Srey wi (L/OTNON MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL Mother Seeks Advice Regarding Plans for Mentally Retarded Son HOLLYWOOD HIGHLIGHTS By BOB THOMAS HOLLYWOOD (AP) --This sum- mer will see no doldrums, as far as movie fare is concerned. In fact, theatres will be playing some of Hollywood's best pictures dur- ing the warm months. Summer has been traditionally a slack season in the entertain- Some of Hollywood's Best Films Will be Showing During Summer Some are predicting that normal- sized films will become obsolete. Capsule review: "Thunder Bay" combines all thes elements for an engrossing movie. It has an intri- guing and timely background--the drilling for oil in offshore Louis- jana. It has an excellent cast, headed by James Stewart, Joanne THE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE, Wednesday, May 27, 1953 § ERWINNE'S Dial 3-7421 Dru, Gilbert Roland and Dan Dur- yea. It has color, action and ro-| mance. The direction and writing | are craftsmanlike. It lacks only a touch of genius to make it seem | like reality. ment business. All but the best New York plays shut down, and the top radio and TV shows are replaced by smaller and cheaper Dear Mary Haworth: I am con-| whole job to do. And to compensate fused and hope you can help me. |for this grudging sentiment. You George and I have been married probably Sverdane, fonsclentiousty, six years and I have a son, 15, on the score working to suppor by a former marriage, who has a |him--wearing yourself out as wage i io Se is tal retarded mind. His learning ability | earner, having little leisure for | doors and vacationing during the is below par. "mothering" him psychologically. summer. George treats my son all right,| Meanwhile, also you've probably [™"mpeo picture business has usually but not as I think he should. I|been acutely sensitive to slights | joveq mostly routines movies in guess I want them to be like father | (real or fancied) that others deal |the" cimmer time, holding off its and son, as Jack never had a real him, because such slights are a : dad. His own father left us when Jack was a baby. We spent last summer on a Western ranch and there Jack tried to molest the rancher's daughters, two girls of 10 and 11. He is in a home for treatment at present and I am trying to learn the truth of his condition, to discover if it is incurable, or if he just didn't under- stand the difference between right and wrong behavior. Now the ranchers, I'll call them the Wests, want my husband and me to work for them again this summer -- but they don't want Jack.. I've told George 1 won't go if they refuse to give Jack an- other chance, provided the doc- tor consents. My husband thinks I should go out of loyalty to him, and reminds me that we cannot guaantee Jack's good behaviour. I love both my husband and my son and want to be with them both but I guess I would give up George and all we've worked for, rather than leave my son. I make fairly good wages and could take of him as I did before I mar- ed George, but of course we'd have less than now. Please help me decide what to do. R.B. UNCONSCIOUS GUILT Dear R.B.: & seems you are wrestling with an unhappy notion that your husband is rejecting your son, a feeling that makes you ready A to champion the boy at great sac- rifice to yourself, if necessary. This up-is-arms attitude on your part : : may be d by umn i _ 8ir Christopher Wren was buried t-feeling that permeate your |in St. Paul's Cathedral, one of his elong relationship to the lad. architectural masterpieces. To illustrate, his father deserted -- et Sob you in Jack's infancy, a betrayal that would involuntarily cloud your love for the boy, dousing your mind ip resentment at being left with the -HALF-SIZE NY | special attractions until the fall, when the biggest possible audience was avaible. This year will be dif- ference. Producers will be sending out their good pictures in order to get the cream off the market before the new techniques take over An- other reason: With the best shows off TV, more folks might turn again to theatres for entertainment. By the fall season, a good many theatres will be converted to big screens. The first picture made reproach to your conscience--that is, to your own mixed feelings in the mother role. Not wanting him always wholeheartedly yourself, it is doubly painful to you to perceive, or suspect, that others don't wel- come him either. MAY IMPROVE I've discussed your pen sketch of Jack with specialists in child behavior, who suggest that his "learning-block" and his sexual symptoms may have a common origin, namely, neurotic insecurity and love-hunger. If these stresses were relieved by adequate psychia- tric help he might qualify as a normal individal by-and-by. On the other hand, there is the possibility that he will always have the mentality of a backward child; that this limitation is inborn, and | that he simply can't master the | complexities of civilieed deport | ment. | Now for advice: Discuss your tangled feelings with a trained so-| cial worker or similar consultant, | to '"'diferentiate" between yourself | and your son, before making a de- cision about his summer care, At this writing, you are so involved in anxious sentimentality about him that you cannot see clearly to make practical plag= that meet his real needs. MH. Mary Haworth counsels through her column, not by mail or per- sonal interview. 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