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Scloy with onen teresting Meeting Shows Activity Prince Philip Chapter IODE 'The Prince Philip Chapter IODE, held its monthly meeting a' Adelaide House on Monday a ter | noon. The Regent. Mrs. F. N. McCal lum, opened the meeting with the prayer of the Order, followed br the salute to the Standard. The minutes were read by the secre- . J. Rowe, and the rt was given by Mrs. W. Jg McNeill, Z A letter was read from the Hon. Paul Martin acknowledging a let- ter requesting the abolition of the Means Test and increasing the pen- sion to the blind. The subject of the chapter being represented on the Civil Defence Committee was discussed and it was decided to send a representative to each of the future meetings of this Com- mittee. Mrs. J. A. Mitchell gave the re- port of the Educational Secretary, rs. C. B. Deyo. Letters from the principal of the adopted school were read, expressing thanks for the hectograph pad and giving a list of sports equipment which he required, It was moved that the articles mentioned be sent. Mfs. Mitchell also mentioned that two dozen library pins had been sent, together with some educational phamphlets. Mrs, M. McIntyre Hood, conven- er 'of Empire and World Affairs, read an informative review on the ~ 4-WAY WONDER A ~ By ANNE ADAMS It's true, you sew only one dress, but daughter has FOUR different oufits to wear! Start off with the p collar for Monday-to-Sunday ariety. Save fabric, money, time. Send now! Pattern 4666: Children's Sizes 2, 4, 6, 8, 10. Size 6 sundress 15 yards 35-inch; bolero 1% yards. This pattern easy to use, simple to sew, istested for fit. Has com- plete illustrated instructions. THIRTY-FIVE CENTS (35) in coins (stamps cannot be accept- ed) or nig pattern. Print plainly SIZE , ADDRESS, STYLE NUMBER. Send order to ANNE ADAMS, care. of Times-Gazette, Pattern Dept., Oshawa, Ontario. i iffy sundress --then button on the lero, scalloped capelet or dress- important happenings throughout 'he world Empire during the well go down in history as having brought about a new. outlook on the future of the world; particular- = on that all-important question whether there is to be a third World War, or hopes for lasting peace and security. The social convener, Mrs. Frank Taylor, reported that arrange- ments had been completed for the third annual birthday dinner which is to be held at the Saddle and Bridle Inn on Friday, April 10. Tickets are being sold and any 7member who wishes to go should telephone Mrs. Taylor, at 3-3806. Pransportation will be arranged and all those going should meet outside the Public Library at 5.45 p.m. Mrs. Cyril Luke, convener of services abroad, read six interest- ing letters from the men to whom parcels had been sent. Membership convener, Mrs. F. J. Peirce, introduced three new members, Mrs. . W. Ferrier, Mrs, J. S. Hyslop and Mrs. V. G. Stroud. Mrs. J. L. Beaton gave her re- port on services at home and abroad. The personnel of her com- mittee now consists of Mrs. L. F. McLaughlin, Mrs. George Ansley, Mrs. Cyril Luke, Mrs. W. L. Butler and Mrs. W. B. White. Members were asked to provide suitable reading matter for Sunnybrook Hospital. Babies' sweaters, boys' sweaters and an afghan have been knitted and turned in. Three girls' dresses are finished and three more are on the way. Four in- fants' nightgowns, two jackets and one dozen diapers are ready; also two boys' sweaters and several lots of wool have been handed out. Mrs, Cyril Luke reported that several more boxes were being sent to men overseas. The clothing drive was the big effort during the month. Nineteen large cartons of excellent used clothing have been sent to Hamil- ton, valued between $350 to $400. Thanks were expressed to all who contributed. A nominating committee com- prising Mrs. E. J. Luke ,, Mrs. John Reid and Mrs. H. L. Wallace was appointed. Mrs. F. J. Rowe was appointed qfffcial delegate to the provincial meeting being held i Hamilton on April 22, 23 and VALUABLE SERVICES DUNGENESS, England (CP)-- Gold badges have been presented to two of Britain's few remaining women lifeboat launchers--Madge Tart, 63, and her sister-in-law, Mrs. Ellen Tart, 69. They have had nearly 50 years' service with the Dungeness lifeboat. Dumping articles on the base- ment stairs is a dangerous prac- tice that often causes serious falls. Poor lighting and lack of a pro- tective railing are other causes of stair falls from which bad frac- tures may. result. "Could | keep working?" A Serious Question for One Suffering from Arthritic Pain "1 suffered a great deal from such pain in my legs, knees and other joints, that ' it was hard to do my work," writes Miss Thelma Johnson, Picton, Ont. "I was having so much trouble, I wondered if I would be able to continue at m Then I learned about T-R-C's. ta i fortunate day that was, for I have had the very best sort of relief. I wouldn't want to be without T-R-C's in the house." 