CROCHETED FLOWER BASKET A pretty. crocheted flower basket is an attractive summer decoration in the home. It is worked from mercerized cotton and stiffened after it is finished. Satin ribbon is used for trim- ming. If you would like to have a leaflet with directions for mak- ing this novelty, just sehd a self-addressed envelope to the Needlework Department of this paper requesting Flower Basket, Leaflet No. C-4032. 'CHILD GUIDANCE To Avoid Jealousy Children Should Be Given Equal Rights By 6. CLEVELAND MYERS For as long as I can remember, I have heard parents and their relatives and friends refer to a youngster from nine months to two or three years of age, as "good." They usually have meant that he sleeps well, eats well, rarely cries and is easily managed. Hearing this expression often, the youngster gets a strange notion of the word It's no secret that, however com- Janionabie young parents are, they for the affections of the baby and young child. As soon as he can talk, one of them often ask him, "Whose boy (or girl) are you?" If the youngster answers to the father's question. "Daddy's ," his mother may say, "Oh, I thought you are Mama's boy." Then the child is confused and torn between the wishes to please both parents. Worst of all, this little child get it into his head that he 4 Mig ene parent more than In any family, a parent may be asked this question. Though it should not arouse undue worry, it should indicate that something very intense. has prompted the child to pose this question. At such time it is well to reply, "Of course I love you as much as --" without fur- ther words; and from then on to work on a long-time program which will, without words, reassure the child. RESENT SUGGESTION Parents who w rite me of such a child often will go on at great length to try to convince me there is no occasion for jealousy. In- deed, some parents, being told that jealousy is probably at the root of a child's behavior, seem to be hurt, even angered, at the im- plied suggestion that either of 'the parents has been partial. It usually is safe for a parent to suspect jealousy in one of two or more children, when this one child seems less happy and co- operative than a brother or sis- ter. It can't do any harm to keep checking on these matters and im- aging how each child feels about his place in the family af- fections. No matter iow sure we are that a child has no occasion to doubt his relative security, we always should remember that what he supposes is is so for him. piss o MARY HAWORTH'S MATL : Exploited By Faithless Lover Advised To Seek Other Interests Dear Mary Haworth: Everybody has a story; but I haven't written mine and am not doing so now. I read your column daily and I am sure you have no way of know- ing how much you help those who follow your sound common sense, objective outlook and reliance upon a spiritual approach to life. There is seldom a day that I don't find a sentence or paragraph in your writings that lifts and in- spires me. I do want you to write a book, one of those designed for valuing him, and undervaluing my- self, in letting him come back to me after he has manifested a pref- erence for someone else. I tell my- self there is scarcly a woman, rich. or poor, beautiful or ugly, who hasn't had to wait at some point in her life, for the man she loves to return to her. And has suffered while she waited. When and how is one to draw the line? What does it mean when a man treats you like a redheaded tepchild, but still refuses to cut dipping into when the spirit is troubled. There is a thread run- ning through your writing that I wish you would take time to ex- plore further. It is the recurrent reminder that in any situation, one person has certain values for an- other. J Alan, 1 cannot proceed without telling at least a part of my dif- ficulty. I am deeply involved with a man who, for the present at least, isn't returning my affection in kind. I have full reason to rule him out of my life completely, but despjte everything he does, I continue to value him as a person, to have need of his kindly spirit, thoughtful ways and' easy-going tolerance. But I am afraid I am over- TULIP TIME m= By ALICE BROOKS Have tulip bouquets at every place at your next luncheon -- you'll get compliments galore. Plain picot mesh doilies, tulips done separately, then sewn on. Easy-to-crochet doilies to be done in fine or heavy Cotton. Pattern 7204 is easy to follow. Send TWENTY-FIVE CENTS in coins for this pattern (stamps can- not be accepted) to Daily Times- Gazette, Household Arts Dept. Osh- awa, Ontario. Print plainly NAME, ADDRESS, - PATTERN NUMBER. the ties completely? -- K.S. SUPPORTS LIFE Dear K.S.: Those "certain val- ues" that one person has for an- other in relationship are really facets of the central value of hu- man relationship itself. 