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Hw CAN-CAN COSTUME THERE will be fun under the | tures a graceful skirt, draped - stars in this costume which was | bodice and a slender halter top. just made for dancing. The short | A self belt and-a glittering pin evening frock has a frivolous | are other features. The can-can stole to add gaiety to many a | stole is of ruffled organdy trim- summer night. The dress is of | med in black lace. imported pima cotton and fea- ! CHILD GUIDANCE Young Fathers Face Problems On Return to Civilian Life By G. CLEVELAND MYERS Indeed, Sy | and mother. MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL Dear Mary Haworth: My hus- band enjoys parties and dances and wouldn't. think of going with- out me. But, after w arrive, he is so busy being nice to all the other women, he forgets all about me. They all say how lucky I am to have such a wonderful man. They don't know that he forgets my birthdays and our anniversary, and doesn't care enough to dance even one dance with me. If I were to tell them, they'd say I was lying. At Easter, my daughter was given an orchid by a boy out of town. When I said, 'How thought- ful he is," my husband remarked, "By the way, I'll get you flowers or candy if you want them." Recently, we went to an official gathering and the wife of a mutual friend went with us. She and Jim always have liked each other and they were clinging to each other so that I was embarrassed. Per- sons around us were staring at them and several times I asked him to do things for me--hoping to separate them. Finally, a strange man stepped over and offered his services, say- ing dryly. "Young lady, don't bother him. He is busy taking care of his wife. Let me help you." At that, I explained to the stranger, loud enough for all to hear, that Jim was my husband-- not Mildred's. Instead of turning him loose, she clung tighter and Jim looked as if he liked it, be- cause he did his share of the cling- ing" too. She got awfully mad at me for 'speaking out. I thought when you marry you settled down, you still go places and see people, but you act mature! I don't fuss at Jim for acting like an adolescent--but I feel like it. I don't believe a wife is supposed to be humiliated every time she goes out with her hus- band, is she? How cdn I make Jim see his faults? S.F. DON'T NAG IN COMPANY Dear 8. F.: Jim's public ne- 'elect of you, to dance attendance on other women, is very bad man- ners, of course. Such conduct is not defensible in a husband fiance, or indeed. any "date," how- ever casual. When it occurs, it ' BEGINNERS, LOOK! By TRACY ADRAIN. | the father Many a young father is return-| might grab up this little child and | ing to civilian life after serving| caress him against strong resist- in the armed forces. As a rule, he | ance, thus delaying the time when has one or more very young chil-| the youngster would normally ac- dren. Long has he been dreaming | cept the father and warm up to of the warm affection with which | him. he will be received. It's not just the child's spurning | But when he arrives, his young-| and coldness to him that so hurts | est may not know him. Imagine | this father, but the affection which this father's heartaches then, es-|the youngster shows toward his | pecially if the child doesn't warm | mother and other relatives in con- up to him or welcome his affec-| trast. Jealousies lurk, inevitably, tion, refuses to kiss him or even|in the father's heart then, leading is afraid of him, Suppose the him to believe it may be the fault | father sees the child run 'to the | of the mother and other relatives grandfather or some other man|in some instances, the suffering | relative or acquaintance instead. | father may actually say as much NOT SURE OF AFFECTION [and even tell the mother she The youngster under two or| should force the child "to love his three feels secure with those who | father." hzve been with him constantly for | px pEeTS OBEDIENCE | oeks 28 months S14 Years. Who This father may not succeed as| affection with him. Just because Well as the mother or other relat- i is ' |ives do in managing this child. the child is of his father's flesh | Bower. waving boon subleoted and bided does NOL guarsnice a | himself for a few years to rigid jerucular feeling of affection or | discipline the father may expect hia Fax appears a the child to obey commands about | Yet the average returning father | as 2 i 5 3 da RR Bs ER Rg Th Tl gl ge o | s De mace the child, however | may find himself lined up against young, express as much affection | the mother and all the other relat- = his father as if he had reve ives. If the mother wold Tien en away. up a bit, the father mi | NEEDLESS HEARTACHES more lenient and find more ways | This lack of understanding by | to win this child's co-operation. | BN EE ri | or ig Nes it hard for the child | ercises insight and genuine love toward him during these trying | days. . Looking forward, wise mothers | Helps You Overcome FALSE TEETH [ol cy, some child often talk , Looseness ond Worry | She looks with him at the faher's No longer be annoyed or feel ill. | picture and reads to him from at-ease because of loose, wobbly | Dis letters. false teeth. FASTEETH, an im | proved alkaline (non-acid) poe rinkled on your plates holds them | . ies so they feel more comfortable A nylon garment can be tinted, Soothing and cooling to gums made | but it's wise to start with a rather sore by excessive avid mouth. Avoid | weak tint. Nylon absorbs dye embarrassment 'caused by loose readily, and pastel colors frequent- HOUSEHOLD HINT 4656 2-s By ANNE ADAMS TWO main pattern parts for the sundress , ONE main part for the bolero! The EASIEST of cutting and sewing. Gayest, most useful fashion. in any little girl's warm- weather wardrobe. Choose a pretty cotton, add contrast rickrack, 'round ' the hem, pockets, bolero. 