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(ome Jo Aldwinckle, Women's Editor Dial RA 3-3474 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Fridey, August 4, 1961 | MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL store or drugstore, for that J mixing with people. Surrounded By Friends Woman Is Shy And Lonely Dear Mary Haworth: I am a woman 34 years old, married to a good, kind man, and I have too |very nice children. But I do have a problem: I am so terribly shy| and afraid of people. { | What is wrong with me? I am |really quite pretty and a good !cook; also a good housekeeper. {But I am so lonely. In a neigh- borhood full of friendly, happy people I am dying of loneliness. Can you figure me out? S.C. PI | Dear S.C.: In all probability avi can see pily in someone! 5 this is a psychosomatic problem, However, 1 have kept dog. | Which is to say a combination of gedly on, determined to conquer|PhYSica: upset and emotional this shyness. suffering (with each condition aggravating the other in a USED BY FRIENDS chroaic build-up) that has its occasion. And back of these stress feelings there may be a physical kicker too--a digestive or glandular ailment induced stress that acts up under stress, causing more stress, What to do now? It occurs to me that Dr. E, M. Abrahamson's and A. W. Pezet's book Body, Mind and Sugar (Henry Holt and Company) might be a boon to you. It turns the spotlight on hyperinsulinism (low Blood sugar) a stress ail- ment -- little recognized but tragically widespread--that un- ing of that term. You are a natural aristocrat, instinctively well-spoken despite little formal schooling and, from the gene- alogical viewpoint, very likely your ancestors ranked with the best in the land of their origins. Though you started life under difficult circumstances you have forged ahead with great distinc- tion, all things considered. But the effort has taken heavy toll of your emotional stamina. You have labored under stress for a long time -- maybe since your earliest childhood and certainly from the time you left the | 1 grew up in rugged mountain ( I ou P gg Usually when 1 do make|roots in your insecure past. dermines personality and health HONORED ON 45TH ANNIVERSARY Alex Stelmach (Ann) and Mrs. Ambrose Shestowski (Polly), all of Oshawa. Their sons are Peter of Oshawa and Paul and William of Toronto. There are eight grandchildren. Mr. Am- brose Shestowski proposed the toast to the honored pair and Mr. and Mrs. Michael Szol- dra, Bloor street east, were honored recently by their fam- ily and friends on the occa- sion of their 45th wedding an- niversary. The former Miss Stella Yasinski and Mr. Mi- chael Szoldra were married in Oshawa and have a family | on behalf of the gathering, of six. Their three daughters | Mrs. Nellie Osmok made the are Mrs. Nellie Osmok, Mrs. | presentation of a dinette suite. FABRIC TALKS Roll, Dor:'t Fold Dresses When Packing For Trip By BEA BRIGHT i Never pack clothes that are Planning on taking a trip?|even slightly damp When you pack your clothing] Knits will travel better than roll, don't fold your dresses. To|woven fabrics but to help knit- keep your dresses fresh and un- ted garments keep their shape wrinkled, ready to slip on as/make sure all your knitted gar- soon as you arrive at your des-/ments are lined. Tricot fabrics tination, roll them before pack-|made from some of the new ing them in your suitcase. Here |synthetic yarns are naturals for is how to do it. Ruffle up some/for travelling. soft tissue paper into a two or] An easy comparative test to three inch roll, lay out your help determine the wrinkle re- dress, face down on the bed, |sistance of fabrics is this. smooth out the dress and roll it|Wrinkle a piece of the fabric in gently onto the tissue paper your hand and squeeze it tightly starting from the skirt hem. while you count slowly to five. Roll the dress fairly loose, Then shake the fabric out and smoothing it as you roll. Pack|see how well the wrinkles fall dresses together at upper end of|out. This is an old practical test suitcase so they are at the top|that fabric buyers have used for when the suitcase is closed and|years. PERSONALS | Mr. and Mrs. George Ireland, Athol street west, are attend- ing the 70th Exposition of Pro- fessional Photography and the 9th National Industrial Photo- graphic Conference in New York. Mr. and Mrs. Jack Simmons, Wychwood