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THE EXPERTS SAY By KAY REX Canadian Press Staff Writer ' Those who live alone usually ~ know any number of ways to pre- INDOORS OR OUT THIS ENORMOUS and impres- sive stole was designed original- ly for at home wear but it is just be appropriate when worn outdoors with slacks or in town over a suit or dress. It is made of wool in bold black and white checks and is three yards long from fringe to fringe and twenty- seven inches wide so it provides lent of coverage. This big eauty is pictured wrapped smartly over a pair of toreador pants and a turtle neck sweater. By TRACY ADRAIN MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL Disillusioned Woman Faces Choice Between Husband and Children Dear Mary Haworth: I have two fine teen-age children who count on me to see them safely into adulthood, as neither they nor 1 have other blood relatives. But I must make a choice between their welfare and my marriage. My second husband is either com- pletely evil or he is crazy. In any case, he is scholastically far above average. John's social personality! is a big false front. He hides behind the of his professional role and ho! his public at arm's length. 8 soon as he married me, thus g another person into his vate life, his problem became more complicated; but he was able to. hide a good deal from me for months. Now the things that dawn on me are such grave sins that I feel I must leave him--as one would scramble out of a sewer. I have legal proof that my hus- band is perverse, atheistic and strongly attracted to communism, attitudes that spell death to the soul in his profession. However, ying to lead a Christian pd\this doesn't include lightly putting off one's marriage vows. 1 hones feel I would stick by John, eyén knowing I would be destroyed thereby, if it weren't for my children's need of guid- mce, and children can only be taught by example. I know my shortcomings I simply am not strong enough to cope with long-established evil in John, keep myself spiritually in line, and supply the children's needs at the same time. There- fore I must decide between the children and their stepfather. Where does my duty, lie? Is it to, the children? Or to this im- moral man? Please advise. C. C. VICTIM OF RESENTMENTS Dear C. C.: Indirectly you are saying, among other things, that your husband is homosexual, I futher -- a horrenddus tendency rom society's view, especially for a man in John's vocation (here deleted). If such is the case, and if he is being furtively unfaithful . on that basis, I should think you might have grounds, both legal and religious, for constructive sep- aration and uncontested divorce-- I am not only as personal redress, but |¢ also in defence of the children's welfare, Judging by all else you say, it seems Plain that your husband is generally demoralized -- helplessly lost in a maze of error. Speaking traditionally, he is both evil and You cant qo! ALL-OUT 5 IF you ¢ "\) ro feel "ALL IN These days most people work under pressure, worry more, sleep less. This strain on body and brain makes physical fitness easier to lose--harder to regain. Today's tense living, resistance, ov , worry--any of these may affect normal kidney action. When kidneys get out of order, excess acids and wastes remain in the system. Then backache, disturbed rest, that "tired-out" heavy- headed feeling often follow. That's the time to take Dodd's Kidney Pills. Dodd's stimulate the kidneys to normal action. Then you feel better --sleep better -- work better. Ask for Dodd's Kidney Pills at any drug counter, = n § crazy, in a devil-possessed sort of way. Or to use more modern language, he is emotionally and spiritually sick -- unable as yet » achieve healthy social integra- on, Ambivalent sexuality, leaning to- wards overt homosexuality, usu- ally has roots in badly distorted filial feelings--that is, in resent- ful maladjustment to one's parent of the same sex. And oddly enough, atheistic attitudes, and Communist predilections (as seen in our cul- ture) seem similarly motivated-- by blind Jaging reaction against parental stupidity, perso y ex- perienced. Or rather against rigid authoritarian type parents, who implicitly bully and reject the child. HIDDEN QUARREL Anti - God, anti - democracy individuals seems to have in com- mon, with remarkable consistency, a balked grudge against cruel, brutal or blundering parents (or parent - substitutes) who mon- strously wounded their sensibili- ties in childhood. These casualties project their private war on to the public stage in later life, as the wrestle against the idea of God, or against the familiar social order--unaware that their real adversary is their unresolved dif- ficulty with their parents, whom they confused with G6d (or puni- tive government) at the time the early