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8 THE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE, Friday, January 15, 1954 Nove WOMEN'S EDITOR JO ALDWINCKLE DIAL 3-2233 A BIRTHDA Black, children of Mr. and Mrs. John Black, Montrave Avenue. Johnny, aged two, and Joan, who is celebrating her sixth b! Y PICTURE today, are the grandchildren of Mr. and Mrs. Archibald Black and Mrs. Mason Chamberlain, all of Oshawa. --Photo by Hornsby Studio. Pythian Sisters Hold Installation For the third year Sister Marie Lavalier %a: Smaliod as. most excellent chief of Ontario Temple " an Sisters, at its if het recently in the The other officers are as follows: PC, Sister Margaret Stevens; ES, Sister Madeline Odgen; EJ, Sister Mae Rutter; manager, Eve- lyn Clarke; secretary, Sister Lu- cille Clarke; treasurer, Sister Jen- nie Hutchinson; protector, Sister Catherine Hawley; guard, Sister Leeana Bathe. The installation was conducted Be pana chief Sister Iva , 8c grand senior, Sister Dorothy Hester and acting grand manager, Sister Kay Clarke. Sister Ina Cliffee presented Sis- ters Kay Clarke, Dorothy Hester and Nan Kirkbride with gifts in appreciation of their help in the installation. MEC Lavender pre- sented Sister Ina Cliff with a gift 'emple for her work in from the instal the new officers and a t to Sister Dorothy Hester and ister Kay Clarke for their work while in office. Sister Iva Cliff presented MEC Sister Marie La- vender with gifts from Sister Ma- rie Bchwariz and Sister Chris |be Saunders in appreciation of all her thoughtful deeds to them during the past year. of | Luke's Theodott Hamilton who was visiting the Temple was introduced by the Ziausger and heartily welcomed to the Temple. The corre! dence was read and dealt with. It was decided to send $10 to the Canadian March of es. As this was the begin- ning of a new year the auditors' report and annual report were read. The convener of the chil- dren's Christmas party, Sister Margaret Stevens, gave her report and was given a hearty vote of thanks for her work with the arty. The Sisters thanked their pals for gifts and cards received at Christmas, The following volunteered to help on the visiting committee, Sister Flossie Ball, Sister Mary Nortley, Sister Iva Cliff, Sister Jennie Hutchinson, Members were asked to contact Sister Emma Lark regarding any Sisters who were known to on the sick list. The meeting closed with the officers march and re- freshments were served by Sister Orla Aitchison and her commit- MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL Tired of Family's Apron Strings Woman Seeks Individuality Dear Mary Haworth: What must I do to keep from being just an- other edition of the women in my family? My mother, my grand mother, my daughter and myself all look alike. We sound alike- our voice, our cough, even our walk. We all live in the same pat- tern; we even think alike. And 1 despise myself for being like them. We are "good people," honest and respected... Our family has been in business in this commun- ity almost as long as the county has been here. And we all seem to put work above all else--as if it were our Lord and Master. We are hypercritical of everyone and everything; and terribly curt and cross with our family if they don't act to suit us. Please! I don't want to go on. I want to break loose from my mother and grandmother and live as I please--not their way, which I despise. Perhaps I should count my blessings though--an under- standing husband who never com- plains (he doesn't need to); I do enough for both; lovely children; a few close friends who ways be friends; and many ac- quaintances. Still I don't want to be what I am; even more I don't want to be like mother and grand- ma, Mother says the same many times; none the less she is her mother's mage, INNER GE FEASIBLE I want to enjoy life instead of hurrying to get chores done by midnight. I want to enjoy my chil- dren instead of pushing them aside so I can clean up something. I want to know my husband again and go places with him and not feel like .a criminal if I am out enjoying myself. I want to be kind to everyone, not thinking nasty thoughts of dissimilar persons. How can I become what I want to be, instead of what I am head- ed for? Whatever 1 do must be done In my mind as we are un- able to break