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1892, Mother Dengel took her medical degree at University Col- THE OSHAWA TIMES, Mondey, October §, 1959 of lege of Cork, Ireland, and chose -- MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL \ SAMPLING FRESH-BAKED ROLLS The Feast of the Seven Tab- Jes, a novel fall supper ar- ranged by the Woman's Asso- ciation of King Street United Church last week, was an out- success, Each of the seven tables of the buffet was corated in symbolic colors. At of rolls, casserole dishes and bak beans are seen Mrs. laden with choice fare and de- the brown table, set with basket| Harry Souch, assistant decora- tor; Mrs. Jack Perry, presi- dent; Mrs. Frank James, chairman of the kitchen com- | mittee and Mrs. Douglas Redpath, vice-president, --Oshawa Times Photo CHILD GUIDANCE TO SIZE 48 By ANNE ADAMS s |deed, as you answer your tot's him 0lvoy out with his questions and By G. CLEVELAND MYERS five, may be an endless ques |questions and if you try to an swer all of them as kindly and as accurately as you are able. STIMULATE CHILD There's no better way fo enjoy his companionship, encourage him at speech and keep alive and stimulate his curiosity. About the only way he can get information |concerning the thousands of things he wants to know is to tioner. He will be if you never show vexation when he asks Encourage Child's Curiosity By Answering His Questions ing for the answer to a question Your child, from about two to|of his. He feels that he and what he wants to know are worthwhile. - sible, to search immediately for might well make a written or mental note of the question and find the answer later. POSTPONE EXPLANATION Also there may be times when, after answering many questions saying calmly, "I just can't an- have somebody answer his ques- tions. and questions he will try to answer for himself when he can read. In- No matter how smart you are, questions a youngster under don't know." When one of our youngsters was about four, I must have been saying pretty often, "I don't know," for one day he said, "Daddy, you don't seem to know Nartow and smart -- that's the anything." way you look wherever you go in| this easy-sew step-in. lines are crisply accented by a square neckline, tab detail. For cotton, crepe, wool. Tomorrow's pattern: Half-size dress. Printed Pattern 4808: Women's Sizes 36, 38, 40, 42, 4, 46, 48. Size 36 takes 3% yards 33-inch. |SEARCHING FOR REPLY Is: les Later when I had to say, "1 don't know," I searching in books. Wholesome is the parent-child by sending a self-addressed, U.S. stamped envelope to me in care Printed directions on each pat- tern part. Easier, accurate. Send FORTY CENTS (40c) in coins (stamps cannot be accept- ed) for this pattern. Please print plainly SIZE, RANE, ADDRESS, Send order to ANNE ADAMS, eare of The Oshawa Times, Pat- tern Dept., Oshawa, Ontario. HOUSEHOLD HINT « You can remove the edor of ondons from knives and cooking | utensils by rubbing them with al damp cloth, then rubbing thor-| oughly with salt and washing well in hot, soapy water. WASHDAY PROBLEM? You Need An AUTOMATIC . Clothes Dryer See Our Selection WESTINGHOUSE MOFFAT ... EASY PHILCO Compare them side-by-side feoture for feature swer more could, to find the answer by tele- phoning someone who knew or relationship when a youngster sees or hears the parent search-lof this newspaper.) of your questions now. he asks! put this should not happen too has answered, the more|,pien The child should feel as- sured he can come back to you later with a ba Please don't tell never act as if you are annoyed by his interrogations. CAN'T ANSWER EVERYTHING |oTHER MOTIVE However, you may find your you hardly could answer all the tot asking a second question be- fore you have finished answering Jmay ask. Just do the best you EE EE wys De ready to 32y "1 the first. You may easily discern that his chief motive is to keep formation. In such an instance, was hefore he asks another. Dear Mary Haworth: It was through my work that I met Juan. I am a woman, 30, asso- ciated with a big corporation in a big city. Juan was handsome, polished, well dressed, and those who knew him thought well of him. He has a fine job. After I had done him a small business favor, he insisted on buying me lunch. He told me his father was Spanish and his