDBimy 3 PAC 240 g SOAR. 3 PAC LIMIT FRESHWATER -- CANADIAN IE! Product of Canada -- FLASH-FROZEN PURITAN CANNED STEW 680 g TIN SWISS STIRRED - ASSORTED FLAVOURS GAY LEA COURT 175 g TUB MIX OR MATCH 12 LIMIT • BEEF • IRISH • HOT CHILI CON CARNE MIX OR MATCH 4 LIMIT ARM & HAMMER HEAVY DUTY CONCENTRATE ETERCENT LARGE 10 L CARRY BOX 25% BONUS MAX 13 LIMfff HOUSEHOLD CLEANER PINE I SOL _ REGULAR•SUPER• 500 g TIN SUPER PLUS SOOmLBTL. 199 BOX OF 40 TAMPAX TAMPONS DR. BALLARD'S CAT iroon TOP SHPICE SB 399 LARGE-700 g TIN PRODUCT Ol ORIGINAL BUNCH MIX OR MATCH GREEN ONIONS OR 0/$ 1 RED RADISH ( °° Z BAG) V/ * PRODUCT OF MEXICO FILL YOUR OWN BAG ONTARIO #1 GRADE LARGE SIZE in PEPPERS rOFU.S.A. lb. PRODUCT OF U.S.A. 10 OZ. CELLO PKG. PRODUCT OF ONTARIO 1 LB. TRAY PKG. BUTTERNUT SQUASH Jfl, PRODUCT OF ONTARIO CANADA #1 GRADE SMALL COOKING LONIONS.. 10 LB. BAG It 99 * BAG PRODUCT OF U.S.A. FLORIDA "NEW CROP" ORANGES LARGE SIZE 80's DOZEN PRODUCT OF U.S.A. FLORIDA "INDIAN RIVER" RED GRAPEFRUIT s'** SIZE 40-48's 12 LIMIT PRODUCT OF ONTARIO CANADA FANCY GRADE RED OR GOLDEN IS APPLES LARGE 10 LB. POLY BAG PRODUCT OF U.S.A. CALIFORNIA SELECT YOUR OWN PRODUCT OF U.S.A. CANADA #1 GRADE FILL YOUR OWN BAG ANJOU PRODUCT OF SPAIN FILL YOUR OWN BAG CLEMENTINE PRODUCT OF U.S. A. CALIFORNIA LEMONS SELECT YOUR OWN PRODUCT OF U.S.A. CALIFORNIA SELECT YOUR OWN ^West - Mississauga DIXIE MALL At Dixie lid, South ol Qucon Elizabeth Way North - Markham WOODBINE NORTH At No. 7 Highway: Markham Central - Toronto 222 Lansdowne Avenue Corner Dundas St, West North York our Newest Terminal 2549 Weston Rd. Just south of Hwy. 401 Downtown - Toronto 222 CHERRY STREET Just South ol the Lift Bridge East - Pickering HWY.2& BROCK RD. In Pickering OSHAWA/DURHAM > FIRST AVE. Between Slmcoe & Rilson Just a "Stone's Throw" North ol 401 ■THURSDAY | B A.M.-10P.M. I FRIDAY |8A.M.-10P.M. SATURDAY fijiS 7 a.m.-i o p.m. ismai Jealousy, the Green Eyed Monster by Lloyd Scott Jealousy is infamous in literature and human relations. "Jealousy is the injured lover's hell." "Jealousy may be born with love, but it doesn't die when love dies." "Jealous people aren't jealous for a good or sufficient reason. They're jealous because they're jealous." "Jealousy is a cruel as the grave." "0! Beware my Lord of jealousy. It's the green-eyed monster which mocks the meat it feeds on." "I'm not a jealous man, but I can't see what she sees in him." "For I, the Lord thy God, am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers upon the children unto the third and fourth generations of them that hate me." "Rumor is a pipe blown by surmises, jealousies and conjectures." "Jealousy feeds on suspicion. It turns into fury or it ends, as we pass from suspicion to certainty." "Jealousy is the resentful suspicion of a rival, real or imagined." In its extreme form, jealousy is power exercised over another person. "If I can't have you, nobody can," has been part of the motivating force behind many murders. Such jealous passion is not a sign of love. Jealousy is possessiveness. To be jealous is to demand someone else's exclusive loyalty. Therefore, in jealousy there's more of the need to be loved, than there is a desire to love. Extreme jealousy is a sign of extreme immaturity. The jealous person demands unconditional love. That's the sort of love that only an infant has the right to expect from its parents, love given without expecting anything in return. We've all experienced jealousy at Some time or other. It's a painful affliction. Unfortunately, little is written or said about the day- to-day agonies suffered by the mate of a jealous person. That's a different kind of hell. The jealous one is forever demanding reassurances of exclusive love and loyalty. But there can never be enough reassurances to satisfy some jealous people. The partners of such people are always