away financially, We don't live together; we work to. gether, which means close contact eight hours daily. ¥.D SIRE LEADS T0 GOAL Dear E.D.: Desire is creative | Bence eonstructive or destructive | notes they have in common a firm | belief in and faithful practise of according to the subject matter and or Sin -whether good or bad us your longing to change your- self is a big step in a of change provided the aspiration is consistently held at "confident temperature shall we say. On the level of self-help endeavor the rules for changing oneself are these: 1. Be aware of oneself "as is" in the current mold; but take inventory objectively not brood- ingly or despisingly. Such de- tached, but honest incisive self- awareness is a helpful preliminary to directing one's energies to- wards new growth. 2. Clearly image the new self and circumstances--i.e. the full fruits of change--that one pur-! poses to attain. Don't stting at | this imagery. Just review the men- | tal picture meditatively with spon- | taneous interest time and again as he thought occurs. 3. Shepherd one's emotions one's feelings and reflections away from the unsatisfactory state (presently held) and focus them on the de- sirable state one is looking towards --thus bringing to birth. FOLLOW POSITIVE COVRSE As of now your habit is to kick around your "despised'" images of mother, grandmother et al when grappling with the wish for change. This is a self-defeating not a pos- itive liberating use of mind-power. It is the natural trend the course of least resistance for humans to be involuntarily influenced by sur- roundings and associates. And liv- ing as you do within arm's reach of potent influences you deplore you must be especially alert and flexible in the field of thought to protect your individuality. It isn't so important to project his indiv- idualy at others argumentatively as it isc vital to recognize your own "inner guidance." This is the es- sence of original character. Claude Bristol's book "The Magic of Believing" (Prentice- Hall) might be a source of hel to you. It is, a study of the ef- fective use of imagination in bring- ing about the 'the more abundant life." Drawing on the testimonies of many successful persons he Address, Election At Lenore Group The guest speaker at the Janu- ary meeting of the Lenore Group of Simcoe Street United: Church held in the church parlors on Tuesda etenitg was the Rever- end John K. Moffat who gave a travel talk illustrated with colored slides covering churches in North- ern Ontario and Quebec where the speaker began his ministry. Pictures of beautiful spots in Muskoka were shown. Of interest were the views of New York City, putticluarly the United Nations uilding, built of glass bricks, and in appearance not unlike the new Oshawa City . Pictures of points in Georgia, in the spring- time and the autumn, were of rare beauty. The speaker mentioned that it was in Savannah Georgia, that the late George Wesle: gan his ministry in America. Views of the Naval Academy at Annapolis were well received, as were also several local views. The thanks of the group to Mr. Mottat were voiced by Mrs. H. E. arr. Also contributing to the program was Miss Beth Travell who sang two solos, "Christopher Robin" and "My Hero" accompanied at the piano by Mrs. Howard Luke. Installation of the 1954 officers was conducted by Mr. Moffat as follows: Past president, Mrs. Frank Taylor; President, Mrs. Ru- rt Edwards; first vice-president, rs. H Parr; second vice- president, Mrs. Jack Carter; sec- retary, Miss Mary Glass; tressur- er, Mrs. Clifford Dempsey. Group leaders, Mrs. W. R. Gar- dner, Mrs. F. J. Peirce, Mrs. I. G. Travell, Mrs. Leon Rolson; pianist, Mrs, Howard Luke; flower conven- er, Mrs. H. Sliter; apron conven- ers, Mrs. R. Cox, Mrs. J. Thompson, Mrs. Ralph Jewell; card conveners, Mrs. C. E. Souch and Mrs. Jack McIntosh, The president, Mrs. Rupert Ed- wards, presided and conducted the business when reports were sub- mitted by the secretary and treas- urer. A special collection was also taken up for a Needy family. Mention was made at there would an executive meeting held on Tuesday evening, January 19, at the home of Mrs. Gardner. The devotional portion of the meeting was in charge of Mrs. S. J. Payne. Refreshments were serv- ed by the executive. Miss Barbara