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8 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Friday, June 24, 1960 SHIP'S WHEEL -- HARVEST SUN QUILT Here is a combination of two- in-one design for quilts. In plac- ing the blocks differently and using variations in color ma- terial you may obtain two dif- | ferent quilts. Would you like to obtain the leaflet which illus- trates two complete detailed and diagrammed instructions? Simply send a stamped, self- GROUPS, CLUBS, AUXILIARIES ALICE JACKSON, | around Oshawa. Mrs. John Dixon EVENING AUXILIARY | closed in prayer. { 'The June meeting of the Alice Tea was served by the Sun-| Jackson Evening Auxiliary of the shine Group. King Street United Churgh open-| Next week is the annual Home| ed in the Centennial Hall with a League picnic, at Lakeview Park. dessert social half-hour, before|Races and games to commence] the members retired to thelat 3 p.m. | * |Ladies' Lounge for the business meeting. Boga i LEcloN aU 5 | i y id.| The ies' Auxiliary ol e Miss Mary Maclean, Pes. uaiion Legion Branch No. 43 W. E. Hatfield, and the held its regular meeting on Tues- treasurer, Mrs. E. D. Shreve,|day with Mrs. Herbert Bathe, give their reports, Mrs. W. Brad. (president. presiding for business. bury reported 22 home calls and| Mrs. Winnifred Ballantine was 50 hospital calls. There were 32/welcomed into the auxiliary. | members present. Miss Mac-| Secretry's and treasurer's re: Lean thanked the women for|ports were given with a final re-| {heir help at the rummage sale|port on our spring bazaar show-| the CGIT Mother and/ing a very substantial profit. | Mrs. Bathe thanked those who in attended the Decoration Day| |Services on Sunday. | and read a poem and also the A bus load of members made| |the annual visit to the Veterans| |aims and objects of the WMSA.| | [Solo sung by Mrs. Smales ac-|in Sunnybrook Hospital and Div- companied by Miss Hazel Rundle|adale on Wednesday. They dist- was enjoyed. Miss Isla Barker|ributed 400 bags of treats to the read a poem and gave a short|shut in Vets. {story on a monk's consecration.| Sick members and veterans| ' |The meeting closed with the were looked after in the hospital benediction. I at home. | wr It was decided to have an out- SA HOME LEAGUE ing at Mrs. William Evans Cot- | The regular meeting of the Sal- (age at Pine Point on Tuesday vation Army Home League was July 19. Bus to leave the Station held on Tuesday afternoon, June 5i 6.30 P.M sharp. Names will 21. he taken up to Friday, July 15, Mrs. William Saunders led call Mrs. Robert Williams at ' | the singing of a few choruses. RA 3-4962. Mrs, Edward Kitchen had The annual fall bazaar will be charge of the devotional period, held on Tuesday November 8 § |with members of the Sunshine under the convenership of Mrs.| Group assisting. Herbert Bathe and Mrs. Norman| The children sang two chorus- McEvers. es, Mrs. John McPhee read the, Next Tuesday June 28 there scripture, Mrs, Frank Foote led will be a Strawberry Social at| in the singing of the hymn,|800 P.M .to bring activities to a "Lord Speak to Me, that 1 May close for the summer months Speak". Mrs. Jotetion Baye The Legion Picnic is to be held hs 4 short talk on the theme, "Go, on Saturday July 9 at Cedar Sous for handling, to the Tell", followed by prayer by Mrs. Park at Hampton. eedlecraft Department of this Chris Osbo : Harvest Sun Quilt, Leaflet No, | C1 is Osborn. Commencing on September 6 : | Mrs. Kitchen showed some meetings will: be held every| Frank 'Hunter was the worship service in Son of Mr, and Mrs. Daniel | Nicholls, Meadowvale street, is | Daniel Craig. Danny is ten | months old. He is the grandson of Mr. and Mrs. Richard Thorne and Mr. and Mrs. Wil- liam Nicholls of Oshawa and addressed envelope plus ten | A BONNY OSHAWA BABY Mr. and Mrs. D. Flett and { children attended Decoration Day | service at Union Cemetery, Osh- SOLINA Tink, Dianne, Neil and Herbert visited Mr. and Mrs. O, Jackson Lindsay, Sunday. Ida Wilcox, pital, Sunday. Tink, Sunday. in Oshawa Hospital. Richmond Hill, and Mrs. Geor-| gina Jenks of Bathurst, visited Mr. and Mrs. E. R. Tay-| lor, Sunday. Mrs. Jenks remained for a visit. IJ 'Mrs. F. R. | Thursday, and Mr. awa. | Mr. and Mrs. E. Spires were |guests at the Caverley-Fraser |wedding at Campbellford Satur- *laay. | ; H. E. Tink visited Mrs.