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MARY HWORTH'S MAIL "Makin Best of Battered Life Pondes Hostility to Uthers As 1 look =n in rE hy tly fight a feeling of dis- mest poeple? Why do constant feeling that I by others? I feel that know me they won't me i ways have a lonely, al- feeling. Why? Most I can solve by prayer slow;" but I am baffled with me and how it. Can you help? ANTED JF.: A modern seer sug- | the fundamental cause looms of illness is home- of the soul for envelop- i TH a sicknes ing for and fin encounter. And thus you perpet- uate a hate-reaction on the subjec- Watiaged. As you so you be judged. As feel about them, so will pany, Lenanon, N.H.) detailed instructions you need. M.H. ing love--love 'in the nurturing sense of being sympathetically understood and without reservation, che for oneself, ; |just as is. There is food for thought in the observation, which I feel strikes to the core of your chronic irrita- tion with life and You were suckled in an atmos- phere of discord, with your par- maxim ents' incompatibility fueling the racket . Children helplessly absorb the emotional tone of their par- ents' feelings about each other and your case you were to vibrate to a caco- other people. LEARN TO LOVE You take for granted, uncons- ciously, that you and others will detest each other, justifiably. Hence you are 1 fault in each lighing effect on your lovability and ssif regard. It is this hang- and |over from t! u feeling "separate and different, lonely, hungry, etc., in social gath- erings past that keeps you To overcome this difficulty, you have to love people--habitually, in- clusively, helpfully, uncritically. That is the constructive way. A simpe prescription, but not easily oy "judge" others, you they feel about you. How to get on the beam of constructive feeling? Well, it is possible that Starr Daily's fasci- nating book "The Way of Holy Af- fection" Cihu Publishing com- ntains the Mary Haworth counsels through her column, not by mail or per- sonal interview. Write her in care of this newspaper. CHL) GUIDANCE Tact Can Solve Most Problems Foed by Stepchild's Visit . LEVELAND » oie' columns on the step-- mother, ve considered those women Nite husbands' children live with er full-time in the new i EB ® ¥ ® 1 ] r G L3 i i 1 i i 31 £1 other wayou will be his friend. enough to run about, you feel a sense of responsibility his physical and moral safety while at your home. Unless you can win es) the chil acting than the child has been ac- customed to from his own mother. This problem is grester with the older child, Shes an adoles- cent. Your to deal as with @ nice person child is old ht or the complete co-operation of your husband, this may not be easy, if what you expect in 's regulation is more ex- perhaps, is pretty much and even more © be CATED ¥ marfiage, Yet some stepmothers meet problems marvelously well. "8 others Can Be Nice" is an new booklet by Helen , to be had for 25 Public Affairs Com- mittee, Inc., 22 East 38th street 1, organization. I mother would read this bulletin carefully. a nonprofit step- NY, wish every Fung 4 ess maintains that the important a woman can to her, is to love these children's father and to think him "a very Actos' Church MayDisappear LONDO (CP) --The church ha been the worshipping e ofhe West End theatre and be clos: 'early in the new year. "There are more than half a dozen churches in the immediate area," he explained, "more than are more , and we need churches in the suburbs." 1t is estimated that the building Ha ALS be sold for about £50, ($420,000.) rid fonlmost 100 years is pre- paring faits last curtain. . " Officialhave decided that St. Peter's, the actors' church" in Windmillstreet near Piccadilly Circus. st finally be torn do They made the same decision ; years ago but a bar- rage ofprotests and petitions saved thold building. St. Pet's is probably Britain's only chrh with a professional actor asicar. Rev. Clarence May: 65, whoook over the parish ars », holds a card with ty, le theatre trade union, and hasppeared in many stage 2 productis. - Archdeon M. M. Hodgins, sec- retary (the Bishop of London's church forganization committee, said inan interview that the church, silt in 1861, will