Luke Feted Bride-Elect Miss Barbara Ann Luke has been much entertained in honor of her approaching marriage to Mr. Ronald Grant mphrey. Mrs arranged . William J. Wel a kitchen shower at the home her mother, Mrs. H. A. Campbell, Janes Aveize and a great num- r of useful were presen to the bride-to-be. Miss Shirley McCol, Gibbons Street, was hostess at a miscellan- eous shower attended by Miss knitting club friends. A pink and white umbrella and, at refreshment time a bridal cake carried out the nuptial theme. An arch of pe roe with crystal balls and ornaments made a pretty setting for the guest or vanied Jones oneble Sho: er arrang 3 - liam Lovelock and Miss Joyce at the home of Mrs, C. of General Motors gave a dinner in the libr of Adelaide House and prese: bride-elect with a "stag-handle carver set Yesterday ates in the Parts Department pre- sented her with an electric toast- er, bathroom scales, a kitchen clock, a clothes hamper and a hammered aluminum casserole as Sombined wedding and farewell gifts. SOCIAL NOTICES Mr. and Mrs. George E. Hamil- ton- of Oshawa wish to announce the engagement of their daughter, Evel! Ann, to Douglas John Brock, son of Mrs. John Brock of Oshawa, and the late Mr. Brock. The marriage is to take place at Holy Trinity Anglican Church at : ? ug on Saturday, February 13, AT HOME Mr. and Mrs. A. F. Spencer, RR 3, Bowmanville, will be at home to their friends on Sunday, Janu- ary 24, from 2 to 5 and 7 to 9 p.m. on the occasion of their 30th wedding anniversary which they will be celebrating on Wednesday, January 27. NOTE_TO BRIDES The Times-Gazette wishes to have all wedding reports and pictures published in this news- paper as quickly as possible after the event takes place. It is requested that the forms which are sent out to all fu- ture brides be returned to the women's editor In advance of the date of the wedding. Pub- lication of wedding reports can- not be guaranteed unless they are in the hands of the wom- en's editor not more than three ding. In the case of wedding pictures these will not be pub- lished unless they are received by the women's editor within seven days of the date of the wedding. WIFE PRESERVER By adding one or two marbles to the bottom of your double boil- er you will be warned by their bouncing if the water has boiled away. Tallest spire if England is the spire rising from Salisbury Cathe- dre', reaching 404 feet from the deliberately controlled dynamic thinking. M.H. ground. ted when g=7 4 TWO YEARS This coy young miss is Patricia Mariza Brown, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Stanley Brown, RR 3, Oshawa. Patsy who is two years old today is the granddaughter :| of Sunderland celebrated PERSONALS Mr. and Mrs. William Bagshaw their - {| golden wedding anniversary re- '| mem; OLD TODAY of Mr. and Mrs. Lorne McGill of Oshawa and Mr. Milton Brown of North Oshawa. --Photo by Hornsby Studio. His Honesty, Love of Fellow Man - Keep Burns' Memory Ever Green "Strings that vibrate the heart are few and simple, and can only be touched by a master hand" was the tribute to Robert Burns aid by Dr. Robert Charles Wal- ace in s| of the Scottish poet to the University Women's Club at Adelaide House Wednes- day night. The distinguished speaker, a past principal and chancellor of Queen's University, Kingston, explored the reasons why Burns was the only poet honored ahnually on his birth- day, January 25, and quoted stan- zas from his poems illustrating his love of humanity that had ens! - ed his memory in the hearts of people the world over. In the first place, Dr. Wallace said, Burns was the en of Living in difficult times were widening in the Calvinist church, Burns who was frequently under the fire of the Calvin elders flaws in thelr righteousness and "three mile prayers and half-mile graces." Son of a cotter, his lot was cast with the common man wrote encomiums of the simple, family life, which he placed above courts and princely palaces. He was an exponent of liberty every- was quick to reveal | Mrs he | some Scottish stories. Mrs. where and with music in his heart he poured out songs and lyrics that sang as they flowed, the speaker said. "Burns was a convivial spirit, but he was not a drunkard," Dr. Wallace declared, "and after his lust for life had abated he became a good husband and a