The following text may have been generated by Optical Character Recognition, with varying degrees of accuracy. Reader beware!

& THEOSHAWA TIMES, Fridey, June 28, 1963 THE FAMILY TREASURE old Clark. Bobby is the grandson of Mr. and Mrs, Lloyd Clark, son of and Mr. and Mrs. Morley Milton Genge, all of Oshawa. Mr. --Hornsby Nearly 18 months is Robert John~ Clark, Mrs. Ronald Clark, street, and the late An Aggressive Child Needs More Love And Attention By GARRY C. MYERS, Ph.D. he wished without fear even of now well the aggressive rebuke. : eee a. the slightest "It worked," the father said, provocation, hits, kicks or bites|"and he had to, be punished weaker children. only a few times. : Perhaps the biggest factor in Then there's the child, usu- the correction was the privilege ally under eight or ten, who, ON), jaq had to "sock" his father passing or coming near a vnon he felt like socking some- younger or older person of the body family, "socks'" him for no ap- parent reason, sometimes pretty STOP HIS HITTING hard, sometimes slightly. Some young mother may won From California the mother of| der what she might do to cure a boy, nine, and girl twins, five, her tot two, three or four of writes: biting, kicking or hitting other "Our biggest problem at the children who are weaker, or moment is that our son is al- even his*mother. ways socking his sisters, not) Usually, if the child attends fighting but just punching them/nursery school, he gr: every time he walks by them. discontinues such a This problem keeps going on." acts through gentle res } My reply in part: the teacher and natural 'disci I think you need to be rather|pline by other children of the severe with that lad when you group, see him socking his sisters. Providing wholesome outlets A good punishment would be of fun for this child, the parent to require him to sit, unamused' does well to isolate him from ' where you can see him for! other children for a definite pe- thirty minutes, Allow no exceD-| riog for each offense, especially tions. It may take several doses |when this isolation can occur of this medicine to bring a cure.! j mmedi FEELS LESS LOVED TOO LATE My guess is that he feels he; Unfortunately, in mos doesn't stand so well in the' the parent does not apprehend family as the younger children. the offender. but is told. about Being twins, they naturally get yi; offense..Punishment then is a lot of attention. Anything You! ysually too late to be effectiv: one do, together with the help) Knowing your little tot is in of your husband an other rela-' clined to bite, hit or kick oth- tives and neighbors, to build UP) ers without due provocation, you this boy and make him. feel) ¢nouid aim to be often on hand more worthwhile should help. (while he is with other children Wonderful if you could pre-it¢ you can apprehend him per- vail on him to read to the twins, sonally, especially before the explain things to them and 0 practice has gone on for many things with them. .,4| days, you might do best by turn Sometimes a younger child ing him over your knee sud will often sock one Or mOréidenly and smacking him older children for reasons 0t) soundly. very apparent. c * ting A father once told me of his child mught sis0 be on ae ay son who, when about five, would) put it's dangerous aia ula often sock his sister seven years! bite too hard ve * older and his brother nine years older. These older children PARENTS' QUESTIONS were. greatly annoyed by this Q. Do you believe practice. But when told by their cultivate in a high d Studio y you UNITS, GROUPS, AUXILIARIES » ANN LANDERS FIRST BAPTIST WA The WA of First Baptist Church held the monthly meet- ing at the home of Mrs, George Hall, Townline north, President, Mrs. Ralph Hopson opened the meeting with prayer. Roll call was answered by 17 members. The devoticnal period was conducted by Mrs, Edgar Anderson reading the scripture lesson from Psalm 37 verse 7 and 3. The topic "Feed on his Faithfulness" and closing with prayer. Several members gave tions to the birthday box. B day greetings were . sung them, Plans were made to cater for two weddings next month July|t 20, July 27. Four members of-| fered to assist at Hillsdale Man- or July 29. Next month the meeting will be held at the} home of Mrs. J. Barber, West- mpreland avenue, and will take} the form of a pot luck supper.) Refreshments were served by Mrs. Edgar Alward's group. ALBERT STREET UCW dona- irth- to} The June meeting of Unit 3,| y romance, e | July cases fF, "| safety parents to '"'sock him back" on MAPLE CLEANERS a safe place, they wouldn't do so. A much older child rarely 504 SIMCOE ST..S. OSHAWA Cosh & Carry -- 4 Hr. Service would The father said he told the offending lad he would have to a site ay Gibvans sit in a chair half an hour for "Your Family's Friend" each offense thereafter, but that] ._ PHONE 725-0643 he might