HUTT! # L 3 1111] WEDDING PRINCIPALS At Port Perry United Church recently Mr, and Mrs. Donald Thomas Bradley exchanged nuptial vows. Formerly Miss Eleanor Jeannette Hutchinson, the bride is the eldest daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Elgin J. Hutch- | inson of Toronto and the bride- groom is the son of Mrs. Alex Bradley of Ottawa and the late Mr. Bradley. The couple will live in Ottawa. Photo by Enge, LODGES AND SOCIETIES OAKLEIGH LODGE Oakleigh Lodge No. 151, LOBA {held its regular meeting in the Orange Temple on Thursday eve- ning, June 23. Worthy Mistress Sister Mae Oster presided with deputy mis- tress, Sister Mary Thompson as- |sisting. . | Chaplain, Sister Sarah Mur- ray, led in the devotional period. Sister Thompson gave the sick report, Sister Nan Kirkbride was reported to be in hospital. Sister Madeline Ashworth, worthy mistress of Vimy Ridge {Lodge, Whitby, was a visitor and {reported on several projects to ibe held. A monster picnic is to {be held near Pickering on Satur- day, July 23, All Orange Lodges and LOBA's are invited. Correspondence was read by secretary, Sister Doris McDon- ald, and committee reports given. Prizes for the lucky draw were won by Sisters Dora Johnson, Sarah Murray and Dorothy Holdsworth. It was decided that the annual |picnic be held at the home of |Sister Ann Heaslip on August 18. Following the meeting a straw- [berry lunch was served by Sister | Mae Oster and her committee, REBEKAH LODGE NO 3 Rebekah Lodge No. 3 held its |final meeting for the season on Wednesday evening, June 22. Crawford, vice grand. Sister Ray LGM of SG Lodge lof Auckland, New Zealand, who lig visiting with Brother and Sis- Port Perry [ter Evans, Bond street east was| ---- [given a hearty welcome, Later|erend |in the evening she gave an in- Many of the sisters attended Grand Lodge held in the Royal York Hotel, Toronto. Sister Alice Hayton gave a report of the as- sembly and Sister Lena Harper described the degrees conferred by the assembly degree staff. ter Gladys Blythe for the decor- at the assembly. Refreshments were served. by the vice grand and her com: | mittee, ' Couples' Club Closes Season With Picnic The Couples Club of Centre Street United Church held its closing picnic on Saturday even- ing, June 25, at the cottage of their presidents, Mr. and Mrs. Mansell Gerrow on Scugog Is- land. Games and contests were enjoyed by both adults and chil- dred led by the presidents after which refreshments were served. In the business period the elec- tion of officers was as follows: | Presidents, Mr. and Mrs. Harold Whitbread Sr.; vice - presidents, Mr. and Mrs. William Dearborn; secretaries, Mr. and Mrs. Dean Peel; treasurers, Mr, and Mrs. Aubrey Weeks. ; Plans were made for some ac-| Sister Ann Holt, Noble Grand, tivities to be undertaken in the|dren to camp to learn to get presided, assisted by Sister Elsie|ga)] when the club meets again. {along with other children. The retiring presideats, Mr land Mrs. Gerrow were thanked only girl from a family of boys, heir work during the past|or perhaps an only child who {for t [two years. {an ad | Risen Christ: Thanks were expressed by Sis-|i ation of chivalry confeired on her] In the worship service the Rev- children. Warren G. Dickson gave| dress on the words of the|values of camp that are set down "You shall be my by the American Camping Asso-| Camp Life Gives Child Chance CHILD GUIDANCE To Blossom With Nature By EDNA BLAKELY to the camp staff, and the Canadian Press Staff Writer [camp does a really good job only TORONTO (CP)--It's 'the un-|[if each child shows increased skills or increased maturity. But it's no good sending a child to camp if the child doesn't i-|/ want go. If the child does . want to go, it can be the begin- nitig of a sense of independence. And if the child becomes home- sick, especially the first night, that's only natural. "There might be something wrong with a home if they didn't miss it." The camp must be adequate, and clean, Camps, however, can put too much emphasis on "fancy : t" and: buildings": sie said. "A camp can put too much emphasis on the physical. We must never lose sight of the camper." |the card she the intangibles that reall; Miss Purdy said in an interview. There isn't any fixed age at which a child should start camp- ling. It depends on the child. There are more than 250 girls, |between the ages of 9 and 15, each summer at Camp Tapa- {wingo, a YWCA camp near Parry {Sound on Georgian Bay which is |directed by Miss Purdy. {HAPPY EXPERIENCE A good camp, whether it's run |by a church, an agency or a pri- |vate enterprise, aims to give a |child a happy, growing experi-| Yorkshire town appealed for| |ence. 6,000 handkerchiefs, His brother, A camp is not a baby-sitting | issionary in the service, she stressed. Miss Purdy No [happily explained that more par- Islands, had written that he was lents these days know just why|trying to teach 300 "sniffling | {they are sending their children to|native boys who never heard of| camp. Many say, when their ap-|handkerchiefs." | NEED HANKIES GAINSBOROUGH, England (CP)--The Anglican vicar of this| Qol _|never. learned good habits of jas in college. Bright High School Students Otten Fail In College By G. CLEVELAND MYERS From letters I receive and from other sources, I've learned recently of a goodly number of youths who, although they did well in high school or were honor, students there, have not suc- ceeded at all in college. Indeed, a few of such students have been 'busting out" in the freshman year at college. I've heard parents and edu- cators discuss this problem with wonderment. Some have cited a case or two which seemed like 'Personality or mental health problems. Others have suggested that these college failures, who had excelled-in high school, had study when wholly on their own I'm inclined to lean heavily toward the latter explanation. HOW MOTIVATED But why had they done so