& Sees 2: AeA Al LANDERS Loving, Forgiving, ~ Accusing -- Wives! Dear Ann Landers: I was| So I'm sticking -- with the fascinated by the. letter from|clear- understa gz that the the woman who admitted that/first time he embarrasses me 'fOr 11 yéars she had been the/or his children by appearing on mistress of a married man. I'mja public sidewalk with that sure her lover is my husband.|dame I'll knock his block off. I have adored this man with} Dear Ann Landers: Please all my heart these past 11 years|wire me collect either yes or and you can add another 11/no. Did that letter from the 11- years for good measure, be-jyear mistress come from Ham- Cause there were two other/ilton, Ont. ? My husband has women before this one camejbeen acting funny since 1952 along. . and it all figures. Thanks, Mom. I'm in excelient health, con-|--T. C. L. to what she believes, but} Dear T.C.L: Sorry I will. not it's far more convenient to tell|tell you where the letter came one's mistress that the wife is|from, but I will tell you that mentally ill, of that she suffers?it did not come from Hamilton from headache, backaches, ex-|And I'm not your mother. haustion and so forth. The pro-| Dear Ann Landers: I'm so} vides him with an excellent ex-|furious I could chew nails. for seeking outside com-|Thursday's mail brought a Chi- and it makes the mistress)cago Sun-Times clipping of your lieve she is filling a vital/column about the woman who teed in his life. has been a mistress for 11 T've dedicated myself to beingjyears. Friday morning I re- & good mother, an active andjceived a clipping of the same; iseful member of the commu-!column--this one from the De-| nity, and I'm determined tojtroit Free Press. Saturday I got) hold my head up. Life would be/another clipping--this one from! infinitely easier, however, if|Grand Rapids, Mich. a. | well-meaning 'friends' didn't] My husband and I have been feel it their moral obligation to| married for 11 years and I can't Prior To Wedding Miss Patricia Brewster, one of today's brides has been wide- ly entertained, prior to her mar- riage to Mr. Donald Smallwood in Cedardale United Church. Miss Brewster is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. S&S. James Brewster, and Mr, Smallwood is the gon of Mr, and Mrs. George Smallwood, all of Osh- awa. A miscellaneous shower was given by Mrs, Wayne Sweet at) her home arid was attended by co-workers of the bride-to-be. Mrs, David Sharp gave a linen shower at her home for all the school friends of the future bride, Mrs. Joseph Cousins opened' her home for a miscellaneous shower for. the relatives of the bride-to-be, with Mrs. Lorne |MacInally assisting the hostess. Mrs. Robert Brewster and Mrs. Anna Brewster assisted Mrs. Royal Zillon at a paniry shower. held at her home on| Bloor street west. A supper shower was given b* the co-workers of the future bride at the Engineering De-) partment of General Motors, where they presented her with a vacuum Cleaner. | A kitchen shower was given) at the home of Mrs. Earl Wood, | attended by the neighbors of! the bride-to-be. | tell me what is going on. _|figure out whether someone| I hope to face the future with] thinks we are. living together courage and to wait patiently|without the benefit of clergy-- until my man comes home for|or whether I'm being told in a good. I will welcome him back/not-so-subtle way that my hus-| and yes--even push his wheel|band has a mistress. What does | chair--because I love him andjthis sound like to you?--Bundle| I ig will. --Griselda of Nerves | r Ann Landers: Please ike| tell that mistress of 11 years|yen thon ected like | 'Siyou know a needle-artist with! that her letter scored a bull's iA , +. | ' an air-travel card. Forget it. eye. It's my husband she has D genta all right and she can have him.| Dear Anm Landers: You'll I've been begging the big never print this letter because clown to clear out for the Jast|!t doesn't support your stupid, six years. I've told him I'm outdated puritanical advice. As sick and tired of covering up/# Mistress of seven years stand-| for him with the kids. I've even|i"& I would like to say I hope packed his clothes and ordered|"¢ man doesn't marry her be- - bi cause it will spoil everything. a eve But do you know) > i P yuning. wha says? "Honey, that mistress doesn't have to! woman can't shine your shoes,|Wash the guy's socks or listen) Please stick with me until I get|t® him snore. Neither does she| this foolishness out of my sys-|have to put up with his miser-| tem." jable relatives or his boring boss. I get the man at his best. | VON MEETING Irv ba gets him at his worst. | i "ve been a wife twice and I'll) The October meeting of the|neyer be one again. This is the' directors of the VON was held) life!--Got it Made | in the board room at the City) --------------_____ * Mrs. Maurice McIndless gave a miscellaneous shower with the) assistance. of Mrs. Arthur| Brown for friends of Miss Brewster. | Mr. and Mrs. C. Smallwood, Manilla, gave a miscellaneous] shower and party for the couple) attended by relatives of the} prospective bridegroom. The Engineering Department of General Motors presented the bride-to-be with an electric) iron for a wedding gift. | The wedding party was en- tertained at the home. of the future bridegroom's parents, Mr, and Mrs. George Small- wood, Stevenson road _ south, after the rehearsal last night. 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