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1 [ that your family is wrong. Ijcause her sorrow, chagrin, puz-! think your objections to Edith's|zlement and deep concern, but MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL GROUPS, CLUBS a pe dee pla aw = for Che wr i 1 nie wit 1 sup B Wome Jo Aldwinckle, Women's Editor Dial RA 3-3474 8 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Friday, July 28, 1961 Daughter's Affectionate Friend Has Mother in Dear Mary Haworth: Our daughter has a girl friend, al- {most 24, a former roommate at |college. They have been good |friends ever since, about three years altogether. _ |thern Manitoba, PERSONALS During the past year, for no {reason that I can offer other than her fondness for our daugh- Miss Sheila Patterson of Cal- gary is visiting her grandpar- ents, Mr. and Mrs. Sam Patter- son, Simcoe street south. Mrs. Walter Witt and daugh- ter, Adrene, of Amaranth, Nor- are visiting Mrs. Witt's aunt, Mrs. Rufus Lambert, Athol street east. Mrs. N. C. McConaghy, Toronto Weiss, Oshawa; Mrs. Kenneth Roberts, Belleville bourg and Mr. Gibson and Bonnie Snyder|Trenton. who are vacationing near Pictou Nova Scotia, starred in an am- ateur variety concert arranged by children of cottagers in the Seacrest area. The youngsters are members of the Sunset Club which sent the entire proceeds to the Red Cross Society. terest in this column. partment with your news, for which there Miss Audrey Lambert left by | Mr. and Mrs. G, Williams, Scar- |borough; Mr. and Mrs. John Stanley Mann, Ajax; Mr. and Mrs. L. D. Crowe, Toronto; Mr. and Mrs. Mr. and Mrs. Max Harvey, Co- Jack Quinn, Teas, birthday parties, wed- ding anniversaries, coming and goings of guests and your own holiday plans are always of in- Write, telephone or visit the social de- item of | is no|a kissing bug!" She was in- insulted and osteta- ter, Edith rushes up to kiss me and my husband whenever she sees us. I've never seen her Kiss she kiss Ann. I have been resenting it more and more when she kisses my husband, though I've tried to ig- nore it. True, he is 54 and says he regards her with fatherly interest just as he does Ann. But Edith, at 24, is a woman, and I think it is out of order for her to be kissing my huitasd all the time. Last evening, when he and I got home at 10:30 p.m. from a drive out of town, Edith was here and went into her usual act. I said mildly: "My, but you are |stantly charge. Telephone 723-3474. jet from Malton Airport yester-| her parents in greeting, nor does| Jealous Rage tiously hurt and marched out of the house. She has been here daily since school let out, having volun teered to teach typing to our 18- |year-old son. She always stays to dinner and until 9:30 p.m. when my husband returns from work. | After she left last night, the family--all three -- jumped on me, said I was unjustly |jealous, had no right to hurt Edith's feelings, that her kisses were innocent, affectionate, friendly, etc. They accused me of trying to run her away. Ann says she'll be afraid to have her Mriends come here, as I may in- sult them, All this, because of a remark which I consider negli- gible except to show irritation. What do you think? Am I jus- tified? I can't help disliking Edith's kissing my husband, de- spite the difference in their ages. vw. OBJECTIONS JUSTIFIED day for a three-week four of| 1 THOMPSON WEDS THOMPSON In a recent ceremony in Christ Memorial Church, Jean Elizabeth Thompson became the bride of Donald Charles Thompson. The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Henry A. Thompson of Osh- Lubbelinkhof-Gabona Nuptials Held in First Baptist Church Miss Sonya Gabona, daughter she carried a cascade of white of Nir. and Mrs. John Gabona, carnations and pink roses. and Mr. Richard John Lubbel-| The matron of honor was Mrs. inkhof, son of Mr. and Mrs.