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* WHAT IS HE THINKING ABOUT? This thoughful young man is Shawn Perry, two-year-old son of Mr, and Mrs. Lloyd Perry, Vet. erans Road. Shawn's grandpar- ents are Mr. and Mrs. Albert iA Bennett and Mr, and Mrs. R, J, Perry of Oshawa and his great- grandfather is Mr. T. H. Ben- nett, Belfast, Northern Ireland. ~Photo by Hornsby tudio GROUPS, CLUBS, AUXILIARIES | WoMEN JO ALDWINCKLE WOMEN'S EDITOR DIAL 3-3474 'MARY HAWORTH MAIL Dear Mary Haworth: My hus- band is considerate and good-na- tured; the trouble is with me. When we are together usually I am cold and unresponsive; then | when John is at work or elsewhere | away from me, I regret my un-| justified behaviour and can feel | {love for him, | | He says he's not certain I love | | him, although I do, very much, but | | it seems 1 just can't express if | directly to him, I try hard, it seems | |to me; and I vow to myself that | | I will be sincerely demonstrative | when he gets home, as a loving wife should be. But always the same situation recurs; I scorn his advances all the time not knowing why, ap- parently unable to act otherwise Perhaps you can help me to under stand myself, and make my hus- band's life more meaningful, POOR BACKGROUND I have wondered if my attitude is due to family background---to a broken home and no parental love or guidance, My father wanted to put us children in an orphanag~, and our mother, in whose custody we were placed (she did this to spite my father) only thought of us as a block of her search for happiness, though she never re- married, Now that we are all going sep. arate ways, two of us married, she wants us all back under her wing; and has tried to break up our | marriages, and to prevent the un-| SIMCOE WA GROUP 3 Group 3 of the Woman's Associ- mtion of Simcoe Street United Church met at the home ~f Mrs, A. A. Crowle, Divisic et, on | Friday afternoon. The meeting | was well attended. Mrs. Edgar Bradley, group lead- er, conducted the routine business. Apnual reports were read and] Jaze were made for activities in| At the close of the meeting re- Jreshinents were served, Mrs, El- ured tea and Mrs. Leopard Richer and Mrs, Norman Thick- son assisted the hostess in serv- ing. The next meeting will be held on the afternoon of Friday, Febru- ary 4 at the home of Mrs. W. A, Dewland, Simcoe Street North, CHALLENGER GROUP The regular meeting of the Chal- roup was held on Thurs- Mrs. Clayton Lee pres Lee opened the wors m, 'Abide Wi Mrs. day wit ing. Mrs, service with a Me;"" followed by a hymn, Hogarth lead in prayer. oughts for the day were read by Mrs. Fred Coleman, Mrs, Ern- est Graham, Mrs. Arthur Walk. er, Mrs. Joseph Wiltshire gave the financial report for the year which was very gratifying. The Group is Sponsoring a play "Don't Darken My Door," Janu. ary 28, put on by the Goodwood Young People, On February 8 a pancake sup- per is to be held from 5 o'clock on. Tickets are being sold by the members, Mrs, Peters and Mrs. Coleman were chosen to visit the sick and shut-ins during January. A rummage sale is to be held. The date for spring bazaar was set for March 23. 2ZND GROUP COMMITTEE The monthly meeting of the 2nd Group Committee of the Brownies and Guides was held on Wednes- day, at 8 p.m,, at the Guide House, Mrs, C. A, Parkin presided. The treasurer's report was given by Mrs. Roland Crawford and Mrs, Bert Montgomery read the min- utes of the last meeting, EASY TO KNIT id- Guides and enjoy the social activi- Mrs. George MacGregor was | welcomed by Mrs, C. A, Parkin, | Before installing the 1055 officers | Mrs. MreGregor expressed her le or the support given the rownies and Guides by the Group Committee, | The 1985 officers are: President, | Mrs. Henry Thompson; secretary, | Mrs. Frank Ball; treasurer, Mrs, | Roland Crawford; press reporter, | Mrs. Gordon Barker, Plans were made to have a| rummage sale at the Scout Hall | on February 21. The Brownies and Guides sent in their thanks for the Christmas party provided by the committee. Such appreciation makes a little more effort on the part of the mothers well worth while, The officers hope that more mothers will try to come out and support - their Brownies and The next meeting will be held February 2 at 8 pm. at the Guide House. Refreshments were served by | Mrs. C, A. Parkin, Mrs. Bert Mont, omery and Mrs. Roland ord, ST. GEORGE'S WA (Afternoon Branch) The regular meeting of St. | George's Afternoon Branch of the WA was held in the parish hall with the president, Mrs. Thomas Keast, presiding. Mrs. William Collins read the scripture. Mrs, John Sawyer read the minutes of the last meeting, Mrs. John Chap- in read the annual report. Miss Ethel Wesson read the correspon- dence, Mrs. Fred Smith gave