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MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL {and no matter how you try to {ignore it, it is a thorn in an other {wise rich and rewarding experi. THE OSHAWA TIMES, Tuesday, February 2, 1960 "? ence. 8 We have two children, ages 5 Well-Stocked Linen Cupboard ficient Ambition Of Most Housewives {them know that we picked them out from other babies and they THE EXPERTS SAY By EDNA BLAKELY seem to take pride in this dis- Canadian Press Staff Writer tinction. adam, buyer for one of Canada's) Though they're still too young TORONTO (CP) -- Fashion has come to the linen industry. large department stores. {to grasp the full meaning if "Some women take more pride adoption, we believe news of it in their linen closet than they do|{rom an outsider wouldn't shock in their clothes closet," Mr. Mac. them. We don't stress adoption The day when drygoods were adam says. {to them, but treat it as a happy sold on leftover counters from He has definite ideas on what! |other departments is rapidly dis- ! |appearing to be replaced by beautifully-styled linens in salon- {like departments, says Noel Mac- ithing; we were so instructed by constitutes a well - kept linen PERSONALS our welfare worker. closet. TENSELY OPPOSED G. MacKenzie and Hyderman accom- The laundry should always be, Our problem is tension between husbands to the Jo Aldwinckle, Women's Editor Dial RA 3-3474 Stevenson, commissioner for Rosslynn district. --Oshawa Times Photo George Pearce wuo are seen | Mrs, Pearce, Pamela Years- making the presentations. From left to right are Miss Judith Glover, captain, 12th company; Carol Pearce, members of the 12th Oshawa Guide Company and daughters of Mr, and Mrs, Recipients of the Gold Cords, the highest Award in Guiding, he earsley ere Pamela Yearsley and put on the bottom of the pile, lie|my mother-in-law and me on the says. Using this method, the new- subject. She doesn't agree that est batch of laundry gets a|adopted children should be told, chance to rest while all linen is/despite her unfortunate exper- many Should Adopted Children (omer, Be Told Of Their Real History? | Dear Mary Haworth: The ques- te ne 4 i Ee Institute and received a marcel- lous reply almost immediately. I was advised that the hurt a child may feel if told the facts lovingly by adoptive parents is nothing as compared to the hurt of being told in a destructive manner by others; and that we ran that risk by our erstwhile "mum" policy. ince then, Judy knows; and I can't tell what her knowing has done my peace of mind. As for the magazine article, I couldn't help feeling that the author, poor soul, had been han- dled badly, without too much un derstanding, by her adoptive par- ents. R.R. Haworth counsels through her column, not by mail or personal interview. Write her in care of this newspaper. LOOKING FORWARD CHATHAM, N.B. (CP) -- Mrs. Minerva Tweedie, marking her 100th birthday here recently said "I'm much better prepared for my second centurv than I was for my first." She greeted birthda visitors until 10 p.m. althou, confined to a hospital bed with a mild case of pneumonia, PREPARED CEREALS Canada's prepared breakfast foods industry used 16,433,400 pounds of rice and rice meal in 1958, with the warts? Which way is right, to tell or not?, . .. GF, |WISE FOR PARENTS | Dear G.F.: It is my feeling that of happy security. Are we worry le, Mrs. G. Sheets should be a good size. A|you are on the right track, in E. M. Culp, Mrs. E. R. Drew and double bed needs a size at least conditioning your adopted chil DuBarry MOISTURE PETALS A new kind of deep-moisiurizing foundation! |Mr. Thomas Rundle, They were 90 by 104 inches. represent'ng the Oshawa Dupli- 3 : cate Bridge Club, LONG WEAR their handpicked status. {spent lest week ul we at i |where they attended the funeral |ter. Their difficulty is in