| J. Kivell and Pearl Leach were as in Poacrbo Hos. guests of Mr. and Mrs. Allan Wil bur, Maxwell's Sunday. Mr, and Mrs. Bryce Brown and, Mr and Mrs. J. Dyer and Oshawa, visited Bruce|Elizabeth, Oshawa, visited Mr, land Mrs. Rae Pascoe Sunday. Mr. and Mrs. Murray Van . |Blarcom and children, Wolfville, Kyle Squair,| Ns, Mr. and Mrs. A. F. Aber- By GLADYS YELLOWLEES SOLINA --Mr. and Mrs. Bruce Charles Shortridge is a patient Mr. and Mrs. Bowmanville; Mr. and Mrs. Roy|pethy, Manilla and Elsie Samis, McGill, Enniskillen, visited Mr. Enfield visited Mr. and Mrs. Don and Mrs. Roy Langmaid, Sunday. Taylor. Mr. and Mrs. Lloyd Preston Mr. and Mrs. W, Parrinder at- and children, Bowmanville, visit- (ded centennial celebration at ed has and Mrs. Charles Lang- a school, Saturday. maid. Mr, and Mrs. S. E. Werry, Mrs. Wes Hills and Jane visit- wore' guests of Mrs. Fletcher ed Mr. and Mrs. M. McCarrell,| worry, Kedron, Sunday. Omemee. vid Ormiston, kend visite Beatrice and Bowmanville, wel lors to Tom Baker. Mr. and Mrs. I. Hardy attend- ed Decoration Day services at Bowmanville Cemetery Sunday. Frank Westlake Mr. and Mrs, T. Anderson and r., and family, visited Mr. and family, Zephyr, visited Mr. and Cook, Bowmanville,| Mrs. J. Knox Sunday. and Mrs. Mr, and Mrs. Keith Cryderman Mr. and Mrs. Leslie Armstrong, | N.B., Mr. and Mrs. 'Cyril Smith, Fleetwood, Sunday. attended Decoration Day ser- | Oshawa, visited Mrs, Westlake, Jr. Mrs. J. Ovenden and children, vices at Prince Albert Cemetery Frank and visited Mr. and Mrs. Roy Hope, great-grandson of Mrs. William Nicholls, Toronto, Mr. and Mrs. Roy Mallett, Digby, Nova Sco- | tia, and Mr. and Mrs. Abraham Thorne, Annapolis Royal, Nova | Scotia. --Photo by Ireland MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL In-Law's Several Yearly Visits Po 2% |slides of scenes and events Tuesday. | partment. when they 3. for fsclie uled visits of indefinite CHILD GUIDANCE Prepare for this switch by sur- |veying all neighborhood accom- Hospital Auxiliary | Business Meetings | By Example, Parents Can Help Adjourn Till Fall The June meeting of the Women's Auxiliary of the Oshawa modations of the sort. Talk with the clerks or managers. Take a tributed dolls for dressing, for| the "Festival of Gifts" bazaar in November. The corresponding secretary, Mrs. Grant McIntosh, gave her| report and also asked that new| stationery be purchased by the auxiliary. This will: be done,| Graduation SPECIAL d <> BICYCLES PATROL (3,020) 3 ESS fo les ; [0101 = MENS, LADIES, GIRLS, BC NL P P bl F Ww ki Wife ss of the better places in the . | ose IO em or or ng ow Price lauge, Tues, wie Child To Have Moral Courage General Hospital was well at- Letters of thanks from the Dear Mary Haworth: 1 have have allowed them unlimited | been married for five years to a|privilege and they haven't known most considerate man. His par-| where to call a halt. So now you ents live in another state but|are required to spell out a fair visit our town three or four deal for yourselves. times a vear. They have other It won't be easy, but it musi relatives in this area, and are a be done. And you must find the closely knit wonderful group of ways to do it. As a start, I sug- people. gest you work out a new rou- My problem is this: when tine, whereby they are promptly John's parents come to visit, installed in a quiet hotel nearby, they have a dual purpose--to see and not bedded down in your us and their other relatives | ri the zero hour dawns, you may : tended on Monday of this week|graduating class, and from Mrs. for their needs. |two high school seniors, one who more to be the measure of all present, served by the social conveners,| don't be talked out of it. Simply council. have the courage of their con- cussed for keeping the gift shop I. Metcalfe, with Mrs. P. D.