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Port Perry Star (1907-), 30 Oct 1952, p. 2

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- ~4 Ww 2 ORANGE PEKOE : re 2 - (AN NE HIRST "Dear Anne Hirst: Until the last. few years, my husband never drank, Now_.he does so regularly. He doesn't-get really drunk, just takes make him hateful, and hard to . get along with, it seems to change his personality en- tirely. He knows I've al- ways hated drinking and all it stands for. It is tear- ing us apart, and .if if continues it will end our mariiage, four months, He begged me to come liome, promised every- thing. I gave in. Within a few weeks, Lt was the_same story. "It js almost driving me crazy, I don't want to be around him, I can't stand his breath; when he kisses me, I could scream. I go for days without speaking |_ "to hin, and I can't help it, I can't prefend. He wonders what is wrong; he will not see it is just his drinking -that is ruin- Ing my life and his. "He says that I can't leave him, that'll always come back ~pemtemand 1 dogo; lie will Kill me. NOTHING LEFT "I kuow 'he can quit drinking if he wants to. He stopped smok- ing when his doctor told him to. "I don't nag, Anne Hirst. I never igtart a fuss . . . I used to enjoy going out with him, but I enough to "Lost winter 1 left him for | ER SS SS SS le # » o | > oe L JE JE JE INE EE IEE NR J E HIRST | cally revolting. Instead of én- joying his caresses, they make you ill, (They have the same effect-on many another sensi- tive wife who is too timid to admit it.) It is as though the man became a changeling -- 'not the one you loved and de- sired, but a stranger - with traits you never saw in your husband. critical, arrogant, even abus- ive. .He ridicules you to his . own advantage, and your spir- it is so crushed that you are speechless. . Drinking can do this dread- ful thing -to the gentlest of men. I have seen it. If he --could--only--see-himself-as---he< it at such times! For if you told him, of course he would never believe he was guilty of all the offenses he commits. * se Your husband, however, has seen its effect on you. That should be .enough to. tonvince- him that he cannot go on' you there to suffer over and over again, You have come to the end -- as would any other gently reared woman. * pose You say he reads this col- umn, If he happens to miss he will sée~it. I hope, with you, that he will wake up to the crisis his marriage faces. If he laughs it off, as he has 'done before, he will find out how wrong he is. For this time, tell him _ you will not He is captious and ~ "thig~one, put the paper where | On Mona Lisa - music worked so that she could be en- hb) Mysterious Shadow When a dark shadow appeared .recently above the brow of the Mona Lisa, the world's most famous painting in Louvre;Par- |--F is, a committee of international arf experts met' and discussed ways of removing "it. What caused the shadow remains 'a mystery: as The Mona Lisa is generally . recognized as Leonardo da Vin- .ci's masterpiece and the' most beautiful portrait of 'a woman ever painted.- No picture has ever had a greater "following". Its haunting, enigmatic charm has inspired countless critical rhapsodies from painters and poets. Leonardo spent four years - painting the Mona Lisa.. The original was the wife of Zanobi de Giocondo, and the artist was so anxious to record on canvas the strangely fascinating smile of his lovely model that he caused to be played while he tertained and thus" keep that subtle expression on her face. Art experts say that the Mona Lisa "has everything." Design, colour, technical accomplish- ment of the highest order are there--and, above all, character. "drinking, and expect to find | Walked For Wedding--Three- year-old Adele Poindexter, ill: with polio, won her reward for a walking-recovery:--and went hand-in-hand down the aisle at the wedding of the former Miss Shirley Ludwig, now Mrs, Neil above, Adele is looking -at the bride's prayer book 'with the new Mrs. Benford after the ceremony, She 'was promised she could attend if able to walk then. "ey SE IR Le HRONICLES CA Gaosadaline D.Clanke Thanksgiving week-end and what perfect vzeather! The only nice holiday week-end we have had this year. It gave many people a chance to drive through the country and see the autumn colouring at its best..Red _ Benford, physical therapist. Seen . %GiNGerFARM i able; beds restful; rooms airy and light; meals good and the superintendent and his staff effi« _clent, kind and considerate. | Many of these aged residents seemed well content. But there were others whom I could -not forget. They seemed like people without -hope ~, . .just waiting, 'Many of them had been trans-. ferred to this new home from a house of refuge where same of them: had spent many years. And I wondered . . . had they any friends -- any family? Had they been placed in the home and forgotten? 