launder- sider. n* Mrs. Dunford's bro her-in-law, ing. |{Mr. Fred Smith and spent a few {days with Mrs. Smith. youngest son, who left home bit. after prove the most satisfactory, he| was acting out anoth |dren to a happy acceptance of All things considered, this seems the | The linen sheet costs two to/best insulation against the pos- Mr. and Mrs. N. H. Dunford three times as much as cotton|sible shock of a slap-in-the-face ' { in Port Hope|Sheets bul wears that much bet-| version from some busybody out- It occurs to me her adopted learning he was| In the kitchen, linen tea towels adopted and hadn't been told, | er type of| 8 says. They launder well, in fact grievance altogether. Likely he| As for your mother-in-law's dif- Next best are percale -sheets|ferent opinion, it seems she's de- |with a minimum of 180 threads|termined not to learn from ex- [to the <quare inch. They are fine|Per:ence. Also, the fact that she You are invited by the Social housciiold e quip ment. Cotton envelops a difference of opinion Depart t to send in any little i > opin an atmosphere of emotional EY snests, iope M0, are .good fOr | ension suggests that she'd be alg | ts,| Reports from the various secre- {what has happened. Everything improve with age, and don't leave had been unconsciously at war lint. A fine cloth is good for pol-|with the home s'tuation for a lishing glasses but mot too prac-|long fime, and had a lot of pent- tical for a pile of dishes, {up grievances boiling for expres- presided with worthy mistress, jaries a sived for Jnogtpor. Sister M. Millson assisting. Sis-|?tion "'Story of the Year" Jie jh Gibbs, pig di-[to' be A at the Presby- {rector of ceremonies. | terial meeting which will be held has gone topsy - turvy. Things rere so quiet until that mem- sahib (foreign lady) came here." ley, Mrs. R. E. Wilson, area commissioner; Mr. Pearce, Carol Pearce and Mrs. J. C. . qs . i Ren CWA 1 ung | SOCIAL NOTICE Oshawa Historical Societ " | y used in a rotating system, ience with her youngest son who Presented At Company Meetin uk Mrs. T MINIMUM NEEDS as aloviel, So oie fond wi, ; | ET Features Ta 0 Soroptimists [X= Ven A bride - to - be, buying linen, other boy at 15, he left home : The t is d t P anied their hd Ab : ' . The highlight of the meeting|pany, and Mrs. David Tribe, lieu-|of Dianne Gloria, daughter of] pane Association annual conven-| needs a minimum stock of six hurt and bitter, The years have of the 12th Oshawa Girl Guide tenant who made all the arrange-/Mr. Philip J. Thompson of Osh. The January meeting of the tario with their furs. Then she|tion in Ottawa last week a' the fleets er bet, YT. oo +o Jai, injlsiped; but}: never bas been Hie Company at Guide House las! ments. vg {awa and the late Mrs. Thompson, Soroptimist Club was held at the|spoke of the coming of the first Chateau . Laurier. Mr. Wilfred the wash, a pair on the bed and a/same. week was the presentation of Mrs. J. C. Stevenson present-ito Nir, Frank Thomas Cullen, Son|ynol Genosha 4 fle of whose names are|Chown MP of Winnipeg en ertain-|pair in the closet. My husband and I feel that had Gold Cords to Pamela Yearsleyed the following proficiency|of Mr. and Mrs. Thomas J. Cul- kd . [still well known in the district|ed the ladies at a luncheon in the| Mr. Macadam estimates that he grown up knowing the truth, and Carol' Pearce, daughters badges: Swimmer, life saver,llon Oshawa. The marriage is to] Mrs. Gordon Conan! She hon-| St of the importance of pre- members' restaurant in the/she will also need three en-|fully accustomed to it, seeing that Mr. and Mrs. George Pea rescuer, hiker, Jo Ann Cox, Jane|take place at St. Gregory's|OFary member of the Club, gave lay the knowledge of their House of Commons and they were sembles of towels. That is two|adoption makes no difference, Mrs. Pearce is district commis-| Holden, Sharon Smith; Campers, Roman Caholic