't suffer n y from relent- less arthritic pain. Get quick relief from dull, wearisome aches caused by Arthritic, Rheumatic, Neuritic, Sciatic | pain, Lumbago or Neuralgia. Start taking | Templeton's T-R-C's today. 65c, $1.35 at | drug counters. 1-839 past few weeks. These events may | yet IFA I RE La fa sy me MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL Disturbed by Recurrent Dreams Woman Blames Unhappy Childhood Dear Mary Haworth: { am a housewife, 33, married 12 years, and terribly disturbed by "ecur- rent dreams in which I am trying to kill someone or someone is try- ing to kill me. At intervals, too, 1 am greatly depressed and cry a lot. I don't know why, The last time, a month ago, was the worst i . 1 am always tense, dislike crowds, don't go anywhere, but get tired of staying home. I used to enjoy going to the store with my husband but now the people irri- tate me. I call them stupid fools (to myself) and at home I swear (to myself) about irritations-- words Fwouldn't have used before. I've quit going to Sunday School. 1 don't want to be around the|kp other women, Deep down I still have much affection for them, I know, but I sit and think unkind untrue things about them, even about my beloved teacher, as if she were a hypocrite. At church it is the same. I don't know most of the people but feel I strongly dislike them all as hypocrites. I seem to be always on the alert, waiting for something. I keep glancing around and every shadow and sound makes my heart leap. My father used to drin* a lot and when drunk he was like a maniac, chasing us out with hatchet, razor or butcher knife. Members of 0YC Visit Toronto Club On Saturday, March 21, mem- bers of the Oshawa Yacht Club were visitors at the clubhouse of the National Yacht Club of Toronto. The Oshawa party was led by Rear Commodore Bert Rogers who was also the lucky winner of the door prize. The following were among those who made the trip: Mr. and Mrs. Charles Ball, Mr. and Mrs. Ian Clements, Mr. and Mrs. John Foly, Mr. and Mrs. Charles Hill, Mr. and Mrs, Wrighty Howe, Mr. and Mrs. Gerald Hickey. Mr. and Mrs. George Jacobi, Mr. and Mrs. Albert Mackness, Mr. and Mrs. Douglas Manning, Mr. and Mrs. Bert Rogers, Mr. and Mrs. Harvey Scott, Mr. and Mrs. Charles Templar. Mr. Jack Miller, Mr. Chester Layton, Mr. Edward Cheetham, Mr. Ronald Elliot, Miss Lorraine Moore. S NEWLY-WEDS or nd (CP)--The Swedish social board reported that 17 per cent of all couples who marry in Sweden avail themselves of gov- ernment home-making loans. 1 always pitied my mother and! tried to protect her . . . I have always felt ol. . ~~. IN NEW LIGHT Now I feel that mother was much to blame for our unhappi- ness. She was always telling us how much she hated dad and hoped he'd be killec.. We children used to hate him, too, and I even thought of killing -him--anc | wonder now if she was deliber- ately planting the idea im my head. He is dead now and before he died we children tried to show that we loved him after all and no longer blamed him. Everyone used to comment on my sweet disposition. Now I don't like anyone and don't care if they ow it, What is happening' Have I been a hypocrite most of my life? Is my true selt just coming to light?» How can one change so completely in'a 12w ears? How can I help myself? don't care what happens to me but my wonderful husband and ¢hildren deserve a good life. - S. S. EARLY WOUNDS ar S. S.: Here is your story, cut to the bone, and without exag- geration one may say your chila- hood experience was hell. You haven't yet recovered from the ravages thereef. In fact you are emotionally sick in consequence-- chronically sick for lack of ade- quate restorative care. This is the source of your recurrent depres- sions and gruesome dreams--which are comparable to fevers in phys- ical illness. However, don't despair. Others have been over this road, too, and due to courageous personal effort, sustained by faith in God's readi- ness to help those who help them- selves, they