| Next, inasmuch as they showiter, priest or rabbi, would he be asked "the co-operation of all| give your in-laws honest assur- . ( § \ : By CLEVELAND MYERS (adults. Of course in America and the president, Mrs. R. Bas- George Telford, were read. i ¥ QUIET PATTERN is. president of his class, the things, alas. Fortunately, how-| As there will be no July or Mrs. C. L. Cousins and Mrs. J.| Pa say that you'll all be more com-| "If a member of your class victions. staffed at all times, and the Thompson at the table. /| Y up three or four times a year, as likely to tell his classmates Nevertheless the average early| members. Anyone who can spend) don't try to provide entertain- about it as if he were aiming leen-ager has such great beset-|; few hours in the shop during ment that unbalances the budget at law. medicine or engineer-| ting fears of ance of foresighted consideration ( $ . The other day I got talking tomoney is growing more and|sett, welcomed the members| On adjournment, tea was Insist upon this arrangement; other; president of the student ever, a good many youths do August meeting, plans were dis- fortable; and be firm about it. i c 2 $- ; ronv: , Mrs. J. G. Carter, had decided to become a minis FEARS BEING DIFFERENT shop convener rs. J il nearby. They wire us to meet them at the airport and usually they stay with us for a while; then visit other relatives for a few days; " then come back to us again. OFTEN INCONVENIENT Both my husband and I are employed and often it is incon- venient for us to house and en- tertain them. Often they arrive just as our vacations--summer, Easter, Christmas--begin; thus throwing our budget out the window, and our 4-room apart- ment into a madhouse. 1 never know "when they are coming or how long they will stay--as in summer, three weeks to a month at times. Am I being selfish in hoping for relief of some sort? I find I now resent their trips and feel guilty about it as. they are very fine people otherwise I do hope you will answer this; as summer is fast approaching, and my in-laws too. Thank you vV.C. WON'T BE EXPLOITED Dear V.C.: It is an axiom of psychology that an. emotionally healthy adult does not con- sciously exploit others, nor does he permit himself to be ex- ploited Furthermore, he does not pect others to consider and spect or fulfill needs of which he does not openly press The emotionally healthy adult feels free to ask for help or consideration when he needs it;| to make requests; to disagree and to object to manipulation or excessive control. He may be disappointed when his indicated needs are ignored: but he is not devastated; and knowing ' what he wants and needs, he proceeds on his own behalf. Being realistically self- reliant, he has both the desire and the ability--in a word, the readiness--to participate in the resolution of problems that arise in relationships. NEW ROUTINE In the light of these psyche- logical truths, it appears that you have fallen short of aduit standards of behavior in relation to your hushband's parents. You ex- re- his] ex-| , being different the summer was asked to call or makes you a wreck on theling?" I asked |from his group that he finds itnirs. E. A. Stone (RA 8.6146) | job. Bid them welcome to use| They agreed he would not {hard to choose. No or say No ,. mrs. R. W. Bassett, Mrs. W. your apartment during the day, {when his conscience tells him|j Salter or Mrs. Carter. have meals together when con- HOW ABOUT