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98 TEE DAILY TIMBS-GAZETTE, Friday, May 9, 1054 WOMEN JO ALDWINCKLE WOMEN'S EDITOR DIAL 3-3474 FUR FASHION FOR SPORTSWEAR ' Among sports fashions at a recent fur show in London was this wind-cheater jacket in black moleskin with ribbed wool neck- line: cuffs and waistband. It was designed in short - haired skin by a London fur merchant. Oth- er fashions at the show by Lon- don's big fur traders indicated | a gradual swing to long-haired | skins. Canadian fur breeders' ori- ginated the longer - haired pelts | and supplied free furs to some of | Britain's "Top 12" designers. Ac- | cordingly they featured their | own designs in Canadian furs. (CP Photo) MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL Man's Involvement with Widow Threatens Undermine Marriage Dear Mary Haworth: I have been | ing married 18 years and have two children--a boy 13, and a girl 9. Until years ago I wasn't for Joing out ts--maybe three nights a year. wife handled the money and took care of expen- ses. She was of a cold nature, never affectionate in those years. The 1 met Mary, a young widow with three children, 2 was very good to me; not intimately, but in ways that Ellen (my wife ha times Mh had Bhi , B mo driving--all sorts oF things I hadn't done ore, as Ellen was never enthusiastic. After five months my wife met widow and there was a scene. d | which fuel mutual ugliness, your social companion. Evi- dently she has a problem of man- hunger, that she you, . make-do. As for your wife Ellen's con- tribution to the problem--I suppose she (and her friends) would in- dignantly spurn the idea that she is at all responsible for the wors- ening family situation. But, as I see the picture, her Shortcomings, consist of ignorance and emotional frigid- ity--which are her misfortune, as well as yours. However, Ellen's defects, such as they are, didn't drive you into ary's camp. You were susc tible to the widow's address due dissatisfaction with your sho in life, your sense of missing ou dreams you had hoped might come true. It was a case as a tempor: interest and admiration made you feel yo again--as if a pew start ight be Jossible, PRIDE BOTHE BOTH Once embarked on the filing, ou probably got a bitterewort of ick out of worrying Ellen, who a|had treated you negligently for years, This was the real beginning of bad will between you, as she vise [struck back by: advertising your that I always foved my e and would do for her. Yet when I am home she goes out with the children, or sits in an- other room. Consequently I go out drinking and return when I know she is in bed, There is always hate in her eyes, never love, when I Hy to square myself. I have admitted time and again that I am wrong. All things considered, do you advise? * G.B. IGNORANCE SHOWN Dear G.B.: This is quite a problem, in which you are as much sinned against as sinning, it seems. It was of you to get in- volved with the widow; but it was wrong of her to tempt you, as she did deliberately. This I infer misconduct. The hate in her eyes camouflages fear and hurt pride. Her basic desire is to heal the rift, if possible. This is the meaning of her carlien, intermittent strug- gles to be "different"--that is, closer, more receptive to you. Ignorance is the real enemy of your happiness--yours and Ellen's. To help yourselves, I suggest you read two books by Dr. Edmund Bergler--'"Divorce Won't Help" (Harper and Brothers), and 'The Revolt of the Middle-Aged Man" (A.A. Wyn). These will give you insight into the pattern of your mistakes and shortcomings. Then, to find the pitch of love, read "God's Reach" by Glenn clark (Macalister Park). Stay with the marriage until you've learned these lessons. .H. Mary Haworth counsels through her column, not by mail or per- sonal interview. Write her in care from her great alacrity in b of this newspap DOGS SUFFER REMORSE WIESBADEN, Germany (CP)-- Grouchy dogs often crack up and become neurotic under the strain of biting human beings, an animal Jsyeholo ist has reported. Prof. onrad renz says pangs of re- , morse frequently cause nervous | breakdowns and psychological dis- turbances in dogs who have bitten humans they generally consider as friends. INDIANS TAKE COURSES QUEBEC (CP)--For the first time in their history, French- speaking Indians are meeting here to follow courses im social work under the Indian affairs branch of the federal immigration depart- ment. Aim of the courses is to teach the Indians to become their own masters. 