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€ THE OSHAWA DAILY TIMES, WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 4, 1940 Social and Personal When friends visit you, or you visit friends at a distance; if you are entertained or if you enteriain, The Times will be pleased to record the fact in the "Social and Per- sonal Please teleph Mr. and Mrs. Harold Brant and Barbara were in Toronto on Satur- day. * » @ Miss Emily Matthews is the guest of Mr. and Mrs. Thomas Growden, Lindsay. LR I J Mr. and Mrs. W, McDonald and Helen of Peterboro, were guests here over the week-end. * + + Mr. and Mrs. H. Shelley, Oshawa boulevard, are today observing their forty-fifth wedding anniversary. * + ® Mrs. Walter Matthews of Toronto is the guest of her sister-in-law. Mrs. Edwin Pearson, Alice street. * b> Mrs. K. Thorne of Kendal is vis- iting her son-in-law and daughter, Mr. and Mrs. Roughley, Bagot street. * + Mr. and Mrs. D. MacFarlane, North Oshawa, are home after a week's camping trip on Gull River, Norland. * + Miss Hilda Rice has returned to Grimsby after spending the summer with her parents, Mr. and Mrs. Stanley Rice, Burke street. LR TR Mrs. Nora Johnson and her son and daughter-in-law, Mr. and Mrs. Gordon Johnson, are guests at the | home of the former's daughter, Mrs F. W. Frobel, Grooms avenue. * bb Mr. and Mrs. L' T. Bailey, Mr. James Glenn, Miss Noreen Robert- son and Miss Grace Glenn, all of Toronto, were guests at the Donald- Fitches wedding on Saturday. do db Mr. and Mrs. Ernest Anderson and daughter Marlene and Mrs. Cook of North Bay were guests over the week-end at the home of Mr. and Mrs. W. D. Anderson, Ritson | | The hostesses were Mrs, James Ar- road south. * + * Mrs. Jack Francis and Mrs. F. Boyce were co-hostesses at a pantry=- shelf shower at the former's home, Masson Street, in honor of Miss Maudie Kemp, whose marriage takes place September 14 The rooms were decorated with yellow and white streamers and wedding bells, and baby chrysanthemums in the same shades. Contests and games were played. Mrs. Charles Hall and Mrs. | 1 kitchen . shower with R. Norris assisted the hostesses in serving refreshments. La a Recent guests at the home of Mr. and Mrs. Harold Brant, Burke street, were Mr. and Mrs. Edward Taylor and sons, Jack and Kenneth, and daughter Helen of Alberta, Mrs. Albert Cockburn of Guelph, Mrs. Nelson Ward, David and Douglas of Port Credit, Mr. and Mrs. Alex Grant, Kenneth and John of Guelph, Mr. J. Green of New York State, Mr. A. Green and children of Toronto, Mrs. Althouse of To- ronto. hb Bb Miss Noreen Arnold, before her marriage Saturday to Mr. Richard Bailey, was entertained. at several miscellaneous showers. Mrs. Frank Arnold, Alma street, assisted by Mrs. T. A. Day, gave a shower at her Hl 7 =~ 7 ae \\ ~~ PLLA, SEES 27m . bce 7, SSS < Yi By GRACE THORNCLIFFE Velvets and corduroys are making an early Autumn debut. Just the thing for street or campus wear 18 this light weight corduroy frock in a delectable dark, rosy-beige shade. The fly front closing begins below the Johnny collar. Gathers soften the bodice, and slit pockets are con- cealed in the hip yoke. Note that the rib of the fabric is used in cotrasting directions. home. The bride's mother enter- tained the girls of Coulter's at an afternoon tea. Mrs, R. Crandell and Mrs. L. Van were hostesses at sm- other party and the neighbors and friends of the bride-to-be gathered at her home to extend good wishes. nold and Miss Phyllis Langford. LIER Before her marriage on Saturday to Mr. R. A. Donald, Miss Florence Fitches was guest of honor at sev- eral parties. Mrs, William Fitches and Mrs. George Fitches gave a pantry-shelf shower at the former's home. A personal and miscellaneous shower was arranged by Mrs. L. V. Disney, Mrs. E. G. Disney, Miss Ilene and Miss Amy Disney. At a Mrs. George Jarvis, Miss Georgina Davis and Miss Irene Meech as hostesses the bride-elect was presented with a set of cream and green enamelware. LE Last evening the Daughters of England honored Mrs. Richard A. Donald (nee Florence Fitches) at a surprise party at the home of her mother, Mrs. L. Fitches, Albert Street. The rooms were decorated with pink and white streamers and gladioli and