OSHAWA FAMILY Evidence that somewhere the sun is shining is reflected in this happy holiday photograph of the Kelly family taken dur- © CHILD GUIDANCE Father's Role Is Vital One In Handling New Infant There are many kind and won-| FEELS UNSURE Ma derful fathers the United States has a corner on kindness in of fa lic places impressed by fathers towards ropean countries, especially in Scandinavia CLOSER CONTACTS Perhaps there are mun) fathers in our country in the physical care of found elsewhere. This growing companionship between panionship, too. The father who bathes the ing Nasssu. mir wonderful straw hat which also . A y mother thers with little children in pub- often Indeed, 1 have 'been'ihe care of A "Simakes youngsters. on the streets in Eur never do as well With the tot over two or three, the reading more questions who help things with him and setting the infants stage for him to have fun with and young children than can be other children of his own age Dad can help the schooi child practice not only affords closer with his lessons. Perhaps he and mother mother can help the child most and father but also provides the by listening appreciatively to the way for closer father-child com- experiences the child recounts. How wonderful when both par- © baby or tot and sees him off to ents bed, or often looks after him at and fun of all sorts with their night, gets to know this growing growing children. EARLY DEVOTION What a big place Dad can have in or daugh- endless in their whimsy and ap- ow ready ter, in the family circle if he has, peal and challenge the home- gizes for mother - and - daughter| youngster as a person. As speech develops Tn the child, he and the father talk to each other. They do gether for fun, They gr things to- With the teenage son, . their three-week stay Mr. Dean Kelly is ad- daughter "Happy's" in ing PICT URED ON VACATION amuses. Mrs. baby Kathy who is far more interested in the photographer. z i ri Kelly recently Mr. and Mrs returned home Kelly, holding Towelling Has Firm Place any a young father would let him do alas, that he baby feel the the father can Shion not often can excel in him, answering his making and doing father to once and achievements "hine, conversation © enjov home he given Gone towel had the single purpose blotting the body after a shower ¢0OL AND SENSIBLE would or bath! It has moved into the Yet, our country hardly help in the infant's care if the parlor, the bedroom and the den, so to become an important item of she is so skillful in household decoration she now has a firm place as eye-filling wear. It presitles in the kitchen only as dryer but protective apron These stark-white terrycloth also as motivated be credited to one long-standing j Virtue and to one fairly recent it's done! innovation Terrycloth outstanding for its easy sudsabil- ity. Soil can be washed out by angular pieces. Hem e hand or with almost iries nicely, ironing. Tk terrycloth sions, is a vast variety of colors numerous In The Fashion Field By ELEANOR ROSS the of room duty. Wearables made of terry els are cool and sensible ™ ' every standpoint. They Towelling x . in the fa- underpinnings beach y and are require few Rompers 8 youngsters readily dish- and an absorbent fetching Beach easy to make s ponchos are avocations of the and bathroom towel can towel. tape of a edges dle the gay terry with bias Another way to make a poncho half ijt has always been large towel in leaving is to cut a on the diagonal, any type of effortlessly and ma- too, needs no 1 This leaves the arms aS hare for vigorous beach dimen- factor, which added are Mother-Daughter Outfits designs that ve. more conversation and in earlier years, been compan-imaker to give terry towels uses/poncho outfits. to have. m: companionship later. Arctic Winter Causes Gap In Scrapbook OTTAWA (CP)--The colonel's daughter became a police com- missioner"s wife, and now Mrs. C. E. Rivett-Carnac needs a new scrapbook The wife of the pointed commissioner the Royal Canadian Mounted Police to already has compiled five umes of press clippings covering en: in newly of her husband's career since they toddle were married 26 years ago hi Volume 5 had ende! with clip- family then a bilities at an early age pings about her husband deputy commissioner, starting his retirement leave. Volume 6 starts with his recall and appointment to the new post Mrs. Rivett-Carnac. daughter of Col. Francis B. Ware. of Lon- don, Ont. has led a nomadic life, first in an army family and then as an RCMP wife. The post ings of the redcoated force have taken her to Prairie and Pacific Coast cities and to Aklavik, N.W.T., where their e'dest daugh ter Beverley was born There's a gap in the scrap book collection -- it coesn't in- clude any pictures of Beverley as a baby. But Mrs., Rivett Carnac has the explanation Beverley, now Mrs. A F. Gril- fin of Toronto, was born in Nov- ember just as the four month