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a A RANA ASIAN tne aL: @ THE OSHAWA TIMES, Fridey, September 14, 1962 ' ANN LANDERS Dear Readers: Recently someone wrote to ask what I thought about friends and rela. tives taking flash bulb pictures and movies in a funeral heme. The writer asked if I thought this was right or wrong. I replied it was not a matter of right or wrong--but rather a matter of taste. I expressed the' personal opinion that movie cameras and flash bulbs are out of place at funeral homes. Dozens of readers called me hard-hearted and cruel. "We run the movies of grandfather's funeral every - time relatives come from out of the city," wrote a Missouri woman. "'They are so grateful, especially the ones who couldn't make it." A reader from Kentucky wrote: "I wouldn't take a mil- lion dollars for the pictures I made of my husband laid out in his blue suit. He looked better in that box than he had any- time in the last 10 years." It is not my wish to impose my views on others but when I am asked for an opinion I give - Funeral Movies A Matter Of Taste UNITS, GROUPS, AUXILIARIES 6th PARENTS' COMMITTEE with their groups in prepara- The first fall meeting of the|tion for the Christmas bazaar 6th Parents' Committee of the|and tea to be held November Girl Guide Association was held/4. recently in the Parish Hall o! Christ Memorial Church. The president, Mrs, f| The Westmount Group an- nounced that it would be hold- Davidjing a cooking school on October z St. Andrews presided. The presi-|10 in the parish hall. Teddy and I were married|dent presided and welcomed The Boulevard Group served William Job Following . report Mrs. secretary. while we were both in college. Our ideas of love and marriage were straight out of a dime badge from the secretary and treasur- refre Ss. P.M.A. CLUB er the chairman of the t ing committee, Mrs. J. Rupert introduced the slate of officer: novel. I couldn't understand why he was always tired even though he worked nights and went to school days. He couldn't understand why I was going for 1962-63 as follows: honorary president, Mrs. H. D. Clever- -| The Pl t Monday After- :/noon Club held its weekly meet. S}ing in the Legion Hall with the president, Mrs. Elwood Bradley presiding. A weicome pack was given to Mrs, J, Callison, Sr., Mrs, Lloyd Annis, Mrs. G. V. Lee and Mrs, John Jakes who had been on vacation in England and Scot- land during the summer. Mrs. Duncan Nisbet gave a reading 'and Mrs. Phillip Bell, Mrs, M. Bradley Sr., and Mrs. Nisbet sang as a trio. Deepest sympathy was ex- pressed for Mrs, Leonard Fish- er whose husband passed away during the summer, A donation is to be sent to the Cancer Fund. At conclusion.of meeting re- freshments were served by Mrs. George V. Lee and Mrs. Lloyd 'Patterson. Young Victim Of Smallpox Quits Hospital TORONTO (CP)--James Orr, 14, who sparked an international|their journey to Toronto from alarm Aug. 18 when it was found he had smallpox, Thurs- day left hospital after 27 days in isolation. Bright sunshine and a battery of cameras blazed down on the pale boy. as he was embraced' on the steps of the hospital by his father, Rev. James Orr, alada. Baptist missionary from Three Hills, Alta., station in Brazil. The boy showed few effects of -- '| the disease. He has a few faint marks on his face and small scars on his hands, ' An international alarm was raised to find persons who might have come into contact with the boy at some phase of Sao Paulo, Brazil. They reached New York on an Argentine airliner and trav- elled to Toronto on a_ train. Smallpox was diagnosed after his arrival here. Thousands of people were vac- cinated in New York and Can- stir-nuts even though he knew|don; 2nd vice-pr I was alone all the time. Within the year we were divorced. Just as the woman who wrote to you, Teddy and I tried to spite each other. I married an old flame and he married a gir] he hardly knew, It took 'six months before we were willing to admit we had been fools. We remarried at the earliest possi- ble moment and had two chil- dren in the next three years. Our marriage'is far from per- fect but, we've decided no mar- riage can be perfect because every marriage involves imper- fect human beings. We have agreed to strike the word '"di- vorce" from our vocabularies. Sometimes a walk around the block will accomplish the same thing --WISER NOW sise and Mrs. R. W. Pinder rett. " The néw officers were instal ed by Mrs. William Johnson. the new officers tenant for 6C Guide esting moving pictures take Andrews. The next meeting wi be held on Nov. 12. Following . adjournment, lunc t, Mrs. H Thompson; treasurer, Mrs. Rit- chie McMahon; secretary, Mrs. Edgar Tremble; phone commit- tee, Mrs. R. G. Lancaster; so- cial 'committee, Mrs. Pat Tre- press secretary, Mrs. A. R. Gar- Following the installation of president stressed the need. for a new lieu- Com- with the showing of very inter- during the 8th. Sea Scouts, Star- board, trip to Bermuda. The pic- tures were shown by Mrs. St. ' ]- n I h was served by Mrs. Tresise and) Mrs. Pinder. ST. GEORGE'S GUILD | The September meeting of} jit. It seems to me that most} Dear Ann Landers: I'm a | people would prefer to be re-|widow who has' been keeping |membered as they were' in life,|company with an architect for |not in death. The final decision,|fiye years. His wife died sev- jof course, rests with the fam-/eral years ago. We both visit} , I jily. |my married children frequently.