probably DRPES - CURTAINS VHIETIAN SHADES Madc-to-Meosure FREE ESTIMATES WARD'S Dial 5-11 SMALL START The first aircraft appropriation made by the American Congress in 1911 amounted to $125,000. Gi TAKE If you're in a spot financially right now, with expenses like fuel, clothes for the children, and plans for the holidays ahead, think this over. You can borrow $50 to $1000 promptly on your own signature at HFC. One-day service. Then take up to 24 months to repay on a plan that You select yourself. IT'S BUSINESSLIKE! IT'S MODERN! OUSEHOLD FINANCE 25th. yeor in C C. H. Brook, South, Manager 5-1139 d floor, ph : OSHAWA, ONT. --------. Eo i | THE STARS SAY If t is necessar for you to conduct business - otiations to- operation of others. It forthcoming under present friendly influences. FOR THE BIRTHDAY If tomorrow is your birthday, Jou may find it necessary d coming months to cl e the pattern of your personal life be- cause of national or international situations. This does not necessar- ily mean a complete upheavel of Tou rsonal life but it does mean t if you are alert to world-wide Sonditions and outside ijterests generally, your eyes may open opportunities undreamed of, which ook- |lie before you. Taking advantage mince. avnle of pumpkin ple fillin of them could change your en future You may find yourself experi- enc some tension right now, but restrictive period should end within a month. Try te re- tions vail and, if at all pos- sible, e a short trip. A change of scene will do you a at deal of good. Romantic and cultural interests 'are under good aspects. A child born on this day will be frank, sensitive and intensely loyal. main calm while the stress condi- NOMEN Days spent out of doors in the cold fresh air of autumn and win- ter mean healthy ravenous appeti- tes for ardent sportsmen. Now, when dinner call sounds, everyone's in the mood for food -- and lots of There's no need to remind anyone to 'leave room for dessert," though. Everyone expects and looks forward to the tasty fillip that comes at the end of each menu and rounds it out. Since cold weather practically sings spice, the perfect dessert is a tangy pie. Your family will love 'their favorite 8 surrounded a flake; ht bak- ing soda an And this i has a unique spicy flavor fr m oa%% unique spicy flavor from a won- derful blend of cinnamon, ginger and clove, which enhances fruit fillings -- especially nice with our fine Canadian apples now spilling 2 Try This Spicy Pie Crust With Apple or Pumpkin Filling out very Secon 4.8 2 cups sifted all-purpose floor 14 teaspoon baking soda % cup brown sugar teaspoon salt 3 teaspoon cinnamon ¥% teaspoon ginger 3% teaspoon cloves sup shorte ng tablespoon gar tablespoons orange juice or oth- er citrus fruit juice Sift dry ingredients together. Cut in shortening. Mix together vinegar and fruit juice and add to dry in- ients. Mix lightly with a fork. oll dough % inch thick and line 2 8-inch ple plates. Cut off with pastry one inch beyond the edge of Big' Turn the border under #o make a rim around the pan. Press rim down between thumbs and forefinger to make scalloped edge. Set aside. : 1 1 3 HOLLYWOOD HIGHLIGHTS THRIFTY! WAST »-3" By ANNE ADAMS Easy! Diagram proves-how swift- N you can whip up this smart, skirt. THRIFTY! One yard 54-inch fabric for any given size! Have one in basic black or brown wool to team with 'sweaters and blouses! Make another to match a bright wool jersey blouse! Pattern 4728: Misses' Sizes 24, 25, 26, 28, 30 inches. given sizes 1 yard 54-inch. This pattern easy to use, simple to sew, is tested for fit. Has complete illustrated instructions. Send THIRTY - FIVE CENTS (85¢) in coins (stamps cannot be acce ) for this pattern. Print B SIZE, NAME, ADDRESS, NUMBER. Send order to ANNE ADAMS, c/o Daily Times-Gazette, Pattern Dept., Oshawa, Ontario. Waist An By BOB THOMAS HOLLYWOOD (AP)--Two youn actors, one a night club comic an the other a specialist in film vil- lains, are g the celebrated shoes of Abbott and Costello. The ucky players are Buddy Hackett, 29, and Hugh O'Brian, 28, an actor who is known as the eager beaver of the Universal-In- ternational lot. He is so anxious for film roles that he even al- lowed his head to be shaved for a part as a