asters in the same shades. The guests gave their fel- low-member a shower of miscel- laneous gifts 'and Mrs. D. Wells, president, read an address and pre- sented the recent bride with an end table on behalf of the lodge. Bingo was played with Mrs. J. Madder as prize-winner. Miss Alice Fitches and Mrs. Donald Fitches served lunch. Chase Your Cares... "Tike V4 BOAT : > ng 8 rin : Up The SAGUENAY Leave Toronto any Monday, Wednesday or Saturday at 3.00 p.m, E.8.T. Sail over Lake Ontario and down the St. Lawrence, shoot- ing the Coteau, Cedars, Split Rock and Lachine Rapids. Murray Bay, Montreal, Quebec, Saguenay, 6 days See Tadoussac, and the Majestic All-inclusive 8-days conducted tour with stop-overs in Montreal and Quebec, $95. To MONTREAL VIA 1000 ISLANDS--Sailings from Toronto Monday, Wednesday and Saturday at 3 p.m. E.S.T. Cruise over Lake Ontario, through 1000 Islands, and shoot the Rapids to Montreal, Return fare, in- cluding meals and berth (five-day limit) One way including meals and berth, $15, AUTOMOBILES CARRIED AT LOW RATES ON ALL SERVICES Further information, literature, reservations from any travel agent, or CANADA STEAMSHIP: LINES 380 BAY STREET, TORONTO Canadian National Railways - Canadian Pacific Railway FLORENCE FITCHES MARRIED AT HOLY TRINITY CHURCH In Holy Trinity Church on Sat- urday at three o'clock the marriage was solemnized by. Rev. D. M. Rose of Florence Ruby, daughter of Mrs. Fitches and the late Thomas Fitches, to Mr. Richard Arthur Donald, son of Mr. and Mrs. Richard A. Donald of Oshawa. The altar was decorated with gladioli and asters. - Mr. A. Rowden was organist and played "Ave Maria" during the signing of the register. The bride was given in marriage by her broth- er, Mr. William Fitches. She wore a street frock of British navy pan- oreama mesh, made with redingote trimmed with powder blue. Her halo turban in powder blue had a shoulder-length veil and she wore matching accessories and carried a colonial bouquet of roses and sum- mer flowers. Miss Amy Disney was bridesmaid and wore a navy and white redingote dress, white acces- sories and carried a colontal bouquet of summer flowers. Mr. Reginald Fitches, the bride's brother, was groomsman. A reception was held at the home of the bride's mother, Albert street. Mrs. Fitches wore a navy sheer dress with white accessories and a corsage of roses and lilies. © The groom's mother was attired in mauve crepe with white accessories and wore a shoulder bouquet of roses and lilies. The home was decorated with sum- mer flowers. For a wedding trip to Western Ontario the bride wore a navy gab- sardine dress with navy and white accessories. The happy couple are making their home at 31 King stree! east, Apartment 2. BROUGHAM COUPLE TO LIVE ON FARM | (Mrs. T. C. Brown, Corr.) Brougham, Sept. 2--An event in the community was the marriage of | Jean, eldest daughter of Mr, and Mrs, Howard Malcolm, and Mr. John Knox, son of Mr, and Mrs. Willlam Knox of 8t. George. Rev. I. E. Ken- nedy officiated at the ceremony which was held in the church, de- corated with autumn flowers, The bride end her attendant, Miss Mary Malcolm, wore fall ensembles with bouquets of roses and baby gbreath. Miss Helen Malcolm, sistef of the bride, played the wedding music and Mrs. W. J. Brown, the bride's aunt, sang "The Voice that Breathed O'er Eden." Mr. Waiter Knox, brother of the groom, was best man. The ush- ers were Mr. Robert Jackson and Mr. Alen Elliot, A reception was held at the home of the bride's parents. There were guests from Toronto, Galt, Mark- ham, Montreal, Brooklin, Wick, Pickering and other points. The old- est guests were the bride's grand- father, Mr. T. C. Brown, and her grandmother, Mrs. Masicolm. The youngest guest was baby John How- ard, son of Mr. and Mrs. Robert Malcolm, 'The young couple will live on the farm on the seventh concession of Pickering. Miss Margaret Burton of Detroit spent the week-end in Brougham. Greenwood (May E. Brown, Corr.) Greenwood, Sept. 2--The Ladies' Bible Class met last Monday even- ing at the home of Mrs. George Pegg. Misses Erla McTaggert and Alice Pegg were responsible for the interesting program given, after which the hostess served a dainty lunch, Some of the