well in high school? Some were spurred on by the influence of teachers and par- ents; others by the closer com- petition in high school. Then, too, some bright students with very mation during the class period and won good grades without much or any plodding at home- work. Also they may have been apt at getting to the point in class dis- cussion and given the impression there and in their written work that they were achieving far more than they really did. There seems to be no evidence that these students had ever dis- ciplined themselves while in high school and earlier to a systematic schedule of study outside of class or that they ever learned to take sorbed the high points of infor-| 572d es, he reports he |homework, indvce, even {him to do some reading you p. sve from 30 minutes (0 an {e2ch evenir~ befrre a shag] Most of all, this needs practice at Lal ov, practised early and good habits of mental and phys- sical work. receptive memories probably ab- [plications are gone over in inter- views with the camp director, {that they are sending their chil- Travelling WHY N | Camps sometimes deal with an {must learn to share with other Miss Purdy cites the intangible MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL |petesting talk. Sister Nelda Thompson read the | minutes of last meeting, also] witnesses after that the Holy ciation. They are happiness," co- Ghost is come upon you." He operation, appreciation, comrade announced that the many young ship, health, adventure, life ad- cards of thanks. The sick re-| port was given by the vice grand. | | Widow Asks: How End Unwanted Affair With Married Man | path. | couples club. married couples in Centre Street justment, inspiration, Church would be organized this|ence and good citizenship. Gio ke | fall into a Fellowship Club with | destructive influences from your the same program as the adult for, even more than teaching the independ- "These are the things we hope When your opportunistic cour- tier learns that you do mean business about putting your life] Dear Mary Haworth: After my ing nobody and should take hap- husband passed away, a friend of piness where we find it. He really ours, a married man, paid me a thinks he is doing me a favor. visit; and after several visits we became involved in an affair the affair and remain friends? I though I never could care for have become so troubled I can- him as I did for my husband). OLDSTERS' HOME you two, that you have unbur-|nor by my husband; and this man worry about this, so I don't need ment, probably. drinks and loafs at my ex- a lecture. I need sound advice, As of now he Bi c vou. ar never has paid for any- and can't discuss this with my| or vs Vins e Bures IN ae thing, nor offered to lend a hand pastor; so please don't fail me. elonte thi Prey: 5 nd i SOT with the work--as he is always Sincerely, G.Y. 1 ==50 he thinks--yob ave no cof. "too bysy" with his work, or fidant but him. And there you a FETTERS HER have the measure of his crush- 'too tired'; or doing errands for i lire his wife or children. Also he has Dear G.Y.: One of the strong-|ing indifference to your welfare, | est fetters of sin, that taken money from the cash regis- ter and replaced it with I-O-Us. He has been kind and consider- 3 ate to some extent: but -1 know conscience, that puts barriers be- the affair is wrong and I want tween them and to end -it. 1 tell him I am un- associations, so that they ¢ I happy because of a guilty con- alone and helpless, psychologi-|in care o fthis newspaper. science, but he says this will/cally, in dealing with the de-| eats pense R. Clark, son of | lieutenant-governor. | SPARKLING HOT M.H. Haworth |sparks flew and the sin against their will, is a guilty| situation. J counsels bounced around the sinks. Mary with the watermain. FREDERICTON (CP) -- The OUTDOORS LIFE : in order, that the sordid affair is| one-time Waterloo Row residence| What is the best way to stop|., longer a guilty secret between|of W. G. Clark, lieutenant-gover- enthusiastic camper since she of New Brunswick from was a child, says camping gives ; dened yourself to your pastor, 1940 to 1945, has been turned city children a wonderful oppor- not sleep and am losing weight. otc then he will fade from the! turned into an old persons' home tunity to see the country. I manage a small business left I have been punished enough by picture without protracted argu-|by the Imperial Order Daughters of the Empire. The three-storey|tually seen the sun rise or set," building was donated by Alden the former |children to swim or paddle a canoe." any form of travel . Miss Purdy, who has been an For information regarding We have a direct Toronto telephone line for prompt Airline Reservations MEADOWS TRAVEL SERVICE Overseas OT FLY 'The modern way to travel is by air.' . . DIAL RA 3-9441 "Some of them have never ac| Owned and by Thomes 22 SIMCOE ST. SOUTH, OSH (she explained. and Co, Conade Ltd. 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Signs of Satan. --------erser mem Such is the gist of your pre.| {dicament, I gather, Morally you| |are putting up a good fight just {now, however, in urgently want-| {ing to be freed from this wrong| entanglement. But even so, more| courage is required of you. | To break the spell of captivity to evil, and find your way back to humanity--to a sense of fellow- ship with decent, law abiding, | right-minded people--you simply, must summon the necessary hon-| esty to confess the situation to your pastor, and ask his special- ist help in repairing the damage to your life and soul. To regenerate your spirit, to revive your meral health and self-esteem, you need to experi- ence a clear conviction of God's forgiveness. And Scriptures tells #lus--1 John 1:9--"If we confess our sins, He (God) is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to! cleanse us from all unrighteous- ness." 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