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mes | MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL Marriage Wrecked By Parents ~ Woman Seeks Columnist's Advice | Dear Mary Haworth: I am in|tive; a necessity of personal desperate need of advice and en-|growth. couragement. My folks were the| After all, she has your father sole cause of my husband and I|for solace and help, if shic wants a separating . several years ago. mainstay. If she feels she can't Now we want to go back to-|stay alone, it is their problem to gether, {work out a new domestic ar- During these years 1 have|rangement to compensate giandlier {vo stayed home and looked after my|for your absence. If she has to| : mother, as father works away| from home. She has been ill, though not crippled or bedridden. | Mother seems to look upon mar-| riage and childbearing as vulgar ugly aspects of life. She is always {making nasty remarks about {women who have several chil- dren, Also she says I am man- lerazy, and that 1 am turning my back on my parents, because 1 want to return to my husband. Sometimes I wonder what there is to live for. Should 1 go back CALGARY women as customers, come into a salon looking looking like Marilyn Monroe, says June Grant. jolting her into a more wholesome prospectus on living. M.H. | Mary Haworth counselsipeer in through her column, not by mail they're a little scared." or personal interview, Write her| in care of this newspaper, | TOUGH WORK Two White Women Find Happiness |davs when 17 yelling, for her. "In so many cases women like Zasu Pitts and expect to leave "Of course, you get the odd fussy man too, but mostly they're {much easier to please and much Lb | "It's funny, you know .Men al- sacrifice comfort to keep his pace| ways hesitate a little before com- the change may be goud for her,|ing' in for the first time. They pace back and forth in front of the shop five or six times and the window. I guess Mrs, Grant says barbering fis |"earning a living the hard way." She recalls one of her worst fighting little boys made a blue Monday She can show a scar or two Woman Prefers Canadian Girls In London Find Barbering Men [Jobs Plentiful, Life Enjoyable |: defiitit &° vo ih save aus ae (CP) -- A woman who has been a barber for 25 years says she prefers men t0| yANDON (CP)--When 22-year-| | By JUDITH AYER Canadian Press Staff Writer | old Kathy Riley left Montreal to! look for a job in Britain, she took along enough make-up to last her |for months. She now realizes that it wasn't |necessary. For the benefit of girls who may be following Miss Riley's example, let it be known that you can get anything in the cosmetics line from most drug stores, known in Britain as "'chemists." Kathy is one of an estimated 2,000 Canadian girls who work or study in Britain. about 300 to 400 newcomers ar- rive--the number is increasing annuallv--and the inevitable topic among them concerns their first | impressions of Britain, One common misconception is that girls will find it hard to get lers are advised not to worry about it. Girls to fill secretarial Every year) jobs, Prospective London - dwel-| {reel of cotton; if you would like THE OSHAWA TIMES, Friday, February 5, 1960 § Translating English prices into|of living is high, and few are able relation to the salary here, as|iransatlantic trip would compared with what i was in|against buying a lot of clothes bee vide helpful leads Canada, fore leaving Canada. Chances p : |HIGH COSTS |are, dollar for dollar, they will LODGINGS PROBLEM 4 : x The major problem is usually|_AS in most' big cities, the costibe cheaper here, finding accommodation. Canada| House provides lists of hostels where a girl can stay temporar- ily while looking for a permanent place. Bed - sitting rooms are fairly cheap--some can be had for as little as 30 shillings a dweek de- pending on the neighborhood. But life in a bed-sitter can be lonely, and most girls prefer to share a flat with others. Agencies, news. paper ads and local notice boards may aid the search. North Americans often find the differences in terminology con- fusing, but before long they are saying "lift" for elevator and "lorry" for truck like a native. Ther also find that if you want a spool of thread, you ask for a ience. Employment agencies and; newspaper advertisements bro- a cookie, you ask for a biscuit; to my husband or stay with