Arctic night began. And 25 years ago, thcre weren't any amateur flash cameras, her mother told a repouvier. So the parents had to wa. until day light returned before the baby could be photograpaed. They stayed in Aklavik tluee years, the only RCMP family in the community inside the Arctic Circle. They have a seconu daughter, Frances, 19, who is a stenog- rapher and lives at home. She was born in Regina HOUSEHOLD HINT Scuffed luggage can be revi: talized by cleaning, drying and coating the marred spots with thin white shellac. On wet and slushy days, carry a package of disposable tissues in your: purse to wipe mud spots off hose and shoes Fresh paint can be washed off hands and clothing with warm soap and water if you do it im. mediately. If any time has elap- sed, use a paint remover. RUGS AND LIVING ROOM SUITES Cleaned to Perfection NU-WAY RUG enc Carpet Soles 174 Mery RA 5.0433 fonable with the child. They canithat ener. | 1 proud of each other and en-!considered. joy being in each other's pres- SUMMER COTTAGE USE We note beach-size terry tow- tend to keep alive even after the els used as cool and colorful child leaves home for work or throws for couches in summer cottages, as well as for equally and ce All these precious relationships college or marriage.. (My Children" and ents, Too." 4 of, this newspaper.) ap- PARENTS' QUESTIONS bulletin may be had by send- OF a self addressed, manufacturers never even "Tnjoying Our attractive "Fathers are Par- spreads in city homes. Matching contrasting U.S. need only an edging of looped stamped envelope to me in care tape to become smart cafe cur- tains for your window A supply of pins is all that's needed to transform large towels _ through hem the centre of the larger practical, bed- Pre . to slip over the shoulders. smaller towels uses, of turkish skill as a needlewoman. practical and pretty. To off, clean. Q. When should a parent begin into semi-fitted coverings for up- prepare vol-'study habits? A m the child for good holstered chairs, stools and even divans. They can be whisked off SAFETY LESSON VICTORIA (CP) As soon as the child can and put back on again for laun- a fall in her home, Mrs. reasonable conformity regulations and responsi- for Light and Bright the exciting home hair lightener . . . summer course. housekeeping. Teacher Council. * E 165 value only RICHARD HUDNUY changes dull blonde to dazzling plus Creme Rinse leaves hair lustrous, lively, lovely . .. after avery shampoo. 317 BROCK ST. S. VALU WHITBY MO 8-2338 playclothes Aprons for all the girls, and little, are made quickly by hemming one long end of a towel far and running a cord or a ribbon of your house. Furthermore, Add a bib-top by temperature of about 40 degrees sewing a finger towel of terry to is better for your car. towel, and add a loop of cord or ribbon'er when the frost is more than and family Bahama News Bureau Photo When summer is over towels Doubleday publishers' days when a can revert to their original bath tion of the Encyclopedia of Child hyper-insulinism. tow- from 3 con- structed from a couple of small towels or from one large one. ever All you do is cut a long. diagonal slit in the mid MARY HAWORTH MAIL [ter petty arguments? he can come home to a good meal and act as if I don't even exist. Then he's nice as_pie after we make up and just laughs at the whole thing. It makes you wonder why the rift ever hap- pened. If anyone should telephone me, and he takes the call, he never |lets me know, during these spells; but I always tell him if he gets business calls, because 'his bread-and-butter is mine, too. MAN LACKS CAUSE If T am wrong I am willing to be first to make amends; but 4 should IT always be the one who gives in? After nine years of Imarriage 1 should be used to it, 4 I guess; but I think I've had 4 'enough I've always said, and still say, that if my husband had any real grievance, or any cause to sulk this way, I'd understand. But why freeze up just because I don't see eve-to-eye with his viewpoint, in every instance? Please help me to understand-- not that anyone can change his mind, until he makes it up him- self. But meanwhile, maybe I'll know what to do .N HABIT HUNGOVER Dear K.N.: Sulking is a child- ish way demonstrating hurt feelings. It is a handicap-habit carried over from childhood, when it was picked up from poor of parental example, and reinforced book Body |by wrong handling, usually. For a good definition of sulking --what it means, what causes it, How To Cope With Man Who Sulks After Arguments | 'battle of the sexes if women for- fice I never recognized that there ~-- " | Dear Mary Haworth: Can you perience in early life; {explain why a man won't talk to|doubt your husband is a victim|¥ood of New Westminster said women candidates. |his wife for a week at a time af- of ! and no family conditioning on that score. When my husband is like that TRY IGNORING As for what you can do--take a tip from the encyclopedia and neatly overlook your husband's periodic rudeness. If he makes a, point of ignoring you at table, | wear a bright face but take your| meals elsewhere, on a tray; or, at an earlier or later hour. Give him the margin of solitude he| seems to want, or to require, for| emotional healing. Also, for the duration of his moods, keep yourself busy, cheer- fully, with such personal occupa- tions as mending, note writing, | telephone talks, or kitchen visits | with neighboring friends, etc.