treacherous Indian chief. The pair fel into their good for- tune as the result of some bad luck for the veteran comics, Bud Abbott and Lou Costello. A couple of weeks ago, the strain of movies, live and filmed TV, bene- fits and other appearances finally struck Lou, who only a few years back was in bed for a year with rheumatic fever. Doctors now say his heart will not allow any activity for three to six months. This threw U-I in a tizzy. The studio was all set to start 'Fire- man Save My Child." Location Young Actors Replace Abbott and Costello scenes had already been shot im San Francisco, and Spike Jones and his music-wrecking band had been signed. At first the picture was efinitely postponed. GIVEN GO-AHEAD Then studio officials mulled do- nt the f with another team. O'Brian and Hackett were tested, and the new team was given the go-ahead signal by producer How- ard Christie. "I'm still catching my breath," said handsome Hugh. "I tested only a week before the picture started. I wasn't told to report for work until the morning the picture started. I asked Hackett how he felt to be filling Costello's shoes. "I'll tell you a story," said the roly-poly funnyman, who speaks in the unmistakabe tones of his na- tive Brooklyn. "When I started out as a comedian six years ago, the first review I ever got compared me to Lou Costello. Ever since then, I have worked hard to avoid being similar to him." TRIUMPHANT LIVING Distinguishing By MERVIN A. BURY As I turned on the radio the other night some one was speaking and I caught these words: 'He that is gentle and kind . . . the world will follow after him." These words are startling because the eles to an Jeu Whieh 3.) diamet ¢ cally opposi philoso) of Power which prevails 12 the m of millions of people. This concept of Might is of course aided and abetted to a more or lesser degree by the leaders and governments of these people. The attributes of "gentleness' and "kindness" need to be aceept- ed and practised by people every- where if our world is ever to a better place for all. To accomplish this ideal would be tantamount to seeing Christianity established and practised in every region where men live. And Christ's mission to establish the Kingdom of God on earth would approximate its fulfil- ment. | St. Paul considered gentleness as fone of the outstanding marks of | Christian character. Christian 'who possessed this virtue of gentle- Marks Of Christian Character ness was one who exemplified good- ness, honesty, kindness and in short, an over - all excellence of character. Perhaps the greatest exponent of this Christian gentleness was St. Francis of Assisi, whose emulation of Christ and the Christian Way en- deared him not only to his con- temporaties, but also to Christians ever since. Today the phrase: "La- dies and Gentlemen' is used as a term of politeness by speakers in addressing an assembly. But orig- inally a lady was a gentle-woman who like her gentle-man, practised being kind and gentle to others. With a little thoughtfulness, a little more concern for others and less for ourselves, we could transform our world with gentleness and kind- ness. In acting as true gentlemen and ntlewomen we would portr: at we potsese this essential frult of the Spirit, this mark of Christian Character which lends poise and dignity to personality and which contributes so much to triumphant living. ¥ HOW WOULD YOU LIKE A 100 CHEQUE for Christmas Shopping? A IMAGINE getting $100--$250--or even $500¢ to help you with your Christmas shopping! 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According to some advice on tooth brushing given in a book published in England in 1874, "the best instrument is a small piece of wood like a butch- er's skewer rendered soft at the end and once in a fornight dipped in a few grains of gunpowder." For a long time after their de- velopment toothbrushes were ex- pensive items, Handles were made materials such as wood and bone and bristles had to be import-- ed from distant lands. Turning out a single brush involved a long se- ries of hand operations. Today, with automatic inserting 2yion bristles in the heads as raj idly as assembly lines turn out p! tic handles, toothbrushes are one of he least expensive daily neces- sities. IRON-ON-DESIGNS By ALICE BROOKS IRON-ON BUTTERFLIES! We wish you could see the vivid tur- quoise, sun yellow and ocean blue- shadings of their wings. Let them dance across sheets and pillow- cases! Or beautify a tablecloth and matching napkins! 