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THE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE, Wednesday, June 24, 1953 7 4 LOOK {mer or shoveling the walk in win- CHILD GUIDANCE Regular Jobs in the Home Will "Sop rors ronrave . oy. uy mows and trims the Teach a Child Responsibiliiy ave good tools. A g mower or dull | practical in some instances to hire By CLEVELAND MYERS {this child at prevailing rates to make the work very discouraging. It's very important Some homes have large lawns mow the home lawn, especially if {to mow; some have very small|you have been paying him for other | too, that the mowing should be done regularly and at sufficiently' |ones. Barring a few exceptions, regular home chores. But if this| Let no parent with a lawn or some member of the family must | child has been trained during earl- | garden to take care of, or foods | lawn. Usually it's Father or Moth- | about the home without pay, he will | serub, rooms to tidy up, beds to {er even where there are one of | probably gain better education | make, say again that the modern For most parents, mowing a | without pay. {to learn responsibility as did the small lawn with a hand-pushed | This raises the question about | children of the pioneers. Nearly a power-mower may not be ex-| the home. If you have been doing portunities for teaching children to cessive work. But if there is a|so and feel sure the way is success- work and bear responsibilities. No ily, this child is robbed of good |this way. If you do, you hardly | are, some one must operate them. character education if he does not [should expect this child to share -- -- MIGHT TAKE TURNS {the home, or to feel a strong obli- It's fine if he and Dad or Mother 8ation for home responsibitities. LY of one trimming with grass shears ucation in responsibility who have ® \] while the other is mowing. Or been required to do certain regular g " . ¢ a A good many children over |ing; and have operated on a bud- @ S twelve would profit from mowing |geted allowance. (My bulletins, «| FOR BRASS ¢ COPPER - CHROME SLIM, TRIM! ane WOMEN'S EDITOR DIAL 3-2233 2 oh LDWINCKLE SB Ei ---- brief intervals. | tcke responsibility for mowing the |ier years to do some regular job [to cook, dishes to wash, floors to ! more children over ten or twelve. | from mowing the lawn at home child lacks opportunities at which mower or even a larger lawn with | paying children for helping about [every home today has ample op- boy or girl over twelve in the fam- | ful, you might be wise in going on | matter how many gadgets there help in the mowing of the lawn. voluntarily the usual duties about, *¥VY ge of & fd take turns at pushing the mower,| As a rule, children get best ed-| they might well take turns at doing | chores about the home which they the whole job. | could no more escape than breath- B and trimming the lawn on regular "Allowances" and "How To Teach days all alone. Even so, if one of | Your Child to Help at Home," may the parents helps him some oc-| be had by sending a self-addressed, | {| casionally, he finds the chore less |stamped envelope to me in care * | arduous. Whether he gets help from | this newspaper.) '| his parents or not, he should learn | - Byt when a child has been striv- ;|that the job is not finished until |ing to earn and save some extra the places missed by the mower money for a definite purpose, he {have been really trimmed. | might profit from being paid for FOR A LASTING ' £ # 3 SHNET STOLE FOR SUMMERTIME tter your bare shoulders this expensive to make. To obtain a ner with a filmy fishnet stole |direction leaflet for making this provides minimum coverage FISHNET STOLE, send a stamp- maximum allure. Both ends ed, self-addressed envelope to the » stole are trimmed with black | Needlework Department of this ribbon and glistening sequins. paper and ask for Leaflet No. C 1 find this stole easy and in-!E-2965. (RY HAWORTH'S MAIL Should Past of Girl's Fiance Be Revealed by Acquaintances? AR Mary Haworth: For 15 { we have known, loved and «d good times and bad wit! ler family in this town. They business and civic leaders with no taint on their record enerations back. They have a hter Lois, 19, very carefully :d. She has brains, personality, t, good character and reputa- it week Lois came home from 'reshman year in college and over, it sounds like a tall tale, I know, but believe me it is CAREFUL O FILLUSIONS DEAR D.K.: A veteran psychia- trist, one of the best, remarks in effect that illusions have their con- structive use in personal relations. And he suggests that we be caut- ious, therefore, of destroying them --or about destroying anyone's faith in another person, save for inalienably responsible (and just) ler parents d her en- ment to a young man she had at school. She has dated him a few months and knows him as a very good, looking, ap- itly amibitious sophomore at school, where he is studying 2e ministry. They share a few al interests, and her parents him slightly, as their infre- t guest. it happens, my husband and ww something of his origin, a that dates back nearly i ago, when we were living in ier town. There we knew an ly couple with a deaf-mute hter. The girl was considered bright' by neighbors, although en may not have been able to ately judge her uneducated ality. The father was definitely iar. N OF VIOLENCE » day in the parents' adsence, unfortunate girl was raped by insavory married man, who served a prison sentence for rime. She gave birth to a son died soon afterwards. Later rarents died, too, and the boy passed about amongst rela- and thus brought up. It is he is engaged to Lois! One of mother's brothers was killed drunken brawl and one of his ins is now in prison for man- /hter. . - 'e is nothing against the boy's mal record, so far as we . As an innocent victim of a d history, if he can overcome andicap and make something is life, we hesitate to unveil ast. He seems to be well-liked is church and has sponsors , and is known to them as a orphan, which, of course, he ut what about his mental and inal background and its poten- »ffects on his children, if any? w that he is engaged to Lois, d we tell her parents the facts n to us and let them check do as they think best? I feel our duty to do this; but my and is uncertain whether to k our neck out." Reading this x . As to whether you have a duty to apprise Lois or her parents of John's family connections as you know them, the specialist is doubt- ful. He reminds that if Lois has responsible parents, and was her- self trained in responsible charac- ter, she and they will not embrace John blindly. As a matter of course, during the engagement period if not before, they will inform them- selves of his personal qualities and 25 | antecedents. Indeed, it may be that Lois or her parents already have some in- side information about John's back- ground, and if so they would hardly discuss such knowledge with neigh- bors, fellow townsmen or even in- timate friends. Not if they are per- sons of taste, judgment, worldly sense and Christian character--as you imply that they are. The specialist brings an open mind to John's potential value as a husband and father. It is not John's immediate kin, so much as his own personal caliber, that is to be studied if you would judge him fairly, the doctor says. He adds, "Some remarkably fine people have come from dubious parents, and we cannot properly say that all men are bound by heredity. Let's not be too technical about gepetics. Look to the indi- vidual. Is he psychotic, neurotic or feebleminded? 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