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@ THE OSHAWA TIMES, Seturdey, January 12, 1963 , THE BRIDE'S PORTRAIT wedding gown of muted satin is embroidered with individu- ally appliqued chantilly roses while the bodice ends in a natural neckline of scalloped chantilly lace. Her bouffant veil falls free from a minature pillbox of seed pearls and satin designed by Bride Beautiful of Montreal. This Year's June Bride Will Look Like Fairy-Tale Princess Canadian brides will have a choice of pure fantasy or pure practicability in wedding styies this year. A preview of wedding fashions for the spring season indicates that the age-old tales of Hans Christian Andersen and the Brothers Grimm have in- spired young, dirndl - waisted, petit point embroidered gowns shaped in fabrics as fine, filmy and eternally young as fairy tales. The designs capture a myriad of half - remembered costumes as dainty as the love- ly countryside that inspired them. The look of these wedding gowns is young. Short, pouffed sleeves are gathered with sil- ver threads, high waists are ac- centuated, and simple Sabrina necklines are used. The skirts are full with just an illusion of a train. Wedding veils flow from circles of pale flowers or from clusters of frosted hot- house fruit. BALLERINA BRIDESMAIDS Bridesmaids' gowns are de- signed to co-ordinate the fairy tale theme in the wedding party. These dresses are de- signed in rose, cornflower blue, to it. The bridal picture for wear coats, suits, gowns and dresses. FLOATING GRACE Fabrics for wedding gowns have changed just as silhouettes and bridal headdresses have. to vary is the demand for the mal gowns. Even these, recent years, have been raised two or three inches above the ground over the instep in omer to provide a gracious entrance for the bride. Bridal trains, as well as being detachable, are now padded and wired so that they retain a floating effect without the aid of flower girls or bridesmaids. LODGES AND SOCIETIES jonqail yellow and embroidery on white. Most of the gowas for bridesmaids in this theme are ballerina-length with pouffed, ribbon - bound sleeves. The bridesmaids' hats consist of a halo of flowers or again the circle of tiny frosted fruit In direct contrast, 1963 brides will also discover a range of more sophisticated wedding gowns for multi-wearing. These dresses, in appearance, are the traditional floor-length or bal- lerina wedding gowns of muted satin, silk alpaca, Italian silk, satapeau or in organza. While styled with the new fashion sil- houette, the controlled skirt, the slim overtunic, the sarong and the cathedral! skirt can each become another fashion with the easy, unsnapping of a belt. CONVERTIBLE: TRAINS Full church trains will come off in 1963 to make dancing at the reception easier. Some con- vertible trains become fuil- BETA SIGMA PHI The members of the Ontario Gamma Epsilon Chapter start- ed the New Year with their reguiar meeting held at the home of Mrs. Percy McBain, 116 Hunter street, last Tuesday evening. Mrs. Kenneth Young, president, presided over business meeting. The Chapter members decid- ed again to award a $25.00 scholarship to the pupil receiv- ing the highest standing during the the Piano examinations written in the City of Oshawa. The winner of this scholarship will be an- nounced after the summer ex- aminations. Mrs, John Matthews read jfrom the Chapter Manual -- the Book of Beta Sigma Phi The program for the evening To see and to know" was pre- sented by Mrs, Kenneth Young. The questi later fashions sihouette, now a bride can select a gown for her wedding and key her trousseau 1963 looks as exciting and full of fashion surprises for the av- erage Canadian woman as does the haute couture in ready-to- cocktail) big big skirted, full-length for- in | Julie Hawkins Becomes Bride PERSONALS |CHILD GUIDANCE Of Ronald Barriage Recently , The marriage took place re- cently in Holy Cross Roman Ca- tholic Church of Miss Julie Ann Hawkins, daughter of Mr, and Mrs, Matthew Hawkins, Picker- ing and Mr, Ronald Allen Bar- riage, son of Mr. Lloyd Bar- riage and Mrs. Mary Christie, both of Oshawa. The ceremony was perform- ed by the Right Reverend Phil- ip Coffey. The organist, Mrs. Garry Booth accompanied the soloist, Mr. Edwin Hawkins, brother of the bride. Given in marriage by her fa- ther, the bride wore a sheath gown of white satin peau de soie covered with lace. It was styled with a bustle back and a cathedral train, Her bouffant shoulder-length veil was caught Fiby a self rose headdress and she carried a tear-drop corsage hj of white roses and chrysanthe- mums. 