holiday visitors were: Mrs. Griffith of Toronto with Wes- ley and Mrs. Sadler; Misses Flora and Barbara MacLaren of Toronto, Mrs. Tom Hortop and daughter Margaret of Camilla and Miss Jane Miller of Pickering, with W. W. and Mrs. Gee. Mrs. J. Clarke of Toron- to with Bob and Mrs. Pretsell; Percy and Mrs. Middleton and daughter Isobel with W. T. and Mrs. Middle- ton. : The following teachers left for their schools, Misses Mildred Cor- bett, at Scugog Centre; Gertrude Corbett at Epsom, Alice Pegg near Collingwood, Miss Zorah Gee at Whitby. The Women's Missionary Society will meet on Thursday afternoon, September 5, at 2:00 o'clock, with Mrs. Walter Stevenson's group in charge of the program, at the home of Mrs. Perry Wilson. Next Sunday morning at the regu- lar church service, Rev. R. W. Mc- Vey will lead the congregation in special prayer for the British Com- monwealth of Nations smd particu- larly for the Old Land in her hour of trial. Quite a number have visited the Canadian National Exhibition in Toronto, and found that it is as good if not better than ever. Miss Carol McVey is steadily im- proving from an ear infection. The many friends of Bert Harvey of Brougham were sorry to learn that he had been ill and hope thst he will soon be better again. Don't spend too large a propor- tion of your meat money on poul- try. It is the most expensive of all meats because of the waste in hones and other inedible parts, | ua BRIDAL PARTY . Mr. and Mrs. Ronald Arthur Holbrook who were married recently in Simcoe Street United Church. The bride, formerly Trissie Groves, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. J. Groves, was attended by her sister, Miss Madge Groves, and the groomsman is Mr. Charles Raymond Holbrook. The groom is the son of Mr. Arthur Holbrook and the late Mrs. Holbrook. Photo by Campbell. Audley AUDLEY Sept. 2.--Mr. and Mrs. Chas. Irvine of Toronto, visited with the Blake family on Sunday. | Mrs. - Walter Pratt of Kitchener | is visiting Ken and Mrs. Pratt and | also Miss Pratt here. | Miss Alina Puchrin and Mr. A | Bell visited Camp Borden and! Thornton friends on Sunday. | School reopened here on Tuesday | with Miss Mildred Hollinger in charge. | Mr. of Toronto | and Mrs. Reed matching accessories and Jgarried | are moving down to Audley farms for the winter, The funeral of the late P. M. Yeates was largely attended on Saturday last from his residence, Audley Farms, here. It was con- ducted by Rev. Dr. Renison of St. Paul's, Toronto, and Interment took place in Mount Pleasant ceme- tery, The passing of Mr. Yeates was a shock to all his friends and particularly to the neighbours here, few of whom knew he was ailing at all. For years he has had some trouble and only recently did it be- come acute when an operation at the Western Hospital gave promise of a rapid recovery but infection set in and he failed to with stand the shock. Since purchasing the old Dunlop farm here he has made a host of friends. This home was the centre of music lovers and many a visit was made there by members of the Toronto Symphony Orchestra. Sir Ernest McMillan who was on his holidays returned to be one of the bearers. He was a supporter of all local agencies for neighborhood betterment, being generous in his aid to the Red Cross, the Audley Community Club, the Men's Club at Pickering and the Anglican church. He had added to the beauty of the vicinity by transforming a down- at-the-heels farm into a real pro- ductive beauty spot. 'An orchard of 20 acres is growing well and the. rebuilt stone house is one of the best. His leaving at the age of 57 ic a decided loss to the community. Few outside men in purchasing es- tates in the country, do as much to improve local conditions, as did Mr. Yeates who will be long re- membered by all here. AMONG THE LATEST STYLES TODAY'S MENU [ | Pattern 4340 is available in misses and women's sizes 16, 18, 20, 34, 36, 38, 40, 42 and 44. Size 36 takes 4% yards 39 inch fabric. Send TWENTY CENTS in coin to The Oshawa Daily Times to ob- tain this pattern. & 4340 Crochet With Stitchery Is Smart COPR. 1980, HOUSEHOLD ARTS, ING. Household Arts by Alice Brooks . Tea Cloths PATTERN 6786 Easily embroidered flowers fill these filet crocheted bandings, handsome on scarfs, towels and pil- low cases. 