harm was done. In considering your problem, one is struck by your husband's too; and these reflections may spar the Desmmings of helpful insight into his condition, if he cares to help himself. I agree that his problem is beyond your depth; expert psychoanalysis would be necessary to reclaim him. But a change for the better is possible, if he enlists specialist aid and c-operates with it, In my opinion, all things weighed, your primary duty is to your children if choice must be made, M. H. Mary Haworth counsels through her column, not by mail or per- sonal interview. Write her in care of this newspaper. pare eggs in a hurry. It's easier to make a meal of eggs than to go through all the preparations a big meal involves. Eggs have high food value, and the Poultry Products Institute of Canada says they are cheap when compared with other protein foods. They lend themsélves to many ways of serving, and in combina- tion with other foods their versa- tility is practically endless. The institute passes on some hints for preparing omelettes. Serve with tossed salad greens and they make a satisfying supper. With french fried potatoes, a hot vegetable and salad, the omelette becomes a main course. Scrambled eggs aux champign- ons: 1% to 2 cups sliced mush- rooms; three tablespoons fat; eight eggs;, one-half cup water or milk; one-eighth teaspoon marjoram (op- tional); salt and pepper to taste; paprika. Sautee mushrooms in fat in heavy frying pan for two minutes or until tender. Reduce heat. Beat eggs slightly and add water or milk, marjoram, salt and pepper. Eggs Have High Protein Valu And Can Be Served in Many Ways Pour into pan and combine with mushrooms. Cook slowly over low heat stirring occasionally until eggs are set but still "slightly moist. Serve at once, sprinkled with pap- rika. Yield: four to five servings. OMELETTE DESSERTS 5 The institute says the following dessert omelette is an adaptation of an old Austrian dessert. CONSUMERS MEET Directors of the Canadian Asp ciation of Consumers met recently in Toronto and discussed a variety of things in which Canadian con- sumers are interested, among them margarine. \ Mrs. Victor George of Montreal, president of the Quebec English- speaking branch of CAC, said that her group is 'deeply concerned' with "informer" legislation passed in Quebec in connection with the margarine ban in that province. "We believe the necessity for such informer legislation is evi- dence of the lack of wisdom in the original ban," said Mrs. George. "And 'we hope the farm community which wields such power in Quebec politics. will in time learn to accept fair competi- tion and to permit the consumer freedom of choice in purchasing." By BOB THOMAS HOLLYWOOD (AP) -- Marilyn Monroe's television debut signalled a sweeping change in the attitude of the big film studious toward TV. Marilyn appeared on the Ken Murray show over the CBS net- work Sunday night, along with Mitzy Gaynor, Rory Calhoun, Jeanne Crain, Robert Wagner and other 20th Century-Fox stars. They were filmed at the premiere of "Call Me Madam" in Los Angeles last 'week. The telecast marked the start of the studio's new policy--using TV to help sell pictures. In the past, 20th Fox and other big studios have been stand-offish, not permit- ting stars to appear on TV and almost . ignoring the existence of the new.medium. The next move is for 20th-Fox to permit clips¥of its new pictures to be shown on the ""Toast of the Town" show. Six pictures have TAILORED STEP-IN 4519 YP By ANNE ADAMS Always ready, always right when you want a dress that's comfortable and flattering. You need at least one of these smart, | simple « step-in dresses! Crisp col- { 187, square patch-pockets, contrast piping give a smart tailored look. | Pattern 4519: Misses' sizes 12, 14, 16, 18, 20, 30, 34, 36, 38, 40, 42, Size 16 takes 4% yards 3§- inch; 3s yard contrast. This pattern easy to use, simple to sew, is tested for fit. Has com- plete illustrated instructions. Send THIRTY-FIVE CENTS (35) in coins (stamps cannot be accept- ed) for this pattern. Print plainly SIZE, NAME, ADDRESS, STYLE NUMBER Send order to ANNE ADAMS, care of Daily Times-Gazette, Pat- tern Dept., Oshawa, Ontario. We are pleased to CEMENT announce that the IGA FOOD STORE COLLEGE HILL MARKET Formerly "MICHAEL'S" is now owned and operated by EUGENE and LY DIA JAZIENICKI We solicit your continued patronage me @ me 'HOURS--Daily (except Monday, 8 a. Monday 8 a.m. -9 p.m, m.