oven MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL - Small Town Doctor's Wife * Worried About His Office Affair 'Dear Mary Haworth: I need help and advice so de at- . 1 am the wife of -a doctor small town. I love my husband we have Huge lovely children and a beautiful home. Everythi seems so fine on the surfaie, underneath it all a terrible situa tion has developed. Luke is a very attractive man. Several years ago he hired a gir) assistant and spent long hours, days, weeks, even months training her in his office routine. She at- tained such efficiency that she has become indispensable to him--or #0 he thinks. They have carried the routine too far. He has met her t in his office for years. OFFICE AFFAIR He would use the excuse that he was going over to the office to be quiet and study, and concen-- trate on the day's work; but time after time I followed him, and so did two of my best friends. He was and is having an affair with this girl (I'll call her Lucy). They have Jone beyond the bounds of any kind of decency. He is losing Weight and looks terrible; so does 1 have never once let them know La * are of Jie, situation, I eep my husband and my home; 1 ho and he would fire her. He cannot time. She runs th A him by the throat and won't let & I am nervous and desperate. dare not consult a physician; I am well known and so is Luke. Please counsel me in your column. RISE ABOVE MORBIDITY Dear V.8.: It seems you've been emotionally with the af- from morbid level on ch it exists, instead of it in ich, is approac) ni v- dissolving--it. it would wear thin |qo¢ rt) it the thought of God . . . If Covve been visualizing Lucy and yourself as sexual rivals, strug- gling for possession of Luke's per- son and im tion, each co in deadly silence to ou u! and displace the other somehow. Emmet Fox in a little brochure "The Golden Key" (Harper and Brothers), emphatically says that the for such an impasse is to switch one's thought away from the difficulty, to This he calls i elentific prayer, the golden key and appiness. He ezpiaiss, "In scientific prayer it is who works, not you, and so your particular limitations or weaknesses are of no account in the process. You are e channel through which the divine action takes place, and your treat- ment will be just the getting of yourself (i.e., your feelings) out of the way .. . HELPING MIND "Do not try to form a picture of God, which is of course impos- sible. Work by rehearsing any- thing or eve! ing that you know about God. God is Wisdom, Truth, inconceivable Love. God is pres- ent everywhere, has infinite power, knows everything, and so on. It matters not how well you may think you understand these things; go over them repeatedly. "Your object is to drive the thought of the difficulty right out your consciousness, for a few moments at least, substituting for you can become so absorbed this consideration of the spiritual world that you really forget for a while about the trouble concerning which you began to pray, you will pres- ently find that you are pafoly and comfortably out of your difficulty --that your demonstration is made . » . You do your half, and God will never fail to do His." May I d, men and women of every sort rising | have tested this key, and find that a aaah Is through ary 'Haw! counsels thro her column, not by mail or per sonal interview. Write her in care of this newspaper. THE MIXING BOWL Sausage and Bacon Sauted Aids Digestion, Gives More Servings Hell Homemakers Nearly one for reaiisat d Jarticulaily appetizing are many ememalrs bacon or sausages old way," that is, fried to a cinder. the there serve same often if 1H Crt -} Es pd a Hil i ! ; i rl E i i i : y : HH gE H ge g LM i i ) 8 1 w g H i g 5 5 7 4 8 H 2. If sausages have the casing, prick each with f uarter inch of sausages are not 2) 5] £3 water in pan. SEW - THRIFTY! jo. : 12-20 SEW-EASIEST ever! Two main es! Run several up in a jiffy or thrifty Christmas gifts! Be sure to make one for yourself, too --it"s such a sweet slumber-num-- ber with those feminine draw- string bows. A nightie you'll enjoy making and wearing! Pattern 4651: Misses' Sizes 12, 14, 16, 18, 20. Size 16 takes 3% yards 39-inch fabric. 'This pattern easy to use, simple to sew, is tested for fit. Has com- plete illustrated instructions. : Send THIRTY-FIVE CENTS (35) in coins (stamps cannot be accept- ed) for this pattern. Print Plajaly | SIZE, NAME, ADDRESS, STYLE | NUMBER. Send order to ANNE ADAMS, bacon on absorbent be (or 3 minutes before in casing do not prick or add water. 3. Always drain sausages and paper for 2 serving. 