'Pattern 6786 contains a transfer pattern of 16 motifs rang- ing from 4% x 7% inches to 14 x 1% inches; chart and directions for crochet; ilustrations of stitches: materials needed; color schemes. Send TWENTY CENTS in coin to The Oshawa Daily Times to ob- fain this pattern. _ pm eeussise By BETSY NEWMAN .. .. Now that the weather is slight- ly cooler, why not have that couple over for £ynday supper? -- you know, the ones you have been plan- ning to invite but didn't get around to it because it was so hot. (Serve 'em ple for dessert, and see them cheer.) Today's Menu Ham Balls in Mustard Sauce Toast or Hot Biscuits Waldorf Salad Jam Chocolate Chiffon Pie Coffee + + » Ham Balls in Mustard 8 *They're So Convenient "SALADA TEA BAGS 1% cups ground ham, % cup grated raw potato, Dash black pepper, 1 egg, beaten, 3 tablespoons butter, 1 tablespoon shortening, 3 hard cooked eggs, 2 tablespoons flour, 2 cups milk, 3 teaspoon dry mustard. Combine first 5 ingredients and mix well; shape into balls, allow- ing 1 heaping tablespoon to each ball; then brown in fat. Melt but- ter in top part of double boiler, blend in flour, mix smooth, gradu- ally adding milk, stirring constant- ly until thick and smooth, then stir in mustard. Add hot ham balls (ham should be cooked) and hard- cooked eggs cut in halves length- wise. Place over boiling water and heat from 10 to 15 minutes before serving. This amount serves from 4 to 5. * 4 » Chocolate Chiffon Pie 1 tablespoon granulated gelatin, 2 cups milk, % cup sugar, % 2 squares chocolate, » 2 egg whites, § 1 teaspoon vanilla extract, 1 baked pastry shell, 2 egg yolks, 3 cup cream whipped. Soften gelatin in % cup of the cold milk, Combine rest of milk, % cup sugar gnd the chocolate, cut in small pieces, in top of double boiler, and cook over hot water un- til chocolate is melted, Beat well and stir into slightly beaten egg yolks; return to double boiler and cook 1 minute longer. Remove from hot water, add softened gelatin and stir until dissolved, then stir in vanilla and cool. When cool stir in stiffly beaten egg whites to which the remaining 14 cup sugar has been added. Pour into cooled pastry shell and top with whipped cream, or fold whip- ped cream into the mixture if you prefer. Almonds ALMONDS, Sept. 3, -- Almonds Anniversary Services will be held on Sunday, September 20th. Full particulars next week. Mr. James Knight, of Brooklin, has been visiting at the home of Mr. W. H. Balsdon during the past week and attended the funeral of the late Mrs. Richard Carruthérs or Monday, who had been a life long friend. Mrs. Violet Langmaid, of Wash- ington, visited for several days with her brother, Mr. J. Guy. Mr. and Mrs. T, Roberts, of Have- lock, were visitors with Mr. and Mrs. J. Guy, on Monday. The death occurred on Friday at her late residence, Kingston Road West, of Elizabeth Ann Carruthers, widow of the late Richard C. Car- ruthers, dear mother of Reverend Albert Carruthers, Mrs. F. G. Har- ris, Dewart R. and Hilda Carruth- ers. The funeral which was private took place on' Monday, September 2nd. Interment was made in Union cemetery. SOCIAL NOTICES Engagement, Marriage and Receiving Notices, 50c Results of Draws, 10c a line. Announcements or postpone- ments of meetings, 10ca line. Accounts of weddings printed free of charge. ENGAGEMENTS The engagement is announced of Florence Hilda, youngest daughter | of Mrs. Ann Evans and the late Harold: Evans of Bowmanville, to | Mr. William Eric Kent, son of Mrs, P. H. Frayne of Oshawa and the late W. R. Kent of Myrtle. The marriage will take place early in October, ' The engagement is announced of Helen Zavitsky, daughter of Mr. Joseph Zavitsky, to Mr. Robert L. Clancy, son of Mr. and Mrs, John Clancy, the wedding to take place on Wednesday, September 25, in St. | Gregory's Church. Rich, w: Parent Problem 39 GARRY C. MYERS, Ph.D. A few children, even at a late age, are smothered with mother- love, But these cases are rela- tively rare. Most babies and little children are starving for want of expression of affection from the mother and father. Some twenty years ago, mothers were warned to leave the baby alone, not to pick him up, not