on the,rack, trying to prove their faithfulness but never succeeding. Their relief may come only when they abandon the effort, and the jealous partner as well. "The malicious accusations of a jealous person are more poisonous than a mad dog's tooth." Exercises have been developed to help couples suffering with this problem. They resemble desensitizing exercises used with phobias. Essentially, they involve increasingly longer periods of separation between the partners, from minutes- to hours to days and even longer. Reassurances given by the spouse who goes out (as to. where they're going, with whom, etc.) to the fretful jealous partner who remains at home are correspondingly reduced a little at a time. Over a long period of doing the exercises, one can begin to outgrow jealousy and learn to trust. It's hard to work. Meanwhile, the non-jealous partner can slowly begin to enjoy a little more freedom from constant suspicion. Jealousy is no laughing matter. For that very reason, we've had to make jokes about it. As one wise guy put it, "I want your love for several reasons, and not only to prevent other people from getting it." Lloyd Scott is a Family Counsellor working in the Durham Region. He welcomes letters from readers. Please feel free to write in confidence to Handling It...etc. c/ o Statesman, Box 190, Bowmanville, Bowmanville, Ontario L1C 3K9. Town Purchases Package for Communie atio ns The Town of Newcastle recently voted to buy $26,910 worth of communications communications devices from M. A. I. Canada Ltd. to enhance their computer system.. In a report submitted to council on Dec. 15, Treasurer Treasurer John Blanchard and Chief Administrative Officer Officer Larry Kotseff said the new system would create a network which allows the main computer to-be hooked to different terminals terminals and print out machines. The purchase includes the acquisition of modems, which allow computer information information to be transferred through telephone lines; and multiplexers which can connect clusters of information information from one department to the centralized computer. BUSINESS DIRECTORY ACCOUNTANCY WILLIAM C. HALL B. Comm. Chartered Accountant 35 King St. W., Newcastle Phone 987-4240 JOHN MANUEL, C.G.A. 118 King St. East, Bowmanville Phone 623-6555 WINTERS, SUTHERLAND & MOASE Peter A. Hobb, C.A. Chartered Accountants 23 Silver St. Bowmanville 623-9461 DOUGLAS R. FREEMAN, B.A..C.A. Chartered Accountant 1913 Dundas St. E., Whitby, Ontario Phone 576-4619 CHIRC PRACTIC G. EDWIN MANN, D.C. JOHN W. HAWRYLAK, D.C., Chiropractor Corner of Elgin and Horsey Streets By Appointment -- 623-5509 Member of Canadian and Ontario Chiropractic Associations LEONARD JAY, B.Sc.,D.C. Doctor of Chiropractic 96 Queen Street Bowmanville Phone 623-9297 F.C.C.R. Doctor of Chiropractic Certified Roentgenologist Nutritional Counselling 168 Church St. Bowmanville Phone 623-4004 JOHANNES L. BAARBÉ B.P.E., B.Sc., D.C. Doctor of Chiropractic 29 King St. W. Newcastle Phone 987-4600 LAURENCE A. GREY Doctor of Chiropractic 50 Richmond St. E., Suite 2 McLaughlin Square Oshawa, L1G 7C7 Phone 433-1500 HOME SERVICE BARINA HOME CHECK Ease your mind while you are away. Barb Shelter - Ina Cox Newlonvllle 786-2996 7 - 8 a.m„ alter 6 p.m. COMPUTERS COUNSELLING ANDY BATELAAN, B.A. Consultant Programmer Software Development Maple Grove Rd.N. Bowmanville Phono 623-2375 LLOYD SCOTT, M.A. Orono Medical Centre 983-9792 Specializing in Marriage Counselling, Parent- Child and Personal Problems Divorce Mediation NATUROPATHIC MEDICINE LAURENCE A. GREY, N.D. . Doctor o( Naturopathy REFLEXOLOGY Nutrition, homeopathic, and BY ANNA botanical modlclno; Anna M. Bragg, R.N. Colonic Ihorapy & acupuncture By Appointment Only 50 Richmond SI. E„ Suite 2 R.R. 4 Bowmnnvlllo, McLaughlin Square Ontario L1C 3K5 Oshawa, L1G 7C7 Phono 623-9198 Phono 433-1500