mother part Spanish, part Italian. He had a marvellous foreign ac- cent; and of course I believed him We dated, fell in love and be- came engaged. He gave me a costly diamond ring (for which he paid $2,500). He wanted to be married at once; but I put him off until November--thank God. FELLOW REFUSES Then I received an anonymous letter signed "A Friend," asking if I knew that my fiance was a Negro. I don't know how I lived through the day. When Juan called that evening I showed him the letter and he said very calmly: "It's true." He sald he hated being a Ne- gro; had plastic surgery on his face, spent hours perfecting a "foreign" accent and made up his mind to marry a white girl. I threw the ring at him in fury. He picked it up, put it back on my finger and said: "I don't want any foolishness from you, be- cause we are going to marry as him, to say he had to go away for three days and on his return we would marry at once. The fol- lowing day I gave up my apart- ment, had my furniture stored, took extended leave from my job and came here, to stay with dear friends and hide out from Juan. He knows of these friends; and may come here, looking for me, any day. WAS SHE WRONG? On hearing my story, these friends advised me to write you for guidance. Was I wrong to run away? Had Juan become violent (and he was beginning to), 1 would have been forced to call for help; and I would die if this Deceived By Rich 'Spaniard' Girl Hides and Lives in Fear specialist medical help, to get your sick nerves dnder control, as a preliminary to solving the other aspects of your problem. A poison pen letter is a rude shock to the nervous system in any circumstances: and doubly so when it exposes the ugly truth that your fiance was living a lie when he courted your trust. You have had a terrific jolt; and as a result you are in poor condition to cope with the aftermath of your too hasty involvement with the pretender Juan. When you've begun to rally from the fear, depression, rage, self-distrust, etc., that make your life a nightmare at present, you then can plan sensibly your fu- ture course. MAN NEEDS HELP So my first advice is to discuss your turmoil with a psychiatrist, as a first means of recovering poise and self-confidence. Next, as I see the picture, it would seem unwise, all things consid- ered, for you to return, any time soon, to the environment where your path crossed Juan's. 1 think you used instinctive good judgment in just disappearing, to take refuge with dear friends. As a woman alone, this was your best defence against emotional argument and possibly dangerous quarreling = with the suitor. - Since you've made this CROSS-STITCH s India for her practice. Confronted with the vast unre- The s cal mission sisters." include doctors, pharmacists. nurses, technicians and others. Mother Dengel says the mis- sion sisters' greatest progress has been in India and Pakistan. "At first we had to establish con- fidence," she says, "but once that was done, we found them very good patients." Two-thirds are women and children and "many cannot afford to pay, but they are never turned away." THE SCHOOL OF DANCING ~ D.EA, MD.A. Ballet, Tap, Toe, Character, Baton, : Acrobatic. Pre-School, Friday--Satur- day. at the MASONIC TEMPLE 91 CENTRE ST., OSHAWA Information: RA 3-7253 * 4 | a? By ALICE BROOKS A prize pair -- realistically de- tailad to create a dramatic ef- fect above mantel or on table. | So vivid -- you'd think they rejected were painted in oils. Yet it's all 8-to-the-inch cross-stitch. Pattern move, and have enough private|7131: pheasant transfer 8 x 21 planned." The dialogue that fol-|not settle nearby your friends for| lowed made me deathly afraid of|a while, and find work for your-ifor this pattern (stamps cannot self in the local job field. lincome to be independent, why inches; color chart; directions. Send Thirty-five cents (coins) be accepted) to Household Arts | The next evening he telephoned| As for Juan, he obviously needs|Dept., The Oshawa Times, Osh. psychiatric help too--(1) to cor-lawa, Ontario. Print plainly rect his error of hating himself, NAME, ADDRESS, PATTERN while supposing it is his race he|NUMBER. hates; and (2) to become an hon- orable man, making constructive Brooks JUST OUT! Our New 1960 Alice Needlecraft Book con- use of the energy, ambition, in-|tains