CELEBRATE SILVER ANNIVERSARY Mr, and Mrs. John Yaszanicki are seen with their only son, Bill, as they cut their 25th wed- ding anniversary cake, Mr. and Mrs. Yasmanicki were honored at a dinner-dance held at St. George's Greek Catholic Ukrain- Fred Tureski and Mrs. Harry Bodnerchuk.. The couple who | both spent their childhood in Po- land were married in Toronto on February 15, 1930, and have lived in Oshawa for five years. Photo by Horn | fan Church, arranged by Mrs, : lin | MARY HAWORTH MAIL | Wife Asks Advice Regarding Husband's Senseless Jealousy | Dear Mary Haworth: I am mar- vied to a doctor, whose income af ords us a good living--a lovely Juuds, and a car of my own, In the past 1 had domestic help, which we can well afford; but Mike inists 1 can do my own housework why, 1 gan't understand We've been married four years and have a child, age three, I love my husband; but how many people ealize the dilemma of the doc- or's wife, whose situation permits little companionship with id te? Apparently man} viv Re adbanied to this kind of life, and I assumed that eventually 1 Svould too; but I find 'myself slip- ping more and more into days of tlepression and nights of frustrated redom PON ike works 12 to 14 hours a day, pnd on the rare occasions when he gets home earlier he is so ex- fausted that he has little enthus-| jasm for anything --- not even con- wversation, His unreasoning jeal- pusy limits any activity or as- sociation 1 might develop outside the home. Although he claims that $e wants me to have a sociable ife, is resentment of my efforts along that line is inescapable CALLS HER REBEL aid 1 had hoped fcr a second baby, but we haven't been so blessed. TAILORED STEP - IN By ANNE ADAMS \wavs ready, always right 1 vou want a dress that's com- , and flattering. You need t one ¢ in dresses! Crisp collar | Our child goes to nursery school | and last year 1 enrolled as a part- | | time student at a local college | This 1 enjoyed immensely, but | | Mike became so resentful and dis- | | turbed--finally making wild ac- | cusations of infidelity -- that I | dropped the course, knowing our | marriage couldn't survive such | tension | How alleviate this unhappy sit. | uation? Is the maladjustment in my own emotional make-up? Are my yearnings for some construc. tive outlet the "flustered rebellion of a woman against her lot?" as my husband says. Gardening and sewing, which he calls the ¢ | "natural pleasures' of women don't appeal to me; so am I an unnatural woman? What Is wrong? Please advise. D. Y. | MAN'S DISTRUST Dear D. Y.: In your candid story, here cut to a fragment, I find | nothing to warrant. Mike's scowl | ing theory that you are an irres- ponsible wife, seeking diversion in| reprehensible ways. Rather it seems you are struggling gamely to maintain personality health, by affiliating with the life of the com- munity--to counteract his pecul- | | larly negative influence. And that he is trying to block your self- | help efforts distrustfully. not un- derstanding himself at all Obviously Mike is a neurotic fellow, without aptitude for friendly tender acceptance of a | 5 suse. Unable or afraid to love, he rejects intimacy of spirit; then feels guilty or anxious about his | churlish performance, and re bounds to make his dependency | | attachment to you secure, by su- | pervising your actions, dictator | fashion | His gloomy exhaustion at home, | | after man-killer hours of work, Is {a defense mechanism of sorts {not an inevitable orice of devo-| tion to duty, or pursuit of suc. {cess. If he we emotionally or. ganized to share himself in a real | relationship with a wife, he would | contrive irresistibly te handle his medical practice efficiently, in such a way as to allow for regular social respite with you. And when overworked occasionally, as hap | pens to all professionals, he would | be receptive to your interest, | nonetheless, not glumly spent, on getting home | SPECIALIST HELP | One wonders what is your hus. band's trouble fundamentally, Either he has a bad conscience in marriage, due to actual or con- | templated misconduct--or an un. dertow of chronic compulsive host ility in doubleharness. Or he has {a hangover of jealous morbid in- | security, from a wretchedly inse- | cure childhood. Or a constitutional bias towards paranoid distemper, {In any case, he ought to face his | serious need of psychiatric help, to | {put him n the road to total health | {and happiness, and thus avert a later life erack-up. As for what you can do to im- prove the situation, my advice is to persevere in constructive act ivitlex that' keen you in contact wih people genegally. It would only make matters worse by de. grees, to become hrokenlv captive to Mike's unreason. M. H Mary Haworth counsels through {her column, not by mail or per- sonal interview. Write her in care of this newspaper smart, Sims} ---- ---- -- INCREASE TAX . 'pateh-pockets, contrast Pip-| MONTREAL (CP)---The city ex- vive a smart tailored look. attern 4519: Misses' Sizes 12, 20: 30, 32,-34, 36, 38, 40, | ecutive committee Monday moved {to increase the business tax rate to bring the city $1,500,000 needed Size 16 takes 4% yards 35-inchito balance the 1935-56 municipal yard contrast his pattern easy to use, budget. The decision, subject to sim-| approval by the city council, would le to sew, is tested for fit. 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