'The maid of honor was Miss Carol Lynn Christie, sister of the bridegroom, with Mrs, Rudy Pilnuik, and Miss Pat Haw- kins, sisters of the bride, and Mrs.. Edwin Hawkins as the attendants. They wore bell shaped gowns of red velvet with the maid of honor wearing a white orange blossom headdress and the attendants headdresses were matching pillbox hats. They carried white chrysanthe- mums adorned with red tulle. Mr. Theodore Varga was the best man with Mr, Frank Varga and Mr. Guelph May as ush- ers. The bridegroom's cousin, Maurice Stark, was the ring- bearer. The reception was held at the Rouge Hill Golf and Country Club. The bride's mother re- ceived in a sheath dress of gold brocade with matching acces- sories and a corsage of white roses, The bridegroom's mother assisted in a sheath dress of peacock blue peau de soie with matching accessories and a cor- sage of yellow roses, When the bridal couple left the bride donned a navy blue sheath dress with matching ac- cessories and hat which was} adorned with a pink rose. Mr, and Mrs. Barriage will be making their home in Osh- awa. {as previously stated under the Out of town guests at the Barriage Hawkins wedding were Mr. Leo Hawkins, Mr. and Mrs, James Murphy, Mrs. C. Christie, Miss Ella Christie, Miss Patricia Hawkins, Mr. and Mrs, Peter Doyle, Mr. gnd Mrs. Russell Fox, Toronto; Mr. and Mrs, Richard Gilbert, Wash- ington, D.C.; Mrs, B. Gilbert, Mr, and Mrs, Gerald Renner, Buffalo, New York; Mr. and Mrs. Jack Hawkins, Ayton. Thirty members attended the Old Country Club Whist Drive on Wednesday evening at Run- die Park. Mrs, E. Brown won an aluminum saucepan in the raffle. Mr, George Bullen won first prize; Mrs. Alex Air, sec- ond; and Mr. George Day, third; Mrs. M. Freeman had the lowest score and won the "booby prize." CORRECTION The annual bridge sponsored) by the Golden Jubilee Chapter} of the IODE will be held next) Wednesday evening at the UAW Hall and not in the afternoon By GARY C, MYERS, Ph. D. Now and then a parent writes of a bright child who is over- conscientious about his school work. From Oklahoma a _ mother tells of her only child eight years old: "He likes school and makes good grades (last six weeks made 5 A's). His teacher says he is too conscientious in his work, She would like him to relax more, "He takes too much time an- swering questions in his work book that the teacher is sure he knows; apparently he doesn't want to make a mistake, He seems afraid to make any de- cision and continually checks with the teacher about instruc- tions on what he's supposed to do. Just isn't sure he's doing it right. "He can't remember several instructions given at one time, unless (this at home) threat- ened with punishment if he isn't finished in a given ime. picture of Mrs. W. H. Gibbie, convener, A special event took place this week when the annual Home League supper was held in the lower hall of the Salva- tion Army Citadel with approxi- mately one hundred and thirty present. Special guests were Lt.-Colon- el Ethel Burnell, Territorial Home League secretary, Lt.- Colonel and Mrs, Alfred Simes- ter, mid - Ontario Divisional Commanders. The guests along with Major and Mrs, Fred |Lewis and members were wel- jcomed by Mrs. William James the local Corps Home League secretary. At the head table were Lt.- Colonel Ethel Burnell, Lt.