sock his dad any time ® Quolity Materials @ Expert Workmanship @ Reasonable Prices Before you repoint, repair or replace, get the facts about aluminum siding. No other exterior finish offers you so.much, and it: practically pays for itself in savings. Phone for complete details today! FREE ESTIMATES You @ Aluminum Awnings HEADQUARTERS @ Aluminum Doors & Windows ®@ Aluminum Siding UCW of Albert Street United! street in the form, of a pot luck picnic supper, The president Mrs, Jack Klein called for a short business meet- ing at which the minutes of the last meeting were read, and the treasurer gave her report, The devotions from John 17, Prayer", and Mrs, William Yourkevich reading the scrip- ture. Greeting cards may be purchased from any member of ithis unit, and Hillsdale Manor jis to be visited during August. {Plans for the fall bazaar were lalso discussed, Next meeting {will be Sept. 26 at 8 p.m, at {the church, Mrs. Tippett was thanked for opening her home and giving much pleasure, ¥) fA ROSSLAND UNIT UCW The June meeting of the Ross- jland Unit of Northminster | United Church was held recent- \ly in the form of a picnic at the home of Mrs, C, L. Kell, |Maxwell Village. | After supper, a short business! jmeeting followed with Mrs, G. Langmaid presiding, It was. decided that the unit] will be responsible for staffing) |Church was held at the home of! the candy booth at the County) Mrs, Stewart Tippett, Festubert! Fair next Nov. 6, Members| |were reminded to start knitting| "THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA For Tomorrow Fine lunar influences now govern both business and per- sonal relationships. You should have an extremely pleasant day --especially if you co-operate with business associates and display your. most charming self in get-tegethers with fam- ily and friends For The Birthday If tomorrow is your birthday, | promises fine within the next job, business your achievement year, Long-range and-or financial programs put into effect now, should culmi- nate successfully by late August and should continue to improve from then. on into the early part of December. January may prove somewhat "dull" along these lines, but another uptrend is presaged in February and March Personal r prospect. during the next 12 months and travel will be under unusually beneficent aspects in July, August and November Look for stimulating social experiences and, if single, new between now and mid September and next horoscope n January Creative workers will be es pecially favored in September and November A child born on this day wi be endowed with great Imagi ina ion and versatility. HOUSE HUMMER KIMBERLEY, B.C. (CP) Humming birds make good pets says Mr. and Mrs. C. Davies Hussie,"' an- injured bird they vnd, is right at home in their house, thriving on honey and water fed through an eye "(dropper . youngster two, by explaining the danger of everything he should avoid? A. Normally learn first "No". through pain consistently applied expianations Wii in the three or, four, need to he word physical There- be more he will to respect t some CARPET COMPANY 282 King W 728-958) RUG CLEANING e NO MORE _ PAINT BILLS e LOW COST e WON'T ROT OR WARP ¢ WON'T PEEL OR CRACK "Serving Oshawa and Area Over 11 Years" Les Eveniss Sales Ltd. 15 PRINCE ST. 725-4632 (Evenings 723-2707) elationships should . jand sewing items for the fair during the summer. The members were informed that Eric Aldwinckle OSA would give a talk and an art display including his paintings used to illustrate the book "The Word and the Way", in Northminster lower hall on the evening of Sept. 25, Tickets will soon be available. The School for. Leaders will be held at the Ontario Ladies} College, Whitby on August 19-23 The Unit invited anyone able to attend any, or all, session to do so, 1ST BAPTIST COUPLES The Married Couples' Club of First Baptist Church enjoyed a steak cook-out, recently at the home of Mr, and Mrs. F. M McLellan, Tooley's Mills, It was well attended, The Presidents, Mr. and Mrs R, W. Barr, conducted the busi- ness meeting, Mr, M. E, Chesher led a rou- sing sing - song, Mr. and Mrs. R, J Britton's group presented the devotional n a "Dominion Day" theme, with the assistance of Mr. and Mrs, M. E. Chesher. The host and _ hostess ably thanked by ~Mr Barr r were Viale I Was opened by Mrs. Walte: Tips! | pett reading the poem 'Garden| | | , Simply Dear has Landers: At first I '|just smoldered when my friend sipretended to be a little high. Liquor is supposed to excuse all |those cute passes at my hus- band. Now I'm im flames. This has been going on for - {\quite some time but I've hated ~-{\to let anyone know how it in- furiates me, After last Saturday S\night I think perhaps I should tell the bimbo off. >| After a few martinis, this so- "Sicalled social register dame jumped on my husband's lap, fell into his arms, and