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: 10 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Thursday, July 16, 1959 MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL Wife, Capable Of Great Love Kept At Arm's Length By Mate Dear Mary Haworth: I am 40, come and go as I please--mean- & warm person, capable of great|ing that I may feel free to visit love and affection. I have been|my parents, while he stays home married for 15 years to a very un- and reads. demonstrative, secretive man,| | simply can't figure it out, and who never wanted the responsibil-| spend too much time thinking ities of a family, so we have no ahout it, thereby spoiling my for- children. merly vivacious personality. I have always felt a lack in,our must appear preoccupied and marriage, and began divorce pro- mysterious to old friends, with ceedings about 10 years ago. But,| whom I never have discussed why for sentimental reasons and be-|I don't have children. cause he objected, I didn't go| I find I am spending more and through with it. more time alone, without a con- Just why would a man want to|fidante; although I will say Ted maintain a marriage in which|is always home evenings, unless there is no verbal or physical ex- business takes him out; and he pression of love? Is it normal for always gives me his whole pay- a husband to be happy in this|check, reserving only his spend- brother-sister sort of relation -/ing allowance. ship, when he has no other MAN'S CHILDH woman-interest? He still calls my mother "Mrs. WIFE GROWS PALLID Smith, not Mom or Helen; and I Ted is only a few years my am sure she thinks he is strange, senior, he claims I am immature although she never criticizes. I to expect such behavior; and keep making excuses, saying he stresses how fortunate I am to is just different, due to his back- have a husband who lets me'ground; and it's true he comes Ij from a home without an atmos-|void of sex integration, both the phere of love, His parents stayed civil law and the church law together for the children's sake would find, I think, that valid but didn't speak to one another. marriage does not exist. 1 have an excellent job, wonder-( CAUGHT IN TRAP ful kin, good friends; but lately I| Thus, if. you are married to envy everyone who seems to have, Ted, it is only in the sense that a warm happy family life. I feel you take him for what he is, a I missed the boat by forsaking false pretense; and for reasons many fine suitors to marry Ted.|of your own (unconscious, un- 1 am wondering if we should part known , perhaps) you settle for before I get any older and more|that. In which case, if you can |confused. Js my attitude adoles- stomach the fraud, it is logical cent? If you think so, say so. C.D.|to surmise that you are in flight from real marriage, too. To that PARTY TO A FRAUD extent, your over-all attitude is Dear C.D.: This is an abnormal | a4olescent--at least, 4s compar situation, that should be discussed|, heing mature. with a medical advisor, also with |a psychiatrist, and a specialist in|time alone, without a confidante, church law, probably, if you yoy are coasting towards mental Cabinet Makers Transforming TV Sets Into Fine Furniture Your new TV set plece of fine furniture, Manufacturers across the coun-| try are beginning ed wraps from their 1959-60 models] Here are the details: a and the springtime trend has| | In spending more and more swelled to a definite swing to | furniture-like sets that will bel to lift the is really|"in place" in every living room, going to belong -- when it gets| to your living room this year. getting a lot of plus factors in There's a definite trend to con-/terms of engineering too. This vert the family TV from a '"'one- year marks the debut of the eyed functional machine" to alfirst truly portable machine; and the much heralded flat-faced 23- This year's TV buyers will inch tube is here at last, And, furniture styling too, You can still get the standard TV box, on legs, with plastic, metal or wood cabinet, They' priced a little less, of course, be. cause they are easier to make, It looks exactly like a TV set, no more, no less, Designers are convinced, however, that you will want your television to look more like a furniture plece than a sim- ple electronic theatre and each maker who has introduced his line to date has included several |stylings that will blend in with Just about every kind of living room decor, ' Just for the record: your new hifi set is getting the same treatment. The style highlights for this year: watch for greater use of walnut and the fruitwood finish- es, French Provincial and Scan- be in re dinavian modern will be import-28 inches in size and they do not ant style factors, have Se odious) bulge 4 there' ly curved corners. BLA Yechmical aide. 4 ee looks very much like the famil- can get a battery-powered set|iar rectangular movie screen. you can take to the beach or the| The new tubes are in ielative- woods. The first units are justly short supply so far but they coming on the market, Batiery|are expected to become standard life is about four hours . , , and|equipment in the next year or so. then it must be recharged by plugging a connection into a stan- dard wall socket. BRIGHT WINDOWS _ If the picture from the picture y. window is always rather hazy, h. |take a tip from the housewives Another big advance this year the flat-faced tube, This is a of that the engin- "twin-panel"', The ones new sets, this year, are made by mixing one eup of cider and one-and-a-half gal- lons of hot water, really want to know how far off|jepression, withdrawing from life the beam of normalcy your s0-\and health, giving up the struggle called marriage is to rationalize your involvement in | The fundamental f els the chief source of strength, con-|through her column , not by mail solation and stability in the mar-|or personal interview. Write her| ried state, in care of this newspaper. 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GINGHAMS Crease Resisting Fabrics and Draperies. ERIES 1.69 wan 7:08 1.49 wri S23 DAN RIVER to 3.98 yd. 44" CREASE RESISTING LINEN Reg. $1.69 yd. SALE SALE 49. yd. PRICE .. 36" - 39" DRIP DRY "4 yd. 36-45" Special Group Of BETTER COTTONS PRICE . 89. yd. BY POPULAR DEMAND! We have made another purchase of this wonder- rights and this sick alliance. (To put a good purposes of marriage are two: | face on it, in other words,) | First, to produce and nourish new| It's possible you should part| | life, in a continuing "sponsor- permanently from Ted; but that| Iship." Second, to afford man and|can be decided later, Just now, ww we wife the emotional sustenance of the important thing is to get first-| a wholesome, exclusive, signifi- hand psychological help in see- cant sex comradeship -- as a|irg clearly, the trap you're in| means of expressing and increas-|M.H, ing mutual love, which (love) is| Mary Haworth eouns J - TWO MODERN STORES IN OSHAWA VATE RETAILERS TO THRIFTY CANADIANS OPEN FRIDAY NIGHT TILL 9 P.M. TREMENDOUS VALUES! MA MMOTH SAVINGS! -- Zeller's great Once-A-Year Lin- gerie Sale is now in full swing! Check the Values! Compare prices! Shop Zeller's during this great event , . , and add up the Savings! You can always depend on Zel- ler's for Dependable Quality, Priced-right merchandise and Satisfaction Guaranteed! Check These SPECIAL "BUYS"! ® FULL-LENGTH SLIPS--Sizes 32 to 40. Drip-dry cotton or Acetate-and-Nylon. ® FULL-LENGTH GOWNS--Sizes S, M, L. Acetate (rayon). Lovely style! ® "BABY DOLL" PYJAMAS--Sizes S, M, L. 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