fond father. At only 38 he died, more or less broken. The farms he had worked had failed and latterly he took a job as an exciseman in whch he was not happy, and his own epitaph reveals that he felt that he had missed his mark." Dr. Wallace closed his address by reading the last paragraph of Carlisle's Essay on Burns, a trib- ute from a great writer to a simple man with a great talent. Mrs. Thomas Grossart ably in- troduced the speaker who has been honored by many universities for his academic achievements, and Richards expressed thanks. An informal question per- iod followed in which Dr. Wallace delighted the audience Yelating further anecdotes about Burns . K. H. Braithwaite ded for a brief business meeting and refreshments were served following adjournment. Choose a Wardrobe that Suds with Ease And be Ready for the By ELEANOR ROSS Any time at all, it's a boon to have a wardrobe of clothes and accessories that suds with ease. But at this time of year, when there is so much to do, plus so many last minute invitations and impromptu parties, it's especially fine to own clothes made of fab- rics that are not only beautiful, but that wash and p dry in nothing flat, or that look beauti- ful again with the aid of an iron. There are dresses and blouses of rayon flannels and gabardines, unconditionally guaranteed wash- able, There are blends of wools and synthetics that drip dry, and something new and delightful, a nylon-cotton fabric designed for washtub as well as for cosy wear in winter. SNAPPY SURFACES News in winter cottons is a lusher look, with happy surfaces. eep, clear colors take the lead, and there's much interest in tex- tured weaves with a "carved" ef- fect. Prints are popular in combina- tion with corduroy. Tweedy cottons have proven fashionable and prac- tical for any age, as have checked twills for casfal wear. There are conveniently few rules for washing today's cottons. Just be sure that colors are fast and soapsuds warm, not hot. Dry col- ors out of direct sunshine to keep their deep, rich hue. Corduroy is best unironed, and looks better for a gentle brushing with a soft brush after it is dry. Many of the new nylon-cotton blends carry instruc- tion tags. If they don't, consult salespeople, for often there's a uestion of whether or not to iron. ASHABLE TRIMS As for the wrinkle - resistant finishes, these usually come through a machine washing as Last Minute Rush med with velvet or satin, be sure these pretty touches are washable. Chances are they will be, since solorgast velvet and satin are avail- able. It's good to know that washable wools are on the increase--worsted jersey, wool and nylon blends--at more moderate prices than ever. There are washable flannels, tweeds and wool blended with syn- thetic fibres that can drip dry with- out even the trouble of blotting with a towel. Wool experts suggest, though, that you use two or times the usual amount of soap in wash- ing woolens (because wool fibres soak up so much suds), and at least three rinsings in lukewarm water. Many of the new woolens have been treated against shrink- age and against wrinkling, which makes these fabrics even more at- tractive, either already made up or in yardage. HOUSEHOLD HINT Todine stains, if set, may be res moved by applying a paste of starch and ammonia. Allow this to dry, then brush off and launder. Dry Cleaning News! Sudden soils. Have soiled garments cleaned as soon as possible before the soil developes into stains ond becomes permanently set. Help your Cleaner to serve you better. LAKESHORE DIVISION DRY CLEANING (Ont) LTD. good as new. If cottons are trim- FOR FRIEN We put a lot how, based on perience, into scriptions. portant, we've people with problems. we know the proach in our ly rely on us. JURY swe 8 KING ST. E PHONE 3-2245 Prescription Chemists Just as im- practice in serving That's value of the human ap- with you, You can safe- COMPOUNDING YOUR DOCTORS PRESCRIPTION 15 OUR SPECALTY DLY SERVICE of know- long ex- our pre- had long special why positive dealings LOVELL SIC{ONR | V/ [elo] SET) FY PHONE 5 - 3546 { cently when they received over | 200 telegrams and floral tributes. At a dinner held in their honor they were presented with a purse of money from their immediate family. Among the guests were 57 rs of the family and includ- ed were eight