Jo Aldwinckle, Women's Editor Dial RA 3-3474 8 'MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL Wite Ponders Leaving Mate Who Is Involved In Scandal Dear Mary Haworth: My hus- regardless of the agony and band attends a certain sales con- heartache this will cost me? Or vention twice a year, as repre-|should I divorce Ed and take the sentative of the company for|children with me? which he works. | I haven't worked in business The company displays equip-|for many years; but feel that with {ment at both the state and na-|some night schooling I could tional conventions of this sales|ggain become proficient and able THE OSHAWA TIMES, Tuesday, July 14, 1959 | association, Don McMurtry Weds PERSONALS 'Aldyth E. Morrison At Maple Lake In St. Peter's Anglican Church, Maple Lake, on Saturday after- noon Donald Lawrence McMur-|Miss try, Oshawa, took as his bride Aldyth Edna Emmeline Morri- son, The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs, John A. Morri- son, Maple Lake, and the bride- groom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Lawrence M. McMurtry of Osh- awa. The Reverend Merrill Cathcart officiated at the double-ring cere- mony and the wedding music wae played by Mrs. Leslie Rey- nolds. Mrs. -E. C. Ashton of Ennis- killen and Mrs. Arthur Weldon of Woodville, poured tea at the recent trousseau tea for Mrs. David Earl Weldon, the former Beth Mary Travell, MeMurtry-Morrison wedding on Saturday included Mr, and Mrs, Albert Bradford, Mr. and Mrs. John Lemon, Mr. and Mrs. Ger- ald Wingrove, Mr. and Mrs Sven Lagerquist, 'Miss Beverley Me- Mustry. Others were Mr. and Mrs. Cecil Morrison, Bowman- ville; Mrs. Sydney Erskine, Whitby; Mrs. Wilkins, Courtice. Department to send in any little items of interest. News of teas, waltz-length dress of white Swiss surprise parties, showers, anni- silk organza embroidered with versaries and Comings and white roses over taffeta, styled goings are always very accept- with a round neck and short sleev- 2le and for hich, there is no es. A crown of seed pearls held charge. Please te or tele {her fingertip veil and she car- phone RA 3-3474 local 18. fied 3 ye Siti Bible crested| 0. and Mrs. Elgin Glover, \ [Simcoe street north, are in Cal- She was attended by her sister, gary attendi the d Miss Sandra Morrison, wearingifater they will visit the The bride was given in mar- riage by her father. She wore a Glo Guests from Oshawa at the > You are invited by the Social|J to take care of myself and the . | Wii Je wa Named ©% children financially. ivorce sui, | : 3 seems that a certain married | Please answey, soon, this is | : | something I must face and decide woman attends these conventions, |, 0 at an early date. T.P {without her husband, whose sus-| . sid |picions had been aroused, how-|ISN'T CALLED FOR a . ever. Dear T.P.: The situation does A 4 ' 7 i : | At the latest convention, 'held not call for a hasty decision; in- fo BE é - Jin a far distant city, he put in anideed this is an unnecessary risk appearance without notifying his to phe avoided. Take your time in APPY LITTLE DAVID | wife in advance, and surprised putting the crisis behind you. Posing happily for the cam- | Mr. and Mrs. Michael Rosnak, era is David Michael, son of | Oshawa, and Mr. and Mrs. ¥ iy | midnight hours. He got a divorce ice blue taffeta fashioned with Empire waist and scoop neck. and she carried a cascade white and pink carnations. Mr. John Lemon acted as best man and the bridegroom's twin {brothers, Robert and William {McMurtry, ushered. | A recention was held at the Old Mill Lodge, Carnarvon, On- {tario. The bride's mother was in As of now, there's no use rosewood satin with a white cor- Church, judging your husband's miscon- gage and the bridegroom's m~th-| the home of ver families in Winnipeg and in sisted by .Mrs. Lade and the members enjoyed strolling through the hostess's beautiful gardens, There was a good at- itendance and the next meeting iwas tentatively set for August Oshawa guests at the Hopps-| , Mr. LC, Mr. and Mrs. Jack Marshall, Mr. William Hopps, Mr. and Mrs. Douglas Hopps, Mr. and Mrs. Roy Hopps, Mr. J. Varga, Mr. ames Cornish and Mr. and Mrs. C. Nicholls. Others