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_IMARY HAWORTH'S MAIL Wife Asks How To Cope With Husband's Pennypinching Dear Mary Haworth: What tol But your husband's attitude -. do about a8 husband who meas- wards money is mean; it is grasp-| lures everything in dollars and leents? And for a son who is be- coming the same way? My husband earns more than eight thousand dollars a year; and we don't owe a penny; never have, He buys the groceries, because {YT might buy something we don't need, He goes through the laun- dry Lecause 1 might send out |articles that could be done at LAURIE GAIL AGED FOUR Daughter of Mr, William Foreman, Southlawn avenue, is Laurie Gall, Laurie celebrated her fourth birthday | Thompson and Mr, and Mrs on April 20, She is the grand- | Percy Kilburn, all of Oshawa daughter of Mr, and Mrs, | Photo by Ireland CHILD GUIDANCE Appreciation Should Be Shown | For Tot's First Achievements | By G. CLEVELAND MYERS [to make such a building and does "(Celebrate successes" 1s a good so, Or when he draws something| slogan for all parents with a crayon that pleases him, From the time the infant first| even something you can identify, reaches out for an object, or holds| How delightful to hear him talk it up and looks at it, until the about imaginary things you don't time he acquires thousands of see and later play at all kinds of skills as an adolescent, what he| pretending, or spin fanciful yarns achieves comes so gradually we out of his head may not notice his gains, Usually . eum we take them all for granted, | OTHER PLEASURES A few types of exceptions What pleasure he and you may When, with the tot two or four, have when he first can show you we see his doing or saying what that he can read, spell, or write and Mrs, | Duncan Foreman and Mr; and Mrs. Walter Kilburn and great. granddaughter of Mrs, Frank ome, | He puts five gallons of gas in ithe car at a time, because we (might be tempted to go some where if the tank were full, SON SHAMES HER We are new in this town and I would like to make some friends; but that would involve entertaining, which is out, My son was invited to a pienie re- cently, and when he came home he said boastfully that he had spent the day eating "because the food was free--," It made me a little sick, Recently my sister-in-law came to visit and Tom took her to all the free places of interest; but he pleaded a headache when she suggested we go to the theate see a well known musical less to say, we have no family fun; do a great deal of arguing and I am quite unhappy Am 1 wrong in expecting more of marriage? LF INDEX TO CHARACTER Dear L.F,: A man's attitude to wards money is an index to the soundness (or sickness) of the values he lives by; and your hus hand is obsessed with sick values, obviously He is degrading you, and de- basing his son's character, by his pennypinch administration of household financing Thrift and frugality are admir- able attributes when they per sonify a sense of responsibility towards credit (or purchasing power); and loyal sacrificial per. sonal consideration for the rights, dignity and psychological well being of dependents, ing, selfish and domineering, As if, to him, the aequisition and tight-fisted mastery of an ever- ready but unused "buying power" represents a kind of triumph over life, As if, to him, it equates supposedly indisputable control of his circumstances and relation-| ships, | By this totally materialistic ap- proach to life, he dehumanizes| himself, of course, while also grinding down his dependents-- his wife and son--to a faceless, ignoble, nobody status in the en- vironment they occupy with him, It occurs to me that your sister- inlaw proposed a trip to hel theater during her visit, largely in hopes of giving you a good time for a change since she must have discerned that Tom never spends a cent on recres- tion for his family, DON'T BEND KNEE As for what you might do to help the situation--it is axiomatic that one can't reform a hushand.| 80 1 think the best, you can do is: save yourself from a situation] of total ignominy, by getting a job, full or part-time, that will o yield you some margin of spend- ing money to choose With a little money in your pocket as the usual thing, you may feel more able and inclined to speak up to your son, in re- huke of his pathetically mal formed concent of how to behave in an atmosphere of plenty 'for free," One's only real chance (if any) of influencing others for the bet ter, is by the contagion of one's example--by living, with courage, in accordance with principles of action that one believes in, In this case, you can only "antidote" the infection of your husband's de- spicable example, hy quietly re- fusing to bend your neck and your knee to it, indefinitely, MH Mary Haworth counsels through her column, not by mail or personal interview, Write her in care of this newspaper, invest As You | THE STARS SAY launch new ventures and to make | lomg range plans--even though re sults, from a job and monetary J By ESTRELLITA FOR TOMORROW Lunar vibrations mow suggest 3Uring any situation December and the first point of view, may not be forth- operator |e i diately, Look for the Montreal's $4,200 {tangible results of your efforts her 94th birthday on the job 8s for the international "Save the October, November, mid- usual, SIX | rr NEVER TOO OLD EARN REWARD MONTREAL (CP) ~~ Mrs Fourth - grade children at 8 C, B, Brown, active as the public school in Oslo, Norway, of a news stand Io were rewarded with a television west end, celebrated set for colleciing about Children" fund, that you sidestep Which could lead to quarrels ond months of -l Ye uiiehiéat md misunderstandings especially in yay wi excel # the A.M, Later in the day aspects 2'Wne will be excellent for romance will be better 8nd it will be a 20d marriage, and both late July good period in which to plan long. 8nd late August will fayor travel, range problems; Be cautious in partnership and business desls with those 'con. 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