|the Women's Guild of St. Dear Ann Landers: I was| My children admire and respect|George's Memorial Church was pleased with your reply to the|him, and he is fond of them. |held in the parish hall on Mon- |woman who divorced her hus-| He has married children who|day, September 10. Mrs. W E. band twice and remarried him.| live in this city, also, but I have |Baker, president, presided. I had the same experience and|never met them. I suspect he} Plans were outlined for the you are so right, Ann. |has not introduced me to his/fall and winter seasons. De- so *__| children because he's afraid|tails of the annual Fall Lunch- they won't like me. I've hinted|eon to be held on Wednesday, strongly that I would love to|/September 26, were discussed. meet his family but he ignores|Mrs. F. C. Piper is the general the hints and changes the sub-jconvener; Mrs. A. L. Powell, ject. the ticket convener. Guest Eventually I hope we will|speaker for the luncheon will marry although he has never/be Mrs. Philip J. _Chadsey, mentioned. it. I do not accept|BSc., Chairman of Finance of social engagements with other|the Metro Toronto YWCA- men and he has no other woman| Members were asked to work THE SILVER BRIDE AND BRIDEGROOM Mr. and Mrs. Howard Sills Mark' Anniversary At Reception Mr. and Mrs. Edward Sills, Harold street, were at home to their friends and relatives re- cently on the occasion of their 25th wedding anniversary re- Bonnie Douglas looked after the guest book. The anniversary cake was made by the bride. The couple was presented with a silver tea service from cently. their daughter and son-in-law as The bride is the former Gladys|well as many other gifts and Post of Napanee. The couple 'were married in Pickering Unit- ed Church and were blessed with one daughter, Shirley. Pouring tea at the reception was their daughter, Mrs. Cecil Knocker, from St. Catharines 'with Mrs. W. G. Post and Mrs. Arnold Hudson serving. 'Miss cake wa made by the bride. flowers. They also received many cards and a letter of congratulation from the Minis- ter of Labor, the Honorable Mi- chael Starr and Mrs. Starr. Out of town guests attended from Massachusetts, St. Cath- arines, Scarborough, Belleville, Cannifton, Marysville and N panee, Thomas Cox, Marion McNamee Wed In Presbyterian Church Knox Presbyterian Church was the setting for the marriage September 8 when of Mr. and Mrs. Cox took as his bride, Marion Collette McNamee, daughter of Mr. and Mrs, Claud Wesley Mc- Namee, all of Oshawa. The Reverend R. B .Milroy|Receiving, the bride's mother officiated. Mr, Matthew Gould-|wore champagne shade peau-de- burn played the wedding Michael Johnston as the ushers. Flying Dutchman Motor Hotel. matched those of the brides- maids. She carried a nosegay of red American Beauty roses. Mr. Larry Weldon was the best man with Messrs. Peter Cox, Douglas McLelland and The reception was held at the Miss Grace Dianne Stanley graduated recently from the Nightingale School of Nursing, Toronto, and has accepted a position as staff nurse at the new Mount Sinai Hospital, To- ronto. Miss Stanley is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Lloyd Stanley, Brooklin. companions. But I am terribly unhappy about this one point LODGES AND SOCIETIES press further. Or should I let the matter slide until he is| ready?--THERESA | Dear Theresa: If you are con-| tent to enjoy the architect's company--fine, but in my view this relationship will never get off the drawing board. After five years if a man has not mentioned marriage 'I suspect he never will. and want to know if I should PYTHIAN SISTERS day night with MEC Sister Ka Lange presiding. sented by Sister Wilson. Th Union Jack was presented b Manager Sister Lucille Clar and the pledge given. It was announced that th BABY CARE Anyone handling an infant should not smoke, because to- bacco smoke may cause the child to cough and ashes may cause burns or eye-injury. COOK WHOLE For variety, cook a head of cauliflower whole and serve with a sprinkling of grated September 26- ney were on the sick list. Fitches and was won by Siste Greene. cheese or a covering of smooth The regular meeting opened with a pot luck supper on Tues- rally will be held in Welland on It was reported that Sisters Marjorie Carey and Mable Dis- A prize donated by Sister Jean "| You'll see ELECTRIC HEATING --the oy cleanest, quietest, The