THREE FREE Patterns. telligence, etc., that God has Plus ideas galore for home fur. given him. And that he has been nishings, fashions, gifts, toys, ba- misusing tragically, in trying to|zaar sellers -- exciting, unusual pass as somebody he isn't. M.H. designs to crochet, Mary Haworth knit, sew, counselsiembroider, huck weave, quilt. Be through her column, not by maillfirst with the newest -- send 25 or personal interview. Write her|cents now! in care of this newspaper. THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA | High Honor Given To Mother Superior the answer. At such times one became a public scandal. I'm not worried about my job, as my parents left me financially a |independent. But I am lost with Of course there are manv times, thing to do. . when it's not practical, even pos- 1 want to gojuse of k to my own city, find another C at and get back into|2nd scientific pursuits. Look for harness. Please tell me what to do; and may God bless you. D.Y. RECOVER POISE YOUNG INDEPENDENT KIRKLAND. LAKE, Ont. (CP) or when encumbered with other When a Kirkland Lake mother matters, one might be justified in asked her schoolboy son why the parents of neighborhood young- sters never took him in their cars to school, he replied: "They do offer me a ride--but I would have to sit in the back seat with the Dear D.Y.: Just now you need FO TOMOROW Enterprise and originality will pay off now, so make the best skills and talents. Es- pecially favored: all mechanical some good news in the P.M. FO THE BIRTHDAY By VIRGINIA MULLINS CHICAGO (AP)--Sixty-seven is an age that finds most women content to tend their rose bushes, baby-sit with grandchildren or just enjoy the leisure of life's afternoon. But for Anna Marie Dengel-- Mother Dengel to the religious community she founded 34 years If tomorrow is your birthday! o5 it's 5 time to look about for your horoscope indicates that job and-or business goals which you { recently, could well be realized may have thought unattainable ity |more ways of doing more than she has done for afflicted human- "One always hopes to do before the end of this year. That =o» chp gays, is, of course, if you have made Austrian-born, Irish - educated, use of all opportunities available India-serving, this religious cit- since January, have put forth best efforts. Even if you did izen of the world came to Chi- cago from her headquarters in not, however, there's no reason 10| pome recently to accept a singu- currently in a fine planetary girls." cle and can still accomplish a BRIGHT COLORS colors. Norway's women weavers, veloped talent could open up new knitters and embroiderers empha- (fields of endeavor to you in the size bold patterns and bright/new year, and you could achieve good deal before year's end. The use of a latent or unde- unusual recognition if you really PARENTS' QUESTIONS learn his A B C's? Q. How would you help a child (for finances. Xt & in the first or second grade to|along these lines: mid-1960. De- you busy rather than to get in- If you have answered your child's questions kindly, they will include some about the facts of one sound. life. There you should also an- tried, when I|swer as well as you are able. (My bulletins, Letting Baby and 1 | Tot Learn and Answering Child's =----KARN $= += Questions About Sex, may be had --/---------- A. I would teach only three or four at a sitting, but not in alpha- it might be well to ask him what your answer to the last question betical order. I would have him learn the con- sonants first, as they are less try. The period between now late December will be excellent Next good period cember and January should be and both travel and romance are lively from a social point of view, indicated between May and Aug-| ust. A child born on this day will easily confused and with few ex-|be sensitive, ceptions each consonant has only|dowed justice. By now -- all of us are fam "needs no ironing" . . men, women and children. iliar with that promising phrase, or the lobels of so many fashions for Naturally, most women are thrilled by this work-saving pros- pect, However, quite a few they've been disappointed. of my customers have told me "The need-no-ironing ¢'othing" they tell me just doesn't look quite the same as the clothes they've becn accustomed to ironing. no-iron fabrics don't