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bik Whither you favour grey with red, rellow with brown, blue or sed with white, these charm- ing lace mats and. matching glass jackets are attractive din- ner table toppers. Each place WOMEN CHILD GUIDANCE By G. CLEVELAND MYERS "Children, as well as adults, who are emotionally well adjusted, are Sener secure and happy individuals. ey are con about the welfare of others. They accept their responsibilities and CLEMATIS TABLE SETTING ed in a mesh effect, making an attractive background for the | clematis flower design, embroid- ered in a contrasting colour. 'If you would like to have.a leaflet | mat and glass jacket is crochet- MIRY HAWORTH'S MAIL Wedding Plans Are Threatened By Foster Mother's Jealousy Dea Mary Haworth: 'I have a foster daughter, 19, whom I have rearec since she was three. She is to be narried next month, with a large yetding and reception. Her own mther very much against all this but Alice and her future hus are paying the bills, with a little help from me. WhenAlice first became engaged she wated me to make the an- nouncenent, as her mother (who lives i1 a nearby city) isn't know here. lowever, her mother insist- ed tha she would make the an- nouncenent; but after weeks went by, witout her doing so, I finally annourred it in our local paper. Months later the mother asked Alice i the engagement had been annourted, and put up a howl when 'blood. As a test of true mother loves |the kig cannily proposed slashing the bahy in halaves, presumably to appease the disputants, One in- dicaed this settlement was accept- lable; the other cried out against |it, surrendering her claim f{o the (child, and to this latter Solomon gave the verdict. ! | I think there is a moral here for you, who ought to be a good deal more unselfish than you are, if you wish the be worthy of filial preference. From an inside position you've | tried systematically and deftly to! wean Alice entirely from her mother and, due in part to the lat- ter's negligence, you've succeeded very largely, it seems. Now that the girl is Yerging on 'marriage. Mrs. X is in a bit of a panic with instructions for making the Clematis table setting, send a stamped, self-addressed envolo plus 10c for handling to the Needlework Department of this paper and ask for Leaflet No. CS- 405. HALF-SIZERS! '| Key to Good Citzenship," written # |L. Weston, seems to « |stron| to carry them out. They are the Iya With whom one likes to associate. They are in a state of Bis staces & theory which the states a wi teachers in several Detroit junior and senjor high schools set out to |kind test, over a period of four years, under the sponsorship of the De- troit Public Schools and Wayne University. THEORY SUPPORTED The published report of study, "Emotional Ajustment: this A by Elmer F. Pflieger and Grace give pretty support to this theory. Perhaps the most significant contribution of this undertaking was to focus the attention of practically ell the teaching staff n each school on how each stu- dent feels in relation to the per- sons with whom he mingles; on his feelings toward being under- stood, loved ad belonging, to- ward success and self-regard, and his hopes and fears and worries. STUDY'S METHODS This report impresses one with the many methods needed to de- termine the emotions which seem to hamper the child at school in his learning and getting along with other persons there. Also im- pressive are the concerted efforts of the entire teaching staff in seeking ways to help the child feel more comfortable and worthy. One suspects that some of the teachers spent considerable time conferring with the parents of The Role of Home and Parents In a Child's School Successes children who were most helped. But the authors of the book re- ported practically none of this. LACK OF HOME REFERENCES This report disappointed me in that there is so little reference to the home. Practically nothing is said about the parents' part until page 118. A few paragraphs there note that when the study began, one school out of the eight had a Parent - Teacher Association and that six schools had effected some of parent organization. Through this organization, the re- port states, '"'the school learns to ow the community better, and the community learns to know the school. The school has an opportun- ity to interpret its program to the parents; it has a chance to hel parents to understand their chii- dren better." § This is splendid, yet there's hardly an admission in the entire volume that the school might learn something about children from their parents. Nor is there any indication that parents served on committees in drawing up the school program, or even sat in the classrooms to observe. It seems too bad there was no reported effort at giving parents a feeling of be- longing, nor any assumption that the home has anythig to do with the school child's emotions. Doesn't the child bring his home experience along with him to school? Because of the prestige of the sponsors of this experiment, its suggested program of dealing with children at school practically as if they had no parents, will probably be imitated widely. Let's ho for more schools whose pupils have parents, and {whose teachers know they have! Let's quit ing that the school 'has all the wisdom. KEEP IN TRIM A Scientifically By IDA JEAN KAIN For the overweight, the most fascinating part of the nuirition story i§ how stored fat is turned back into energy, for that is the only way the pointer on the scales can be coaxed down. Planned Diet Will Achieve Successful Reducing | With considerable body fat to | turn into energy, "with all that fat ito live on," overweights ask if it would "be all right to fast, pro- vided