Church on Sat-|2D norma), Ar Her bi yw pri ite. his guests in the members' gal-|pairs each of large towels, gues: that he was loved and accepted Eh SEIS gg | Commend (he work of the lr" fo the aftruomn" sesso. lowes and face cloths, ai leas 35 & blood chi, 'he woud hin oe i a d h Hg He ihe Lh Hod oF. Tifo. sev J o'clock. | M Conant ke of the cir-|Historical Society, Mrs. Conan Guests of honor at the anqu {one dozen tea towels and three or Jaye rbor b ter hoy pection was conducted by Hennick; mer, Saya vrs. Lonant spoke of | iol were His Excellency the Gover-|four kitchen table cloths and one|feels at having been fooled or de Mrs. R. E. Wilson, division com-|rescuer, hiker, needlewoman, Lit- cumstance leading to the for-|quoted from an article by K. L. ~General and Mr Vanier.|good damask cloth ceived issi d Mrs. J. C. Ste-|tle House Emblem, Myrrhl Jack- mation of the Oshawa and Dis-| Young of the Community Pro. nor-eneral a : || 80 s ls " . sia INSSIONEY) ANC. SIS. oC iones rn A ian: BUXILIARIES ! Ah | "ane ntari .|Others in the Oshawa party were| «ang jf she really wants to, We had read with misgivings venson, commissioner for Ross-/son; pioneer, Lynn MacMillan; trict Historical Society. There has|/8rams Branch, Ontario Depart 6 Horiorabl Michael Starr she A th : ol re lynn district. The color party con. hiker, Sandra Naylor; hiker, na- been throughout Ontario a wave/ment of Education, "Before the the oNorerie ~ ae Hough. M '|make a hit with her husband she|! 2 Magazine ar Le e you gp rn sisted of Judy Sutton, Cather- tural Gail Glover; hiker, ar-| GROUPS, CLUBS of interest in the preservation|destruction is complete, what c YP. MN. Mr long Hart, VL Save 1Wp gecent + ig White TE oid jit i ine Bassett, Karen Corbett. Bar-itist, Sharon Hurst. and recording of the life and ef-|be preserved which will ames sone, Lor... hy towels that he can use after ad ih re i seni J { i pret a previous way of life to our Mr. George Slocombe, Mr. John|ghower" Mr, Macadam claims. Worry for our children. They are bara Kirkpatrick, Beverly Brown,| The evening closed CANADIAN LEGION AUX. [forts of the pioneers who laid the|F pre a) 5 , i So a Judy McLean. Guides' prayer and * The Ladies' Auxiliary, Cana-|foundation of Ontario, {Serer tion and Ye Hii e sy gan. Colored, striped and pattern|i A best pay ind in terms Mrs. Stevenson congratulated dian Legion, Branch 43, met re-| The speaker sketched a picture go is b on ha VT ig Among those from Oshawa who Sheets have added a touch® of the Guides for work well done |cently for a social evening. Bingo|of Oshawa before the white man| - he EE ns Ip SUDIL 1 attended the Cavendish c¢1u h|color to ize hetfoom but con- and spoke highly of the leader-| LODGES AND (was played and refreshments came -- a trail through dense| The Historical So bridge tournament held in To. Stitute only a small portion of shiv that had inspired them. In| | were served by Mrs. Eva Burkett forests made by the Indians of|In 1957, is trying to preserve aS onto during the week end were|Sales. "Most women try them presenting the Cords, Mrs. R..E | SOCIETIES land committee. the Mississaugu tribe travelling|Much as possible, but with Osb- Mrs, M. R. Clarke, Mr, and Ms. | for awhile then return to the Wilson said that gold is the em- |, Members were asked to note a|from Lake Scugog to Lake On-|@Wa's recent rapid growth there|g vo "op coir "aree "0" 5 Run.|plain white variety. blem of purity and nobility of Business meeting will be held on jis Te danger that plese gi ion dle, Mrs A. Rundle, Mrs. | character and that character and AKLE ' Tuesday, Februarv 2, at 7.30 |is taken now many valuable I'nks responsibility when consider- me LEICH LODGE Oak.