-Col- onel and Mrs. Alfred Simester, Major and Mrs, Fred Lewis, Home League secretary Mrs. William James, assistant Home ague secretary, Mrs. Frank Buller and treasurer, Mrs. Mel- ville Smith. Grace was sung to beautiful }words to the tune 'Breathe On |Me Breath of God and a delight- ful supper followed. Mrs. Fred Lewis acted as Salvation Army Officers Guests At Annual Home League Supper was sung in unison, 'Thank you Lord, for saving my soul". Birthday greetings were} sung for Mrs. Simester and Lt.- Col. Ethel Burnell presented her with a gift of money: to send to any missionary she desired. Mrs. Lt. Colonel Simester gave an interesting talk and) presented Mrs, William - Saun-| ders with a special recognition pin for her work in the Home League. Mrs, Saunders replied and stated how the money was raised for the project. Reports of the various groups were given, Rainbow group, Cheerio Group, Sunshine Group, Fellowship Group, Missionary Group and Starlight Group each of which had done exceedingly well during 1962. Mrs, Major Fred Lewis intro- duced Lt.Colonel E. Burnell, Territorial Home League secre- tary, who gave an interesting talk around the verses 3, 4 and 5 from Psalm 37 closing with the chorus "Then Sings My Soul" from "How Great Thou Art", Mrs. Frank Buller assistant Home League secretary, clos- The one thing that seems not| Master of Ceremonies, a chorusjed the evening with prayer, The Oshawa and District CGIT Board entertained their leaders at a Dessert Tea, Jan- uary 8, at St. Andrew's United Church, followed by their sixth annual meeting with 24 present. Dessert Tea For Leaders Preceeds CGIT Annual Meeting last annual meeting by Mrs. L. M. McMurtry. Reports were head with Mrs. Saywell reporting for the Fi- nance Committee Mrs. W. Sew- ell for Leadership training, | | SOCIAL NOTICE | "axrs to neve ' "How can I help him to make decisions and accept responsi- RECEPTION bilities? How can I help him to Mr. and Mrs. Harry S. Pal|be sure of himself? To have mer will be pleased io receive|more self-confidence?" their friends and relatives at} My reply in part. No doubt Adelaide House on Saturday,jyou parents have been so January 19, 1963 from 3.00 to/pleased with your boy's excel- 5.00 and 7,00 to 9.00 p.m. on the/jence at school learning that occasion of their 50th wedding) you have made too much of it. anniversary. He probably thinks you expect |him to be perfect and then has CITRUS FRUIT CROSS lfears that he won't be. Chironja, an apparently nat-| Does he have the opportuni- ural cross between an orangejties to make decisions for him- and a grapefruit, was found in|self abvut- many things he's Puerto Rico in 1956. able to decide? Are you par- Bright Eight-Year-Old Airaid To Make Mistake ents reasonable about the con- sequences of the decisions he does make? Your reference to his not re- membering "several instruc- tions at one time unless (this at home) threatened with punish- ment, etc." puzzles me, Maybe you parents give too many commands and instructions at a time, Maybe you expect too much of him, BE DEFINITE Do be clear and definite about the few regular chores he must do, Try to help him find some time of his own. I hope you parents provide him. with a_ relaxed, calm, cheerful family atmosphere, with lots of fun and laughter; especially strive for relaxation at mealtime. Keep the radio or TV silent most of the time. Don't let him view programs of violence. Dad should often go places with him and do and make things with him. You -- both should help him widen his in- terests outside of books and have lots of fun with other chil- dren of about his own age. Q. Would you slap a child's mouth for talking back to you? A, No; it's too dangerous ever to strike a child about the face. six or seyven I might employ other punishment decisively, But if he were a teen-ager, I would do nothing then but wait for a time when he and I were lemotionally fit to talk reason ably. In most cases, however, mere | UNITS, GROUPS, AUXILIARIES ST. GEORGE'S GUILD The Reverend F, G. Ongley was present at the January meeting of the St. George's Women's Guild to install the of- ficers for the coming year. The meeting, held in the Parish Hall, was a combined