street, are in Lon- don, where they have been stay- ing at The Carlton Tower, Cado- gan Place, during their round the-world flight. Mr. and Mrs. Donald Troop, Oshawa, recently visited Mr. and Mrs. K. Palmer at: Lake- port. Mr. and Mrs. Frank Bourrie, Adelaide street east, Miss Mary Frances and Mr. John Bourrie GROUPS, CLUBS AUXILIARIES S.A. HOME LEAGUE The regular meeting of the Salvation Army Home League was held on Tuesday afternoon. Mrs. William Saunders led in the singing of a few choruses. | Mrs. Charles Cathmoir wel- |comed everyone and made the |announcements. Mrs. George {Beard read the minutes of the | previous meeting. The sick members were re-|; imembered by a special prayer by Mrs. Charles Brown. Mrs. Major Rankin led in the devotional period. Her theme was, "Our Days and How We Use them". She led in the sing- ing of a hymn "Simply Trust- ing" and Mrs. Melville Smith read a poem "Salutation of the, Dawn". | Mrs. Rankin spoke of the spe- cial days, Christmas, birthdays and wedding days, but no mat- ter what day it is we should be- in the day with prayer to God. Mrs. Albert Hayes read the Scripture, Psalm 90. The Home League Singers sang "There's Joy in the Home League". will be among the guests at the Wilkinson - Kedge and Oswin- Kedge, double wedding in St. Benedict's church, Rexdale, to- morrow, when Miss Bourrie will be the senior bridesmaid. Teas, birthday parties, wed- ding anniversaries, coming and goings of guests and your own holiday plans are always of in- terest in this column. Write, telephone or visit the social de- partment with your item of news for which there is no {come to the city and here I met country, the youngest child in a group of motherless children. We were pitifully poor. 1 didn't go to school very much; neither did 1 attend church. We never mixed much with other people. When I was still quite young, I managed to and married a very fine young man. Now we have a nice house in a nice neighborhood but I find it so painfully hard to mix with my neighbors. I have joined the PTA ang I attend church faith- fully, but in a group I suffer agony. My hands perspire, my charge. Telephone 723-3474. voice is trembly and occasion- Ch, ARIST # The engagement is an- | nounced today and the wed- | ding is to take place on Sat- urday, September 9, of Miss Catherine Mary Mason and Mr. George Ralph Lawrence. The bride-to-be is the only | a THEIR ENGAGEMENT IS ANNOUNCED daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Christopher John Mason and her fiance is the son of Mr, and Mrs. George V. Lawrence all of Oshawa. --Ireland Studio sary visual interest and help tol "furnish" the room. When considering the size of} the pattern, a good rule to fol-| low is to use a small scale pat- tern for small rooms and larger. bolder patterns for big rooms | But every rule has its excep-| SOCIAL NOTICE | ENGAGEMENT Mr. and Mrs. John Mason wish to announce the engagement of their only daughter, Catherine: Mary, to i is the 3 y a OE a niu tions, and some large patternsiMr George Ralph Lawrence, : y WER of the open or perspective type|g f Mr. Mrs. G a\l ed each one to remember thes. i ac scenic designs, si son of Mr. and Mrs. George V. such as scenic designs, simu |{awrence. all of Oshawa. The Sabbath Day and keep it Holy. lated screen or grillwork can marriage is to take place on Mrs. Gerald Bishop and Mrs. really help to open up a small Saturday, September 9, at 3:30 William Allison both a personal testimony. gave Mrs. Rankin closed with the pattern does a good job of uni-| -- text, "Behold now is the ac- cepted time, behold now is the day of Salvation". The song "Every day with Jesus" was sung and the meeting closed with the Lord's room. A small all-over geometric fying a room with broken-up areas such as too many doors| and windows, or sloping ceilings) in a room with dormer windows. | | A good example here is the in Northminster United p.m. Church. MAKE YOUR HOME ® More Beautiful ® More Valuable with friends I end up being a door-| Basically, you are an excep- mat. They use me as an unpaid|tionally able and healthy person, baby sitter and someone to bor-|it seems; and in marrying a row from. But I'm not blamingfvery fine man you gravitated to fhe; he fault J: ho me, I{your own kind morally. now. even drea meeting| Taking your letter as an index people on our friendly street of character, I would surmise where everyone is