4. Serve these meats on hot plates. UPSIDE DOWN SAUSAGE PIE 1 Ib. sage meat % cups sweet potatoes (mashtd) % cup orange juice 2 tsps. orange rind (grated) 1 egg (beaten) % tsp. salt 1 _ tbsp. sausage dripping Brown sausage meat (loose or in patties) and drain. Combine mash- ed sweet potatoes, orange juice and rind, beaten salt. Place bro NUTRI-THRIFT MENU Upside Down Pie, Boiled Savoy Cal e and raw turnip sticks. ru Dumplings for dessert and ee. SAUSAGE SUPPER DISH 1b. pork sausages 1 can green beans 4 or 5 slices toast % cup cheddar cheese 1 cup white sauce Place sausages in skillet with one-third cup boilng water. Cook Plae sausages in skillet with one-third cup boiling water. Cook 10 mins. on Medium. Dr: any water and cook on Low 18 white sauce of 1 cup milk, 2 tbsps. flour and 2 thsps. dripping, then add cheese. Heat beans. Make toast. Serve beans on each piece then cheese sauce am, wp with sausages. Serves 4 or 8. NUTRI-THRIFT MENU Tomato Juice, Sausage Supper Dish, For dessert apple sauce and gisgerbread with tea. AGERS' TREAT % 1b. side bacon 1 doz. wieners 1 doz. wiener rolls % 1b. natural cheese Sit the weiners lengthwise half- way through. Tuck a strip of cheese into each then twirl a srip of ba- con around each, securing each end with a toothpick. Place in a shallow baking dish. Heat in a pre- heated oven of 350 for 25 mins. Place the bag of rolls in the same oven on edge, if necessary. Then remove toothpicks and tuck wiener in each roll. After-the-show treat: Teenagers' Treat, Broiled Marshmallows and Hot Chocolate. THE QUESTION BOX Mrs. C. L. asks: Can bacon and eggs be cooked in rangette oven? Answer: Yes. cook bacon and eggs in rectangular casserole or similar baking dish. Place strips of bacon in pairs and cook 10 mins. at temperature of 375 degs. Open an e| over each pair then baste with dripping and return to oven. Cook until whites of egg are set. Miss L. B. asks: Is it necessary ® cook Sausages before wrapping pas repare as Pigs in Blankets) prep ® Answer: Yes, otherwise the food will be greasy. We prefer to use sausage meat and cook 15 mins. on medium or low then drain off the fat. A good mixture is % lb. cook- ed sausage meat, 8 tbsps. apple- sauce, 1 tbsp. minced onion and 1 tbsp. milk blended well and plac- ed on 4inch squares of pastry dough. Roll up each square and pinch the ends of the rolls. Bake on baking sheet in pre-heated elec- tric oven of 400 degs. for 20 mins. Makes twelve, Mrs. E. R. asks: Please des- cribe 2 or 3 supper dishes that can be cooked in ut half an hour (grated) eare of Daily Times-Gazette, Pat- tern Dept., Oshawa, Ontarie. using..a hot plate? VIe | alte , |iron .|mats, towels sparkle with Christ- Heat a tin of asparagus [| one element. On other use double boiler and cook eggs in shell for 12 mins. in lower part. Meantime heat condensed cream chicken soup in top part. Shell eggs under cold Re water and slice. Place asparagus in casserole. Add 2a of cream chicken soup, then thick sliced eggs, then pour on remaind- er of soup... Prepare tossed sal ad to complete first course. (2) Savory Beef and Rice: Melt 4 tbsps. butter in skillet and stir in one-third cup chooped green pe per, 1 sliced onion and % Ib. minced beef. Cook 10 mins. Add contents of a ckage of quick Site, | , . salt, tsp. pepper. cups Devpe Cover and cook about 18 canned tom- Note: Serve cream chicken soup as first course, then Savory Cas- serole. (3) Jiffy Tuna Casserole: Into a saucepan with an inch boil water add half savoy cab- bage (washed and cut in 4 or § wedges). Boil 10 mins. On the other element heat 1 can condens- ed tomato soup and a can of drain- od tuba fish. Yeu with 3 dash of pper an sps. sherry By Drain cabbage and sea- son with 1 tbsp. butter and dash of nutmeg. Arrange around sides of casserole and pour creamed tuna in the middle. ' Note: Make heated soup and tuna in top of double boiler and a can of lima beans in lower part with additional water on them to complete a hearty meal. Anne Allan invites you to write to her care of this paper. Send in your suggestions on homemak- ing problems and watch this col- umn for replies. ON FREEZING FOODS Now that many homemakers have home freezers or frozen food lockers, they preserve their win- ter food supply by freezing rather than by canning. The home econ- omists of the Consumer Section, Canada Department of Agriculture have just published a new bulletin entitled 'Freezing Foods". The bulletin tells how to freeze fruits and vegetables, meat, poultry, eggs and baked foods. It is avall- able, free of charge, from the De- partment of Agriculture, Ottawa. rite now for a copy of this excel- lent bulletin. IRON-ON DESIGNS By ALICE BROOKS jal! Plan for Christma save! Just the stroke of an presto! Tablecloths, place mas colors of Santa Red and Holly Green. Easy! No embroidery! Washable! Pattern 7258 has 20 washable, iron-on motifs -- ten 2% x 2% to 2% x 4% inches; ten 1 x 1 inch. Plus 28 inches of one-inch border. Send TWENTY-FIVE CENTS in not be accepted) to Daily Times- Gazette, Household Arts Dept., Osh- awa, Ontario. Print plainly NAME, ADDRESS, PATTERN NUMBER TEN COMPLETE PATTERNS to sew, embroider, crochet--print- ed right in the Alice Brooks Needle- craft Book! 