The following text may have been generated by Optical Character Recognition, with varying degrees of accuracy. Reader beware!

a silver-brown rug of goat skin woven in Greece. See to it that one of the chairs] is of the comfortable type that a| QUIET CORNER man prefers, and avoid too many | \ . " . A 'Quiet Room" Is Designed Now as to working out our own feminine frills, San As A Refuge From Cares quiet corner, many women gre J Oise of Bde toe 5 davai turning to the bedroom for this, even without a well of shimmer: |shells had been embedded at ran. Since the majority of master bed-|; =. og a genuine K'ang| The big attraction at a recent, dom, The effect was that of rooms are done in quiet, soothing] ey | her_because, in truth, a real model room display was an ex-|gleaming gun metal, a wonderful colors, anyway. | father s definitely more than hibit designated as a "quiet background for a 78-inch Chinese] Usually, the dimensions of a P 4 i merely a heedless male progen- room," designed primarily as a|sofa of dark stained redwood with master bedroom are sufficient to In Paris, the girls are wearing] (tar, |refuge from today's cares and|solid arms and legs carved in alallow space for a small table and|. . . chains. Round their waist| {bamboo motif. |a couple of chairs--enough tol!(instead of a belt), round their On the practical side, the sofa|serve coffee,' play a game of|finger (instead of a wedding write a letter or just sitring), round their neck (instead of a choker, round their wrist (instead of a bracelet). Where of divorce, just be factual In a| !casual understated way. Say you | were married once before, when |she was born, and that first |daddy went away. Then you mar- ried the new daddy, lio | daddy that we have today," who isn't| going away. You may reassure| By ELEANOR ROSS her that he is a "real" daddy to 10 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Wednesday, January 13, 1960 MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL Asks How To Tell Daughter That She Has A Stepfather Dear Mary Haworth: I was 17/isn't exactly an adopted child.| A man worthy to be called tensions. i 5 and my husband was 20 at the|She is your child, so don't make father is one to whom filial affec-| The room was of the luxurious time of my first marriage. Wea mountain of a molehill about tion and respect are due because type that few among us could has a onb-piece plastic foam seat|cards, were quite happy for two years, her kinship to her devoted step- he conscientiously cares for the easily duplicate, but it did offer and two bolster backs zippered injand talk. until our ' daughter was born. father who soon will be her adop- children entrusted to him, - M.H. /many ideas about trying to work|sturdy white sailcloth. |oTHER HELPS r Then my problems began, as he tive father. It strikes me that you| (Mary Haworth counse 1s out at least a corner that Wight!" vc carved bamboo motif is res" A reading lamp helps ingsl they snap one next? round disliked responsibilities. We were are a chronic worrier, Indeed you or personal interview. Write her serve as a relaxorium, peated in a pair of square end along, as doses a porizble rorpra their boy-friend? divorced and 1 married again. may relish the exercise of chew- through her column, not by mail syIMMERING WALL {tables with gleaming mosaic tops| player for some of that bd HOUSEROLD HRT My second husband is a won-|ing the cud of anxiety in 'minoriin care of this newspaper. Highlight of the room was the|of chips of glass embedded in'music that is only too often| A meat or cheese sandwich derful man and I should always matters, now that you have a shimmering wall covered with a fiberglass. ll at oy Dy eRe Sey TO To task Cod for soning Hoo BE boii hie Oilier luxurious pieces included music styles. | calories. e, i v nd we have a son, age 4.! 