kind andithat you are remarkable cour- sweet to me. |ageous, entérprising, intelligent I dread walking to the grocery and sensitive in the best mean- mountains for the city to seek your fortune. SYSTEM OUT OF KILTER As a result, your internal sys- tem of checks-and-balances is out of kilter nowadays. You don't bounce back as you should in dealing with tests and trials You suffer from chronic stress feelings, disproportionate to the and produces suffering such as you describe Read the book, follow through with diagnostic help and if this is your trouble, a simple diet will bring relief. Mary Haworth counsels through her column, not by mail or personal interview. Write her in care of this newspaper. Y \Vlolsor 7 » 'aim ga song s OC £ of 3+ anadian Christopher | Prayer. {kitchen or bathroom, where a vial te: served re.| Small over-all pattern will tie! A special tea was serve , Pre-I¢o ether the odd spaces created pared by Mrs. David Owen|y,o" ahinets and appliances. assisted by Mrs. George Hester| standing. When you -npack,| If you run into trouble when you'll find your dresses looking you are travelling, perhaps you fresh and neat, just as they have accidentally spilled some- were at the start of your jour-/thing on your only evening UNIT STEPS ney. As you unpack your clothes dress, your hotel or motel will shake them well, then hang be able to refer you to a reliable them up. {dry cleaner. % " s # = 4 2 MR. AND MRS. NELSON R. BROWN The former Davine Easter | and the late Mr. Brown. Kemlo of Oshawa and Nelson | --Ireland Studio land Mrs. Albert Hayes. Next week will be a surprise {meeting. | Basic Rules In Choosing A Wallpaper By ELEANOR ROSS There are so many beautiful wallpapers available today it is sometimes rather difficult to make a choice. We all know how much the right pattern can help in deco- rating a room, so the wise shop- per will do well to keep a few basic rules in mind when select ing a wall paper. The first thing to decide is the purpose and theme of a room. Is this an informal room, such as a family room or playroom, or is it for elegant living? Do you prefer a clean, contempo- rary look, a traditional look or a country look? Here, of course, you take into account your furnishings, whe- ther they are formal, provincial or contemporary. All of this will help you decide what general type of paper to choose. WHAT PATTERN? The next question is whether to have a large or small pat- tern, or perhaps a textured pa- per. If you have many striking paintings and decorative wall objects, you will obviously need a minimum of pattern. Such papers as simulated shiki silks, grasscloth, wood, tone-on-tone designs and embossed plain col- ors will bring a richness and depth to the wall that will en- hance your objects d'art. 1f, however, you lack wall dec- orations, then a good, strong Ray Brown of Bethany were | pattern would supply the neces- | FOCAL SPOT { | But should you wish to go dramatic in a small space, such| {as a dining room or alcove, use a bold paper on your focal spot but surround it with a quiet companion paper that will set it off like a picture. An inviolate rule is that any| room, large or small, can take| only one strong, dominating pat-| itern, and if there is a strong] pattern in rug or draperies, a subdued wallpaper is indicated [ The reverse is generally true. When you shop for anything, | whether wallpaper, food or clothes, you must know your needs. If you stick to this, then| your purchases will be right for you, for your home. | As for choosing wallpaper, take a few samples of Your} choice home with you, if pos-| sible, and hang them on the wall, studying them by day and| by artificial light. The result will be happy wall- papering! i A SMART MODERN ENTRANCE You Can Be Proud Of! eo LAST A LIFETIME ® Built-in Safety Tread HAMBLY Concrete Products Hwy. No. 2 between Oshawe and Whitby DIAL MO 8-4159 * Terms Available * FREE ESTIMATE UNIT STEP f | If all the prescriptions we fill out over a mile in length, This dramatic visualization o married recently in St | Andrew's Presbyterian Church, Whitby. The bride is | , the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. David Kemlo, Oshawa, and the bridegroom is the son of Mrs. Dalton Brown of Bethany TWO STORES RETAILERS TO THRIFTY CANADIANS IN OSHAWA Electrolysis Removes warts, moles and superfluous hair. 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