they had the will power? No! {What is stored up in the excess FIRST AID FOR BURNS When Junior smells the aroma of your fall baking, beware! Small fingers can cause great tragedies. A hot pan--ouch! A nasty burn! For this and other such disasters you'll find bak! soda, that same Jemedy for sunburn and insett bites, brings speedy relief to Junior's woeful plight. Just apply a soda and water paste to the burn, bandage with sterile gauze and keep moist with a solution of baking soda and water. If the skin is very badly burned, call your doctor immediately. Sister M. Lavender. Re-elected M.E.C. Of Pythian Sisters Sister Marie Lavender was re- elected Most "Excellent Chief of On- tario Temple No. 1, Pythian Sis- ters, at its regular meeting held recently in the Orange Hall. The other officers are as fol lows: ES. Sister Madeline Ogden, EJ, Sister Mae Rutter; manager, Sister Evelyn Clarke; treasurer, Sister Jennie Hutchinson (re - elected); secretary, Sister Lucille Clarke; nrotector, Sister Catherine Hawley; guard, Sister Leeanna Bathe; trustees, Sister Kay Glov- er, Sister Mae Feasley, Sister Ethel Horton; installing officer, Sister Ina Cliff; senior representative, Sister Clara McKay; degree captain, Sis- ter Dorothy Hester; pianist, Sister Emmeline Henderson; press reporter, Sister Kae Carey. here are 35 sisters present at the meeting. Sister Emma Lark, sick convener, reported that sever- al were on the sick list. It was decided to send $10 to the commun- ity chest fund. It was announced that the Grand Chief's visit would be held on Monday, December 14, party and degree staff captain an- nounced that there would be a spe- cial practice for degree staff on December 9 at 2 p. m.in the Orange was also the Christmas party that the Sisters remember their Py- thian pal gifts. A special dispensation was read from the Grand Chief allowing the group to hold its election of offic- ers in November. 3 e ben Pos! ing. {but without inconveniencing the in. conjunction with the Christmas, | Hall. It was pointed out that as this i THE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE, Wednesday, November 18, 1958 § By ELEANOR ROSS Party time is here, and soon enough it will be holiday enter- taining time, a period when even the most starts to mellow and begins to think in terms of an evening party, oi be fun 'f -gi un for the hostess, as well as for guests. If the hostess is , the whole effect oes for nothing, even if the appointments are beautiful, the food and potables of the finest. HOW-TO-DO "ANGLE So for the next week or so, we'll be conside! various party ideas og eds, th a few frways nto food department. But mos we'll stick to the ho For any ente , Whe! or small, preparations should as far ahead as sible, r rest of the family. When pl a party, always en Planning you have to work with. Don't over- do, don't run out and buy something special to make a splurge. And: don't knock yourself out making the whole house shine. We assume that you like to keep our house in good condition, so at there should be no to h and clean with frenzied zeal create a bandbox setting. Of course, china, silver, glass- ware, linens, centrepieces, every- thi used for the table, should be shining bright, a task that can be done by degrees ahead of the event. Don't take on more than you can manage. A cocktail party is at its best seemingly, when the room is jam- packed. But only then. Buffet meals, teas, luncheons, brunch and breakfast parties should be limited to a comfort- able crowd, and, of course the now rarely encountered formal dinner is sternly limited. See to it that every piece of equipment, your own or borrowed, is in good work- ing order and that there's not a cracked or damaged bit of china or glassware around. KNOW WHEN TO STOP Getting ready for a party can be fun and enjoyable, just as it is | fun to ie dressed for such an | event. All the fussing about food | and the setting is good up to ai point. Then, before the first guest ! arrives, it should be put firmly | aside. Even if something isn't per- fect, chances are that you are the | only person who will notice it since anti-social household |the How to Plan Your Parties With the Minimum of Exertion as soon as the feeling of hospitality and good fellowship loi the gathering--something that can be engendered only by the hostess-- be underway and 2 good time. the average guest repared to have a happy time. carp critics come Secially to find y party folks will have After comes ault, and since do find something to criticize almost pverswhete, there's no need for you to an exception. Plan your parties for folks out to them and enjoy them they will-- and so will you! ROUX COLOUR SHAMPOQ Now you can easily shampoo new colour into your hair or highlight our. present drab shade with OUX Colour Shampoo. Gre streaks disappear . . . ROUX Colour Shampoo lasts and lasts, Ask at your beauty salon, drug or department THIN WAFERS © © © sO nice | to serve so § many ways | Serve Peek Frean's i: Vita-Weat with cheese or with a sweet or savoury spread. MADE BY Members were reminded of the H children's Christmas Jary which | would be held on Wednesday, De- i cember 16, in the Orange Hall with | Sister Margaret Stevens as conven- | er. The Sisters with children ten years of age and under were asked she hard that it had. Really it wasn't worth it. NOW HE NAGS state, f.ciag sho u's kit ae chance to ow and share her daughter's heart. Hence she is struggling blindly to block the Now Ay y Sisuce She Sets ghe wedding, hoping to retrieve wasied Picks 9 plans, etc 'and when Alice | OPPOrtunity--and her pain merits os upset, I get upset too, jsome sympathy ad understanding. To get the picture of the way bounds? Reserve fuel only. But the body uses