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MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL ; ® Lo Husbands and Wives Owe Each Other a Review of the Past? Dear Mary Haworth: How much should a wile know of her hus- 's past life? That is my prob- em, and it is causing me some mental anguish. I am married a Second time, to a man who also |it. was divorced, and I have a child Jas my former marriage. After being married some months {learned accidentally that George a child whom he is support- ing, and I hear whispers of a scandal attached to his former marriage. When I faced George with the little I knew, he admitted i was true, and said he hadn't anted to worry me with things ye felt were his own concern. he felt I wouldn't have married him had I known and he me to get to know and understand him as he is--not judge him on the Sis of these stories. My life was always uncompli- cated, and these stories of my hus- band's past ai are the sort I would expect about, not actually Sontag, I Joan that I am an under- person, having studied iy Shavior. ana 1 have Sever set myself up as a judge ep! fhe faults of hi nature aid oan De opinion of ideas, versus mine? I will apprec- fate t you can shed. C.Y. Dear €. Y.: The situation can't evaluated concisely in . Some know- nature of George's is essential with ons, rather than eriminal ac- COOL! COOL! COOL! Youll live in and love this air- eonditoned dress. You'll even whip up another for later on .in r. Has its own jacket for shade -- so brief, it welcomes ev- ery breeze. Designed for short fuller figures Pattern 4815: fot 18%. 2%. 62 dress 3 ket: 1% yards. os the Half Sizes 14%, 22%, 24%. Size yards 35-inch; ttern easy to use, simple tested for fit. Has com- instructions. HIRTY. LEAL bp canncs be be accept- rint pl inc ea) for. this p SIZE, Send order to ANNE ADAMS, of Daily Times-Gazette, Pat- rn Dept., Oshawa, Ontario. wanted | indicate his |B to | before you tions, perhaps he is right to be noncommittal about his past, inso- far as possible--the more especially as he would be "tarring" others besides himself if he discoursed on What is sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander, we are $id, And in the present century, much has been said and written on the subject of whether a woman, fac- ing marriage, owes her prospective full review of her past, assuming it has been on the scar- let side, ® ue to fell Sircumsianges ure psychol to salvage damaged human that it isn't Resessarlly meritorious to "tell all" to beloved. If such confession eo tend to burden him (or her) with the dead weight of one's past errors and present misgivings, it may be more admirable, a better discipline, to practice silence in that res Unravel the story to a spec alist in matters pertaining to health of mind and Spirit Talk to a mental hygienist or spiritual director, if emotional relief and guidance to e [real atonement are sought. Such ais the course that experts pres- cribe for errant women who hope to rebuild integrity in a perman- ent love relationship--and surely it applies to men also. ETTER UNLO. AD Wiig been giving George the bene- fit of he dou in these remarks thus far. conviction As calculated purpose to marry you got vind of scandal about him smacks of cowardice and trickery ag habitual safer attitudes. Now that g to catch up with Poa bit by Dit perhaps he ought to come clean with you--as a Ineand of giving you back a feeling of ht relationship with him, someth you've lost at this writ- As for his theory hat the past doesn't count, We present is real, I believe is generally agreed amongst character of \hdividual experience to be continuous. It's the very exceptional person can escape an pattern, and A renewal on a higher level. ME Haworth counsels through her column, not by mail or per- sonal interview. Write her in care of thiswnewspaper. Cruise 15,000 Miles In Chinese Junk By FRED HAMPSON HONG KONG (AP) -- A petite Parisienne with dark and curly hair and her aviator husband plan to start this month on a 15,000- mile voyage from Indo-China to Paris by way of the Panama canal --in a 30-foot ese junk, Their sole companion will be a pet monkey, Pen h Henri Bourdens and his wife Jose were in Hong Kong early in April for a week, buying maps, weather books and er naviga- tion aids. They hope to bring their 11-ton orescent - shaped junk Iemanja--named for a Brazilian sea goddess--up the seine to Paris by next January. It will be their first attempt at a long-distance sea voyage under sail, the Bourdens are opti- mistic. "There has #o be a first time," says Henri. His wife added, "we're French," which, she indicated, explained everything. 