'Did they have visitors who .weré interested in them' personally? What was the story "behind their expressions less faces -- what were their feelings? In _ the men's lounge there were about a dozen men. Some smoking, others just - sitting. There were papers and maga- zines but none of them was read=- ing. They were not even talking. In the women's quarters some were reading, writing letters, or doing-- fancy work. A few were just sitting with that same' hopeless expression, not even curious as to who the unknown person might be when I walked | in. Many of them were in the' same age group as the old lady who came here -yesterday. Yet she is seldom idle, reads a lot and takes an active interest in - church work. Wherein lies the differenece? is -1 may be wrong but it seems 'to me our aged citizens may be housed in the mgst modern and comfortable homes that can be built yet they will never be happy unless there is someone who cares; 'someone belonging to them who can make them ~feel they are still necessary -- still able to centribute in some way to the happiness of others, even by. living, or, if they can, by knitting: or making little "things. Grandpa, with time on- his hands, can often. maké won- derful toys, just by whittling. And grandma should be en- couraged to knit, or sew, even it she makes nothing more than pot-holders. ~~A-home-for-the--aged-may-be-- the very best place for grand- pa: and grandma to receive proper care but they still need * folks" and a sense of belong- - ing. No home can take the place of filial love and respect. And surely that is not too much to expect. -- . RS FER wa a = = aA --don't---now,;Fnever--kimow what to.expect! It makes him mad. - "I was never like this before he started drinking: How can I make hint see that I'm about to - crack un? Unless I can respect him and love him again, it will" be too late. As he is now, I can't do either; MRS. L. E. H." ® J do not wonder you are * frantic. You have lost faith * in your husband -- and why * not? After . giving you his * word to "stop. drinking, you --*finit quarts of liquor around ® the louse. That makes him * furious, of course. He cannot * see that. he fooling nobody _* but irinsself. : . ® Wow, he has become physi- RELIEF IS'LASTING « "For fai: celief from headache gét: INwram cine, For real relief get Ingvar niz, For pr8longed relief get Deir aNTINE! Yew, more people every day are finding that INSTANTINE is one thing to ease pain fast, For headache, for rheumatic pain, aches and pains of colds, foc neuritic or neuralgic pain you can depend on INSTANTINE to bring you quick comfort. J * XnwrartiNg is made like a pre- scription of three proven medical ingredjenta, A single emma. tablet usually brings fagfyeliof, of (el 1nstanting today and Aways : kent handy Instantine : 12-Tablet Tin 25¢ Heanomizal 48-Table! Bottle 75¢ 7 aa UR , IBSUE 44 = 1952 . N , pockets. with {Fighteenth come-baeck -- Haek: The evils of drinking are etch . ed deep in the hearts of thous- ands of wives, Finally, the man must decide which he wants most--alcohol, or his wife. . IT this problem faces you, ask Anpe Hirst what to do. Write her at Box I, 123 Eighteenth St., New Toronta, Ont. Sub-Teen C lassic 3 by Ane Alas For your smart little Sub- Teen daughter, this smart little dress. There's style aplenty in that wing collar, those jaunty Add interest aplenty plaid bow, pockets and bands on sleeves, Sensible "for school and play, pretty enough for dress-up! . A Pattern R4605 in Girls' Sizes 6, 8, 10, '12, 14, Size 10 takes 3° yards 35-inch; 8 yard contrast. This pattern easy to use, sim- ple to sew, is tested for fit. Has complete illustrated instruc- tions. A Send THIRTY-FIVE ' CENTS (35¢) in coins (stamps cannot be . accepted) for this patterns. Print plainly SIZE, NAME, ADDRESS STYLE NUMBER. Send order to Box 1, st, 123 Ont. 'a ' New Toronto, |. guest ~ linens. "Enough motifs for two pillow- cases, two towels and one scarf. So lovely for Easy stitches; add ready-made eyelet ruffles to the edges. Pretty, colorful tifs about 334-12 inches. Send TWENTY-FIVE CENTS in coins (stamps cannot be ac- "cepted) for this pattern to Box 1, 1223 Eighteenth St, New To- ronto, Ont. : ; ; Such a colorful roundup of handiwork ideas!