MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL | | Harry would be very good to you,/cuse me of "leading him on" | and faithful." I rejected this and|and "playing with his love." She she didn't argue. lsaid he certainly always had} Man's Sister Sabotages His Interest In Widow Dear Mary Haworth: I am 2 sell-supporting widow, 46, with daughter, 13. Last summer w vacationed at a seaside resor where we were introduced to 2 charming brother and 'sis'c --h 56: she, 52--from the which we live. My daughter «ra itated to children's play and saw a good deal of this va Three months later, Harry pro- city ir She contrived to break up his/wanted to marry me; but now plan to have Thanksgiving lunch- they saw 1 had never wanted | eon with my small family circle|him! He wrote saying I had and inveigled him into a last-|broken his heart--as if I had minute trip to her home state for thrown him over! I do love him the weekend. This led to two-land was trying, of course, to |months' leave of absence from) bring him rushing back; but still noney, his health wasn't good his_work, to settle a Felaiive'sihe didn't come. hat was I thinking of, etc.--all|estate--a turn of events she nar-| ery astounding, I had been rated to me in tones of singing] 1 Wa8 2 fool all along, I sup- ostering our romance previously. triumph. . . . pose. I imagine they thought I When Harry proposed, 1 had| At Christmas, a widower, an would fall for an affair, mentioned that Nora would be old friend of my husband's, called] He returned in March and I sing a lot, if he married; put bearing gifts, and asked me to saw them on the street. He looked e said no, that she had men|marry him--saying he'd thought at me as #f I had stabbed him. I| 'viends and admirers, to take his it over for a year, and believed it|She suggested we have dinner to- lace as her companion. (They| would profit both of us. Harry|gether. I excused myself. I want o everywhere together, though/was still away; and when he to see him but not that way. I feel | William Faulkner's ereepier char- |blessing when, as and if he feels Another case history to prove that truth is stranger than fic- tion. Or to suggest that novelist acters are drawn from life, THE OSHAWA TIMES, Wednesday, June 17, 1959 41 ee WIFE PRESERVERS know, because he is moved by events; he does pot rule himself, | It seems that this brother and/CLOSE [HE BOOK sister are all-in-all to one an-| other; or, at any rate, this is the sister's evident aim and design- for-living. However, as if to cover or conceal her vampire attach- ment, she has a compulsion to aet as if he's free to marry, with her drawn to a winsome, responsive woman. So, sensing the attraction be- tween Harry and you, at the sea- side resort last summer, she went into her act of promoting a As it turns out, she strangled his proposal--at birth, yon might say--and alertly twisted things around to wreck the friendship, meanwhile pretending for Harry's benefit in his presence, that she is amiably disposed towards you. | dine with them just lately; af- ter "doing you in," figuratively! speaking.) You are right indeed to recog- nize that they spell trouble and| A terrycloth slipcover for nothing else, where you are con-/scale cradle will eliminate cerned, Ring down the curtain on ing with wrappings living 'in separate apartments.) |phoned--as he often did, to speak|I should forget him. Am I right? 4 weigh bab: ie I'okest whe i -- both of them The widower sounds|" > y. SISTER SUGGESTS AFFAIR {of his love for me--I asked when!I mean, in thinking it will lead romance partly as excuse to y ft E ihe'd be back. He was evasive not to marriage but to trouble? stay in the picture as a manip- like a far better bet, MH A few days later, we threei, i 1 ealing angry, said 1 was|G.S { dined together. She sent Harry on| fit Xi : g -aDETY, Salc 5|9.., ulative agent in the courting situ-| Mary Haworth counsels) an errand and suggested confi-incnE © TE 1 Uc SISTER CONTROLS BROTHER ation, Had she been sincere, inly ouch her column, not by mail else. Bang! That did it! Dear G.S.: Here is your story, fanning interest, Harry might be, ' 4 . i dentially that I have an affair! | view. Wr 8 ed the coat over his head and| jth him, and not marry--'a WIDOW ACCUSED cut a half, with the genteel back. married to you by now. Or he|or personal interview. Write he not. even he wouldn't!in care of this newspaper. FLORAL BEAUTY {soon it was on, serious affair," she said, "asl His sister came around, to ac-'ground of the pair camouflaged.' might This hat goes high, wide and | ombre tints, garlanded with [NOT AS SPACIOUS hf er rere eee ee bandsome for summer. It is | flowers. Flattering to the new | In the home, a mother may certain; rfect choice for not have all the space and ma.| a as well as teas | CO TUTeS, it also complements yo available that are found | and weddings. The brim is | the open neckline of this year's lin the nursery school. However, | gracefully shaped and trimmed dresses and suits. |she can learn to imitate most of in an overlay of silk organza in |--By TRACY ADRIAN th e good ways of the nursery CHILD GUIDANCE school teacher -- especially ner quiet voice and manner and her! skill in making positive sugges- Parents Can Learn Much From Nursery Schools tions that work. | (My bulletins, "Tot Learning to By G. CLEVELAND MYERS Only a small number of chil- Be Sociable" and "Self-Reliance' may be had by sending a self- addressed, U.S. stamped envelope to me in care of this newspaper.) PARENTS' QUESTIONS Q. Would you approve calis- |arms on the floor. With the neck | thenics in the public schools? of the coat facing him, he stuck| A. Yes, at all levels from the dren have the advantage of a his hands in to the sleeves, pitch-|first grade upward. nursery school. A good nursery - school provides opportunity for the child, two, three or four, to develop normally with other chil dren of his age. As Miss Margaret Fletcher longtime head of the nursery| school of the University of Tor onto, points out in her recent book, published by! University of Toronto Press ($2.75), the object of the nursery school is the emer-| gence of a person who "faces up to life," is aware and respectful of the rights of others and him self, makes decisions about wha he wants to do and tries to do it} ACCEPT RESULTS He learns to accept the conse quences of his own decisions. He| / Ap PON ; $ weathers disappointment when hie : must and enjoys success when it . Si ) ll comes, ] 3 r A The preschooler, whet in E. oo : 4 A ust learn F . 4 posed. When he told "his siste she stormed up to my apartment, erying, almost shrieking that he couldn't marry a penniless widow with a child; he hadn't enough HOUSEHOLD Serve leftover g it in small ng with whip] 'chopped nuts. Present These "COOLEST" .. NO PHONE © ORDERS PLEASE! mursery school or not, m to help himself in such routine matters as dressing, iceding toileting and washing. A he must learn to get along with other children, to exchange ideas and find proper ways of amusement MOTHERS CAN LEARN A nursery school is not a park- bg place, Mothers may spend time there Joarsing from the teacher how to get results from a minimum obvious direction and a max- of skill. This sets the stage the youngsters to get whole- some at fun, often ereative fun, with other children. These mothers see the ways in| which childm in the nursery school leam to wait on them- selves and how these children practice in making judgments| end decisions. Several weeks ago 1 spent af forenoon in a private nursery| NO FIGHTING At the brief play reriods there was loud shouting, but I heard Mo screaming or crying and. more zing, 1 saw no nushing, pu!l , hitting or fighting. ! saw four-year-olds mopping up paints from the linoleum floor after us-| . Ing them freely. I saw them put- ting on their own coats | +. They used a plan any mother might teach at home. 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