1 cup medium cream sauce foe I is 6 at hig {SELF-IMPORTANCE . | Y% teaspoon dry mustard | We haven't yet told Janie that| Are you sure there isn't an ele-|1 cup shredded process cheese| | PARIS CALLING | SALMON RAREBITS marble paper in which tiny seal my husband is not her father, for| fear she might feel insecure or| inferior. She is a very sensitive child, and loves him very much, and 1 just don't know how to broach the truth to her. We spoke to our lawyer at my husband's suggestion and he is handling adoption proceedings, which should be final soon. My doctor advises us to wait until she is old enough to understand, | ment of self-importance in your g bustling so much about Janie's status? You've spoken to the law-| yer, who is putting through adop- tion papers. And you've con- sulted your doctor on when to broach the awkward tale of your| broken first marriage to her. And still not satisfied with the amount of dust you've raised on the sub- ject, you want further opinions, | including mine. before we try to explain her sta-| Well, here's the ticket as I see tus to her. But we would like it, Relax. Dismiss the past. Pro- more than one opinion on the sub- vide Janie with a loving sunny ject; and look forward to your ad-' 'amily life, on a parity basis with vice. her | brother. Don't discuss her parentage unless and until she |probes for clarification, which isn't likely for a few years yet. K. N. BETTER KEEP MUM Dear K. N.: Some weeks ago I ; a read in a woman's magazine, that If she asks questions while still prides itself on its educational ex- too young to grasp the meaning slices hot buttered toast cup canned salmon (1% 1bs.) can Salt and pepper to taste Thin slices of raw sweet onion Thick slices of tomato paprika Blend mustard and cheese into } hot cream sauce. Cook, stirring, over low heat; melted. until cheese is Prepare toast; mean- while mix salmon with salt and pepper to taste. Place toast on a cookie sheet; spread each slice with salmon. Cover salmon with a layer of onion slices; cover them with a layer of toma'o slices. Pour cheese sauce on top; sprinkle with paprika. S'ip sandwiches un- der broiler for a few minutes, un- til top is golden. Makes 6 rare- bits. cellence, a confessional - type ar- Competitive Prices Plus Personal Service Te 1.D.A. BRAND REGULAR 31c¢ ..... WAX PAPE - 28%, 2: 55* I.LD.A. BRAND -- REG. 2/29¢ "\r-- MACDONALD'S EXPORT Plain or ticle by a person who claims to} have been an adopted child, and| o who laments at length (in the ar-| ticle) that this information was parentally preached to her, early in life. The gist of the document was that parents ought to keep such knowledge under their hats as long as possible, insofar as the adopted child is concerned, if their aim and intent is to help the child enjoy a maximum sense of family belonging, in tender years when this feeling matters most. The complainant, as I recall, was blasting the notion, hereto-| fore widely entertained, that adopted children get motional satisfaction from the story that they were chosen especially by Mommy and Dad, and not just delivered happenstance by the stork. | STANDARD ARGUMENT According to her vexed testi- mony, they are rather more likely to be disturbed by an obscure sense of disconnection from real- ity, and would much prefer to have been left unaware of their adoptive difference from "born" children. But of course the standard ar- gument in favor of parents tell- ing the child the story at an early age is that it protects the child from the risk, or the jolting em- barrassmen!, of hearing some busy-body outsider's version first, before digesting the truth at home. I think there is something to this theory. In Janie's case, however, she TOILET TISSU PAPER NAPKINS i 43% » 17¢ 2: 33¢ FLOOR WAX "*5. 7 5%... 45° 2:=:88¢ CAMPHORATED OIL "tnt c. «. ........ 33 COD LIVER OIL CAPSULES "4 vn. 73¢ I1.D.A. Brand I.D.A. Brand Halibut SACCHARIN LIVER OIL TABLETS CAPSULES 1 Va GRAIN 100's 250s 500' 500's reg. 55¢ 1000's reg. 79¢ reg. 1.15 reg. 2.29 reg. 4.29 3% . 59¢ | 89:1.89 3.49 WASH CLOTHS or... HOT WATER BOTTLE "clr NOXZEMA SKIN CREAM PEPSODENT DENTAL CREAM.."....... Filter Tip 20's 36¢c 25's 45¢ Canada's Finest Cigarette ALL SMART GIRLS SAY NO! NO! NOT LD.A. BRAND 4-OUNCE, REG. 40c¢ TOWN FOR CHILDREN'S COLDS -- COLDENE LIQUID Treats the whole cold cough. Sore throat nasal and chest congestion. It's flavored cherry- 1.10 FOR ADULTS COLDENE TABLETS 1.25 I.D.A. BRONCHIDA COUGH SYRUP Cold Capsules .. 