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AT BETTER JEWELERS EVERYWHERE Wallace Silversmiths Toronto Husband's Immature Behavior At Social Affairs Irks Wife | ster Abbey' of today. | not only of all folk of the English points to lack of polish in the offender. The rule of good conduct is stated thus--*"Politeness is to do and say the kindest thing in the kindest way." How help Jim see his fault? In general, the ladylike way to cope with a husband's tasteless rude- ness in public is to ignore it, in- sofar as one can, without innocent bystanders uncomfortable. At a dance, for example, don't tag him with nagging demands, and an injured air. Try for the most part to give the appearance of enjoying yourself without his help and without awareness of his whereabouts. Spark conversations with other women in a quiet corner. Or, if you have friends amongst the men, try to interest them (nicely) in giving you a whirl around the floor. If you don't see your hus- band - all evening, hunt him out towards the end and cheerily ask the favor of a dance before you both must go. Not stiffly, or with wan coquetry, but with simple friendly directness, as you'd ask ---- for a cigarette, a drink of Avater or any sort of companionable gest- ure. BE CANDID IN PRIVACY If, after you get home, you feel that you've had a rough deal from him, don't hesitate to say so, warmly and clearly--not hatefully but explicitly, Bear in mind, there's a difference between stating facts and whining, between defining fair play and hen-pecking. If Jim has not been fair, and you try to tell him, he will instinctively take cover in counter-accusations, 'cal- ing you jealous, possessive, a kill-joy, etc., but don't let the inter- view bog down there. It is a serious matter' when a husband or wife deeply feels ill- used by the partner. And, whether the sense of injustice be valid or not, the only help for it is mut- ually open - hearted discussion-- |i which may lead to improved mut- |? ual understanding and more faith- ful practice of better manners on both sides. So, having broached your distress, don't be bluffed into retreat. If Jim tries to duck, de- fensively, you should steadily call his attention to the evasive tactic-- and resume your honest appeal for reasonably considerate treatment from him in company. M. H. Mary Haworth counsels through her column, not by mail or per- sonal interview. Write her in care of this newspaper. A QUEEN IS CROWNED By CHARLOTTE WHITTON Mayor of Ottawa (William, King of the English, to John Abbot, "Greeting: I have long 'considered my be- loved, in whose hands and keep- ing I could put the Abbey of St. Peter of Westminster; for I have it, and indeed ought to have it, in the greatest veneration. For here lies my lord King Edward of bless- ed memory; there too has been buried Queen Edith his noble wife and there by God's merciful provi- dence I received the sceptre and | crown of England." | Thus wrote William the Conquer- | or to the Abbot of Fecamp in| France, inviting him to come over | and take charge of our '"Westmin-! 'The Abbey' has become so in- separably a part of the heritage, tongue, but, (in the words of the Rt. Hon. Louis St, Laurent, when introducing the Royal Style and Titles Act in the Commons on Feb- ruary 10, 1953) in a very special way, of all who "are happy to recognize as their sovereign the person who is the sovereign of the United Kingdom", that the full and proper name of the precious edi- fice is rarely heard. Its correct description is "the Collegiate Church of St. Peter in Westminster' (which may be shortened to "Westminster Abbey Church"). and dates, significantly for us today, from the charter, granted by the great first Eliz- abeth in 1560, a bare quarter cen- tury after Jacques artier had first wintered at Quebec and Mont- real. Until twenty years before, the Abbey had been a Benedictine Monastery, with vast holdings in William the Conqueror Venerates Abbey of St. Peter in Westminster fore did "will and ordain' that there should be established there 'a Collegiate Church and by the name 'of the Collegiate Church of the blessed Peter, Westminster Shall for ever be called and nam- ed. But, long before Elizabeth, long before the, Conqueror, the minister to the West of London had been a place of special sanc- tity to the Saxons, who were the dominant peoples of England's southern shores. Where the Abbey stands was the sandy wooded "Thorne Isle" in the Thames, of which the broad waters then sub- merged the sedgy marshland. Up- on its reclaimed few acres of the City of Westminster, in the cen- turies between, all the institutions of our free government.and ways SUN-SATION! fourteen countries of England and ruled by an abbott (from "abba" | --Syrian for '"'father"). The ""Ab- | bey" was the church wherein the; monks worshipped; the Deanery, | the Jerusalem chamber; the Chap-| ter House and the Cloisters, the | uarters wherein they carried on| their daily life and work. Briefly, in the reigns of Henry VIII and Edward VI, it had become a cathedral for the Diocese of West- minster and, later, for the Diocese of London (of which St. Paul's re- mained, however, the cathedral or church of the bishop's see). Queen Elizabeth, seeking to bind up the bitter wounds of her father's reign, created here Westminster School, whose boys to this day re- 'tain the right to cry first "Vivat" to a new sovereign. For the first time in close to four hundred years they will call again "Vivat Eliz- abetha!"' The first Elizabeth placed the Ab- | bey Church under the governance | of a Dean and Chapter of Canons and other officers "to the intent| that true religion and true worship | may be restored, that youth , . . may be liberally trained up in useful letters . . . that the aged may be suitably nourished . . ol that charity to the poor may be| shown forth." This Charter' of the first Eliz- abeth, like her tomb, may be seen in the Abbey, which she deemed "@ place fit convenient and neces- sary" for this purpose and there- By ALICE BROOKS DAISIES DO TELL who's the prettiest girl at the party! She's wearing this adorable dress with a sun-top under the trim - little jacket. So easy to make. 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Crowle, Division Street, was elected president of the Bay of Quinte Conference Woman's Association, at the an- nual meeting held in George Sires, United Church, Peterbor- ough, of life have been hammered out, and indented still centre. To the West and Glastonbury had come early Christian missionaries converting the native British; to the men of Kent's borough--Can- terbury--had come S. Augustine. To Sebert, King of the East Sax- ons, whose tomb, too, is in the Ab- bey, came Mellitus a noble Ro- man, first Bishop of London, He induced the converted chieftain to rear a church to St. Peter up- THE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE, Tuesday, May 18, 1058 3 on the Isle of Thorne where a tithe of all the salmon caught could be given to the monks of the Saint who had been made a fisher of men. Thus, from 616 A.D., there, is record of a Church of St. Peter at least within a few yards of the site of Westminster Abbey Church DON'T judge a mop just by its appear- ance when new. 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