have the job. From my own observation | know it's true thot some flawless finish of a freshly-ironed But Its olse true thet garments bearing the label "needs ne ironing" ectually take less ironing care than garments without this feoture. Being In the business -- my own personal opinion is that | go along with the perfectionists who aren't quite satisfied with wosh-end-drip-dry results, Don't get me wrong! I've seen quite a few of these garments that you con just wash and wear . , . But | have yet to see a dress, they're not too bad. shirt, suit, shorts or pair of slacks that didn't look twenty times better for en ironing-care finish. | mentioney ecrlier garments care. Usuolly just 10 or 12 of this type take little ironing strokes with your steam iron in such strategic spots es collors, cuffs and hemlines will com plete the job in no time. Yes, wash-and-wear garments, like everything else in your wardrobe; will look much fres! her and better with a pressing. Finily 2p 40, SERVICE 77% ne swag coon my Encouragement for Victims of edical Mirror ( Better (§) Feslih ED Parkinson's Disease | @ Stress and Breakdowns | ® Tic Douloureux |Q. Would you please discuss the \lat it treatment for Parkinson's disease? Can a person use home treatment such as eating certain | foods? --S. | A, Treatment of Parkinsons dis- ease (paralysis agitans or shaking palsy) Is based primarily on the use of drugs to help overcome [the symptoms. Unfortunately, no drug ~-- let alone diet -- has yet been developed that will perma- nently halt the disease. Within the last 20 yeors or so doctors {have been cautiously exploring {the use of certain surgical pro- |cedures to modify the disabling symptoms of Parkinson's disease. some good resuts have been ob- tained but surgicol treatment is regarded as more or less experi- {mental by many physicians. This |is not to say that nothing can be done for people with paralysis | agitans. Even though drug treat- ment isn't pe fect, most patients con be helped. | |Q. Do doctors know why some men break done mentally un- der stress conditions and others don't? Are there two kinds of moles -- "weaklings" and | A. Results of studies conducted | during World War Il show that certain group are more likely to break down under stress than | others. For example, National Guard troops broke down most rapidly, and regular Army troops least rapidly, This may have been a matter of training. Men who had previously experienced emo- tional or mental trouble broke down mora ropidly than those who had nct experienced psy- chariatric disturbances before en- tering the Army. Men who had gone AW.O.L. broke down more readily than those with Army records. The doctors point- ed out, however, that everyone has a breaking point. It is a myth that only weaklings break down psychologically, and that men with the will to do 80 con keep going indefinitely. Q. Whet is the cause of tie | douloureux and what is the | treatment? A. the cause of tic douloureux (trigeminal neuralgia) Is un- known. The facial pain is very severe. Treatment consists of have recently reported success in treoting tic douloureux with a drug primarily used in the man- agement of epilepsy. Why the anti-epileptic agent is helpful in tic douloureux isn't yet known, | Questions directed to Science Editors, P.O. Box 97, Terminal "A", | Toronto, Ontario will be incorporated in these columns when possible. 28 King St. E RA 3-4621 surgery or alcohol Injections to "kill" the involved nerve. Doctors | Oshawa feel discouraged. since you are; . pono cy- FIRST WOMAN FELLOW Mother Dengel was made the first woman honorary fellow of the International College of Sur- geons for her work among the Moslem women of India, who, be- cause of custom, are dependent and upon women physicians for med- ical care. Born in the Austrian Tyrol in We Are Celebrating Our Oshawa School of Hairdressing | 16A ONTARIO ST. 3rd ANNIVERSARY . . . Operated Under Government Licence Hl . ANNOUNCEMENT 8 A&W DRIVE-IN WISHES TO INFORM THE PUBLIC THAT THEY WILL BE OPEN THROUGH TO THE LATTER PART of NOVEMBER THE BURGER FAMILY of 85% pure beef. ' The Papa Burgers, Mama Burgers and Baby Burgers you receive at A & W Drive-In are of the absolute highest quality beef. Each Burger is composed FOR LUNCH... 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