|P-M- A good attendance is hoped Village Women with those days will be lost. ing this award were emphasized leigh Lodge No. 151 LOBA was for to plan for future activities. The Henry House, with its his- far above the winning of the|peld in the Orange Temple. A bazaar is planned for April Di d Vv il torical associations, has been cho- badges. Mrs. Wilson congratulat-| Worthy mistress, Sister Mae 20d help will be needed and ap-| 1)1SCQT! ells sen to house and display the ac- ed Mr. and Mrs. Pearce and said (ster, presided with deputy mis- prociaied from all iin R P d h ig and ' 15 Jopessd 0 that it was a combination of par-itress Sist M Th 0 : : : ; » ave two rooms furnished in the en's, leaders and guides, that he er Mary omps| {oll moties Jaised Bring sofort enounce ruraa style of its period. This house, + i i 7 d id Ve | i i y 1850's y eveniyaly led to this coveted!" gion Sarah Murray was act-|their families, and the bazaar is| By RURMINI DEVI Bh hihi r= lime So fins award. ing chaplain, Visitors from Ty-|one way of raising the money to Canadian Press Corresponden was brou ht fr m Kingsto s bal The Reverend J. K. Moffat rone Lodge No. 1244 LOBA were| carry on a splendid work. | BOMBAY (CP) -- Barbara Eis- | nst by ght us on i ity spoke briefly, stating that the/giyen a welcome, .also Sister] Mrs. C. H. Aston was reported enhower, United States President|qavs Its site on the corner of cord was used to bind and the|Dora Johnson of Cobourg. {Il in hospital and Mrs. Jessie Eisenhower's daughter - in - 1aw, (J skeview Park lends Priny pli events of this evening would sure-| gister Margaret Millson,[Tooley sick at home. (has been responsible for a revol- |i "s ed purpose and it 1s ; (HII | 140, are ly bind these young, people to|worthy mistress of Tyrone Lodge, {ution currently sweeping Katwari | > 8 Droposed op 3e Phe It iS|items of interest. News of teas,/hotel and institution use OF} irenlt person in any. case finer and higher things in life.|as escorted to the dais by Sis: PRESBYTERIAL EXECUTIVE Sarai, a sleepy Hindu village she | "gcd, at it wll the pioneer days | Surprise parties, showers, anni-| "siere there's a bunch of kids." difficult p y cate. pie fe sing song the oe ter Ann Heaslip. | Te Prep sebyianial executive visited during her Indian sojourn |r oF sho she bord oye i gg TR Type 128 are also good for home| ue Corders were presented) Three new candidates were in-|meeting of Oshawa Presbyterial|in December. | oi i HE Lt 'ays very accel use. | with gifts. Pamela received thelitiated. Initiation ceremonies|Was held at Newcastle United Muni Ram. 81, one of Katwari] Miss Evelyn Moore expressed for which there is no charge. {terly, company gift from Sandra Nav-lyere conducted by the officers of| Church in the charge of the Sarai's tradition - bound elders, |the thanks of the :lub to Mrs.| Please write or telephone RA Jor and Corn) wet resented io» Tyrone Lodge. Past worthy mis. president, Mrs. M. C. Fisher. |says: "I just cannot understand COP 3-3474, local 18. V by 4 v|tress, Sister reta McRober Buck. Mrs. Kenneth Jackson pre- sented gfits from the 12th Group. They were also pre- sented with twin bouquets of spring flowers by Joanne CoX| Lodge resumed with WM Sister | and Jane Holden. Mae Oster presiding. Discussions Kathy Reeves and Dorothy Gor-/were held and plans made Jor} don, former members of the 12th|future welfare activities. | company, were present and were| An invitation from Vimy Ridge| presented wi'h gifts for ther val- Lodge, Whitby, to a social even-| uahle services while members of|ing on Monday, February 8, was| the company. The presentations|accepted. Those who wish to go| were made by Janet Lapp and were asked to be at the Orange| Sherry Hennick. Temple at 7.30 p.m. | The tea table looked very] Draw prizes were won by Sis-| sorinolike with centre howl of|iers Greta McRoberts of Tyrone,| daffodils and yellow candles. A{Dora Johnson of Cobourg and c2'e inscribed "Good Wishes for|Mae Oster. Pam and Carol" was cut by| Refreshments were served by them. Tea was poured by Mrs. |Sister Maé Oster and the com- J. B. Galbraith, district guider./mittee in charge. Much credit for this successful] The next regular meeting will and happy occasion goes to Miss be held on Thursday, February Judith Glover, Captain, 12th com- 26. JANE MARIE Daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Robert A. Walker, Holly Court, | Oshawa, and Mr. and M is Jane Marie, aged 13 months, | Charles Aubry, Saginaw, M Jane is the granddaughter of !