ta fondle, cuddle or caress him, and to handle him as little as possible. And, as for holding g tot on the lap, that was taboo Then there appeared an orgy of writing and speaking by '"child-experts" in which the child with a "mother-fix- ation" was constantly described and given a dark, unhappy future, and pictured as the average child. By and by most "intelligent" mothers began to think themselves a menace to the youngster just be- cause of their love for him. Des~ perately they began to keep them- selves from showing him affection in order to save him from the dam- age they might do by being nor- mal. And when a mother forgot herself and petted her baby or young child she was punished with a sense of guilt. Grandmother Knew Better Grandmother knew better. She fondled, kissed and cuddled her baby when she pleased. Nor did she hesitate to hold the toddler on her lap. She never spurned his show of affection nor was he de- nied hers. While in the midst of house work, if the baby or tot grew noticeably peevish or stubborn, she dropped her work, picked him up, held him on her lap, sang to him, told or read him stories, or soothed him in some other way. Often this treatment was the very thing he needed. However, she was too busy to spoil him with too much atten- tion, Yet the little time she had was full of heart-expression, through which the youngster was reassured that he was wanted, worthy and se. cure, Eminent psychiatrists like Dr. Plant and Dr. David Levy have re- cently been telling how important early cuddling experiences are in making for security. In that recent splendid book, "Parents and Children Go to School," by Dorothy Walter Baruch, Ph.D, (Scott, Foresman) we read: "When a mother nurses her baby lovingly and quietly ana peacefully, the baby is held close and gains 8 feeling of being warmly wanted and secure, In this case the mother does not need to think about give ing her baby enough physical close= ness; she automatically does it dure ing the nursing periods. But many mothers today do not nurse their babies for any length of time dure ing infancy. The babies do not have the nursing periods as a source of physical contact." Then she recommends for the bottle baby "at least one or two periods a day es- pecially reserved for being held and fondled by his mother, away from other people." Many of the pathetic, listless, or tense and unstable children who arrive in the preschool have his= tories such as this, Inquiry brings to light that the mother has care- fully guarded against cuddling and that she feels guilty over what cude dling she has done. Let mothers with bottle-fed bae bles hold these babies as they take the bottle. In a number of hospite als nurses are doing just this thing, and with the purpose of providing the baby with some cuddling. A list of books and pamphlets for expectant parents may be had by writing me at 235 East 45th Street, New York City, encolsing a self-addressed envelope with a three-cent stamp on it. Also a list of books and pamphlets on bring= ing up the baby and young child. Solving Parent Problems Q. Would you encourage a child from six to twelve to memorize fine selections of poetry and prose? A. Yes, indeed, including short selections from the Bible. It's no sin to remember things worth while. Some philosophers of edu cation give one the impression that about the gravest sin is to rememe ber anything or learn anything by heart. Q. When should the baby's first tooth appear? A. From about the sixth' to the tenth month, If no teeth have ape peared when the child is a year old, a baby specialist should be consulted; there is probably some thing wrong with the diet. arm eolor | and the sheen of youth to grey har! Try ; ante and i Trial Sise--3Bc. pure ting tht makes Other Sises © radiantly young 650, $1.2 75 again, 40 yearsin use. AT ALL DRUG AND DEPARTMENT STORES "Coca-Cola" is recog. --¥| nized and welcomed everywhere. People like its clean taste and the refreshed feeling that fol. | lows. When you buy your home supplies always in. clude a six-bottle carton of Coca-Cola" and be prepared for refreshment at home. Authorized Bottler of "Coca-Cola" HAMBLY'S OSHAWA - CARBONATED BEVERAGES - PHONE 755 | 227 ) ---- L} 1