who had been in at- tendance at the ceremony 50 years ago. : The Reverend A. F. Cowan will speak on parent education and Miss Beth Travell will sing at the Monday evening meeting of Centre Street Home and School Associa- tion which will be marking its 33rd birthday. Dr. Thelma Blair is eonvening the theatre party of the Business and _ Professional Women's Club which is being held on Monday when the Club is atten the opening night of the New Play So- ciety's presentation of the drama, "The Play's the Thing", at the Museum Theatre, Toronto. Cedar Dale Home and School As- sociation held Radio and Visual Aids meeting on Monday, Jan. 11. Mr. Burt McCollum of CKLB gave an interesting and informative talk on the operating room of a radio station and drew diagrams to il- lustrate same. Afterwards ques- tions were asked by the audience and were clearly answered. A film with sound,was shown which de- pited the normal growth of a child both physically and men from infancy to his teens. Refreshments were served by the mothers of Grade VI pupils. The mixed card party being held by the 8th Scout Mothers' Auxil- iary this grenins, will be held in the Scout Hall, Hillcroft Street, and not Athol Street, was was stated in the auxiliary's announcement in Wednesday's paper. GROUPS, CLUBS AUXILIARIES Downey. Sixteen members a» swered the roll and twe new mem- on the New Year. A poem en- titled, 'Resolution', was read by Mrs. D. Duchman. The 1 lesson was read by Mrs. Ham- | ilton. ! A duet Mrs, Clarence Har- rison and Mrs. A. Paynter was en {otea. An election of officers was eld and all officers were return- ed for the c year. Letters and c: of thanks were read from the shut-ins and the be- reaved. Refreshments were served assisted by Mrs. Down Hamilton and Mrs. Hudgin. MARY STREET H AND S ASSN. A film strip on child guidance was shown by Mr. Edward Alker at M Street Home and School Association meeting on Mon- day evening followed by a discus- sion. Mrs. Walter Johnson, president, reminded the members that the next meeting would be the Associa- tion's birthday. Stephen Zubkavitch played two selections on the piano accordion.. Refreshments were served by the mothers of the pupils in Grade 4. RITSON H AND 8 ASSN. It was Film Night at Albert Street Home and School Associa- tion meeting held on Monday even- ing. The principal Mr. Arthur K ry showed three films on Child Development. A short discussion followed. The Misses Gloria Glide and Marian Ritzie played dion duets "Andantino"' pering Hope." Mrs. W. A. Dixon presided for a short business session and expre- ed sympathy to the Phair family in their recent sad bereavement. Mrs. Dixon also thanked Mr. Ko! um, two accor- and "Whis- butions to the program. Miss Margaret Hoy's room won the parent attendance prize. Re- freshments were served. and the musicians for their contri-. Pd | 3-TRANSISTOR ; . 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Surprise Party Honors Couple Wed 25 Years The guests had assembled and everything was in readiness to surprise the couple who were cele- brating their silver wedding an- niversary, Little Patsy held a cor sage of pink and white carnations for the bride and a white carna- tion boutionniere for the bride- groom, and listened to what she had to say when her great-aunt and uncle arrived. The big moment of surprise came, and forgetting everything else, Patsy proffered the flowers wit a "Here you is," and ducked. ust an amusi Littl that will NE oigem silver wedding anniver- Mr. and Mrs. Gordon Stick- Alexander Blvd., in whose e McC ond, er The couple, residents of Oshawa for 20 years, received gifts, cards and flowers, and px & nu dinner a toast was proposed by , Frank McCammond, and on behalf of the family a chest of sil- ver was presented by their eldest son, George. during which the guests enjoyed listening to the Irish records in Mr. George McCammond's collection, the host- ess served refreshments assisted by her daughter - in « law, Mrs. ank McCammond of Port Perry, mother of the shy little Patsy. Mr. and Mrs. Stockwood, the for- mer Miss Ida Peterson, daughter of the late Mr. and Mrs. Edward Peterson of Mount Albert, were married at the residence of the Reverend D. Prosser of the Chris- tian Church at Newmarket, On- tario. 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