|Marvin Barlow and the brides- Wicher Lubbelinkhof, all of Osh-| maids were Miss Betty Gabona| awa, were united in marriage and Miss Myrna Shakotko. They | last Saturday in First Baptist wore identical dresses of Church. lime green silk organza over| The ceremony was performed | taffeta with pleated cummer by the Reverend Richard Bom-|bunds and beauty bows. Ban- bay and Pastor Jack Shakotko. deaux of green feathers, dotted Mr. Herbert Phelp played the with pearls, held their short wedding music and Mr. George| Veils and their flowers were yel-| Bateman was soloist. : low carnations and white chrys-| The bride was given in mar- anthemums and gladiolas in| riage by her father. Her long awa and the bridegroom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Harry Thompson of Islington. The couple are making their home in Toronto ~ |Europe. ; | 7 Guests at the Quinn-Ferguson| --Aldsworth Photography | She will then go to] |Werl, West Germany, to visit| |furt, Austria, to stay with |friends, before returning home| {via Paris. for HAY FEVER VICTIMS 7 1 ( {wedding included Mr. and Mrs. | [ery Deeks, Ottawa; Mr. and| MAKE YOUR HOME ® More Beautiful | ® More Valuable f with UNIT STEPS A SMART MODERN ENTRANCE You Can Be Proud Of! e LAST A LIFETIME ® Built-in Safety Tread HAMBLY Concrete Products Hwy. No. 2 between Oshawa and Whitby PRESCRIPTION IS UNIT dd I. MO 8-4159 * Terms Available * FREE ESTIMATE Jury & Lovells OSHAWA - BOWMANVILLE - WHITBY "We Send Medicines To Europe" 7 {her sister, Mrs. Stewart Brown, | {and Sgt. Brown, and to Kleigen-| Most hay fever victims can be helped -- so state medical au- thorities. This is good news! It means that with early treatment you proba- bly will escape the miseries and irritations of pollen allergies. See your docfor now--then see us for the medicines he pre- scribes and accessories he rec- ommends. "COMPOUNDING YOUR PHYSICIAN'S OUR PROFESSION" cascades. ; gown of silk organza over nylon Miss Cora Lubbelinkhof was net and taffeta was inset with |the flower girl wearing a white lace, studded with sequins an | d nylon net and taffeta frock with pearls. Three - quarter - length a Peter Pan collar and a floral 3 + headdress. She caried a basket Cig Bi A opt 1 pink roses and carnations. the scalloped neckline. A pearl- Mr. David Selby was best ed crown held her short veil and an and the ushers were Mr. Marvin Barlow and Mr. Harvey| Gabona. Master Brian Gabona| acted as ring bearer. A reception followed in the parish auditorium and later the couple left on a wedding trip to Calgary, Alberta. For travel Kenneth Quinn Exchange Vows ling the bride donned a pink crepe suit with white accesso- Mr. and Mrs. Kenneth Herbert ries and corsage of white carna- Quinn, whose marriage took! tions. | place recently in Whitby United. Mr. and Mrs, TLubbelinkhof] Church, are making their home Will make their home in Osh- in Oshawa. The bride, the @%? former Diane Carolyn Ferguson, | is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. | Howard S. Ferguson, Whithy,| SOCIAL NOTICE | and the bridegroom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Gerald Quinn of Cobourg. The Reverend A. Melvin But- Diane Ferguson ENGAGEMENT and Mrs. Walter J. Cotter, Sussex, New Brunswick, | announce the engagement of] ler performed the ceremony and|their daughter, Geraldine Eliza-| Mrs. J. L. Beaton played the peth, to Mr. Theodorus (Ted) wedding music. Franciscus Reinders of Oshawa, Given in marriage by her son of Mr. and Mrs. Theodorus father, the bride was gowned/H. Reinders, Druten, Holland. in white silk chiffon, adorned|The wedding will take place on| with French lace over satin [Monday, August 14, 1961, in flowing into a train. A pearl|Saint Francis Xavier Church, tiara held her floor-length veil| Sussex, N.B. and she carried pink Sweetheart { roses on a white Bible. Quinn was the best man. Mr. Miss Cheryl Ann Forg yas | Daniel Taylor 'and James maid of honor for her sister. Bishop ushered. She wore a pink chiffon dress! A reception was held in the with pink veil headdress and Masonic Hall, Whitby. The | carried pink carnations and|bride's mother received wearing| white shasta daisies in a nose-|charcoal grey chiffon and the gay. {bridegroom's mother chose' pas- The bridesmaids, Miss Ruth|tel blue, Each had white acces-| Armstrong in mauve flowered|sories and a corsage of pink car- taffeta and Miss Linda Ann|nations. Hunt in blue chiffon, wore white | The honeymoon was spent veil headdreses and carried touring the Niagara Peninsula nosegays of white shasta daisies.