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Canadian Actresses THE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE, Wednesiay, November 25, 1008 9 Score Success In Cambridge Musical Comedy Club By MURIEL NARRAWAY Canadian Press Staff Writer LONDON (CP) -- Fifteen first- enough for Canadian actresses Jane Carling and Carolyn Souter, who donated their services for the first production of Cambridge Uni- Lisity's new Musical Comedy ub. The club is considered unique British universities and Miss Carling and Miss Souter were the "outside'" actresses. The club's first performance was "Lady at the 1," a musical with an Anglo-American theme based Monte Carlo car of two undergraduate ed each year at the , Cam e, it got good notices from the Daily Tel- getanh and other publications. BRIGHT AND The lyrics by Leslie Bricusse very much in the Noel Coward manner, are extremely bright and occasionally witty, said view. The critic added: 'Carolyn Souter attacked her two comedy numbers with both zest and skill." Her stage success was something of a surprise for 21-year-old Tor- onto-born Miss Souter. She is pri marily a set designer and later this year will start work with Murray and Donald Davis as as sistant set designer for their new of the family and child in this ; | matter. ML eourse, the most. important ing or paren 0 manage themselves so that they will he calm and matter-of-fact with the child before his trip to the hos- pital, and provide him with an atmosphere of courage and reas surance. Some parents are so wise and skillful in this matter that their children suffer no fears or anxiety at all before tonsillectom: and no emotional disturbances at. terward. v e Tre-|4, repertory venture at Toronto's Crest Theatre. The Cambridge Daily News called dark-haired, 19 - year - old Jane Carling "Ontario's Navessa Lee." Hamilton-born Jane, known back home as Rose Oslender, was | ag described a soprano "of promise." She studied and piano at the Toronto Conservatory of Mu- sic, and won awards in both. It was in Canada earlier Jour that Jane Aud | Saglyn ot the a making first tp Britain for the university show. Bricusse, in search of North Amer- ican "flavor," spent his summer vacation with the Muskoka Straw Hat Players--and wrote some of the lyrics in Canada 'in his spare WORKED IN HAMILTON Undergraduate composer Rich- ard Beaumont, who wrote the mu- sic for "Lady at the Wheel," went Canada with Bricusse and got a job writing theatre and film re- views for the Hamilton Spectator. The girls learned about the show and decided it was worth coming to Britain at their own expense to help put it over. "It seemed a wonderful idea," ad this | 26 "Voice of the Turtle said Jane. "And we really enjoyed | id The girls now are big to Contin pa 1g that 8 re sibly early in oy Siri ws Jopug arise stage offer rom the Reh ay She'd like to stay awhile and gain ex- perience here. Miss Ci ared in Can- ada in lig Bh al prod "The Pirates of Pe and Brigadoon Carolyn. weted . oon." Carol design at Ontario College of Art under Toronto artist John Martin designed sets for such shows of State" and "The Moon Is Blue. To keep snow boots longer, hang them up i coping the a trouser hanger. holds boots straight and vents and cracking. Shoes that take a beating from some types of snow boots, receive gentle treatment from those made of ny- lon and lined with soft nylon fleece. They are completely washable too. Spots on clothes that resist whisk brooms and stiff brushes will often disappear when rubbed with a slightly moistened cellulose sponge. HOSIERY OF yp 4 DISTINCTION Ly fr POA CCRLRE EXTRA ELASTICITY FOR DURABILITY CHILD GUIDANCE By G. CLEVELAND MYERS In anticipating the removal of a child's tonsils, there's much needless anxiety and fear in the child and his parents. Of great interest to many par- ents is an article in the summer issue of "Mental Hygiene," pub- lished by the National Association for Mental Health, and written by Ruth Winkler, a case worker. Report on a special study made of children undergoing ton- sillectomy at the Albany Hospital, Albany, N.Y., the author gives some of the steps found useful for hospital and parents to reduce the child's emotional disturbances be- fore and after the operation. LET MOTHER STAY 1. Contact with the home to as- certain what makes the child and his parents anxious about the forth- coming operation. 2. Permitt the mother to stay | with the child while he's outside the operating room, and to sleep in the same room with him. 3. Letting the child know in ad- vance what the hospital is like-- | how big it is, what will see as he enters the door, the ride in the elevator, what the children's room or ward is like, and the fact that | the nurses and physicians are dres- | white. 4. Telling the child in advance he will have to undress in the daytime and ex lajuing to him gg Me pl nation. a minimum the | 5. Reducing use of needles. | 6. Taking his temperature rec-| tally instead of orally and dis- pensing with enemas. ji 7. ucouraging child to bring playenings and his with him. own pajamas 8. Having the anesthetist visit the child on his day of admis- sion, showing him her uniform, let- ting him try on the mask, smell the preparation that is going to t to sleep. 9. Telling the child his tonsils are not important to him; that he will have a sore throat after his | he will | not feel anything while they are 'Parents' Attitude is Reflected In Child's Fear of Tonsillectomy being taken out because he will be sleeping. 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