- Send twenty- five cents now for our Laura Wheeler Needlecraft Catalog. |. Choose your patterns from our dolls, :. gaily ilfustrated toys, household and personal acces- sories. A pattern for a handbag is printed right in the book. Perch Sleep On Bottom of Lake With an echo=sounder on a forty-foot Navy launch, a researcher from the University of Wisconsin - traced the move- ments of schools of perch in Lake Mendota in Wisconsin and made the remarkable = discovery that the fish spend the night sleeping' on the bottom near the shore. ~The echo sounder's revelations were confirmed by divers: During the daylight hours the perch move in-large schools. at. depths ranging between twenty- five And thirty-five feet below the surface, As the light wanes at sundown théy move toward shore until they: reach the bot- tom. Then the school disperses, and each fish quietly sinks to ~the sand and stays there. This habit of blending into the bottom aroused the scientists' curiosity because the echo-soun= der left it to be inferred that the perch had disappeared. A diver sent below at night with a flash- light found thousands of perch 'on the bottom. When they were disturbed by the flashlight they moved just out"of the brightest beam, 'sank, and went to sleep again,' At daybreak perch rise -and congregate into schools, Soon af- ter sunrise they move back into' deeper water. : THINK IT OVER & Morey you have to pay back always seems like twice as much as you borrowed. ful guest linen "Pattern 838; transfer of six mo- . "went "| ~maples everywhere -- but they show to much better advantage where there are also evergreens, and maybe a background of limestone rock. In "thig--district 'we have them all. 'Even from here the view is perfect so we don't have to travel the high- ways in search of beauty. Well, while this was definitely a thanksgiving season "at Ginger Farm,-it- wasn't exactly a holi- : day weck-end. Our family from Toronto was here and we had been told to- lina up any jobs "for which we need help. We did just that. Apples: and pears were picked, and then Daughter 'helped can pears to take home witht her. Art helped Partner put up a fence and with various other "jobs. And then we:moved the hens. in the pen" and caught _ them while the other three carried them away to new quarters -- quite a distance. One hen got away and then followed an ar- gument as to who was respon- sible for its escape. Biddy, natu- { indeed! 1 stayed - rally; didn't stop to listen. She- on . her hunting for waste our energy chasing her but left places open where she could shelter for the night. Of course we had callers while we were busy -- I have no idea what they thought of way rejoicing, - late worms_ and, "-savoury grubs. Neither did we our dishevelled appearance. Catching: hens and climbing apple trees doesn't improve one's appearance. However, they only stopped long enough to say hullo and goodbye, "after leaving some perennial roots which These friends had an old lady with them -- mother and grandmother too. They were taking her for a drive and then out for Thanksgiving dinner, away from her apartment where she lives alone. This old lady. had been promised for this fat" SORELY has five children and about fif- teen grandchldren. She visits among them during the summer and comes back to her apart- ment for thé winter. says she is often lonely. I looked at her, and my thoughts went She is ~loved and considered and yet back 'on¢e again to a home I visited last week where I saw many old people -- our newly opened home for the aged, It is a marvellous, place, absolutely modern in every detail, Fur- nishings artistic and comfort CRIN WITH THE ORNS HE OF TOBACCO ELIMINATOR For frea booklet and names of nelghbou s who gladly teatify to the amazing resul« of this non-habit Lriniog remedy, write King Charmacal Corp, Td, Box 671 London, Ont. Marching Snails About one hundred years ago a species of large snails broke loose from its native Africa and went on the rampage, Since then it hag ranged all over the tropics, destroying, spreading, and causing countless millions . of pounds'. worth' of * damage. "In Africa the giant snail popu- lation had been kept in check by. the natives, who prized them. as food and wore the bright shells. as ornaments. Then a British traveller, W. H. -Benson, took some snails to India and let them loose near Calcutta. The*Indians did not take to them as a delicacy, and they be- gan to spread. By 1900 they had reached :Ceylon, Malaya, Borneo, Sumatra, and Java, = -- To give an idea of how pro- - lific-these creatures are, a pair of them were taken to Hawaii by a4 woman who had holidayed in Formosa. In a few yers they _were completely out of control. Every single snail is