--so that silence won't hang heavy be- tween you and him. That way, | vou pull the rug from under his game; because it loses point if you aren't waiting numbly for the thaw to begin, M.H. WHERE TO FIND? Dear Mary Haworth: The cor- respondence fron P.Y. in your March 4th column interests me, as I, too, have suffered from the barbarism of electro-shock ther- apy, so-called. May I have the name of that doctor who discov- ered the blood sugar condition underlying her mental depression and restored her to health with a corrpetive diet? C.J. MEDICAL BUREAU Dear CJ.: 1 don't designate personal physicians, Read the Mind and Sugar (Holt) by Dr. E. M. Abrahamson and A. W. Pezet; then wrest from your local medical bureau how to. deal with it, etc, see ( ." adical society) the names 1954 edi- Care and Guidance, edited by Sidonie Gruenberg. On pages this authorita- tive work tells us 'that a child whose feelings are hurt, or who absorh fancies he has heen treated un perspiration, are opaque so they justly, mav react by withdraw- ing into silent aloofness. Yet these moods fade quickly for the most part, if the target treats them casually so COAXING REFUELS Coaxing, urging or nagging the sulker to '"'come out of it" in- bind vests the performance with un- and due importance, thus tending to keep it refueled When a person sulks habitually may mean that more candid two ways of expressing feeling were Use matching towels in smaller big towels requires All are| top it's no work to keep them! * -- Injured in B. K Do this by cultivating in derings as often and as quickly Solhein was delayed in present. to as needed. We are proposing this ing her report as chairman of the of safety committee of the Parent: ach cut too much prohibited in formative side and run upholstery cording years. When one isn't allowed to It through hems, allowing long manifest anger, or to cry, or to strands to tie on one shoulder. tell his side of the story, he may prettily lapse into sulking as the only romp- emphatic way of making known that he is hurt. Most people's emotional be- havior is shaped by the conduct of those who governed their ex- HOUSEHOLD HINT An attached garage requires less heat than the interior a It's time to defrost your freez- half-an-inch thick over a sizable None of these extra-curricular grea of the surface. it -1 eviee Am m ys ANG ) vr \ This needn't happen to you... just adopt our sugges. tions. Closet congestion disappears and your clothes will come back next fall so spic and span you may even wonder if we've delivered new ones by mistake. 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Mrs. Wood said the National | Council of Women and Federa- Busi and Professional | Women's Clubs had done much| to make it possible for women to share in public life However, since the first woman was elected to the Canadian Par- liament 38 years ago, only nine women have reached Parliament! Hill though women form one half| the voting strength of Canada. Only one of those defeated in their second try ever sought to run again. There now are three) {women members of the House of | Commons and five women senat-| ors. 371 IN PUBLIC OFFICE Referring to statistics compiled by The Busi and Professional Woman, organ of the federation, she said that in 1958 there were jonly eight women members of! women mayors, 97 women mem- bers of municipal councils and 1250 women school trustees -- a total of 371 women holding public office. "One of the reasons we have so few women in public office is | that women do not aspire to these offices," Mayor Wood said. {legislative assemblies, only eight | THE OSHAWA TIMES, Soturdey, April 4, 1959 "As women we are too easily| defeated. We should not feel this| way, particularly when women have not shirked in mdustry or other fields. forget the| "In my 14 years of seeking of-|falry tales or children's songs, i enna may dial . hear a recorded recitation of AUTOMATIC SITTER Telephone - subscribers in Vi a number ny is a differe: ve betwe-u men and | "I give no quarter, I ask no quarter, I do not feel inferior to| men, I do not feel superior to] men with whom I work. ! "No woman has a night to be appointed to any board because she is a woman, bur only be-| cause she is outstanding." BREAKFAST MUFFINS Here's an easy method of add-| ing a new note of interest to the | breakfast menu. 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