|and the shoreline of Lake On-| Miss Susan Hunt, the flower tario returning through New| girl was in pastel green chiffon| York state and Ivy Lea Bridge. | and wore a white veil headdress.| For travelling the bride wore Her flowers were white shastala suit in light and navy blue, daisies. accented with white; bone-white Master Billy Hunt was the|accessories and a corsage of ring bearer and Mr. Robert|pink roses AE MAT, TWO STORES IN OSHAWA RETAILERS TO THRIFTY CANADIANS COTTON PRINTS 3 vas. 1.00 36 inches wide -- Great variety of smart colorful prints all wonderfully washable. Perfect for making children's dresses and blouses. Also useful for a host of household items. At Money Saving Price. OPEN TONIGHT UNTIL 9:00 P.M. MORRISON'S Annual PRE-SEASON ll 1 AT THE LOWEST PRICES EVER! FURSZE RS AT PRE-SEASON $ ... 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But an artless girl wouldn't have stalked out in a self-righteous dudgeon. Only a guilty-minded person putting up a false front would have flung back that type of challenge in those circumstances. HOPE FOR GOOD SENSE .Remember it is Edith who has been kissing you, not you kiss- ing her. Presumably, if her kiss- ing was sincere, it signified real liking of you as well as your husband, or liking of you both as a pair. In such case, your sudden flash of scorn might take her by ared your teeth shows that she hasn't been| "innocent and friendly" in this unfriendly and very sly. It left matter, A really artless girl, or|you on the spot where she had ingenuous young woman who been. {had got into the habit of kissing a best friend's parents due to| feelings of filial fondness, would have reacted quite differently to| caught the gist of the jibe right, why and absolutely at a loss tol |straight. there would have been no counter-blast of instant unfriend- liness aimed at you. Yet Edith's exit was instantly It isn't uncommon for girls Edith's age or youngner to get smitten with a best friend's dad and to fuel their thinking with "loverly" daydreams inn which he is the hero. In general it is not so much Dad's charms as it is the girl's maladjustment to sex, and to boys in her own age bracket, that promotes this bias. For everyone's sake, I hope your husband has the good sense to back you quietly in this ex- change and to sidestep Edith's kissing if she tries again. He is the key figure in restoring fam- ily poise and putting her M.H. Mary Haworth counsels throuugh her column, not by mail or personal intervoew. Write her in care of this news- paper. HOUSEHOLD HINT To make legs look slimmer, : {wear hosiery of a color that Dear V.W.: It seems to me'surprise, cut her to the quick, unifies your costume. Football Star Ron Stewart says: "Molson's Canadian is my beer" His beer for friends after the game or at a barbecue. Your beer anytime. Molson's Canadian is a Canadian's beer-- brewed to suit the Canadian taste. (The clearest, brightest lager ever.) Football star : Ron Stewart was named best Canadian player and : judged most valuable Grey Cup player during his 1960 season as halfback with Ottawa Roughriders. AUXILIARIES SA HOME LEAGUE The regular meeting of the Salvation Army Home League was held on Tuesday afternoon. Mrs. Major Rankin welcomed everyone and led in the singing of a few choruses. Mrs. Charles Cathmoir made the announcements and Mrs, S. Fowler read a poem, "To Grandmothers." The sick members were re- membered in prayer by Mrs. William Saunders. The devotional period was led by Mrs. William Allison, who led in the singing of the hymn "The Sweetest Name on Earth," then read an article entitled, "The Top of the Hill." She spoke of trusting the road ahead and for those travelling to remember their Creator. The hymn, "When We Walk with The Lord" was sung, and Mrs. David Owen closed in prayer. Mrs. Allison gave two recipes for meatless salad plates, and told how to serve them. Tea was served by the Cheerio Group. Next week Mrs. Major Rankin will be in charge of the devo- tional period. A HS a i