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70 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Thursday, Mey 28, 1959 MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL 'Married to Wonderful Man "Wife in Love with Another Dear Mary Haworth: For the arranged, you would be telling Hrst time in my life I am facing yourself a different story, You a gituation that I can't cope with. would be finding arguments in fa- The problem is my fault; I make vor of displacing the old with the no"excuse for it. |new, and consoling yourself that T-have been married for almost|the other parties affected would 12 years to a wonderful man and|adjust somehow. have two fine children, Everyone, Ag matters stand, you need thinks us the perfect family. Dick ' is a good husband, devoted to me; Ielp in trying to Eome to Jere, A Simple Kiss In Romantic Rome May Spell Trouble ROME (Reuters) -Kissing in public, which was a capital crime in Italy four centuries ago, can still land an unwary tourist in trouble with the law here. Italy, whose menfolk are re- puted to be among the world's most passionate lovers , frowns today more than any other Euro pean country, except Spain and Portugal, on public shows of af- fection, The word "kiss" appears in no clause of the Italian penal code. But no other single act of the h being has been punished of frustration that events have {brought on you; that you haven't As my children are in school honesty elected, with brave wn. I returned to a in the busi-| ness world; and, pik a period of| Well, what can I say? Perhaps months, have let myself fall in the full answer to your need will love with an office associate, who be found in Dom Aelred Watkin's is a very good friend of Dick's. beautiful little book The Enemies He is altogether a gentleman; of Love (P. J. Kenedy and Sons). and at first when we realized|In the marriage you have already our attraction was deepening, we|you possess the makings of talked of my quitting -- but I heart's content, you didn't, learn the meaning of love in the I have been seeing Jay (Ill call 'arger sense. M.H. him) two or three times a week,| Mary Haworth counsels away from the office. We only through her column, not by mail wish we could have met 12 years or personal interview. Write to very ; & pr fessi success, loved and admired by all, in the history of Italian law courts under such a wide variety of legal headings. Kisses have led to charges ranging from "annoyance," 'in. KEEP IN TRIM By IDA JEAN KAIN Teen-agers, dust off 3 dream, Beneath the bulges you have a beautiful figure. Are you willing to make the efiort to find it? To reduce pounds, you will have fo stop overeating, and cut calories a little below your daily require- ments, But don't belittle the im- portance of exercise. To be beau- tifu) and healthy, bodies must be used--circulation must be stim-| nated and muscles pulled and| released, Call calisthenics by their de-| scriptive name--shape-ups, Exer-| cise will enable you to build] where you need developing, and sult," "private viol " and "violent libido" to "acts contrary to public decency' being brought against the perpetrator, The public kiss first made its appearance in law here in ancient Rome, when Manlio was dis- graced by the censor Catone for having kissed his wife in front of his daughter, The Romans' distinction be- tween the three types of kisses-- "osculum," an embrace on the fum," given on the mouth in sign of Jove; and '"suaviom," a sen- sual kiss--still governs the atti- tude of Italian judges to public kissing, In Italy, unlike other countries such as France, where embrac- ing couples are a common sight Advice To Teenagers Seeking Beautiful Figures reduce where uneeded fat has ac- heels hard to increase stretch on calf muscles. Now shuttle the| legs rapidly, one up the and reverse, Shuttle for 50 counts, knees straight, toes pulled toward insteps. Follow this with deep knee , keeping heels flat on the floor, Bend knees, keep heels on floor, place hands on floor be- [tween feet an'. as you return to cumulated, Fat and muscle fone *{anding position, bend elbows 5, This| gh, How To Wash Blankets To Get The Best Results By ELEANOR ROSS | I you prefer, you can even Maybe you're one of those ef.|use cold water, Many women do ficient homemakers who always and insist that this is the best wash winter blankets in the Way. But, somehow, we think and tuck them fe Joxing lens ir (does a better job cannot end square your 1d get a Secupy the same spot, 80/improves chest, slims hips and legs. To make your slimming routine 70 SLIM HIPS come alive, stretch, bend and Next, a resistance exercise to swing to word pictures. Stretch|glim the hips. . . . for streamlines, pulling slim| Position: Lie face downwards, through the middle, Bend side- nands under chin, legs together, wats for a win oe rain p ; + knees straight, ong and smooth wing for] Movement: Lifting 1:gs slightly svelte hips. Get a picture in mind| separate legs to stride position. 0° the way you 'ntend to loo" IDo not slide legs, but let it be a lithe, lissome and lovely. Come|lift with ation done bv buttocks on... pul' ont of the slump. muscles, Hit a rh ibs Don't be a lazy daisy. |-tr'de, back together, stride, to- CAN WORK WONDER | gether, etc. Now, to increase the Exercise can work a miracle, |¢rt. do this exercise keeping provided you don't cheat, The/less together, lifting, and swing: key word is daily, . 