'The trip will take them first to Manila, then to Japan and across the Pacific to US. or Canadian | pons. By easy stages they plan to cruise south to the Panama canal, then across the South Atlantic to Gibraltar, Spain and France. Bourdens was a pilot with the RAF during the Second World War. He went to "Saigon after Ye war with Afr France His tour of Duty in Indo-China is over. HOUSEHOLD HINT Here's an idea: Coat candles -- all but the wick, of course, with soapsuds; they will last Jonger and burn without smoking or driping. Let them dry in the candle-holders before lighting. Every youngster needs a sweat- er and cardigans are best for Practical use. This easy to make style can be made with, or with- out, the Fair Isle Border. It has raglan sleeves for comfort and is seamless. If you would like to have a leaflet with di- rections for making this sweater in sizes 2, 4 and 6 years, and SEAMLESS RAGLAN CARDIGAN FOR CHILDREN including directions for the Fair Isle Knitting, just send a stamp- ed, self-addressed envelope to the Needlework Department of this paper requesting seamless rag- lan cardigan, Leaflet No. CW47. in| CHILD GUIDANCE Look for Character Qualities When You Are Choosing a Mate By G. CLEVELAND MYERS Young persons seriously consid- ering the choice of a mate, might profit from reading some of the good books on the subject. If you are one of these young persons, you may have heard good talks or participated in discussion of the matter in your classroom at school or in a youth group of your church. You have observed that in nearly everything you have heard or read, the emphasis was on how to choose a good mate, almost never on mak- ing sure you would be a good mate yourself. Now, after you have checked yourself and the prospective mate against the standards most often set forth in addresses, magazine articles and books on the qualities to look for in a mate, and 'felt pretty well satisfied with the way you and the potential mate have measured up, don't stop there. Consider some things you have rarely or never heard or read from the experts, some of the good old- fashioned qualities of character, like truthfulness and honesty, de- pendability and unselfishness. WARNING SIGNS If you often have been disap- pointed by the failure of the young man or woman to keep a promise, however small, in goores ¢ of Jus tions which normally arise have often been deceived 2 {his person, and if you have seen in this person frequent idications of selfishness, he or she is poor bet. Don't kid yourself that after you marry this person he or she will grow more trustworthy and less selfish. The chances are pretty great that all the little flaws you have observed will grow more flagrant after marriage. During courtship days, the best foot is Jput forward naturally. Certainly, in the day-by-day p- compan- ionship of marriage, there arise times when some of the worst will come out of all of us. - Of course, if in all these matters we look for perfection, we might never find a mate or find our- selves fit to be one. Yet there is a certain level below which eur common sense should dictate. Too, such abstract qualities as selfishness or unselfishness may be very vague. All of us are selfish to some degree. Yet when you prospective mate, this observation should be very"meaningful to you: observe what strikes you as an unusual frequency of unselfish acts METHOD FOR MONEY . MAK- | Pa! ING: The Times-Gazette Classi- fied ads! Phone 3-2233 for an ad- writer. after | Gazette, Household Arts Dept in the person you believe you love. to help each other after marriage by pointing out each other's faults. All too often you will do this any- way. If you really hope to help each other, resolve to build on each other's strengths and virtues, to celebrate successes in e: other. FROM NYLONS! By ALICE BROOKS Irls and rose made from. dis- carded nylon hosiery! Create a beautiful eenterpiece or corsage-- for gifts, bazaars, your home! Easy and fun to make! Pattern 7082: flowers, leaves, stem all made from nylon hose dyed in flower colors. Send TWENTY-FIVE in coins for this patier (stamps can- not be accepted) to Daily Fines awa, Ontario. Print plainly NAME, ADDRESS, PATTERN NUMBER. TEN COMPLETE PATTERNS to sew, embroider, crochet--print- ed in the new 1953 Alice Brooks | NEEDLECRAFT Book! Plus many | patterns to send for -- including ideas for gifts, home accessories, toys, fashions! 