who attended were Mr. and+«Mrs Vernon Hopps, Galt; Mr, and Mrs. Ed- ward De Graff, son and daughter, Chico, California; Mr and Mrs. John Hopps, Sacramento, Cali- fornia; Mr. and Mrs. Reginald Smith, St, Catharines; Mr. and Mrs. Stanley Beckford, Miss El- sie Cooper, Mrs. Elma Francis, all of Toronto; Mr. and Mrs. R. Collin, Coboconk; Mrs. M. Pekar | and Margaret, Hamilton; Mr, and| Mrs. Gerald Cooper and Adaugh-| WA PT gh tt Ay line. Her accessories were yehite the Manitoba communities of ters, Ottawa; Mrs. Rose Hockin,| ta sui) ose. Noeanie . PRINCIPALS IN RECENT CEREMONY | Mrs. Madge Lindsay is charter-, Mrs. Uriah Ji nd Mrs. Th nel iy ' Mr. and Mrs. John Robert | is the daughter of Mr. and ing & coach for the women's|J, H. McDiarmid who are on a groups of St. -Stephen's United holiday tour of Europe are at Steffan are pictured as they | Mrs. George W. Read and the | leave ing Street United | bridegroom is the son of Mr, Church for an outing on July 22/nresent enjoying themselves ir to a presentation of The Student'Switzerland. They have visited] Church following their wedding | and Mrs. John A. Steffan, all Prince at Dixie Plaza. Paris, Nice, Genoa, Rome, Flor-| recently. The bride, the for- of Oshawa. - ence and Venice. mer Miss Marilyn Ann Read, --Photo by Astor Studio { The July meeting of the Wom- Miss Carol Stezik and Mis: . Air Clothes | ABSORB ODORS Eggs absorb odors and should an's Auxiliary of St. Thomas'| Brooklin, was held at jo.Anne Topping have left fo Mrs. Eric Y. Winnipeg where they are attend- {her in a compromising situation Mr. and Mrs. Donald George | |uncontested. '|duct aga.nst praiseworthy stand-|er wore a sheath of powder blue Green, near Myrtle. In the ab- ing the Ukrainian summer |be kept away from highly-fla- iwith my husband--in the post- Armstrong, Rosmere street. David, who was one year old on June 13 is the grandson of ! Ontario. Hector Armstrong, Shelburne, --Photo by Ireland |arls of married behav UNPREPARED |make that mistake is simply to|sage. My problem is, what should, 1 keep your sense of outrage mqwe honeymoon is being spent do? We have two lovely children; (Worked up to fever pitch, whieh); "astern Ontario and Quebec. Hopps-Coopet Nuptial Rites and a broken hime probably doesn't help anybody. {As the couple left, the bride was would wreck their lives. Should I| Remember the Good Book ex-|wearing a powder blue suit, white go on, as is, and hold the home horts us not to cast stones at sin-| accessories and a corsage of pink To|lace over taffeta and a pink cor- sence of the president, Mrs. W.| Slater, the meeting was conduct-| ed by Mrs. Lee, vice-president. | Thére was a general discussion] regarding the Girls' Auxiliary and the Junior Auxiliary. Mrs. Harry Lade was appointed edu- courses at St. Andrew's College. Among the guests at the Find- lay-Murray wedding on Saturday were the bridegroom's uncle and aunt, Mr, and Mrs. Alex Kemlo Montrose Angus, Scotland, who together for the children's sake, ners; not to condemn, reject or| roses, cation secretary. Refreshmentslare on a brief vacation with rela- Solemnized In Bowmanville St. Joseph's Church, Bowmanville, | was day morning, July 11, Hopps. son of Mr. and Mrs. John Hopps of Sacramento, California. |nations, stephanotis Roman Catholic| Given the|father, the bride wore a full setting for a wedding on Satur-| wh en organza E.|cade of white feathered The Reverend F. K. Malane|flOWers. performed the double ring cere- Re 1 tel aa mony. Mrs. Albert Cole of Bow-|foROr in petal pink tafiela de-\j, yy Even to find a length! manville played the wedding signed with an overlay of white suitable to renew 8 music. |silk organza similarly -- of-honor, were Miss {Colleen Hutchinson, in deep oval l in marriage by her) length gown of blossom white Chantilly lace over net and satin| Myrna Cecila Cooper was united sweeping into a circular train.