12 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Thursday, Octboer 1, 1959 MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL Teenager Asks How To Solve | | | ! : | doesn' p i sery- of the h b h Problem Of Father's Atfitude [it mee fowins ut evers-of the se besnmmes much more Dear Mary Haworth: I am ajand who seemed to pay you girl, 14 Recently I went with my marked attention. seout troop to the beach for a| Unfortunately your dad let] week, Our group had five chap-|anxiety get the upper hand. An- erones |ger is always related to anxiety. There I met a real nice boy, And in this instance, his anger 16 I didn't date this boy, but we and anxiety signify, I think, that| always went together with the he doesn't really know vou very group and had chaperone s.|well. He feels somewhat a stran- Every one of the chaperonesiger to the young lady you are| thought he was one of the nicest|budding into--because he hasn't| boys they had ever met. He was|taken the time through the years| as nice to me as anyone ever|to keep close to you, psychologic- | has been. lally, in terms of understanding. When I came home and told| f my parents, my mother didn't TAKING PROFIT have much to say. It was my| If only he knew you as parents father who got mad. He said should know their children, well | that a girl 14 is too young to go enough to have confidence in with poys; but as I explained, we | your good taste, or in the right- didn't "date." {ness of your instincts in the field My father is trying his best to of friendship; or if he could feel keep me his little baby irl; He usufizbly that be had alread: ne one ob of building deep doesn't want (o realize That Yam self-esteem intc your character, growing up. Do you ' pk a he wouldn't be so fearful of boy- fair to be so old - fas aopel influence in your life. But be- Please give me some go a "|cause he feels taken by surprise, ice. K.Y. and unpreparea--not up to the FEAR AT ROOTS mark--on these various points, Dear K. Y.: I regret to say that|e is suddenly alarmed; and dis- vour father's aftitude was wrong, (agreeable abou it. : in getting angrily upset at your As for good advice: what is happy account of meeting a very|there te say. to a girl, 14, except nice boy whom you liked a lot; to adjust to the disciplines of and who was your special friend family rule. It your father hap- during your heavily chaperoned pens to be unfair--in punishing week at the beach. - you, more or less, for his p, : : | sonal inadequacies--that is a tr The sensible fatherly reaction that you'll just have to bear, with would have been to listen kindly, i; help of God. until you reach with watchful interest, to your adult, self-governing age. report on the events of 3 ar Meanwhile try to accept these week. And to have goverge als tests of growtn with such grace feelings with reason, when hey .i° vo character will be was swept bv mixed emotions, o,, vifieq rather than scarred in about your enthusiasm for theiy, process. In short, learn to very nice boy, whom all admired 54 tise patience, sweetness and - courtesy. until these virtues be- in dealing with M.H. come a habit, difficult next-of-kin. THANK-YOU NOTE Mrs K. Is Equal To Press Women Dear Mary Faworth: I want to take just a minute to tell you * WASHINGTON (AP) -- Mrs. dio are t : Nina Khrushchev, in her first how on Phin Souk) ape formal press conference, show e way in which you can sift Der Ti yore ev ery bit as sharp through all the sand-in-the-eye Be er \amous a more and lift out the truth, is a source eT temper cons . of fresh wonder and delight to me gven, .. |each time. Thanks for helping me Mrs. Khrushchev met with/t; better understand this world women reporters Friday in the ful] of people. Sincerely yours, Yving room of Blair House. W. True. there were no barbed) Dear R.G.W.: When a man im- queries or hot potatoes to-sed. putes clarity of perception to a" But Mrs. Khrushchev seized on|woman, and credits her with add- several innocuous questions to|ing to his understanding of peo- drive home some of the differ-|/ple, well, mv friend, I consider ences in Russian and American that praise indeed. Thanks very eustoms. much for your kind words. M.H. 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Write her trepidation at the outset. in care of this newspaper. She was asked how she spent her time at home, was it mostly bousework or charity work? She quickly replied: "I don't do any charity work. In our country /all that in your ¢ountry requires charity, collec-| tion or funds and so on--the state takes care of all that." SPEAKS IN RUSSIAN Dressed in a white and grey figured dress, Mrs. Khrushchev, glthough she knows some English, spoke in Russian through an in- terpreter. She first met Khrushchev at Stalino in the early '20s, she said, while che was teaching an adult education class and he was study- {ng mining and engineering. They were married in 1924. She said Khrushchev's first wife died in a famine. There were| two children by that first marri- N n A 3 gee- Julia, 20 3 38 Killed In) CARPET DEPARTMENT She is the mother of the other (DOWNSTAIRS) three Khrushchev children, Rada, 2¢, Sergei, 24 and Yelena, 21, a Moscow University student who did not come aleng on the trip. 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