| chigan. --Photo by Ireland FLLKIER ...Yes! and feather- light and crackling crisp because they're "AQUAFLAKED" ao boking process exclusive to. . . (Wes/oris CRACKERS & SALTINES | ~|United Church Mr. and Mrs. Leonard Walker, L The reason for Ram's alarm is {that his 36 - vear . old daughter- |in-law, Shanti, has not worn her {veil since the day Barbara Eisen- hower visited the village with (Mrs. Durga Bhai Deshmukh, chairman of the Indian govern- ment's central social welfare board and one of the courtry's leading crusaders for social re- form. Shanti's lead has been followed by at least a half - dozen other village women who all their lives had observed the ancient system of "purdah."' They had to veil their faces before the menfolk and could not even talk to their hus ds in the pr e of ot- in Simcoe Street United Church on February 24. The theme will be 'Mission to the Uttermost" and special speakers will inc'ude Mrs. B. H. Sover, president of Bay of Quinte Conference Branch in the afternoon and Miss Duleie Cook®ATCM, returned missionary from Japan, speaking in the evening and showing slides. The morning session begins. | at 9.30 the afternoon at 2 o'c'ock| and the evening at 8 p.m. Post Preshyterian execrtive will be ot {St. Andrew's United Church, March 11, at 1.30 p.m. LAUREL GROUP The January meeting of the hers. Laurel groun of St. Andrew's was held as a CAME THE LIBERATION meeting at Adelaide] The liberation happened this way. One of the village welfare There was a -short business, workers who went along with meeting at which Mrs. George|/Barbara and Deshmukh asked Werry retired as oresident and|Shanti and a group of wlecoming Mrs. Albert Bradford took over|Women why they did not discard 'he office, The vice-nresident is/their veils, She was told they Mrs. 8. A. Cross; treasurer, Mrs, |dared not displease village elders Nonald Storie: secretary, Mrs. like Muni Ram. Randolph Mark: telenhone eon-| The villager, pointing to Mrs. vener, Mrs. Ewart Nicol; press|Eisenhower, said: "This lady renorted, Mrs. Everett Petersnn:|{comes from a country where cerresnonding secretary, Mrs, Women have the courage to snap Githert Darlington. : itheir fingers at their menfolk. The mee'ing was followed by|Should we not derive inspiration games of court whist. The Feh. from her?" ruary mee'ing will be he'd at the] The women agreed and doffed home of Mrs. A. G. Stapleton. their veils. . 5 Later thev were assured that if COMMINGLE GROUP the men resisted, Mrs. Indira The Commingle Groun of the Gandhi, Prime Minister Nehru's WA of Simroe Sfreet United daughter and at that time Con- {Church held its first meeting of gress party chief, would have a |'he New Year in the Sundav|word with her father. {School room where a pot-luck| And, overnight, high - heeled sunner was served. {shoes have appeared in the ham- | The president, Mrs. Rex Harp-|let, The shoe - merchant in Kat- er, then took charge of the meet- wari Sarai says: "Ever since the Ing. Secretary's and treasurer'slwomen saw Mrs. Eisenhower's |revorts were given. Mrs. Harper|hjgh - heeled shoes they have {led in a short devotional with been pestering me to arrange for M'ss Millicent Luke closing with! supply from Delhi." praver. | Miss Helen Pardon spoke on her trip overseas this past sum- mer and showed pictures of the| places she visited. 