MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL HEIRLOOM! By ALICE BROOKS Set your table or buffet with] spring flowers -- so gracefully arranged against lacy mesh. Tulips, pansies, roses -- ever-| Psychiatric Help Indicated To Unravel Girl's Problem Dear Mary Haworth: I hardly know how to begin my letter; there are so many thoughts going round in my head at the moment. Some time ago I was invited to mygirl friend's home and there I met her elder sister, whom I shall call Jane. She is tall, dark, around #5 years of age; and, to me, the most beautiful woman I've ever seen. She left me spellbound and I just can't forget her. I felt that she is all that a girl would want, in a mother or sister. My mother is dead, and my sister is married and lives away. 'And I never knew my own mother too well, as we were separated so much during my formative years. She loved me with all her heart and was good to me, but I feel that I've never really had the love I reaction to Jane's appearance and personality. Evidently she happens to click with your unconscious inner im- age of the ideal woman; or femme fatale; or elusive, out-of- reach lovely mother figure. Or maybe a blend of all three. The fact that you nurse a twinge of self-pity about your never fully satisfied hunger for mother love suggests that you may have been always an ui- happy rival, in relation to your sister on that score. Possibly the unexpected encounter with Jane somehow stirred up the emotional residue of the past, maybe by rousing your wistful envy of your girl friend, for having such a wonderful older sister to love and be loved by. LEARN TO LIVE Perhaps then and there you in- volved both your girl friend and Jane in a mixed-up transference situation, in your i wear off, and blow away, ¥ you give them time. It would be nice if you had a confidante, with whom to talk yourself out of this mind--by identifying the "friend with your sister, and Jane with your mother, and feeling "left out in the cold" as compared to their closeness in family kinship. May- be you jegan to yearn for an inti- mate status with Jane, as a sort of throwback to your childhood longing for a preferential rating with your mother. If there is anything offbeat about your spellbound interest in Jane, you may be sure that it isn't rooted in abnormality in your personality. Just put it down to the fluttery response of your| immature emotions, to the im- pact of her high voltage magne- | tism. She is probably a dynamic] character, with a lof of mascu-| line competence cloaked by her | womanly good looks, who capti-| vates acquaintances wherever she goes. As for what to do, don't do| anything, Learn to live with pass-| ing emotional: storms. They'll infatuati for such it is, essen- tially. If you feel you must verb- alize, or crack under the strain of self-containment, arrange for a soul searching chat with a good psychologist. M.H. Mary Haworth counsels through her column, not by mail or personal interview. Write her in care of this newspaper. BIG SEARCH FLEETWOOD, England (CP)-- A woman who lost her gold wed- ding ring in a garbage can tele- phoned her local council. t was found after 20 tons of garbage had been sorted, NEVER TOO OLD MONTREAL (CP)--Mrs. Rhoda Brown, 83, who still helps out in her son's store, was among four persons honored for *'outstanding community service" by the St. George Kiwanis Club here. needed so badly then, and still need. FEARS FEELING Somehow I can't eat or sleep without Jane on my mind; and | I long for the day when I'll see| her again. I sometimes feel that | this feeling isn't normal; but] what am I to do? I haven't talked to my girl friend about this, as she wouldnt' understand; | and there's nobbdy else to turn to. 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