| in marriage with Stanley Glen|The slim bodice was offset with {a scalloped sabrina neckline and| The bride is the daughter of{long sheath sleeves. A crown Mr. and Mrs. Joseph A. Cooper |of silk of Bowmanville, formerly of Osh- Pearls, awa, and the bridegroom is the/and she carried a colonial cas- car- and bridal) While trimmed with|k : held her finger-tip veil war success stories, Miss Jean Musial was maid-of- The bridesmaids, | lw . gowned to the maid watch band became a r Dorothy| war with new machinery and character of the marriage, and Hockin in petal pink and Miss equipment, 4 I dusty have not only caught up with all Ed, are pretty much what you |rose. Their waltz-length sleeve-lcompetitors but in some ways felt them to be, back along the| {less gowns were fashioned with| gre leading them. necklines accented with Swiss lace. They wore open- attempt to destroy them; but| | Ribbons Ret [ond 10 bo humbly' concerned. that an ly conce! 1 ons heturn |we, too, don't fall by the oto eventually. We are told to pray | we may be spared tempts. tion and protected from evil |doing. | We are instructed in our obli- By MURIEL PENN gation of charity (compassionate| LONDON (Reuters) -- Ribbon ¢are) especially towards those s one of British industry's post-| Whose lives are linked to ours-- and whose welfare continues to! When the war ended the indus-|be our responsibility, even if, in| try was virtually non - existent [Weakness or ignorance, they be- Britain and her Allies|tray their duty to us. [were concentrating all their ener-| RIDING OUT STORM gies on defence, ribbon -- except a [ h NF rHoboms <e | To get your bearings on what or medal ribbons became a to do next, try to recall how you an's felt about your marriage and : Jomans spouse before the scandalous di- The actual |To Add Gaiety In Many Ways Starting from scratch after the vorce suit broke. manufacturers now the worth of your relationship {line when you knew nothing of| | his affair. | 70 USES | If you felt contented and se-| crowned picture hats of white] Today the only embarrassment cyre for the most part then, and silk organza and silk taffeta and|is one of choice short white gloves and carried 3 > [shower cascades of white and|narrow, in pure silk, nylon and|to Jeave him--if it weren't for |pink chrysanthemums. Miss Stephanie Chico, California, small niece of { DeFraff of ? if Ed isn't plugging for divorce There are ribbons wide and at present, and you wouldn't want practically every man - made] ide r, or vengeful- fibre. There are Jacquard ribbons secs © you. probably ought to Mr., and Mrs. McMurtry will return to make their home in Oshawa. Skirl of Pipes Greets Newlyweds At Church Door Pipers and drummers of the General Motors Pipe Band greet- ed Mr, and Mrs. George Kemlo Findlay as the newly - married pair emerged from St. Gregory's Roman Catholic Church following the ceremony on Saturday morn- ing. The bride, the former Mar- garet Mary Murray, is an Eng- to lish state-registered nurse who came to Oshawa a vear ago. She is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. John Murray of Liverpool, Eng- land. The bridegroom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. George Findlay of Oshawa. The Very Reverend Dean Paul Dwyer, DD, performed the cere- mony and the organist, Mr. Jack Driscoll, played the wed- ding music. {were served by Mrs. Green as-| tives in Oshawa ' KEEP IN TRIM Moral Boost Is By IDA JEAN KAIN Many an overweight woman! gets so bogged down in the rou-| tine of daily work that she doesn't| know which way to turn, or how| to get started on the right course to less weight. A mother of five children writes: "Please give me encourage- ment by telling of someone else who was fat and won the battle, I weigh 270 and need to get down how to get started, Show me a simplé way to set a goal and follow through. My moral is| sorely in need of a boost." Let's draw on the experience of other dieters in similar situations. One overweight concluded that lack of time and energy were the chief reasons she failed to To Start Reducing Routine |tray for herself. She does not eat to 160. I have five children so my| time is limited. Please show me pounds a week without going hun- Needed with the kiddies, but waits until they are tucked in for a nap and thé older ones go out to play. Then she allocates one whole hour to enjoy 'peace and quiet" as she |eats lunch, reads, meditates and Spray Closets jvored foods. | To Deter Moths | A free - loading