1.25 Chest Rub ...... 59 BE KIND TO YOUR HANDS Prevent red, rough, chapped hands this winter with one of the soothing hand lotions available at your |.D.A. NO shampoolings mixing! RICHARD HUDNUT Gashion, Quick New Salon-Tested Home Permanent Contains Exclusive Clean Curl N I izer . . . amazing Built-In Shampoo! No shampooing before or after waving! No mixing! No "perm" odor! Guaran- reed to take. Guaranteed to last. $2.50 Gigantic Storewide JNNIVERSARY ho ne Ab CLEAN CURL NEUTRALITY R Shuilt_in* thompas eons oh url ax Jacks in He wave! 28 King St. E RA 3-4621 Oshawa "28 KING ST. RA 3-4621 1.35 rr. Bn G GF NOW IN PROGRESS BABY NEEDS ' Blacks. semianvua : A few suggestions from our baby department. | = " HEINZ ALE ! || B= STRAINED FOODS Quality tested vegetables, fruits and desserts 3 for 3lc ® MAIN FLOOR eo SPECIAL! While They Last! Orlon Swealers regular druggist's. Keep several bottles on hand--for kitchen, bathroom and laundry. Italian Balm 39¢, 59¢, 1.09 39¢, 69¢c, tube 49¢ Hinds Honey and Almond Cream reg. 65¢ 2 for 98¢c « « Ist quality, 3.99 4.99 5.99 Mead's Pablum . Aqua Seal Baby Pants, regular . .39¢, Deluxe 59¢ Horner's Infantol Liquid. .1.25¢, 2.25, 3.50, 6.25 +o + 1.50,.2.30, 4.10 ves ver 39¢, 59, 98¢ vies: 10,.3.,60, 5.25 .. 145,375, 5.85 Joe a 3445 Famous make, discontinued lines, broken colour and size range . stock. 33 ONLY SHORT SLEEVE PULLOVERS -- Reg. $6.95 -- SALE. . 60 ONLY LONG SLEEVE PULLOVERS -- Reg. $7.95 -- SALE. . 73 ONLY LONG SLEEVE CARDIGANS -- Reg. $8.95 -- SALE. . Cutex Hand Cream Horner's Infantol Drops .. Twin Tots Mead"s Poly-Vi-Sol Mead's Oleum Percomorphum Use EVELYN HOWARD HAND AND BODY LOTION For smooth, soothing softness ® LOWER LEVEL eo Final Clearance ! SKIRTS Hurry ! Quantity Limited ! 80 ONLY FAMOUS Shortte REVERSIBLE SKIRTS SALE 14.97 CONTINUES Hankscraft Bottle Warmer with Vaporizer Cap ......... i{ Swift's Baby Meats I.D.A. Baby Cough Syrup JOHNSON'S Sig ABY POWDER BAsy | 95¢ SPECIAL ee WOER| BABY OIL [mse BABY LOTION ..... Prevents rough, red hands with its rapid healing ingredients and protective qualities, You will like its shatter-proof squeeze bottle. 1.00 43c, 73¢, 1.33,3.45 . 85¢, 1.50, 2.50 Trushay Hand Lotion 37¢, 65¢, 99¢ Rubber Gloves, Sml., Med. & Large 79¢ to 2.29 FORTIFY WITH VITAMINS Allenburys Haliborange .. 1.25, 2.10, 3.65 Horner's Maltlevol . vo vised 30 One-A-Day Multiple Vitamins 1.49, 2.75, 449, 8.75 Wampole's Extract 1.59, 2.89 Squibb's 10-D Cod Liver Oil .... 1.05, 2.40 VITA DIET 1.95 we. 4.50 Jamieson's | Karn's | Lane | Law | Powell's | McCordick | Mitchells 241 King St. East 28 King St. East Airport Plaza 1204 Wecker Drive 352 Simcoe North 128 Wilson Rd. S. | 9 Simcoe St. N RA 5-1169 | RA 3-4621 |RA 8-6661| RA 5-3525 | RA 34734 | RA 5-8711 | RA 3-3431 Discontiuned lines, broken range colors and sizes 8 to 20. Regular stock. Regular 25.00 9-ounce just Below is just one of the many tremendous values offered during the sale. Nivea Creme 45¢, 75¢ vais BOC oes 75c, 98c vases 5c, 98¢ Silicare Group of COATS Tweeds, Plaids and Plain REDUCED TO 2 PRICE SALE 22.50 T0 35.00 Rack of BETTER DRESSES FURTHER REDUCED SALE 10.00 Regular to $39.95 ALL SALES FINAL @ ALTERATIONS EXTRA SAVE 1/3 TO {/2 AND MORE ON SEASONABLE MERCHANDISE EVERYTHING REDUCED Blacks Ladies WEAR LTD. 72 SIMCOE ST. NORTH RA 5-1912 ® Open Friday Evening till 9 pm. @ REGULAR $45.00 TO $69.95 FROM OUR DRAPERY DEPARTMENT 10,000 YARDS 48" DRAPERY FABRICS Plain Fortisans and Printed Bark Cloths In all decorator colors. Regular values up to 3.98 yd. \ Anniversary Special 1.69 va DON'T LET A COLD GET YOU DOWN! There are no "cures" for the common cold, but that is no reason why you should be miserable when you get one. 4 Your pharmacist is ready to help you select pre- parations designed to alleviate the symptoms and . discomfort of a cough or cold. Research has given the health professions many new and potent drugs te combat respiratory dis- eases. Seek the advice of your doctor to prevent a minor infection from becoming a major health problem. 30's ¥