-6 p.m, me @ me DAILY DELIVERY 534 CUBERT ST. PHONE 5-1604 HOLLYWOOD HIGHLIGHTS Big Film Studios Relax Rules | Against Stars Appearing on TV | been lined up for "miniature world premieres' on the CBS show, with six minutes of each film being shown as a 'teaser" to home audiences. Stars of the films may also appear in person. It was on the "Toast of the Town" show that MGM did an about-face together with film clips from his "Above and Beyond." The show has also presented scenes from "Battle Circus," and Debbie Rey- pols appeared with "I Love Mel- vin," MGM has signed the two top TV stars, Lucille Ball and Desi Arnaz to make a film this summer. And it has permitted a contract player, Barry Sullivan, to try out for a TV film series off the lot. Paramount has noticeably re- lated its rules against TV Players are permitted to appear on the home screens for exploitation pur- poses. Perhaps the most impressive ex- ample of the studio-TV co-opera- tion will be the Academy Awards. Home viewers will see such fam- iliar faces as Vivien Leigh, Lor- etta Young, Ginger Rogers, Jane Wyman, Anne Baxter and: Claire on ad policy. Robert Taylor recefitly was a guest on the show, | ad; 'Roast' Food Minister In Sizzling Debate On U.K. Shortages LONDON (CP)--Norman Dodds, Socialist member of Parliament for Dartford, claims angry Brit- ish housewives are in a receptive mood to stage a ceremonial roast- ing of the minister of food and his assistant, as a Coronation bar- becue celebration. The suggestion was made in the House of Commons after the min- ister, Major G Lloyd George, had rejected a plea by Mr. ds that special Coronation bonuses of margarine and sugar should be in- creased and extended to other rationed commodities. Dodds ar- gued it would be of greater im- portance to the nation than the right extended to some communi- ties to hold ox-roasting parties. As a Coronation concession Brit- ish housewives this summer will receive an extra ration of four oun- ces of margarine and one pound of sugar. The normal weekly allow- ance is four ounces of margarine and 10 ounces of sugar. "Is the minister aware that these miserable bonuses have made housewives very angry and have even galvanized members of the Housewives' League to say unkind things about the minister?" Mr. Dodds asked. "In view of the blistering re- marks by countless women, will he re-consider the ox-roasting cere- monies and substitute them by the more appropriate roasting of the minister of food and his parlia- mentary secretary?" As the house rocked with laugh- ter, the minister shot back: "As I issue the licences myself there is little likelihood of that happen- Toronto Typist Establishes Records For Art Awards * TORONTO (CP)---A 25-year-old Toronto typist has established three records in the oldest society of painters. and sculptors in Can- a. Audrey Garwood won the J.W.L. Forster award, worth $100, for the '"'best subject picture" in the 81st annual exhibition of the Ontario Society of Artists, She is the first woman, the youngest person and the first non- member of the society to win the avard, presented annually since Working as a stenographer dur- ing the day, she paints in the evenings and on week-ends. She managed to attend the Ontario College of Art with the aid of scholarships and by working at part-time jobs. Her prize-winning painting, weary passengers on the deck of a trans-Atlantic steamship. HOUSEHOLD HINT House plants should be watered and sprayed when the room fem- Trevor. perature is warm. EDMONTON (CP) -- A woman who has lived 15 years in the far north prefers the cold Arctic win- to summertime. Mrs. Douglas McNeice, who now lives in Edmonton, says the rea son for her, preference is mosqui- toes. Big, hungry mosquitoes fill the air in the summer. When Mrs. McNeice, then Paul- ine Audienko, left Edmonton for Aklavik, N.W.T., 15 years ago, she was advised by friends to 'take lots of mosquito lotion." She found the advice excellent-- all insect life runs rampant dur- ing the brief summer season at Aklavik near the mouth of the Mackenzie river. WENT NORTH IN 1937 Pauline Audienko went north in 1937 after hearing stories about life at Aklavik. At first employed at a hotel, she later worked in the Hudson's Bay Company store. In 1942 she met Douglas McNeice, HBC trader. Te years later they were mar- ried. Mrs. McNeice said her Arctic residence was comparatively mod- ern with all electrical appliances and oil heating. The natives usu- ally live in log cabins furnished with a stove, beds, assorted chairs and, almost invariably, a sewing machine and a phonograph. "The people are very musical, and will sit for hours listening hap- pily to their favorite records," Mrs. McNeice said. She became well acquainted with several Eskimo and Indian women and often entertained them in her home. = FOND OF LUMURY Mrs. McNeice said the natives in the Aklavik area are fond of the luxuries enjoyed by their white neighbors. Most of them prefer Arctic Summer Brings Mosquitoes, Woman Prefer Cold, Cold Winter white man's food to their old diet. A great many. are able to read and write in English The McNeice family moved to Edmonton after Douglas McNeice was transferred by the HBC. But they have one big memento of their stay in the north in addition to Eskimo parkas. It is a huge polar-bear rug in the living room of their modern Edmonton home. '""Home is where the heart is and I shall always think of the north as my home," Mrs. McNeice said. New Gloves are Gay, Dotted and Striped Gloves will come into their own this spring predicts the Woman's Home Companion. No longer are they just a correct and subdued accessory. This year they'll be a gay and eye - catching accent. 