COUNSELOR? that he should. After the reading of the min- venient, share evenings at home, Then 1 asked, 'Would your It might tell him, for exam- uiec by the secretary, Mrs. Neil --but don't take their sojourn on| school counselor be as likely to ple, not to smoke or drink, but Felt, and the treasurer's report your shoulders. encourage a very bright student|fearing disapproval of the gang, py Mrs. C. M. Elliott, the con-| 1 gather they have an advan-/to enter the ministry, teaching and cherishing so strongly their|yepers of the standing commit-| tage of sorts as compared to|or welfare work as fo enter one approval, he may turn his back|tees were called upon: Mrs, D.| you, in that they have money of the aforementioned profes- on his. conscience and give upg. Jackson, nursery sewing; and time to invest in trips, whereas you can't afford to leave town on vacations, If you can, you should. 'M.H. Mary Haworth counsels through her column, not by mail or personal interview. Write her in care of this newspaper. THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA FOR TOMORROW Those engaged in constructive lent period since planetary fluences heighten good During the P.M., however, avoid family friction, extravagance where social matters are con- cerned, FOR THE BIRTHDAY If tomorrow is your birthday, in- teresting, but no dramatic, year. Ambitious planes, where career goals are concerned, could be furthered considerably -- if you act now. Your stars also augur well for personal relationships. Be conservative in financial mat- ters, however. October promises job promo- tion, -increased prestige and a possible change of environment. HALF-SIZES By ANNE ADAMS sions?" his ideals. | No? w ORC . ne was the concerted an | PARENTS SET PACE Both answers agree with im- He may have "observed for pressions I've been getting from years that when his parents set parents the nation over. out to hold him to certain stand- ards -- about sharing in home PARENTS' ATTITUDE drudgeries, being limited in the An adult listening to. our con- amount of spending money or versation volunteered: hours of being out at night-- "How. many parents would be these parents often weakened in as likely to talk with pride of the their standards and require- son or daughter with ambition to ments. They usually do so when enter a profession .which seems their children kept brainwashing to them less glamorous and low them with the idea that no other in financial reward?" parents are so strict. It looks as if our youths, nor- So these youths have seen how work should find this an excel-| ; 11 idealists, feel that choos- fearful their parents have been will do them harm." | ing certain vocations is not gen- of getting a reputation for being ideas. | orally considered the thing to do different from most other par- ents may be had by sending a by their peers or their guiding) ents. UP TO YOU Where romance ge wave] be| 1 have long believed that we 2onoar wif yo aspec So Ds parents could do a lot to inspire Ree = : Mo HENS ere! our children with moral courage and May, Curb ; if, over the years with them, we are ou may look forward to an in- ward anxiety and emotionalism .y.. iiitied 'moral courage our- must not do a certain thing, yet in October and November, and| joo in sticking by the reason- neither borrow nor lend during able standards we felt were those months. New business aly Fight 2 ? i portunities, presaged in January "In "oy A Prayer for Parents should get you off to a fine start|; "i.:c A in 1961. "May I grant A child born on this day will| all their them Mrs. H. B. James, cards and chapel committee; Mrs. Douglas! Sager, evening group; Mrs. Leo Gray, visiting and cheer; while the membership convener, Mrs. | L. W. McConkey, announced one new member (associate), Mrs. J. Biddulph. Mrs. A. E. 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