the sick report, Mrs. Avery Wiskin gave the Junior Girls' Auxiliary | report, The girls had one meeting | in December and were entertain: ed by the evening branch to a Christmas party. Mrs, James Brooks annual Dorcas report an members that sewing on the bale | would start on Thursday at 1 o'clock. ' Canon D, M. Rose gave an inter- esting talk on Missionaries and the work they were doing, and how much our prayers and gifts meant to them. Mrs. Keast thanked Canon Rose also telling him how pleased all the members were to see him pro- gressing so well after his long ill- ness, rs. Frances Humphries read the prayer for our prayer partner and the meeting closed with a hymn and prayer by Canon Rose. Mrs. S. W. Wotton and her com- mittee served supper, to which the Junior girls were invited. After supper the girls put on a short program, ave the | told the | Elects 1955 Officers married children from finding hap piness with a helpmate, This is all | past history to me, however; I want to do something about the present and the future; and I've | been thinking of fetting psychiatric | help, except 1 haven't that kind of money. Please advise me. F.5.| NO MYSTERY Dear F. 8.: From what you say, | there is no great mystery about | the primary source of your deny-| ing attitude towards your hus- band's love-hunger. Your parents' | feuding relationship has trans-| mitted to you an involuntary re-| flex of hostility to the opposite | sex, And your sharp though un- conscious quarrel with your moth- er's faulty temperament may lead you to distrust your own attrac- tiveness to anyone, Thus perhaps you are unconsiously afraid to try yourelf go and love John freely -- supposing you could--lest he lose on in MRS. SANDFORD PERRY Northminster W.A. Mrs. Sandford Perry was re- elected president of the WA of Northminster United Church at its January meeting held recently, The other officers are as follows: second vice-president, Mrs. R, W. Yeo; treasurer, Mrs. R, J. Kim- merly; secretary, Mrs. Wilbert Jeffs; pianist, Mrs, H. A. Mellow; communion, Mrs, Wilber Perkin; catering committee, Mrs. H. A. Lemon, Mrs, Victor Cubitt; manse committee, Mrs. R. J. Cor- dick; kitchen committee, Mrs. Ed- win King; Mrs. J. Humphries; card convener, Mrs. Philip Brown- son; flower convener, Mrs, F. F Hansel; corresponding secretary, Mrs. E. G, Perkin; press, Mrs. R. Latham, EVELYN GOODWIN The regular meeting of the Eve- | lyn win Group was held in| the chapel of Centre Street Unit | ed Church on Thursday evening. | A short business meeting was | held with the president, Mrs. How- ard Canning, presiding. The secre- | tary's and treasurer's reports were read. The meeting adjourned and the members went in a group to Sim- coe Street United Church to at. tend the meeting being held for the week of prayer, | LODGES AND | SOCIETIES ALICE BROOKS Knitting Pateern 7099; Easy shrug! Misses' Sizes 32-34; 36.38 dll included in pattern, Send TWENTY-FIVE CENTS mn coins for this pattery (stamps can | not be accepted) to Daily Times | i Household Arts Dept ,| Ontario. Print plainly | ADDRESS, PATTERN] By NUMBER y WONDERFUL is the word our NEW Alice Brooks Needle - craft Catalog for 1955. Exciting, enchanting, irresistible our new designs are all that and even more! Send 25 cents for your cops of this tern right NOW! You'll want to order every wonderful design in itl ! for | catalog SUNBEAM CHAPTER The regular meeting of Sunbeam Chapter No. 73 O.E.S. was held in the Masonic Temple with Mrs Nance McLeese, W.M. presiding Introduced and welcomed in the | East was Mrs. Jessie Espie, WM of Blue Ray Chapter, Port Perry; also seven past matrons and two ast patrons of Sunbeam Chapter, rs. Meta Moore, past D.D.G.M,, was welcomed in her office, An invitation to Beeches Chapter on January 27, was accepted. On January 26 a bus will leave the de- t at 6.00 p.m. for members wish- ug te attend the reception for the | | W.G.P,, Mr. Edward Mackereth Mrs. Ruth Bestwick, P.M., spoke in the interests of the T.B.: Clinic which is to be held later in Jan- uary and secured many volun teers to assist when needed The meeting closed with Mi; Isabel MacDonald giving the fare well. Tea was served during the social balf hour which followed. | The meeting took the form of a pot luck supper, Mrs. Sanford | Perry, president, presided The devotional part of the pro- | gram was in charge of Group 3, | Mrs. W. F. Wendt read the scrip- ture and prayer, Mrs. H. M, Smith gave several readings. | The Rev, H. A, Mellow address- ed the meeting briefly. before in. stalling the officers. Mrs. Perry thanked the retiring officers for their faithful work during their term of office. Group reports were given showing a successful year, ' | sion % yard 54-inch; | yards 39-inch faric. | ple