fuel, again wé'll com- 'the body doesn't run on fuel alone. pare it to a car. When a car runs YOu cannot store up an effective out of gas it stops until refuelled. reserve of protein and minerals But even though a meal or two is for tissue repair, nor the nutrients skipped, we do not come to an needed for body regulating. This abrupt halt because we have re- 'Mmakes it startlingly clear that the PEEK FREAN'S MAKERS OF becaus I love her dearly. And no matterwhat I do, it always seems wrong Mrs. X (I'll call her). The rhole trouble is, she doesn't want Aice to marry yet; she wants heg, to come live with her. But tle time the child was placed with ne, she has never stayed longer han a day with her mother, and nov she doesn't want to live with hr because she feels like a be strange to her. Since Mrs. X is opposed to the wedding, we want it to go smoothly. I am jot trying to run things but, like npst mothers, I want what's best aid what my daughter wants. Where is my place in church? Wheredo I stand in the rec:iving line? ly daughter wants me, there as she feels 1 am truly her moth- er. I want to do the right thing, and t avold a scene. Her mother might refuse to stand alongside me. 'lease advise. DS SOLOMON'S WISDOM Dea D.S.: In Scriptures we find the gory of the two women who came before Solomon, wrancling for jossession of an infant whom eachclaimed as her own flesh and IRON-ON DESIGNS '|share a DROP RIVAL STRUGGLE fomenting strain between Alice and her mother, by- featuring the mother's unhappy behavior in an unfavorable likht instead of react. ing charitably, seeing the fear #hat | causes it. By helping Alice to un- | derstand the distress that under! es | her mother's nagging, you would | doing a work of mercy, col tributing to" her growth and in- creasig the valuz of yor se for her. Instead, in guise of devo- {tion, you are being almost as jeal- | ously striving as Mrs. X. | | My advice is to cheerfully sur- |render any claims to special place (at Alice's wedding. If Cer m ther the day on this basis; help her do | Rt. Then if Mrs. X volunteers fo 1 pew with you, fine; if she will receive with you, dandy. Other- wise, take a second seat in church; and be a gracious hostess on the sidelines as the reception proceds --and do it all in a spirit of love. | {See 1 Corinthians 13. * MH.| | Mary Haworth counsels through her column, not by mail or per- sonal interview. Write her in care of this newspaper. As matters stand, you are tacitly | By ANNE ADAMS Be well-dressed every day with a separates wardrobe! Proportion- ed for the shorter-waisted, fuller wants the stellar role, unrivalled figure no alteration problems! Whip by you, stand aside with si~c-ra up this smart ensemble with ease' Hy will, not with pious Ne --have weskit and skirt match, | Facement. Encourage Alice to p'an blouse in contrast. Pattern 4877; Half Sizes 14%, 16'2, 18%, 20%2, 22'%, 24%. Size 16%2 weskit and skirt 23% yards 54-inch, blouse 134 yards 35-inch. This pattern easy to usey simple, |to sew, is tested for fit. S CO plete illustrated instructions. Send THIRTYFIVE CENTS (35) in coins (stamps cannot be accept- ed) for. this pattern. Print plainly SIZE, NAME, ADDRESS, STYLE NUMBER. Send order to ANNE serve fuel stored in the form of body fat which can be called into use when there is a deficit of fuel for energy. To carry our analogy further, when the car stands in the garage, no fuel is used. But there is never a time when the living body turns its engine off completely. When we sit down idly, or lie down or sleep, little or no fuel is being used for external work. But the internal work of the body goes on 24 hours of the day as long as we live, so some fuel is used con- ADAMS, care of Daily Times-Gazette, Pat- | stantly. REDUCE BY DIETING Now for the overweight. If that's you, your problem is to turn stored fuel back into energy and diminish the excessive storage. In other words--reduce. You must cut the daily fuel intake, as measured by (the calorie, to a third or a half below your daily energy re- yirements. That's dieting. required nutrients must be fur- |nished daily, otherwise health is (reduced as fat is burned for em- ergy. YOU'L PAY UP! And mark this well . . . you cannot short-change nature without paying up later. You may think your body will just have to struggle along without some of the needed nutrients, since you're bent on los- ing weight. It will struggle along, but by using up vital tissue which |is a tearing down process. There is only one good reducing diet, and that is the diet that is 'scientifically planned to include all the required nutrients in ncrial amounts. Calories are cut only through the fuel foods not needed |for protection. Nature makes up |the fuel shortage by using body |fat of which you have plenty to |spare. By reducing this way you |improve our health while lessen- 'ing the burden of fat. | Relax, you busy people... have a Coke as you work. to telephone their names to Sister Stevens, telephone '5-5436. After a lengthy meeting the Temple closed in short form after which refreshments were served by Sister Clara McKay and her com- mittee. | | % -- Give PEEK FREAN'S Presentati HEHE on TINS for Christmas Presents -- 85¢ to $3 THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA tern Dept., Oshawa, Ontar. The life and sparkle of Coca-Cola make a little minute a big rest. There's matchless flavor in each frosty bottle. Yow'll like it. aspects will be more propitious. Home and family matters move into focus during early 1954, and you may, quite unexpectedly, be called upon to give aid to parents, brothers or sisters. Be generous in this respect and you will be more than amply rewarded. ! 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