4 The human being cannot thrive, indeed can hardly survive, in iso- lation from his fellows. His phy- sical welfare, and his social and pyschological (or spiritual) growth depend upon co-operative inter- change with others. Significantly, one of the salient points of true Christianity is emphasis on fellow- ship, expressed. in reciprocal love and care. ed. together in My name, there am I in the midst of them," Jesus said thus identifying Himself with the "I AM" godhead: The causative, creative spirit that contains ani- mates the universe. And thus Jesus bequeaths mankind a fellowship- technique whereby humans may contact regenerative power at the source, and invoke its action in their personal experience, accord- ing to their receptivity or concept of need. L In your involvement with Jeff (let's "call him), you submissively accept the crumbs of attention he offers, not so much because you overvalue him and undervalue yourself, as because you lack al- ternative emotional support. Your overall record of frustration and sultering -- wherein the problem with Jeff is only one symptomatic chapter--ties in with considerable failure on your part to affiliate with good society, I am sure. And by good society I mean wholesome in- dividuals, kindly disposed towards mutual helpfulness. OUTGROW DELUSION A neurotic undertow of infantile passivity and dependency probably accounts for your anxious fidelity to Jeff. By some happenstance you've drifted into a habit of ac- commodating yourself to his ex- ploitative requirements. And as they lessen, and he dallies else- where, you continue to pretend that he is as much a part of your routine as ever, thus evading a shakp necessity to find real fellow- s| solution of your predicament is to come out of your shell, a outgrow this delusive conviction that your survival depends on Jeff. For guidance in organizing your forces, study "God's Reach" by Glenn Clark (Macalaster Park pub- lishers). -- M.H. : Mary Haworth counsels through her column, not by mail or per- sonal interview. Write her in care of this newspaper. NEW BRITISH FABRIC Among the fabrics to be shown at the forthcoming Exhibition of Contemporary British Design at the Canadian National Exhibition in Toronto, August 28 to September ill be a linen fabric known 12, wil TEN COMPLETE PATTERNS | a5 Foynes, which has the appear- to sew, embroider, crochet--print- ed right in the Alice Brooks Needlecraft Book! Plus many more patterns to send for--includ- ing ideas for gifts, home aeces- sories, 'toys, fashions! Send 25 cents now! ance of drawn thread work. It is woven with an alginate thread and in its "loom" state it ars to solved, leaving an open work ef- fect. WE'RE GROWING WITH OSHAWA . . . . +» . the same wonderful Reitman's in ? a bigger, brand-new store at 29 Simcoe St. S. OPENING FRIDAY It's a BIG day for us, Friday . . you'll find thot our 331/3% to 50% OFF! Tremendous Savings n Every Department! BIG ANNUAL SUMMER SALE Continues In Our BIG Reiman, Now at 29 Simcoe St. S., Tel. 5-6221 . and a BIG day for Oshawa! Into a BIGGER, BRIGHT- 'ER, MORE MODERN STORE we go! You'll really enjoy shopping at the NEW REIT- MAN'S! You'll find the same wonderful values, the same friendly service, just e couple of doors from our old location. Won't you drop in Friday? To help celebrate NEW STORE ! "Where two or more are gather-/ be a perfectly plain cloth. In the | finishing the aliginate thread is dis- | Plant Cuttings In Polythene Bags For Quick Rooting There's an easy and improved method of starting roots on branch cuftings from ordinary plants. Hor- ticulturists who have tried it are keen on the results. All you do is take a small sheet of polythene film about seven inches square. You can buy sheet polythene in dry-goods stores or, easier still, use that which is ap- pearing more and more these days as wrapping for fruits and vege- tables. Squeeze a handful of wet sphag- num moss lightly to remove water and place it on the polythene film. Make your cutting in the usual manner and nestle th base nearly to the bottom of the moss. Bring up the sides of polythene and place a rubber band argund them so as to enclose the ball of moss. The upper portion of the branch and the leaves are not covered by the polythene, of course. Now place the wrapped plant in high humidity and keep the temper- Fahrenheit. No watering will be needed during the two or three tion. . Major advantages of this method are these: The time of rooting and quality of the roots can be seen easily through the polythene and the cuttings will root a little faster than bench cuttings made at the same time. Another is that disease is less likely to occur in the plants. : Here is another yse for polythene in horticulture: Before you go away on vacation this summer, wrap a sheet of polythene around a flower pot and bring the ends together, securing them with an elastic band at the base of the plant. This way, the plant can go for more than two weeks without watering. 