to sew, is tested for fit, Suffering From Emotional Upset Faces Problem Of Readjustment interest once your guard is down and he feels he knows and pos sesses you fully, However, there may be more to the story than your inhibitions, ac- quired trom uneasy observation of | ° / parental discord. There may b2|/ a secondary factor blocking intelligent wifely wish to be dem- |' onstrative with John. By which I mean, maybe John is an awkward or unprepossessing lover, despile his kindness and good nature, In general, a devoted wife's res- ponsiveness to her spouse is pro- portionate to his skill or compe tence in establishing a climate of reciprocal approval of self-forget fulness in lovemaking. And pos- sibly your chilly air, carried over from the past, has completely shaken John's confidence in his ability to please you, A husband needs sure conviction and much affirmation on this score, if he is to become a magnetic sweetheart Lidia ibook Wi i 1 IT'S FUN TO Twin sons of Mr, George F. Corby, Nonquon Rosd, Oshawa, ere Leonard Henry and Larry George who were three vears old on No- vmber 26 last. Lennie and Lar- ry are the grandsons of Mr. and and Mrs. | Mrs. George | King SteRe-Elects 'Mrs. Wm. Medland As WMS President Mrs, William Medland was re- elected president of the WMS of | King Street United Church at its regular meeting held recently. The other icers are as | follows: First president, Mrs, |L. J. Brooks: second vice-presi- | dent, Mrs, Harold Tiers; recording | secretary, Mrs. Harry Skinner; | corresponding secretary, Mrs. A. |w. Brown; treasurer, Miss Effa Wright; community friendship sec- Mrs. Lorne Muldrew; mis- glonary wi ; Mrs. Jabez associate helpers, Mrs. Wilfred Pogson; supply secretary, ! Mrs. Wilmer Fitze, citizenship and | Cie ance, Mrs, E. Brown; | | Christian stewardship, Mrs, T. F, | Lean; press, Mrs. Duncan Mac- Millan; flowers and cards, Mrs, | C., E.. Young; pianist, Mrs, Jabez, WASHER SERVICE If you are havin WASHER TROUBLE CALL US ® We repair oll makes ® Prices reasonable. H. Corby and Mr. | | and Mrs, Bartels and great. | randsons of Mrs. Katherine orby and Mr, and'Mrs. H. Bar- tels and great - grandsons of Mrs. Katherine Corby and Mrs, | Edith Newman, all of Oshawa, ~Photo by Ireland | act, whether you feel in the mood | or not, meanwhile cultivating men- tal cl (see - above)--and in marriage, Moreover, wifely reassurance is the finest reface to tactful teaching, when ndicated. TALK IT OVER . Now, about your stymied atti tude, Perhaps you keep your feel ings too much to yourself, ment- ally as well as physically, Have you tried talking things out with John, telling him about your am- bivalent emotions--about your iove for him when he is out of sight, and your 'freezing-up" when he gets home, despite your desire and intent to be demonstrative? Trust- ful sharing of innermost thoughts is the deepest kind of intimacy-- a contact of souls--and one of the most precious potentials of mar- ried teamwork. Thus such a ven- ture on your part might break the fice of your past conditioning and s you free to really love John, In any case, mere intellectual understanding of your difficulty won't automatically dissolve the obstacle, In addition, you will have to re-educate your emotional re- flexes; and according to psycholog- ists, "Emotion follows action." 89, act towards John as you plan fo ~ SEW-THRIFTY IW 4529 12.90 By ANNE ADAMS It's so thrifty, sew-easy to make this new, side-button, wrap wes- kit Just look at the DIAGRAM Weskits are so smart this year-- you'll want several of the classic, button-front type, too! Choose wool tweeds, corduroy, cotton Pattern 4529: Misses' Sizes 12, 14, 16, 18, 20, "Size 16 upper ver- lower, 1% - This pattern easy to use, sim- V Has complete illustrated instructions. Send THIRTY - FIVE CENTS (35¢) in coins (stamps cannot be accepted) for this pattern. 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Move blotters. as they take | Wright; assistant planist, Miss Effa Wright, Mrs. William Medland, i dent, opened the meeting and wel- comed all The minutes were read by Mrs, Harvey Skin- nd the devotional was led by Tiers. group reported the lights of the year and Miss Effa | Mrs. W, ; right gave the treasurer's re-| A New Year story was port. Secretaries. of all branches|Mrs. L. J. Brooks, gave gratiiving reports of the year's activities. rs, Harvey Skinner read the minutes of the Executive Meeting. February 16 was date set for "Guest Tea," The world dy of wi prayer, February 25, aster ' necesary for eff Choose fast colors, Non-fast uire cooler water, milder shorter Fas ENROLL TODAY! + St. John Ambulance HOME NURSING CLASSES beginning Wednesday, January 12th 7:30 to 9:30 P.M. 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