my mother? Isn't my mother's place with my father? I do hope and pray that you can help me soon Thank you. N.R. WILLING VICTIM Dear N.R.: You say mother isn't crippled or | den, But emotionally she 1 pled and making a ¢ {1 psycholog ly ( your ir less willing ec it). On the loving, she has stuntod her growth, As a result, he is largely isolated from life is trying to hold on to viLg to keep vou from ma iring into real avomanhood---be cause she waits 'company in the bleak situation she's brought on self GROUPS, CLUBS, AUXILIARIES Hor uty diparaging atta joy marriage and child bearing is " the voice of sour grapes king HOLY TRINITY EVE. WA officers for the coming year: She is envious, unconsciously, of The regular meeting of the eve-| President, Mrs. G. D. Burnett; | heir liberal courageous character ning Women's Auxiliary of Holy|vice-president, Mrs. Arthur Re-\and fheir readiness to invest Trinity an Church was held | calla; secretary, Mrs. Frankpenefully ers rok, we LiiTE DE y iv gpefully in giving-and-getting re in the 1 on Wednesday |Ross; treasurer, Mrs. Anthony ationships ing Flonteck: social convener, Mrs.| 3 En the pres-| Robert Leslie; sick convener with | Mrs. M. Paulocik; press report followed by a reading by er, Mrs. Alex Williams; tele- would have difficulty maki Frederick Schultz. . phone conveners, Mrs. Ross grade into poised an Mrs. Chris Willoughby read the Collins, Mrs. D. V. Crowder: LA hood, coming from s minutes rs report| representative, Mrs, C. J. Wray. |; / HY: d Ine 5 b> i 4 given by Mrs. Clinton Nick "1 ; 2 . ind. t you are of adult yas given hy Ars. > Mrs. Flonteck offered her home bly te a rson ar o J irt y nto ano " ; Follow a general business os, on nn) birthday : intel} ence (to judge by discussion, plans were made to! "" 7 = = 7° © 7° your letter) : ou can't blame forward a requested parcel to the| your mother indefinitely for your Gordon Head Indian School at| _ _ [own indecisiveness Punnick Saskatchewan The | HITT [ young men contents have alraedy been pur- | | chased, also a quilt and layetts made by some of the members is to be sent to northern Canada. t was decided to have a speak-| er from the Diocesan Centre come from Toronto to speak on Dorcas work at the April meeting. Plans were also made to hold the annual pancake tea and sale : : of work on March 1, in the par-| "hrs. . WIFE PRESERVE Mrs, Joseph La Reeque was lecomed as a new member. | : ¥ Refreshments was served by| Any skirt which has a tendency since a choice is-open to you at Mrs. Robert Williams and Mrs. [fo stretch or C'stort should be present: between "really living"| William Bowman. fomed TR waist and "living death"--and then st ANDREWS wa [FST Vine iam EN 02s emp. viusaing : along she - road (Executive Meeting) hem. 4 TY © he leHiBeT. Mrs. George Werry, new presi | -- KEEP GROWING |was a hospital orderly, My hus-| | dent of the WA of St. Andrew's HOUSEHOLD HINT In short, I advise you to re- band went to Grade 8--but he Eskimos "very much happier" | United church held the first meet-l A ootton-tipped swab is useful turn to your husband--not in a knows much more, He reads -a than whites. "They don't worry ing of the new executive recentlyisor dusting the number- plate spirit of rejecting your mother-- lot." about tomorrow. What is. going eh fhe ladies' parlor at theynder the dial on the telephone. but rather as a gmoral impera-| Mrs, Menarik says she finds on right now is important." church. | 5 ath 88 S008 unper he I nds' on Plans for the year were dis- cussed. It was announced that the vice-presidents would head up the st ng committees as fol- lows -- Ist vice president, Mrs Lloyd Pegg, program planning; ond vice-president, Mrs. James Warnica, devoti 3rd vice- president, 'mrs. Irving Macleod visiting. It was decided to hold the an nual choir and Sunday School banquet in March and the flower fund tea on 18. Group leaders were asked to have reports ready for the next regular meeting on February 18, at 2 pm EVER-READY AUX. Ever-Ready Auxiliary of United Church met on Tuesday, February 2, for the regular meeting. The president, Mrs. Thomas Basinger, presided Miss Cora Harvey read the Scripture lesson. Mrs. Bassinge read "The Story of Joseph." The secretary's report was read by the president, in the absence of Mrs. Harry Wurbs and Miss Alta Kemp gave the treasurer's report, Refreshments were served by