1] b dinner House. HAPPY REUNION OSHAWA, Ont. (CP)--After a {20-year separation, Mietack Kor- eniewicz was reunited here with | nis sister, Mrs. Mary Bablinski. She worked in a local plant to |earn money for his trip from "Poland. HOW TO REDUCE INTELLIGENTLY & SAFELY Thousands of people suffer every year from being overweight. Life insurance statistics prove that the life expectancy of over. weight people is less than those of normal weight. So let us help you to the weight and proportions you have wished for, JUST MAIL THIS COUPON TODAY! BISCUIT MAKERS Canadian biscuit - manufactur- ing plants had a record total of shipments worth $80,612,000 in 958. | HOW TO REDUCE, BOX 943, OSHAWA TIMES Please send me the course "HOW TO REDUCE IN. TELLIGENTLY", Enclosed is $1.00 for full course NAME ADDRESS SAS LARES LS AAP LANL ieee ee es Lede] FTETHTE ATR IeT a Te a Te a Tava eu sTHEWS This after - dark raspberry wool cocktail costume was de- signed for resort wear now and for gay evenings around your own town in the spring, In a richly textured pucker-knitted fabric, the costume consists of jacket, skirt and blouse. The RASPBERRY ICE And for the dining table, white damask cloths are again in de- mand. Five Couples Form Dine-at-Home Club TORONTO (CP)--Fed up with| eating in restaurants, five couples have formed a gourmet | club. | Each couple takes a turn as host to the other members. A lot| 0° research goes into the dinners. | The host and hostess plan the menu, service and wines. For the past 10 years the| couples have kept tab on the city's restaurants. They decided the food just wasn't good enough, "It 'doesn't matter what the restaurant ser ves," says the president, Lewis Sherman of Hamilton, 'It can be a hot do~ But it should be piping hot and succulent meat, a tasty bun and suitable relish and it must be served so, consistently." Club members say restaurants | will serve good meals when good food is demanded by the public, Recently, Dr. and Mrs. William Goodman were hosts at an eight-| course French dinner. The menu, | listed on an outline map of] France, included hors d'oeuvres assortis, saumon Gribiche, gran. tin Dauphinois, tournedos bear- naise, salade fines herbes, from- ages, patisserie maison and cafe. | The accompanying wines and liqueur, chosen bv Dr. Goodman, were Pernod, Poully - Fuisse,| Grand Vin de Bourgogne, Cote de | Beaune-Villages and Coinfreau. | | coat is short sleeved with a Fond of Fine Food | {why restaurants "with all those |sion, when he got the word that {gave him excuse to strike out on {his own, allegedly with his par- |ents to blame. Of course he was at a very ex- plosive age anyway, when even the nicest "blood" children may become insurrectionists, tempor- arily. Then, too, there is the po- tential of heritage--since temper- ament definitely is an inborn quality of being. Perhaps he was reverting to na'ive ancestral type n cutt'ng loose from the herd to become a loner. M.H PEACE OF MIND Dear Mary Haworth: My story is similar to K.N.'s. I was mar- ried at 16, divorced at 20 and given custody of my baby, whose father washed his hands of us. Later I married again, a won- derful 'man who cares for us more than I had dreamed pos- sible. Judy was adopted by her, stepfather right after our son was born, I, too, worried for years about whether, when or what to tell Judy; sought counsel from pastor and got the brushoff. Finally, one sleepless night I wrote a long letter to the Gesell Use before Make-up to give your skin Moisture Petals enriched with Placentine send pure moisture into skin cells. .. Make-up goes on better, looks better. Moisture Petals sink in swiftly... | leaves your skin delicious- ly dewy. Regular 4 oz size $5.00. Myers were hosts at a smorgas- bord featuring 28 different dishes. Club members may not criti- cize the food during the meal, but after dinner, the meal and the service are thoroughly ex- amined. 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