an egg producer. One scientist estimat- ed that a single snail, in five years, could give rise to eleven thousand million others, weigh- ing. up to a pound each. The snails travel in and are not fussy about what - they eat. They: strip the country bare of practically all vegeta- tion as they pass over it, So far, the travels of the giant "1 "snail have inclined to. the "east. | "Front Africa it has already worked its.way round the Pa- cific, and has made a few abor- tive attempts to establish itself in the United States. Once it has reached that far one more step would bring-a -plague of giant snails' to Europe. { : WHY YOU SHOULD NOT TAKE SODA ® If you suffer from acid indigestion, hone tburn, acientiss ay hing Soda can aad our 'u oa alkalosis, acid rebound. y Sa. ASr_1astis I had indigestion and Medical Disco the I could oat nad sajay Taina Again, 30 de and felt much better." Thousands who suffered such distress, due no nia ca tried Pierce Baden Medical Discovery iy amasing _cesults. Over 35,000,000 bottles of this t non-alcotiolia medicine, with ite erful stomachio toni ac have been sold to dats. Ando wonder, First, taken regularly, {§ promotes more normal stomach activity, thus helping to digest food better, so you won't have gas, Second, with stomach activity improved, you can eat the foods you like without fear of aftar-diatreas, Tey it. Get Dr. Pierce's Golden Medica! Olscovery at your druggist; today! hl Quin breeding, batches, * rtburn, sour stomAch. fre F UTURE a by. . Limited 36 King Street Wes! Telophonet EMpirs ¢-4331 Wood, Gundy & Company Toronto 1 A RN Somme. Modern Etiquette Q. Is it considered proper to _use__bread for sopping up the gravy in one's dinner plate? 'A. Yes, if done in the right way--by putting a small piece of bread down on the gravy, and then eating 'it with the fork as though it were any other help- ing on your plate. in a traveling costume and pre- fers not fo carry an arm bou- quet? : A. She of orchids, gardenias, may wear a corsage or any Q. Is a person obliged to give the reason for 'declining an im- vitation? : A. While not exactly obli- gated, it -still is the gracious thing to offer Otherwise, it may be inferred _Q. How should gifts and flowers received during an Jil- . ness be acknowledged? A. If: the patient is too ill to acknowledge the gifts prompt- ly, notes of thanks should be wriften as soon as possible af- > ter recovery. ; ; Q. When the wedding is to be a double-ring ceremony, does the bridegroom buy his own ring as well as that of-his bride? A. No; the bride buys his ring. Q. It a man is forced by ecle- cumstances to send a woman who _he has been_escorting home in a taxi, is he supposed to pay the taxi fare? - A. He most certainly is! H should inquire of the driver the approximate amount the fare will' be, 'and then pay him, add- ing enough for a tip. : Q. What kind of flowers should a bride wear if she is married that 'you do not care to prolong the friendship. Q. Is it obligatory that re- __other_flower that suits her fancy. some reason. freshments of some kind be fur- . nished after a wedding rehear- sal? A. While not obligatory, it is" - customary and a very nice thing to do. The refreshments are 'usually served after the rehear- sal at the home of the bride -- or. the 'bridegroom invites the little. party of - attendants to some eating place, -Q.--It-a person asks yon how old you are, or what your salary is, or some such personal ques- _tlon,, what should you do? - A. You are perfectly privi- leged to reply, "There are some questions that I prefer not to answer." If is only a very rude, Hivred | {agilese person who ask such questions. : Baking' Easier, Speeder with Wonderful New Fast Rising Dry Yeast! ASTI FRE STAYS endord Vendy ve and We Veneers ~ mifk "and sti. in V2 ¢, granulated ~once-siited bread flour; Knead until + sugar (lightly pressed 'down), 3 tsps. CINNAMON' BUNS. Measure into large bowl, 1 c. lukewarm water, 2 tsps. granu- lated sugar; stir until" sugar is dissolved. Sprinkle with 2 envelopes. Fleischmann's Fast Rising Dry Yeast. Let stand 10 min., THEN stir well. Scald 1 c. sugar, 114 tsps. salt, 6 tbs, shortening; cool to lukewarm. Add to yeast mix. ture and stir-in 2 well-beaten eggs. Stir in 3 c. once-sifted bread flour; b: atil smooth, Work in 3 ¢. more stnooth and elastic; place in greased bowl; brush top with melted butter or: shortening, Cover. ond set in warm place, free from draught, Tet rise until doubled - in "bulk." While dough is rising; combine 12 ¢. brown ground cinnamon, 1 ¢. washed and dried seedless raising. 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