7k your min' bath legs firs' to the left teacher to show you fhe exa-t|touching toes to floor at the left, exercise movements that will an? then to the righ' chenve those hr'ae to «ves, Im This 18 not a sissy exercise. But the meantime, here's a rou¢ing You're young snd hea'thy, If you youtine; et Ee wamntiul body that i Position: Ups-a-dalsy . . , Me i» 4 ean ly. that on back and t"en ro'l back on rightfully y ' shoulders, weight braced with at street corners or on railroad platforms, a simple kiss, if ago and had these past years to:|her in care of this newspaper. cheek in sign of affection," 'bas. spotted by a policeman can lead to trouble, ; elbows and palms, legs ex ded HOUSEHOLD HINT } «ck overhead, knees straight, | Wash shower curtains and Movement: Important -- pulllother large plastics often to keep toes toward in.teps and point'dirt from becoming embedded. e er, safe and clean ip nice plastic bags. Or maybe you aren't--and don't, Most 0. us, sad to say, have better intentions than we ever put into practice But really, the job isn't so diffi- cult, so let's stop dreaming and get at it. GENTLE CARE The secret of laundering a blanket be it heavy or light, of wool or synthetic fibres, is to give it gentle care in the washing ma chine, And don't try to dry it completely in an automatic dryer. This has led to the early demise of many blankets, espe |the kets and helpt hem to clally woolen ones. keep thets ice fey itis ad The procedure of washing|0riginal shape. Don't use high blankets for best results is oe heat; warm heat produces best ple enough--don't overload the|results. washer. Just put one full-size REMOVE STILL DAMP blanket or two small ones in at| Remove blankets from the Let the washer run to work up a Lous {rough then turn it off and let the blanket soak for about 10 minutes, Add a water conditioner at this point, if you need it, After the rinse, let the machine spin again, If you have a slow speed setting on your machine, by all means use it But if you don't, don't worry about it. If you're drying the blankets in the automatic dryer, add three or four clean bath towels to the load. These act as a cushion for a e, dryer before they're completetly LAKEWARM WATER dry, Shape them with your hands For woollen blankets, use luke |and let the heat remaining in the warm water and plenty of suds, |fibres finish the drying job. Keep he is necessary because wool|the edges straight and smooth, absorbs more suds than do any| Another important thing -- if other fibres. the bindings are especially soiled, lukewarm water is better and Mr; the Saskatch uli ewan here, of CAN BE PREVENTED Urging early immunization, ex- perts say that 77 per cent of deaths 'rom 0ce sur in children under one year GIGANTIC RUG SALE Now in Progress At NU-WAY RUG 174 MARY gether. We have the same inter-| ests, talk the same language, just! enjoy being together, LOVERS REALIZE Neither has discord at home: | both are well adjusted to life, or "Were until this hit us; and have been faithful all our married life. We are active in church work 8nd realize we have no right to this love. We know also that happiness never comes of hurting others--the one thing that as kept us from breaking up our homes. We've even talked of waiting 10 years, until my children will be on their own and wouldn't be affected by divorce. Jay married about the same time I did, and has a lovely wife with whom 1 am well acquainted. . . . I It is so hard to just close up one's heart and let one's head rule; so hard to be unselfish and do the decent thing, just because it is right. Maybe your opinion will help us, and perhaps others in a similar case. W.P. MAN STYMIES HOPES Dear W.P.: Reading between the lines, the picture I get is that this attraction became a problem for you, when you began to real- ize that Jay was disposed to go just so far and no farther, astray. It seems you led him step by step inta an extramarital in- trique; and had supposed that the reins were in your hands; that it would be your prerogative to decide whether to break with the past, and start anew with Jay, or stay married to Dick. | However, I gather that Jay, though smitten with you--capti- vated perhaps by your manifest yen for him---is still deeply at- tached to his lovely wife, maybe indelibly in love 'with her. So he isn't breaking away from her; | and very gently, by indirection, is letting you know that. Such is the inner significance of those repetitive, unfinished forlorn and frustrating talks, about having no right to this love; no good coming of hurting others, etc. WEALTH OF LOVE It is a pretty safe bet that if Jay were insistent on paying any price that had to be paid, to translate this romance into sec- ond marriage as fast as could be 4 oz. $1.00 Ease @-mED rronvcrs A Division of HENRY K. WAMPOLE & CO. LTD. PERTH, ONTARIO WAREHOUSE CLEARANCE SALE to be held at our warehouse at 80 Wolfe St, across from Houdaille Industries Ltd, What's the reason for this sale of 1958 and 1959 Frigidaire Applionces? WE NEED THE SPACE! Take advantage of these bargains never before offered in Oshawa. These FRIGIDAIRE models of 8 and 11 cubic foot refrigerators and ranges ore STILL in their eriginal factory erates. If you want a bargain at @ much bigger-thon- norma! saving, then come on down and take ad- vantage of this sale. 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