Mrs. Fred Williams' group. CANADIAN LEGION AUX. The Ladies® Auxiliary fo Canadian Le evening, February 2 dent Mrs. Herbert Bathe presid- ing. Work for the coming bazaar was given out Mrs. E. Anderson will con- vene the night of cards to be held next Tuesday, February 9. Tick- ets may be bought at the door Refreshments will be served and there are good prizes, also a door prize. I' was decided to send fifty dollars to the Legion Bursary Fund. Mrs. Herbert Bathe, Mrs. Ed- ward Bouckley, Mrs. Richard Burkhart and Mrs. E. Anderson were appointed to be on the Poppy Committee for 1960 The officers and executive of 1959, also any member who served on a committee last year, were invited to attend the Legion] executive party to be held this Saturday evening Mrs. C. E, Vermoen splendid catering report. Two out of town auxiliaries have been invited to attend the social evening to be held on Tuesday, February 23. Mrs. Flor- ence Culling was reported ill in a Toronto hospital, Mrs. Mason in Oshawa General Hospital, Mrs Besse Brown, sick at home, also Jessie Tooley The next business meeting will be held on February 16 at 7.30 p.m. 4TH GROUP COMMITTEE Election of officers highlighted : the meeting of the 14th Group Committee Girl Guide Associa. tion held at the home of Mrs. Robert Leslie The following is the slate of |where a rambunctious youngster and clerical positions are always|if you are in the market for a Married to Eskimos I lanted his teeth, There' in di d d coffee b ft t k t = » = {has plan is teeth, re's alin demand; and coffee bars often new sweater, you as 0 see a By ELIZABETH MOTHERWELL 1,;o one on her arm where Eric have openings for waitresses, jumper--what Canadians know as Canadian Press Staff Writer |Negterenko, now with Chicago with or without previous exper-ijumpers are called pinafores. OTTAWA (CP) Two white Black Hawks of the National Hoc- - girls married to Eskimos say a key League, bit her when he was ompromise between white anda young tike. | . on First! 10 ways is the ideal life There were five men in the hey accept city living because shop while Mrs. Grant was being | BIG VALUE--IMPORTED BLUE WILLOW DESIGN their husbands' jobs with the|interviewed. | northern affairs department] "They gossip just as much as| your bedrid is crip pple of you, more "it's Such Fun to Get Together at Sue's House "We have a great time in the basement Rumpus Room. Sue's folks just had it remodeled with mater- ials from BROWN'S LUMBER & SUPPLIES . . , with the loveliest Plywood Paneling on the walls, Acoust- ical Ceiling Tiles that deaden sound, and a handy storage wall for stowing away sports equipment ! Wish my folks would plan a Rumpus Room for our family." Lh] iy brought them to Ottawa -- but| women do. But they're open about f look forward to a return to the|it. Women whisper very softly so . 'wonderful freedom" of the no one will hear them. But ac North, (tually they want everyone to The girls have yet to meet, but know what there saying. there are many similarities in| 'The men talk freely and even| their stories as told in interviews get very loud at times. Fspec. Tuesday ally when there's an election or The romance of the former| Something like that coming up Sarah Wolfe of Montreal, '22. There's always a good argument year-old bride of Baptiste Tootoo, | Around here. They really growl at a case of the scientist each other. | marrying the subject. She went FEW WOMEN BARBERS to Churchill, Man., the summer, When Mrs. Grant first entered of 1958 to do research in anthro-|the profession, barbering was pology and now is training with{fairly common for women, her husband for social the North. score of PORTRAIT OF LORELIE Bonnle, daughter of Mr. and ; is the granddaughter of Mr Mrs. Samuel Van Camp, RR 2, | and Mrs, Roy Van Camp, RR Bowmanville, is Lorelie Eliza- | 2, Bowmanville beth. enty-month-old Lorelie Photo Now she you--LI by Hornsby was Put our easily-installed work in| "There just don't seem to be Floor Tile in your kitchen, any these days though. I think it's because most women are . scared. I don't know what they're| The marriage of Mr. and Mrs. ghtened of, mind you. There Jlijah Menarik was a romance are lots of nice people around. |§ between. fellow hospital workers. I've never had any trouble at Grace Margaret Pinder of Goder- all." IMPORTED! 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