next regular meeting will cheese sauce. be held on October 9. and Mrs, David Weldon sang. grenadine, Her accessories were in taupe shade and she wore a Given in marriage by hericorsage of yellow pinocchio father, the bride wore a floor- roses. The bridegroom's mother length gown of Swiss imported|assisting was in emerald green 'lace over peau de soie with a with beige accessories and a bell shaped skirt. It had a de-|corsage of white roses. tachable cathedral train of peau When the bridal couple left de soie with appliques of Swiss|for a honeymoon trip to North- imported lace and the bodice/ern Ontario, the bride wore a was designed with a high round/lime green dress of peau-de- neckline and lily-point sleeves: Her tiered elbow-length veil of tulle was caught to a matching pill-box headdress and she car- ried a cascade of white carna- tions, white orchids, stephanotis and trailing ivy. The sister of the bride, Miss Janet McNamee, was maid of honor with Mrs, Earl Kavanagh, Mass Gail Armstrong, and Miss Brenda MacDonald as the other attendants. They wore gowns of royal peacock blue peau de soie with bell shaped skirts. The camisole bod- ices were styled with fitted overblouses of royal peacock blue Chantilly lace with elbow- length sleeves and high round necklines. They wore coronets with small veils and carried cas- cades of red American Beauty roses. Miss Leanne Darch was flowergirl and her ensemble grenadine with matching acces- sories and an orchid cOrsage. The newly wedded pair will live} in Oshawa- WIFE PRESERVER In washing separate sheets of glas, such as glass tops for tables or for pictures, wear a cloth glove on the hand you use to hold it, to prevent finger- marks, "CATCH" | Who could resist the invita- tion of this charming young miss to a game of ball? She is Kimberley Ann, daughter of Mr. apd Mrs. Donald Olynyk, | Oshawa boulevard north,and granddaughter of Mr. and Mrs, E. W. Harlow, Whitby, Mrs, Eugene Fetchuk, Toronto and Mr. William Olynyk, Osh- ie y What Your... COMMUNITY CHEST MEANS TO YOU! This Is The 8th Of A Series To Acquaint YOU The Public With The Operation Of Your Community Chest Oshawa & District Association For Retarded Children 4) / 1 ¢ W 4 "ns Mental Retardation is one of the greatest cripplers of children and can happen in any family. Three out of every one hundred children born are retarded to some degree. There are three classifications of mental retardation. The first is the educable retardate who can be taught some elementary subjects at a lower level and so go into the world to be self-supporting at menial labor. MRS. W. WILSON President The second group is the trainable re- tardate who can be taught skill with his hands and how to live happily within his own social group. These children may become partially self-supporting in a sheltered work shop under supervision, The third group is wholly dependent who must be taken care of completely by others. The Oshawa and District Association for Retarded Children dea] with the trainable retarded, They have a school at 1356 Sim- coe Street South, in which there is an enroll- ~ment of thirty-one pupils between the ages of five and eighteen. They also operate a sheltered workshop and training centre at 729 Simcoe Street South, in which eleven trainees. over the age of eighteen, are work- ing. At present they are doing small printing jobs, duplicating, collating, envelope' stuff- ing, mailing and some craft work that they offer for sale. The workshop has only been in operat- ion since January 2nd; 1962 and already some of the trainees, who in former years would have spent a useless life, contributing nothing to the community, have learned to set the type on a smaii hand operated printing press, run the printing through, type the addresses on the envelopes and mail them. High hopes are held far, the future of these young people. ! Since there is no known way to rectify a brain damage, it is most encouraging to know that at least one preventative has been found. This is the case of the children with phenylkitonuria, or as it is commonly known P, K. U. We know that, if caught in early infancy, a child with this con- dition can, by a protien free diet, develop into a normal child instead of a severely handicapped one. The work of the Association for Retarded Children is a job of edu- cating the public as well as training the retarded child. We are helped in our work by a small grant from the Department of Special Education for the Province of Ontario, a grant from the City of Oshawa and the generosity of the citizens of Oshawa by their contributions to the Greater Oshawa Community Chest. GREATER OSHAWA COMMUNITY CHEST 11 ONTARIO STREET : HAROLD E, PIERSON, President rs IT'S OPEN HOUSE AT THE SIGN OF THE GOLD MEDALLION The Pythian Flag. was pre- most precise, most comfortable heating method ever devised. 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