boarder is rob bing Canadian homes of millions] of dollars every year, It is the| common clothes moth, which| sooner or later finds its way into| nearly every home in the country. | The moth you see on the wing| has already done its dirty work. | If it's a female, its offspring will be numerous enough to eat more than 100 pounds of wool per year -- equivalent to the output of 13 sheep. The devouring is done in the larvae or worm stage of the moth life eycle, the tiny crawlers hiding in the dark folds of the fabric as they gorge their way to maturity. Now, is the time to do battle with these pests, as clothes and other fabrics are put away for the summer. Before storing clean and brush woollens, removing persistent \relaxes. It is important for homemakers [to look at reducing in terms of |increasing, not lessening, energy. |On scientifically planned meals |containing 1,200 calories a day, a busy mother can lose two |gry. A complete protein food {should be included at each of the three meals, plus an energy-boost in the late afternoon before din- ner preparation is begun. Young mothers, one or two simple changes in the day's routine can your spirits land ribbons woven with lurex, a popular non-tarnishable metallic |gather your forces and ride out Ithe storm. In effect, give Ed a The bride was given in mar- riage by Mr. George Findlay. stay with a diet pattern. She set the bridegroom, was flower girl) thread. Therc are, chance to find himself again, in a checked white silk muslin i ov dress with a pink satin sash. She bos . Sit every taste and more| in fact, ribs = get reoriented to his real The bride wore a pure silk dress in blush pink with a harem skirt, round neck and cap sleeves. A out to put order in her day, and then succeeded in reducing 84 pounds. The gist of her system| amazingly. When you enjoy even a small success, it is easy to look ahead to wearing the next smaller dress size in six weeks' time. Winning ogainst great odds y i 1 hments, in the wake of the wore a pink flowered headdress, Some of the latest ways of us. attac me! il pl Ie ae and carried a basket of white ing ribbon were demonstrated at| travail privately, Shasta Surysanthemums and pinkia "recent ribbon review here--a/'%, carnations |display of ribbons and their uses,| Pear Your | Mr. Kenneth Hockin was best| This showed ribbons used on|With composure and dignity; au man and the ushers were Mr.|such unlikely articles as table|if Ed seeks to heal the breach, Kenneth Kelly and Mr. Gregory cloths and men's sports jackets, |Dé magnanimous if you can. In| Cooper. A man's play shirt was trimmed |Short, try to muster the goodness i 34 |W i 50 wel D be ready to pick up the pieces; The reception was held at St./With ribboni So were men's pyja- to { ) h Joseph's Parish hall, where the Mas. and rebuild, if his soul sickness| bride's mother received in an RIBBON SKIRT | has run its course. M.H. | Mary Haworth counsels| afternoon dress of all-over em-| mqyere were hats made entirely through her column, not by mail | broidered silk organza ver taf-|,¢ riphon and a dog's leash with or personal interview. Write her| feta with a pink silk picture hat.| pa: hino ¢ ib- |3 : Bu pas 4 > ching collar and even a rib-|in care of this newspaper. Assisting was the bridegroom | n skirt, designed by ome of| mother who chose a sheath dress!|ondon's leading fashion design- | SOCIAL NOTICES | of aqua Chantilly lac~ over taf-|gr¢ feta with a small matching hat.| There were practical demon- Both 'wore corsages of roses. Also|strations of the use of ribbon in| greeting the guests was Mrs, hairdos and on an inexpensive] Fanny Booh of Bowmanville, the plouse--making it 'look differ-| Mr. and Mrs. Melville Mac-| bride's grandmother, wearing alent" from the other thousands|Intyre Boyd of Ottawa wish to| teal blue honan pure silk dress like it. announce the engagement of with a champagne beige picture| Nor are the uses of ribbon con-|their daughter, Dian, ENGAGEMENT to Mr. hat and a corsage of pink car- fined to clothes and the house.