have won through to health of mind and peace of soul. So can you. The brave, candid, objective spirit of your letter sig- nifies a will-to-health ~and hasic sanity--but you need a helping hand to make the grade, For advice: 1. In your part of the countrv, there are good psy- chiatric = clinics attached to the medical schools of the hig univer- sities, so turn there for reput- able guidance. You need first- rate psychiatric support in clear- ing away the "hangover" hate, grief and fear that haunts your dreams and darkens vour davs-- keeping you tense and apprehen- sive. 2. Have a good internist (diag- nostician) check the possibility of thyroid malfunction (a by-product of emotional stress)--which may be contributing to irritability and depression. 3. 1 agree with you that sedative pills shouldn't be- come a habit, A steady intake of certain kinds tends to increase o® o "®%0c0000® FOR NORMAL HAIR! » 1] . ®ececccccvece' ro HOE 125 ONLY TON! GIVES YOU A CUSTOM-MADE PERMANENT KARN'S 28 KING ST. E. DRUG STORE Cosmetic Dept. PHONE '3-4621 morbidity of mind after a while-- so double check this point with the good diagrosti- an: ine - atrist, too. 4. Read Glenn Clark's book "God's Reach" (Harper and Brothers)--as a starting point in finding God. - M. H. y Mary Haworth counsels through her column, not by mail or per- sonal interview, Write her in care of this newspaper. JIFFY-SEW By ALICE BROOKS darling of your spring-into-sum- Hops wardrobe! Just 3 main pat- térn' parts -- couldn't be easier. And that frosty embroidery is a fun-to-do fashion touch! 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Mark Twain once said it was very easy to stop smoking as he had done it more than a hundred times, You and I know that most people who begin smoking don't stop unless commanded to do so by their doctor. The obvious in- ference is that the older a person is when beginring to smoke, the fewer years he will smoke. STRONGEST APPEAL I'm sure that the strongest ap- peal we can make to our youths to wait longer before they begin to smoke or to choose never to smoke, is its expensiveness. It's obvious that this apneal will be strongest with the child who has learned well from early vears 'he value of money and had practice at spending wisely according to some definite plan or budget. Perhaps most children who bein smoking at a very early age are prompted to do so from the wish LODGES AND SOCIETIES QUEEN MARY LODGE The members of Queen Mary Lodge, No. 97, held their regular 'meeting on Wednesday night in the Orange Temple on Bruce Street. MW Sister Lottie Hamilton, dep- uty mistress of the MW Grand Lodge of Ontario West, was the guest for the evening. Sister Mary Radway was pre- sented with an honorary member- ship in Queen Mary Lodge for her efforts on behalf of the lodge in the past 38 years. Plans were made for delegates to attend the Grand Lodge Sessions in Sudbury the first week in May. The Charter was draped in mem- ory of Past Mistress Sister Lilly Thompson. Sister Annie Toms was reported still very ill and was wished a speedy recovery by all the members. The meeting closed in the usual way and refreshments were served by Sister Beryl Elliott and her committee. to seem big and smart. This we hardly can meet effectively with talk; certainly not with orgies of anger. But anything we can do to help the child so tempted to gain more substantial means for self- assurance, has considerable prom- ise. Of course, there are still some mothers who are so strongly set emotionally against seeing WO man smoke as to have violent resistance to smoking by their ad- olescent daughters. I have receied letters from mothers who say they have ordered a daughter from home because she insisted on smoking there or elsewhere! "me other mothers write of similar tragic conflicts with their girls over this matter. - ON THE SLY Now and then a mother writes in pani¢ about a bov 10. or 12 discovered to have clandestinely smoked some cigarets. But to my knowledge, when these extremely early experimenters with the weed have been treated without panic or emotional upheaval, without having been spied on or driven to deceive, thev have been persuaded to wait until they had practically grown up. They concluded it just wasn't the thing for them to do at their age. In all cases of early smoking by children, the main thi~g is »nt to force them to smoke in secret. Pancakes! Doughnuts! Gingerbread! 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