PAR DAILY TIMES.GAZETTE, Thursday, February 1, 19% MARY HAWORTH MAIL Married Against Family's Will Feels Depressed Dear Mary Haworth: John and 1 sre married seven years and have five lovely children, the fifth | horn last July, We married against | my family's wishes, shortly after he got out of the Army, Mother had wanted me to wait until John could offer financial security, but I was too much in love. to wait In the next three years we pro duced three children, and John got through a fouryears' college de gree. Te graduated with honors, meanwhile working like a fool to meet our expenses My family has money, Mother inherited a goodly amount and when dad died (in the second year | of my mariage!, he left her con siderable insurance and real es ate. She asked me to sign over! my share of the cash, indicating it 'wasn't much. and she would use it towards the education of the younger children, Later 1 learned my share was about $1,500 and #4 would have been a godsend to us p Since the fifth child's birth 1 ~ SEW.THRIFTY | By ANNE ADAMS Pattern 4708: Misses' Sizes 12, 14, 16, 18, 20, Size 16 dress takes #% yards 39-inch fabrie, This pattern easy to use, simple to sew, is tested for fit. Has com plete illustrated instructions Send THIRTY FIVE CENTS (385¢) In coins (stamps cannot be accepted) for this pattern, Print lainly SIZE, NAME, ADDRESS, TYLE, NUMBER Send order to ANNE ADAMS, eare of Daily Times-Gazette, Pat tern Dept., Oshawa, Ontario (ue fou the youngest feeling In the world! Give her YARDLEY English Lavender and Soap The perfect gift for a special day And Rejected can't seem to get on my feet, I've been sick a good deal and irritable with the children, who are gettin iritable, too. John is wonderful | with the housework, the children, the shopping, and he has a very good job and still goes to night school, 1 love him very, very much. I realize my depression is partly due to my mother's rejection of me I find myself withdrawing from friends, and finding fault and get- | ting hurt at even insignificant little | things. 1 guess the whole thing is, socially 1 am a flop. 1 have nel ther time nor .the money. At home my family is socially tops, and the whole family Is pretty dependent on mother I used to be happh carefree and enjoy people. Lately I am so edgy and depressed. How can get back to my old sell? CY, SPIRIT BROKEN Dear CY Here is your letter, cut to a fragment. As I get the pie. ture, you are "tired of it all' temporarily. due to a blend of phy sical and emotional stress, long sustained without respite Continuous child bearing in cir cumstances of genteel poverty, plus emotional strain caused by love of your husband, plagued hy guilty dismay at your mother's fixed dis pleasure has finally broken your spirit. And so 'you need a new spirit, as it were, to revive your erstwhile enjoyment of living Your somewhat childish ineptness at housekeeping is probably a min LADIES' i 1 CROCHETED CLOCHE In knit wool yarn of delicate | pink, this cloche-hat features a | hightucked crown and deep frin or factor contributing to your fati- gue, But if you felt "in" with your mother acceptel and endorsed by her you'd be developing know-how, instead of losing ground in your bailiwick, Because your mind will be more free, and your energies too to tackle the day's routine. As It is, much of your potential vitality is drained away in an undertow of unconscious mis ery having to do witr your frustrated status in relation to your family A WRONG SORT In my book, your mother is as wrong as a mother can be. 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