I muta FHursDAY, OCTOBER: 21, SL 1948 THE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE PAGE FIVE WHAT SHOULD 1 DO ABOUT Welcoming New Minister? By MRS. CORNELIUS BEECKMAN Dear Mrs. Beeckman: Next month a new minister and his wife will be coming to take charge of our small church. Two of my friends and I met them when they came here for a "professional" visit several months ago, and they were charming, such simplic- ity and such sweetness. Instead of planning to give a tea to welcome them, we three thought it might be a nice idea to give a shower for them. We are not sure that this is a pYper idea, and of course we wouldia't embarrass them for the . world. But if you assure us this is proper, will you also be kind enough to suggest what kind of shower we should give. Bertha W. Indeed this is a proper plan, gen- 'erous and gracious in thought, and quite often done in these circum- stances. And I am sure it will be welcomed by the new minister and his wife in the same friendly spir- it in which you and your friends are planning it. An excellent idea, I think, would be to give a Pantry Shower, with each guest bringing one or two or more cans or jars or boxes of provisions. Or it might be a Pantry-and-Decoration Show- er, with some of the guests bring- ing furnishing items for the rec- tory or manse. Or in the invita- tions, you might just call it a Housewarming Shower, and leave it to the guests to bring whatever they think would be most wel- come. SHE SETS FORTH THE REASONS SHE SHOULDN'T MARRY HIM Dear Mrs. Beeckman: I was expecting to be married next month to a man I love very much. I knew that he had been married before, but just lately I found out that he hasn't got his divorce, and hasn't saved enough money to get it. I have told him that our engagement is broken, but he begs me to wait for him until he gets his divorcee. My mother and my friends think it is best for me to forget him, as he may cause trouble by his divorce, as he never keeps a job, and is also jealous of anyone I speak to. In the year I've waited for him he has not even taken me to a movie or a dance. What do you suggest I do? R. R. I suggest you wake yourself up and shake off this bad dream. You say you "love this man very much . « . but apparently you cannot think of one reason to tell me why you love him. He's a liar and cheat . . . about his divorce. He's a lazy, irresponsible no-good . . . about working He doesn't want you to speak. to anyone, probably not because of jealousy, but for fear they might tell you about him and his past Don't even contem- plate letting this "case history" come to see you again. In his direction your unhappiness lies . .. as your thother and friends are most wisely warning you. RECESSIONAL § Dear Mrs. Beckman: We are to be married at a Nup- tial 'Mass. There will be a maid of honor, best man, two ushers. What is the correct order of the re- cessional? C. H. Recessional: first, the bride and bridemaid. Next, the maid of hon- or, either alone or with the best man. Last, the two ushers, walk ing together. RECEIVE WITH GRACE By Mrs. Beeckman It's charming, of course, to give with grace. And it's charming, too, to receive with grace. If you al- ways insist on paying, you will de- prive the other person of the en- joyment of. making a contribution to the relationship. (Mrs. Beeckman will be glad to answer questions submitted by readers.) Scugog Island Scene Of Pretty Wedding MRS. D. HOPE Correspondent Scugog, Oct. 20.--Amid a setting of dahlias and chrysanthemums a wedding was solemnized in Grace United Church, Scugog Island, re- cently, when Glory Anne Melyn- chuk, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. John Melynchuk of Lady Lake, Saskatchewan, became the bride of Mr. Ralph Milner of Scugog Is- land, second son of the late Mr. and Mrs. John Milner. Officiat= ing were the Rev. W. C. Smith of Port Perry, assisted by Mr. H. M. Denton. Miss Helen Hayes, solo- isi, sang "The Lord's Prayer," and "Because," with Mrs. George Samells at the organ, The bride, given in marriage by her sister, Mrs. John Shollnitsky of Boissevain, Manitoba, wore a floor- length gown of nylon marquisette over taffeta. Two rows of delicate lace were inserted in her graceful ' Royal Family Amid 2000 Guests At Lady Margaret Egerton's Wedding London, Oct. 21--(AP)--Princess Elizabeth, clad in olive green, turned out with the Royal Fam- ily. today for the wedding of two members of her household. Principals in the ceremony at St. Margaret's Church in Westminster were Elizabeth's lady-in-waiting, Lady Margaret Egerton, fifth daughter of the late Earl of Elles- full skirt, A coronet of orange blossoms held her fine lace-edged fingertip veil. She wore a gold pendant with a pearl setting, a gift of the bridegroom, and carried a cascade of white carnations. Mis Netty Melynchuk, maid of honor, for her sister, was dressed in heavenly blue net over taffeta and matching bandeau hat. The bridesmaid, Miss Marjorie Milner, sister of the bridegroom was in yellow. They wore gold pendants, gifts of the bride, and each carried a semi-cascade of red roses and baby white chrysanthemums, Mr. Douglas Aldred was best man and the ushers were: Mr. Ray Milner and Mr. Victor Aldred. The reception was held at the home of Mr. and Mrs. Don Crozier after which the couple left for a motor trip to the Thousand Islands. For her going away ensemble the bride wore a red rust gabardine suit with black accessories. On their return Mr. and Mrs. Milner will reside at the Milner farm home. mere, and the Princess' private secretary, John Colville, Mr. and Mrs. Winston Churchill also attended. Colville was Church- ill's secretary before accepting the palace post less than two years ago. He and his bride met for the first time then. Prince Philip, Duke of Edinburgh, accompanied Princess Elizabeth on what was probably her last public appearance before the expected birth of their child next month. Princess Margaret was a brides- maid. The King in morning coat, was accompanied by the Queen in a claret velvet dress with an off-the- face hat. Queen Mary wore a pow- der blue coat with grey fur collar, There were approximately 2,000 guests. Hundreds of uninvited crowded the streets outside for a glimpse of the Royal Family, * All the bride's attendants wore dresses in misty shades ef oyster grey and pink. More pink was used in Princess Margaret's dress than the others in order to suit her deli- cate complexion, The bride wore an Edwardian style gown, boned to the higher hipline, in pink satin with tinsel medallions. She wore a tulle veil embroidered and hemmed with soft pink flowers. London --. 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