|Donald Peter McGibbon, son of nations. Thousands of yards of it are used [Judge J. A. McGibbon and Mrs. | For the honeymoon trip the every year by packaging special- McGibbon of Lindsay, Ontario. bride ware a white nylon orange- ists. : ; The wedding will take place in| flowered dress with an orange And, 1000 miles of it 5 every Ottawa on August 29. i a year into Christmas and other| | picture hat and a corsage of Y ENGAGEMENT greeting cards. Better half to a dozen differ- bronze chrysanthemurus. «| The i of ribbon is partic-| Mrs. Margaret McInnes of ent summer outfits Team this) On the return the couple will [ wishes to announce A 2 li in' Bow All ularly bright today in the lingerie Brantford snappy-wrap skirt with halter|/live in Bowmanville. |trade. A new slotting machine the engagement of her daugh- tops for sun, T-tops for work or| --- | SNAPPY-WRAP By ANNE ADAMS pink flowered hat held her shoulder - 1 carried a white Bible with satin| and half-starved. Siiaatners entwined with rose { Many mothers are so busy at mealtime feeding the children and 1 She was shesed by Miss Shee ailing on the family that they do a rpool, not get much of a meal. For this Miss Edna May Findlay. Missi aacon, th t while rin, Killeen wore a princess dress of Teasosl, ey es Preparing 3 ith tol the food, snatch a bite at meals turquoise blue nylon with match-1,,4 o5¢ while clearing the table. ing hat and accessories. Miss i There is no satisfaction in this i wt 7 White 9tfanza sort of piece-mealing, and the flowered hat. Each held a nose-|calories soar. was to plan ahead and prepare ength vell and she her meals before she was spent! |makes your triumph that much sweeter. Bless you all! 'LOAF-LY' An interesting way of serving meat loaf for a buffet supper is to pack the meat mixture into a hollowed-out loaf of French bread, bake it, and bring the whole loaf to the table to be sliced. spots by dry cleaning. | Spray each article evenly, hold- {ing cans about 18 inches away, covering surface once at the rate of one foot per second to avoid excessive application. Spray into folds, seams and cuffs and spray both sides when possible. Spray insides of closets and containers before storing treated articles. This kills adult moths ris meibiod will guard ainst damage by the Yiseots. thelr egrs and larvae for at least 12 months. Do not rely on cedar-lined closets or chests because the cedar oils evaporate within a couple of years, making them ineffective thereafter for moth protection. REFRESHER Rid rooms of stale tobacco smoke with this "home-made" deodorizer. Just mix a little am- monin in a bowl of fresh water and let it stand overnight in the smoke-filled room. The next day the rooms will be sweet and SHULTON DESERT FioWER TOILET WATER A lasting fragrance that blends the modern and urbane with the mystery and magnetism of the eternal desert. The bottle is of carved glass contained in an slogant gold carton, PRUGS 28 King St. E. RA 3-4621 fresh again. | |Brian Findlay. {moon and on ga of pink carnations. Mr. Russell Findlay was his brother's: best man and the ush- ers were Leonard Tomlin and A reception followed at the Genosha Hotel. Receiving, the bridegroom's mother wore em- bossed nylon in ice blue, sheath- style with white accessories and a corsage of carnations. The couple are motoring in the United States for their honey- their return will make their home in Oshawa. For travelling the bride wore a Queen's blue ensemble and a corsage of white carnations. Now, how to get started. Over- weights, make an effort to go against the established pattern at some one point. Could it be at breakfast? After the head of the house has departed and the chil- dren have finished their morning meal, take the time to start your own day with a strength-giving, enjoyable breakfast. NEEDS PLANNING With planning, lunch hour can be turned into another morale- boosting time of day. One young mother with five children ar- ranges to take a daily "vacation" at noon. As she prepares the children's lunch, she sets aside a THERE ARE WONDERS IN THE WORLD BUT THERE ARE ONLY 3 BIG CARPETS From The Four Corners of THE WORLD All shapes and sizes NU-WAY RUG AND CARPET SALES just coming into usc threads ny-|ter, Marion Paterson, to Mr. Wil- play. Easy to sew. 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