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THE OSHAWA TIMES, Thursday, November 26, 1959 | A man's attitude toward | women is shaped by his mother's |early relationship with him and by his own dream image of the feminine traits in his nature, ac- cording to Florida Scott-Maxwell, _| Doting Mother's Ways With Son | Clouds Man's Wits With Women gist. By superi conceived idea a man can have women he knows -- or thinks he knows, Mrs. tends. animate object springs from his psychologist. And what do men expect from| ? Mrs. Scott-Maxwell con-| cludes that men assume women | will stand behind them -- not in| front. "Women frighten men by | their unreasonableness, by the | ing this pre- blind spot concerning the Scott-Maxwell con- author and analytical psycholo- contagion of their emotion, ic the full education he dreams) about. M.H. | Dear Mary Haworth: How does| a young widower find a young widow to marry? I lost my wife two months ago, and I am lost without her. Also, my daughter, 1, needs a woman's care. I don't !drink or dance and was a Taith- | {ful husband" Please advise me. |G.F. | "| Dear G.F.: The death of a ' |loved partner strikes to the very ¢ | foundations of a married person's) |life. It takes time to rally one's | [forces and rebuild. So don't try| " |to rush your way out of loneli-| 4 ness. | 4 | But you may start your recov- ery program today, by making © |such moves as these: "| 1. Become a church-goer and 2 join its fellowship groups. Enroll {your daughter, too, in the activi-| |ties open to her. This affords in-| a. . |terests in common, to strengthen | W. E. Stacey \ramily ties. f all | 2. Find a good woman of grand-| ._ |motherly age (maybe an elderly | Photo by Hornsby. |rejative) to act as housekeeper. | 3 With a household routine restored Ifurnish references and will ex-/and a caretaker for your daugh- |pect him to do the same, if in- ter, home will be less lonely. terested. All I ask is that he be' 3. At the end of a year's mourn- |a true student and honest. Yours ing, ask your pastor and friends |very truly, AC. {in .your fellowship groups at) | church, also your work associates) | CHALLENGE TO 0.8. [to introduce you to marriage pros- | | Dear A.C.: Thanks for your kind pects. If you've behaved well, | |interest. Certainly your offer meanwhile, they'll be ready to seems fair and square; and you help in that respect. M.H. | yourself sound like the sturdy Mary Haworth counsels| contributive mother type, who through her column, not by mail| would know exactly how to guide or personal interview. Write her "WHICH ONE HAS A BIRTHDAY?" Gordon 'William, Susan Lynn | Billy, one year old, Susan, | Mr. and Mrs. and Sandra Lee are the chil- | who is celebrating her fifth | and Mr. Rupert Gay, dren of Mr. and Mrs. Gordon | birthday today, and Sandra, | Oshawa. Stacey, Bloor street west. | eight, are the grandchildren of MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL Otters Home To Chinese Boy If He Shows Honest Desire Dear Mary Haworth: This willjfloor, with private bath, hardwood be brief as I am busy and know |floors and steam heat. Also cloth- Notice To West Darlington Residents (within the boundaries of the Townline, Taunton Road, Courtice Road, Line Road No. 1) The West Courtice Firefighters Club wishes to make the following report: EXPENDITURES FOR EQUIPMENT -- $1592.41 . OPERATING EXPENDITURES -- $203.98 Monetary subscriptions to the current building fund canvass have amounted to $597.00. The petition for setting up @ locol fire department has well surpassed the required 65% of property owners. In accordance with the Ontario Fire Marshal's Office, your petition was first submitted to Darlington Township Council 1959. To date the council hes neither Until as a Fire Dep hy Club will be curtailed on September 3, d P by-laws are passed, we cannot op of the Firefigh pending action by council. your petiti the necessary nor i All current GERALD R. ESTABROOKS, Pres, H. 5. STEWART, Trees. Even a man's ardor for a car,|[by their vagary which addles|"ii his world he cannot test his a boat or any other cherished in-|their wits." strength own feminine feelings, says the world of achievement upsets him,|a dreadful hardness in her." Mrs. Scott-Maxwell has no doubt that "man will always be in the ascendant, with woman as his satellite." against a woman Women in a man's competitive hardness toward her brings out you are. With reference to theling, complete support and $5 a heartsick Hong Kong boy (Oct. 14) | week. He eats with us and is "one 3 Tad oo. --if he can pis hi his honest desire|of the family" at all times. of becoming a worthwhile man. | for education, and his good mor- READY TO TRADE Now I can only hope that O.S. als, I can give him a home In return, I ask him to help reads and responds. As yet, how- We have had three of these boys me around the house as my chil- ever, I've had no word from him, here and they are doing wonder-|dren did when they were home concerning a similar proposal fully. One is an engineer for There will be washing of floors Published, which posed the Lockheed and the other two are and windows, floor waxing and possibility of enrolling him in a going to the University of Cali-jvacuuming and dishes for thrée Texas college. fornia. . of us. I do the cooking, and the| In any case, if'the Hong Kong They came to us at age 15,|/table service is plain, using few paper does its part, in this very speaking no English; and I dishes. round-about communications sys- helped them with English in even-| My husband is a dentist, so our tem, the Chinese boy will know, ing lessons, while I sewed--fam- helper gets free dental care. We at least, that there are good folks ily style, you know. have five grandsons, ages one to on this side of the world, who Your correspondent is 19, he 16 years, for companionship. If really care about helping him. says; and good at English if he you feel 0.8. really wants an edu-| Now the next move is up to him, wrote that letter. I can offer him cation I will help him, if he will{to reach out and take a chance a private bedroom on the third help me here, to earn it. I canion a great adventure, if he wants | an uncertain lad in the direction|in care of this newspaper. | DON'T MISS THE « SALE 1. 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