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Still, many a middle age overweight has the uneasy feeling that seducing will cause her to look older, an is therefore reluctant to start a diet even though reducing will in- crease her chances of living longer. 0 woman of any age wants to risk look older! If you reduce on an optimum diet and do not try to lose too fast, you can look ounger for bringing weight to eal normal. CEZ FOOD HABITS First off, take a critical look at your food habits. If you gained weight on excess starch, sweets and succulent fats, while slighting the foods which provide the nut- rients for repair and serv- , then you are over-fed and nourished. Your tissues are in a flabby state and your reducing fare must not be merely adequate in the protective nutrients; it must be optimum. You have some catch- ing up to do nutritionwise, in order to bolster sagg tissues before attempting to p off too many pounds in a hurry. To replace fat with firm, healthy tissue, build the three meals al- most exclusively with protective foods. Without an abundance of pro- tein and the minerals, particularly calcium and iron, the tissues can- not remain firm and young. Vit- are needed too. Years back reducing had an "aging" reputa- tion, but that was before the science of nutrition was put into practice. It is now possible to be on the best diet in the world, even Male Customers Wait in Line For Woman Barber OTTAWA (CP)--Four years ago, when Mrs. Alide Vainu answered an advertisement for a barber, everyone thought it was a mistake --evervone, that is, but Mrs. Vainu. She got the job and today owns her own three-chair tonsorial salon. An Estonian, Mrs. Vainu ar- rived here from Europe five years 0 unable to speak English. But she had completed a three-year course in a barbering school at Tallin, Estonia, and gained a good deal of hair-cutting experience during four years in a German concentration camp. So, after serving one year as a domestic as required by her im- migration contract, she answered Joseph Girard's ad for a barber in June, 1949. "You must be looking for a job in the beauty salon at the back," Joe told her, but Mrs. Vainu ex- plained in halting English that she was an ordinary man's barber and simply wanted to cut hair. She was hired. ' Now she has two assistants-- men--working for Her and she can carry on a line of barbershop pat- | ter with the best of them. But, and this may be her secret for- mula for success, she only uses her gift of gab when the customer stapts a conversation; otherwise, just the drone of clippers, the gentle snipping of scissors--and silence. while drawing on excess | part of your energy needs WILL TAKE TIME Regarding the rate loss: Skin contraction pave beauty role in reducing. If you have been carry- ing considerable excess for more years than you like to face, it will take time to contract the skin to a smooth covering. You can reduce beautifully at the rate of three- quarters of a pound a week, or even one pound. That may seem a bit slow, but it is 40 to pounds a year. his leasurely rate loss offers other advantages. For one thing you can have more of the protective foods, and this is particularly im- portant when you have slighted the essential nutrients for years. Secondly, this rate allows time enough to bring a satisfactory change in food habits. The follow- ing diet affords optimum amounts of "keep young" nutrients. OPTIMUM REDUCING DIET Breakfast Orange juice, 5 oz. 1 or ggs, not fried Thin slice high protein bread lightly buttered Black coffee Luncheon \ Protein choice: Ground round steak, 4 oz; or Grilled chicken livers, 4 oz; or, 1 oz. cheese, grilled on slice bread Glass of buttermilk or skim milk Mixed salad - use dark green leaves (vinegar and seasoning) Small serving fruit 4:30 - Protein pick-up: Glass of skim milk or buttermilk Dinner Protein choice: Lean meat, fish or fowl - 4 oz. 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