20,000 Pilgrims Make Their Way To Saguenay Shrine CHICOUTIMI, Que. (CP) -- A colorful procession winds its way annually through the rolling, pic- turesque hills near this Saguenay district city as Roman Catholics pay tribute to the men's special Residents have never credited their favorite saint with any mir- acles. But each year the proces- sion to her shrine gets longer. Recently, more than 20,000 peo- ple marched in a procession that marked the 75th anniversary of the last pilgrimage. The first pilgrimage was made May 16, 1878, by four priests, eight nd | seminarians and 80 students at the Chicoutimi seminary. The shrine is located on a hilltop across the Saguenary river from here. Travel was hazardous in the days of the original pilgrims. Seminary annals tell how the pilgrims cros- sed Ha Ha Bay on the Saguenay by horseboat -- shallow ferries driven by a team of horses walk- ing an inclined treadmill. At times, the pilgrims were pear- ly drowned as movements of the horses rocked the boats danger- j|ed on the site of the shrine. ature about an even 70 degrees | weeks ' required for root forma- patron -- Ste. Anne du Saguenay. |- ously, allowing waves fo swamp the craft. Arriving at the Church of Ste. Anne, built in 1861, the pilgrims sang hymns, celebfated mass, and prayed for spiritual favors before returning home. Annual journeys were made from 1878 to 1881 when heavy rain forc- ed cancellation of a scheduled pil- grimage. For some unrecorded reason, another pilgrimage was not made until 1885. In 1895, local religious authorit- ies encouraged the celebrations and they became diocesan in scope for the first time. Since then all parishes in the Chicoutimi diocese have been taking part in the pil- grimage. ™ The village of Ste. Anne is dec- orated and illuminated each year in preparation for the event. In 1942, a monument was erect- SEE DIAGRAM THE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE, Wednesday, July 20, 1908 y Motor-Biking Girls Reach Calgary On Tour Westward CALGARY (CP) -- Three girls sympathetic to cowpokes dured the jolting heaves saddled broncs at C. Stampede. After being of Mayor Don MacKay at the world-famous ro- deo, it was time for the three to start enduring some jolts and shakes of their own. They resumed their cross-country motorcycle tour that will eventually take them to Vancouver. Three young "brummies'" as they call themselves, are 23-year- old dancing instructor Violet Riley, 22-year-old laboratory technician Joan Poole and 20-year-old dress- maker Deryl Checkley. "DREADFULLY COLD" After disembarking from the liner Georgic at Halifax last Nov. 2, the girls made their way to Toronto despite a "dreadfully cold Canadian winter. After a two-month rest-up, inted their machines tow: in swing through Michigan before finally ° arriving in Winnipeg. -Funds were boosted in a five-week working stop-over, then t made their way across Saskatc! bridge, and up to Calgary. a good many miles before arriving in Canada, and their plans call for many more before they finally ar- He home. Each of et yd wo years travelling in Europe '"'hostelling." Skill has been a tradition with us for over a quarter of a century. LEWIS... OPTOMETRISTS 3 KING ST. E. DIAL 5-0444 By ANNE ADAMS Beginners, this is for you! Check that diagram -- few parts | to cut, fit, sew! Ths pretty play | 'n' party dress is elasticized at | the neckline so daughter can wear | the sleeves up or down. And she'll | love that gay embroidery. | Pattern 4747: Children's Sizes 2, | 4, 6, 8, 10. Size 6 dress 2% yeards 35-inch; panties % yard. Embroi- | dery transfer included. | This pattern easy to use, sim- ple to sew, is tested for fit Has complete illustrated instructions. Send THIRTY-FIVE CENTS (35) | in coins (stamps cannot be accept- | ed) for this pattern. Print plainly SIZE, NAME, ADDRESS, STYLE NUMBER. Send order to ANNE ADAMS, care of Daily Times-Gazette, Pat- tern Dept., Oshawa, Ontario. | HAT COAT AND A 3-PC. RAINWEAR SET--MATCHING PURCHASE OF ANY FUR COAT. UMBRELLA WITH DIAL 5-6312 odds and ends of sizes . . Originally Priced 25.00 to 56.50 FINAL Clearance any dress in the store . 1 299 THURSDAY, FRIDAY AND SATURDAY ONLY If you are Interested in getting an extra dress or two, we have a few dozen which we would like to get rid of. Some are hang- overs from. late winter and early spring shipments . . . others are . while the rest are manufacturer's dreams which didn't click. Altogether, there is quite an array of eolors in the lot. Quite frankly, there is not too large a selection of sizes, but if you enjoy picking up a REAL bargain, and you can find just the size you want, you'll be one of the happiest women in town. Please don't make a special trip downtown to see these . . . but if you happen to have time after buying your weekend grocer- ies -- drop in. Who knows? This may be your lucky day. No Exchanges, No Refunds, AH Sales Final, (Alterations Extra) FRANKLIN-SIMON 64 SIMCOE ST. N. OSHAWA an to Leth- .