4 ANNUAL OF CHILDREN'S OF St. Andrew's Institute of Everybody Welcome You and your_ friends are invited to attend the County of Ontario and the city of Oshawa Thursday, the Twentieth day of May, 1954 at eight p.m. 71 SIMCOE ST. SOUTH, OSHAWA Speaker DR. W. E. BRATZ Toronto 'MEETING THE AID SOCIETY THE Child Study Refreshments oesn't know how to manage--therefore grabbed at | KEEP IN TRIM By IDA JEAN KAIN Designers snatch away the sleeves in the summer to give a cool effect and a slimmer silhou- ette. Fine and airy, but this young- looking fasion makes a cymosure of the upper arms, and now is none too soon to tone up slack muscles. "Why is it," many of- you in- quire, "that even though arms are used routinely, the under part of the upper arm tends to accumulate unflattering fat as time goes by? "What is the right size for upper arms, and is Soverned by dress size?"' is another frequent question. Thin' women, too, com- plain of sagging shapeless upper arms. EXERCISE IS UNEVEN True, the arms are generally in constant use during the day. But let's investigate further. The tri- cepts (that's the name of the musc- les flanking the underside of the upper arms) are brought into ac- tion only when the arms are used Before Wearing Sleeveless Dresses Tone Up Flabby Arm Muscles front part of the upper arm that take the action. The triceps muc- les loaf on most jobs. Arm measurements do vary ac- cording to body structure and dress size, With a large frame, the arms are relatively heavier. By actual measurement, for dress size 12, the upper arm is 10-% inches; size 14, 10-%; size 16, 11-%; size 18, 12% for size 20, the upper arm mea- surement is 13 inches. TWIST THE WRIST , But Jost a twist of the wrist will tone those upper arm muscles. Stretch right arm out, shoulder level, palm down. Now, tensin hard with the arm muscl an THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA FoR TOMORROW slowly @ 'hings may move slow] urs ing the morning hours and you may have to adhere to a id Sehadule in order to. make satis- 'actory progress, No matter what issue arises, however, do not allow yourself to be forced into hurried action. Em- phasize accuracy and base your decisions on facts, not guesses. During the evening, share lei- sure hours with those whose in- terests and tastes are similar to your own. Hospitality extended toward either personal or busi- ness associates will be warmly appreciated. FOR THE BIRTHDAY If tomorrow is your birthday, the improved business and finan- cial conditions indicated in your feeling the pull clear to the finger- tips, slowly turn the palm of the hand upward. Then do a full twist in reverse. With your free arm, feel what is happening to those slack muscles. Holding both arms out at shoulder level continue this twisting exercise a dozen counts, twice daily. By the way, this slight twist can be maintained when the arms are from a position of shoulder level, or when the elbow is extended forcibly, as in a punching move- ment. Right there is the reason these arm muscles tend to droop . . . we do little exercise from those positions. ¥ : In case you doubt this, pick up a heavy book with the right hand. With the left hand, feel the back of the right arm. You'll see that the triceps muscles are not doing the work. Even when carrying a heavy pail of water, it's the muscle of the forearm and those on the I ing by your sides if the backs of the hands are forward. i It doesn't take much exercise to keep upper arms shapely if you'll get into the habit of doing it reugl- arly--for example, when brushing your hair at night. Do this in up- ward strokes, with the arms from a shoulder level position. Use a couple of hair brushes, one in each hand. That exercise is doubly re- warding. . Tone the upper arms and you'll find you summer sleeveless dresses really flattering. Matronly Styles No Longer Exist By DOROTHY ROE By THE ASSOCIATED PRESS "There are no old ladies any more," says Howard Bloomfield of Cleveland. This lanky midwesterner heads a firm which has been turning out ladies' ready-to-wear for the last 50 years--longer, he claims, than any other dress firm continuously in business. 1940 the Back in ideal of »y ALICE BROOKS IRON ON Spring's » loveliest ossoms in a combination of sun- Plo yellow, soft pink and deli cate n. Make new linens love- lier, old linens like new. Simply iron motifs on curtains, tea towels, aprons. No- embroidery! Washable. Pat- tern 7381 has 8 iron-on color mo- tifs: .two baskets 3x4; two 3%x 5%; two 4%x13 and two sprays 1%x2% inches. Send TWENTY-FIVE CENTS in coins for this pattern (stamps can- not be accepted) to Daily Times- Gazette, Household Arts Dept., Osh- awa, Ontario. Print plainly NAME, ADDRESS, PATTE! ER. BRAND - NEW, beautiful -- the 1954 Alice Brooks Needlecraft Catalog. It has the most popular embroidery, crochet, sewing, color- transfer designs to send for. Plus 4 patterns printed in book. Send 25 cents for your copy. Ideas for gifts, bazaars, fashions. womanly beauty was the '"'perfect 36," and women were not ashamed to_be queen-size, says Bloomfield, but nowadays average American women wear size 14 to 16 dresses, and are rapidly reducing to junior sizes 11 or 13 "I don't know just' what has caused all this chingens remarks hor pe for the next two months should do much to ease the ten- sions of the past. Social interests should prove most stimulating during June, July and August, but don't over- tax eel at the expense of health and energy. Domestic and romantic affairs should be most harmonious dur- ing the summer months* and, if you've been dreaming of travel, there is a strong likelihood that our dream will be realized dur- g the fall. Throughout the winter