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Sister Annie Toms and Sister Elizabeth Short were welcomed back to Lodge after their long ab- sence. Much business was discussed and dealt with. Past Worshipful Mis- tress Sister Cowle an honorary certificate to Sister Sarah Logeman, Sister Susan Spencer presented Sister Elizabeth Short, Sister Annie Toms, Sister Nettie Fenton, Brother George Cuthbert with honorary certificates. Sister Louise and Brother Robert Barrett who were also made hon- orary members were absent for the presentation on account of iH- 88. Sister Sarah Logeman requested all the Degree Staff to be present at the next meeting on May 5 for degree practice. Sister Elsie Arile was presented with a silver eu her new son. The lucky ticket Bal ers were Sister M. Kellar and Bfo- ther William Woodhouse. Prizes donated by Sister Ina Millgate and Sister Lillian Wetherup. At the close of ve meeting refreshments were ve Members of the Women's Royal Australian Army Corps are part of the regular army. Courtice H. & S. {Holds April Meeting The April meeting of Courtice PHome and School Association was held in the form of a pot luck sup- per. Mrs. George Goddard presid- ed for the business period. It was decided to purchase Ly ber Pop for the pupils in Mrs H. Greer's and Miss Dorothy MR rooms. Mrs. Daniel Shutka gave a re- port from the convention held in ronto on the following subjects: Education for family living parent education. Mrs. Coddar gave a, a report on leadership train- ing e: course to be held at Lake Couthiching on June 11 to 17. During the evening members Jere entertained with a piano solo by Miss Betty Wilson and selections on the ho LR Rolph Wehner 2c companied on the piano by his s ter Miss Louise Wehnert. The following were prize winners at the card Ad Ai id fre first, Mrs. Effie Goyne; second, Mrs. Samuel Vinson; con- solation, Mrs. Frank ; men's first, Mr. Jack Gay; second, Mr. Frank Wi ; consolation, Mr. Thomas Gladman, The door prize was won by Mrs. Lloyd Courtice. Ileen Balson Bride To Live in Duncan, B.C. A pretty wedding took place at Eldad United Church, Solina, on Saturday afternoon, April 25, at 3 o'clock, when Ileen Adeline, daugh- ter of Mr. and Mrs. A. J. Balson of Solina, became the bride of James Alan Muir, son of Mr. and Mrs. Harry J. Taylor, of Duncan, B.C. The Rev. George O. Empey officiated at the ceremony which took place before a setting of ferns, daffodils and mauve iris. The guest pews were designated with white satin ribbon bows. Mrs. Allan W. Balson, of Catar- aqui, sister-in-law of the bride, played the wedding music and accompanied Mrs. James C. Smales of Hampton who sang, "'O Lord, Most High', by Mozart, pre- ceding the ceremony and "Where- e'er you Wi * by Handel during the signing of 'the register. Given in mariage by her broth- er, qui, Mu bride wore a waltz-l gown of frosted white lace and tulle, fashioned with prupless Sage bodice, edged with ruching of and topped with a cutaway Le with tiny collar and long sheath sleeves. The waistline featured deep petal scallops above the full- po Bs skirt of tulle. From her lace coronet edged with pearls, fell a chapel vell of tulle illusion. Her cascade bouquet was of ye- low and white carnations. Miss Donalda Creasser of Bow- manville was bridesmaid wearing a ballerina dress of primrose net over taffeta. The 2iraploss bosses featured diagonal applique matching organdie and brief bolero featured short sleeves. The skirt fell in crisp folds to the hem and her cloche was of matching primrose floral petals, Her bou- Mr. Harold Balson, brother of the bride, performed the duties of best man, The ushers were Mr. Russell Balson, brother of the bride, and Mr. Francis Wotten. | For the reception held in the Sunday School room of the Dwirch the bride's mother wore navy blue suit with navy hae & nd white accessories. She was assisted by the bridegroom's mother who wore a navy blue crepe ensemble with navy blue and pink accessories. h had a corsage of pink car na The Solina Women's Institute catered for the wedding supper for the 75 guests. The tables were decorated with bouquets of mauve Allan W. Balson of Catar- ength | quet was of mauve and white car nations. THE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE, Wednesday, April f, 1000 ¥ HOLLYWOOD HIGHLIGHTS Clitton Webb Denies Report Regarding Dislike Of Children By BOB THOMAS HOLLYWOOD (AP) -- Another Hollywood myth shot to pleces. Clifton Webb likes children. "The report that I detest chil- and | dren is false," says Webb, famed d | for having crowned a moppet with ke eile pub- oatmeal in " Se Sa disiike Shem, There children. "I have always got along very well with them. I believe 3 treat- ing them as equals; worst lo Ca patronizing. I can remember how as a child I hated people looked down patronizingly and said, and white sweet peas and center- ing the bride's table was the wed- ding cake flanked on either side with silver candelabra with lighted Tapers. Rev. Geo Em, e v. ge pey a toast to the bride. The wen Shell res ed and in turn | P! proposed the to the brides- maid. The best man, Mr, Harold Balson, responded. Following the reception the cou- ple left amid showers of confetti for a brief motor trip to Kingston. For travelling the bride donned a turquoise blue suit with white and black accessories and a corsage of white carnations. Mr. and Mrs. Taylor leave Short ly to make their home at RR Duncan, B.C. 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