invited him to crawl behind the sofa with her in search of an ear- jring, All this under the guise of being loaded of course. In the meantime she could drink any Mrs, Fay Rotta, Ravine |truck driver under the table. road, is seen on deck of the | I am fed up on the whole dis- | SS Saturnia just before sail- jgusting business but I need a | ing from New York harbor |more level og gee ary to cide w 0 abou ans for a four-month sum- See ee un wi mer vacation tour of the Dear Fire: This "Don't blame | European continent, including | me, I'm drunk" routine is as a visit with her relatives in 'old as the grape. Yugoslavia, It's always a mistake to tel another woman to leave your husband alone. It usually en- HOUSEHOLD HINT courages the wench, She'll fig- ; RSE i ure you are frightfully insecure It's not necessary to soil cook- and. decide that maybe she ing pots or pans when melting does have a chance, after all. butter and cooking chocolate, Wildly aggressive females Ss place ingredient im aiwho throw themselves at men single thickness of - ---- aluminum foil that has been HOWARD'S formed to} 926 SIMCOE N. 725-3144 "VOYAGER Italian Line make a pouch, then dip foil into| boiling water. To use, make a! spout on one side of opened) pouch and ingredient recipe -- saves clean- cup time. ORDER CANVAS @ DRAPERY @ BROADLOOM @ SLIP COVERS @ BAMBOO @ UPHOLSTERING NOW! We Also Rent Chairs, Tables, ete. CLEVE FOX 412 Simcoe North Oshowa Now! uP Friend's Hubby Bait Has Wifie Burning look cheap, If the wife can handle the situation with dig. nity this kind of character will head up and your mouth closed, Dear Ann Landers: I work in an office where all the gins get along pretty well, Two of these girls told me they did not want to open up change accounts be- cause they were afraid: they'd be tempted to spend more money than they should, So they asked if they could change on'my account, They promised to have the money in my. hands by the time the bill came due. For the first couple of months it worked fine. They paid. as promised, But for the past four months I've had nothing but trouble, | One girl "forgets" what she bought and I have to track down sales slips to prove it was her purchase and not mine, The jother girl is always broke, Now ishe owes me for articles she lcharged in March, If I tell them they can't use my account any more it will look. even cheaper, Keep your break up our friendship. Please) tell me what to do. -- Super. Charged Dear Super: Tell both girls you are closing your charge ac- -- then go ahead and do it. When you re-open the account it's not necessary -to broadcast the information. Should they learn of it and ask again to use your account tell them it would be less complicated if they saved the money and paid cash. Dear Ann Landers: What do you think of a 45-year-old father who addresses his nine-year-old son as "Sweetie Pie?" I have begged my husband to stop it. If any of the kids in the neighborhood hear him the boy willbe teased unmerci- fully, "Sweetie Pie" is not a nickname of endearment, My husband uses it when he is an- noyed with the boy--which is about 90 per cent of the time, We have two other sons and/ my husband has never given) them any nicknames, I believe| he is actually hostile to this particular child and this is his! way of teasing him, What can I do about it?--Unhappy Mother Dear Mother: | SAYS RUSSIA GOOFED LONDON (Reuters) =: For- eign Minister Earl of Home said Wednesday night the Russians made a miscalculation on Cuba "on a scale which could have ended in international 'catas- trophe."' Speaking in a House of Lords debate on foreign poiicy, Lord Home said the Russians "could not know that President Kennedy would act with such calm and authority and there- fore one must conclude they were prepared to risk war in or- der that, by a short cut, they should sain (Taittary equality with the U sounds like a kid himself, Tell him to cut it out or his son will grow up to despise. him-- if he doesn't doesn't already, cen racine nema WeeoIny es Fg Saha - STA CALL 728-8391 Your husband! New Class Starts July 2nd--Act Now! Shorthand 1 ¢) Weeks wim THE Canadian School Of Business 214 SIMCOE ST. NORTH 728-7081 1.00 |] Don't Pay A Dime... All On Time !! 36 KING E. DOWNTOWN OSHAWA TAKE ADVANTAGE OF OUR SEMI-ANNUAL DOLLAR SALE Buy One Pair and Get Another. Pair For ONLY MEN'S & BOYS' WEAR Pay It OSHAWA and SHOPPING CENTRE ze! Two great beers in the ne Twin Pack Get 12 Red Cap Ale and 12 Black Label Beer for this long weekend 12 Red Cap Ale and 12 Black Label Beer in one handy case of 24! Each case contains three new "Cool 'n Carry Trays""-- 4 Red Cap and 4 Black Label in each--they lift out to make cooling and carrying the bottles and picking up the empties especially easy! Money-saving too--you pay less for this 24-case than for two twelves! THE CARLING BREWERIES LIMITED