months, CHILD GUIDANCE Delinquency is By G. CLEVELAND MYERS In almost any newspaper or magazine you can read, even on the editorial page, that juvenile delinquency is not a respecter of social or economic levels. "Slum clearance used to be the magic solution; but authorities no longer put all their faith in that, for more and more of the worst cases come from comfort- able or wealthy homes." So wrote the editor of Life Magazine for March 15, for expample. RESTRAINTS LOST You didn't read anything like that in the late twenties and the thirties. Some of us saw this com- ing then, and I was criticized for saying so in my column. I said then, and have n s g since in this column, that the intelli- gentsia (more often than not economic levels), were the first to accept the philosophy of exces- sive sel-expression, restraints the winds. It was in the early thirties when extreme progressive educa- tion was the rage, often express. ing itself -in certain country da: consider future exp in the light of earnings, and check your budget against any large outlay of cash. : A child born on this day will be courageous, enterprising and en- dowed with a tremendous sense of responsibility. FIRE SWEEPS CONVENT BRUXELLES, Man. (CP)--One hundred and forty pupils were led to safety Tuesday when fire swept ithe two main buildings of the ursu- line convent in this hamlet, 60 miles southwest of Winnipeg. Dam- age was estimated at $75,000. FORMER EDITOR DIES PITTSBURGH (AP)--Dr. Alfred R. Cratty, who quit the newspaper 1 business at the age of 43 to study the phi Pp guess there are a number of causes, from the changing charac- ter of immigration to the influ- ence of movies and television. NEW FEATURES ADDED "Back in the '90s our population was mostly nordic, and the women were big-boned, tall and well-pad- ed in the Gibson girl tradition. , died Friday at the age of 90. Dr. Cratty was former sports editor of the Pittsburgh Chronicle Telegraph. y , and in the public schools of many wealthy towns and suburbs, Poverty was considered, gen- erally, as the chief cause of de- linquency and crime. But in the years since, these have subsided during periods of depression and risen during good times, reaching their appalling height during our recent ; unprecedented prosperity. 'So we have grown disillusioned. But when, in the thirties, some- one ventured to question the philosophy of no-restraints, its proponents and parent-disciples replied: 'Parents "who are igno- rant and poor may feel the need of some home and school disci pline, but we parents with com- fortable communities and homes and family background and so- cial prestige can relax and give more freedom to our children." |ONE EXPLANATION Of Social or Economic Levels found among the above-average |! tojand P.T.A's were to set out to No Respector cation in terms of school educa- ition gradually waned, its phi- losophy regarding the home rear- ing of children has gone on, and the parents of the intelligentsia have continued to the fore- most foll s of this philosophy. This, therefore, appears to be one explanation of why so many juvenile delinquents come from "comfortable or wealthy homes." If those parents most often looked up to in their respective communities were to discipline their own children better, espe- cially in the early years, the less influential parents would tend to emulate them. DESIRABLE INHIBITIONS Just imagine what might hap- pen after a decade or so, if most parents whose names appear in he social register and the society column of the newspaper; most members of churches, civic clubs, bring up their babies and young | children with more desirable in-| hibitions and respect for the | rights of others, Then these par. ents. and their imitators might provide their children with more TO SPONSOR PROGRAM TAVISTOCK (CP)--The Evan gelical United Brethren Church of Canada will sponsor an $80.000 missionary advance program stretching over four years for new mission work in Hamilton, Kitch ener and possibly London. Ont., it was announ Wednesday by the board. of missions at the an- nual conference. abundant love. How can there be sufficient love without adequate restraints? While restraint with. out love is barbarity, love without restraint commits suicide, My bulletins "Love And re- straint" and "How To Teach Tot the Meaning of No" may be had by sendi a self-addressed, stamped envelope to me in care of this newspaper.) and best OPEN FRIDAY CONGRATULATIONS Kirby Television & Appliances ON THE OPENING OF YOUR NEW STORE EASTVIEW LG.A. "THE LOWEST PRICES EVERY DAY" wishes to 'TIL 9:00 P.M. While extreme progressive edu- di Later the tide of immigration came from central and southern | Europe, where the women are smaller, though stocky. A 'second | geueration has developed with the est features of their mothers and | some new ones of their own. | "Today there are more perfect | figures aoe American women than ever fore in history. | Women are getting smarter, too. Instead of buying a size 40 dress, | big women trim down until they can wear an 18. 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