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Velveteen contrasts with the viscose hoyndstooth in a wonder- ful raincoat, The huge kets are placed low at the sides. A matching beret completes the en- semble, TRANSFER DESIGNS By ALICE BROOKS See how thrifty, easy to add bright, beautiful color to your home! Lovely pansies in garden green, deep 'blue and pink bloom on linens, accessories, everything! Here's an inspired decorator touch --frame a pair of your bedroom! No embroidery, iron on! Wash- able! Pattern 7251 has 10 transfer motifs 2 x 2% to 3 x 9% inches. Send TWENTY-FIVE CENTS in ccins for this pattern (stamps can- not be accepted) to Daily Times- Gazette, Household Arts Dept. Osh- awa, Ontario. Print plainly NAME, ADDRESS, PATTERN NUMBER. TEN COMPLETE PATTERNS to sew, embroider, crochet--print- ed in the new 1953 Alice Brooks Needlecraft Book! Plus many more patterns to send for. -- including ideas for gifts, home accessories, toys, fashions! Send 25 cents now! THE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE, Tuesday, March 10, 1953 7 CHILD GUIDANCE By G. CLEVELAND MYERS Most of us have lived long enough to observe the splendid contributions by juvenile courts and welfare: agencies toward ef- forts at' understanding children, providing them with abundant fam-' ily affection and treating them as persons. Certainly these commun- ity forces have caused some par- ents to cultivate a happier atmose phere in the home and closer companionship with the' children. Aiding and abetting this good in- fluence have been many books, magazine and Jewspape: articles and talks on the air by experts in child rearing. But with this good emphasis so g, the impression has gone abroad that adequate restraints and discipline of growing children in the home, especially in their early years, are unimportant, since so few of these specialists in child welfare ever mention such mat- ters; and if they do they tend to warn against restraints, ANNOY EACH OTHER Anybody must know that, with- out reasonable restraints of the young child in the home, ideal inter - family relationships are impossible. As I have pointed out repeatedly in this column, the child who is allowed to do about as he pleases may soon get oa his parents' nerves and they on his in spite of their efforts to be lovely with him, they may grow less and less so. How can any child receive the family affection he deserves, and how can any parent enjoy the child most of the time, if this child has not been trained early in useful inhibitions? Certainly the balance wheeel in theories of child rearing has flown off. REASONABLE RESTRAINTS It has always seemed to me that judges of courts who deal with children, and the probation officers and various other social workers dealing with such problems, could be most powerful in helping check juvenile delinquency if they would urge parents of young children to temper love and understand with reasonable restraints. Per- haps they could do" most before such influential groups as civic clubs and PTA's, especially in the better economic areas. If the so- called 'better' homes were to discipline their children ade: quately, the less-privileged homes Self-Reliance and Responsibility One of Childhood's Early Lessons START TRAINING EARLY You young parents want to en- joy your children and always be proud of them. Begin now to dis- cipline them to respect the rights and possessions of others. You know very well your children should learn this respect about as soon as they can toddle. (My bulletins, 'How Teach Tot Mean- ing 'of No," "Teaching Child Care of Property," and 'Juvenile De- linquency Can Be Cured" may be had in a stamped envelope sent me in care of this paper.) Let your child know in every-. day, concrete ways that you as- sume responsibility for any harm he does to others, all the while training him to take over more and more of this responsibility. You are too proud and conscienti- ous to shift this responsibility to the community. You and your children are going to live above the law and grow in mutual af- fection and esteem. Baby talk may be amusing when a child is very small but it should not be allowed to progress after he is four years of age, by which time he should have no trouble in using ordinary words clearly. 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