monthly and annula meeting. The secre- tary, Mrs, E. N. Weldon, out- the successful projects under- taken by the Guild in the past year, namely the Spring Blos- som tea, the annual fall lunch- leon, and the Christmas tea and bazaar. In addition, many suc- cessful events weré held by the five groups of the Guild individ- jually, The total membership in 1962 was 111 members. The slate of officers installed were; honorary president, Mrs. F, G, Ongley; past presiucni, Mrs, F. C. Piper; president, Mrs. W. E. Baker; | Ist vice- 2nd vice-president, Mrs, Albert 'Barnes; secretary, Mrs. E, N. |Weldon; treasurer, Mrs. Nor- man Hinds, Mrs, Baker the annual would be held in the Pai. Hall on January 28 at 7.30 p.m. announced 'hat vestry meeting, garding the furnishing of Cowan House, and the amount of as- sistance to be given by the Guild toward this project, it was decided to sponsor a Valen- tine Dessert Bridge in the Parish Hall, This to be held February 14, at 7.30 p.m, Mrs, Lionel Hind will be convener of the bridge. Following the meeting, the executive of the Guild served tea. The next meeting will be held on February 4, ST. DAVID'S WELSII SOC, The executive members of St. David's Welsh Society recently met at the home of Mrs, Thom- as Roach, Bloor Street west. The president, Mrs. David Andrews, presided. The min- utes were read by Mrs, Fred | Williams, The treasurer's report was given by Mrs. Patrick Chappell. The recording secretary, Mr. David Pugh, gave his report. Plans were made for the annual Welsh Banquet, which is to take place in the UAW Hall Refreshments were served by the hostess. and the Guild would provide re. freshments. Following a discussion re- silence by me would prove most \effective, unless I sensd that |what had causd the talking back was unfair and resolved If he called me an ugly name} to apologize. or cursed me and were under seem Before You Buy TRY FURNITURE NEED | F VEL OIL eee PERRY' DAY OR NIGHT 723-3443 |) (OSHAWA) LTD. 88 SIMCOE NORTH PHONE 725-9332 You'll Be Glad You Did. | | i j the year in Grade 8, 1963. To- roato Conservatory of Music Mrs, A. H. Dancey introduced| some way, such as attending Mrs. D. R. Sinclair who spoke|Mrs. A. Dancey as leader con- of her experience in CGIT,| sultant from the Ontario Board, both as a member and as a|Miss Bertha Armour for the leader. She spoke of the girls;Camp Committee and Mrs. E. jand their compulsions to pack}A. MacMillan for Girls Events. |too much of living into too short! Those interested in Camping a time; their need for anjare asked to get in touch with anchor to hold them against|Miss Margaret Pellow or some those stormy drives, and the|member of the Camp Commit. realization that one cannot be| tee. ja Christian without Christ. She| Christian Youth Week will be said that a leader must dare to|Jan. 22 to Feb. 3. All groups jrisk unpopularity sometimes to) are asked to recognize this in provide this anchor. She must} some way, such as attending always be ready to forget her-|the Sunday. Service in uni- self in the interest of her girls, |form. j and not become too busy--even| The flowers from the table }doing good things -- to be con-|were sent to Mrs. Clarence cerned for them as individuals.|Penfound who is ill, and pray- She must live the Purpose of|ers were solicited on her behalf CGIT in her own life and teach} The board will meet in St. her girls to do the same if she|Andrew's United Church the | hopes to accomplish something |first'Tuesday of each month at | worthwhile. 2.00 p.m.-during 1963. . he Rights service was. con-|~---- Neer ucted in the chapel by Mrs.| HOUSEHOL) ? Walter Sewell. Her topic, Re-| In arranging Sa hse dedication; the Scripture was try to put them all in the same taken from Ephesians 5:14-21. jarrangement, just because you Five new members were wel-|have a certain number on comed to the Board by the hand. Save the leftover flowers president, Mrs. L. G. Horne|/for miniature arrangements, namely, Mrs. L. F. Campbell - and Mrs, H. T. 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