TI think that he has been work-/helped many compulsive gam- ing for those thugs instead of|blers overcome their addiction for his family I get so mad IA five cent stamp could change can't see straight. your life, It's worth the gamble! I've trie to reason with him.|--I mean the investment. When we talk, he says I'm right sine hen HOUSEHOLD HINT and swears he is going to quit 4 : gambling for good. But some- Save money while. traveling | CHILD GUIDANCE Allow Child Some Choice In Buying School Clothes ANN LANDERS RUG * AND UPHO cL Modelling Hosiery ie. MARRIED Be hesitates iti. By GARRY MYERS, Ph.D. During the next several days there will be considerable shop- ping for and with children en- tering or returning to school, boarding school, or college. What part will the child have in the choice and purchase of his clothes? If he or she is go- ing to a boarding school or to college, how much responsibil- and packing them. Perhaps some of these young- sters won't see many of their clothes till they are. unpacked on arrival at school or college. Also many a child remaining at home, to attend classes in the grades or high school, will have all his school clothes pur- chased, repaired, dry - cleaned ity will he take in preparing) to spend an. unreasonable amount on his clothes. When, in a family conference, an approximate amount for each school child is arrived at, what part should each share in the selection and purchase of his clothes? At what age shoul he accompany you to make the purchases? When may he Ne able to shop alone for some or all of his clothes? PURCHASING CLOTHES Suppose--at 10, 14 or 18--the child wishes to purchase clothes which, in your jug- ment, would not be sensible or practical in quality or style. Then what? In such instance the mother might select an ar- ray of clothing at one or sev- eral stores, within a range she) or laundered without his having to do a thing about them. All an, express his pleasure, dis-| pleasure or indifference to them. ress of their children in learn- ing from books at school, may «€ give no thought to opportunities for educating these children in YEARS --Oshawa Times Photo 25 jof their clothes. Yet there are tremendous opportunities for }education in values, in the use Mr. And Mrs. Michael Ukrainetz 2,224," eam Honored At Dinner, Reception Mr. and Mrs. Michael Ukrain- etz, Mary street, celebrated their 25th wedding anniversary with a family dinner for 38 guests at the Southend Restau- rant, followed by a reception at their home, prepared and spon- sored by the women of Calvary Baptist Church, where the hon- ored couple are members. |lection, purchase and care of} |clothing. These lessons may be- gin when the child is four years - of age or younger. |was born in Poland, the son : lof the late Mr. and Mrs. John aes chila' | : s e your s| |Ukrainetz of Minsk, Poland, and | olothing needs this fall, why jcame to ry in 1928. He met|not ask yourself how much he/clothes allowance? Such areloin. She received a necklace his future Mride at Niagara on|should participate in their se-| the Lake, where they were mar-ilection, purchase or prepara-| iried by the Reverend D. Klaus-|tion? How old must he be for} sen of the Mennonite Brethren|this purpose? Six years old?) jin the United Church in 1939./Ten? Nineteen? Mrs. Ukrainetz is the former|They came to Oshawa the fol-| Should he, beforehand, help Tina Romanuk, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Andrew Romanuk, for- merly of Cando, Saskatchewan} and Chippawa, Ontario, and) now of Oshawa. Mr, Ukrainetz| | UNITS, GROUPS | AUXILIARIES SA HOME LEAGUE The Salvation Army Home League meeting was well at- tended this week at the Salva- tion. Army Citadel. Mrs. Frank Buller led the chorus singing. Mrs. William James remem-) pered the birthdays and gave a list of names of the members| who were sick. Mrs. -Buller prayed on their behalf. | Mrs. George Beard read_the minutes, Mrs. William Allison led the singing with Hymn 8! and read the scripture from Samuel 1. Mrs. Wilburt Clarke lowing year. you to take stock of the clothes Mr. and Mrs. both at)mum needs as against home, iwishes? Let him go over the 'family budget with you, to un- About 50 guests attended the; ; reception at thele home, where derstand what part is available ifor his clothes. the honored couple were pre-} daughter Elizabeth, their family and ajand wishes of each and every| silver tea service from Mr.|/member of the family, he Ukrainetz' brother and his|should be better able to figure family. 3 lout what would be a reasonable Out-of-town guests present for|Proportion of the family money the occasion were Mr. and Mrs. |aVailable for his clothes. Ephim Ukrainetz and family,| You may discover, of course, Saskatoon, Saskatchewan, and|that he will think of his own the bride's sister, Mrs. Nick|wishes first. He may press you Kozak, Toronto. a A. E. JOHNSON 0.D. OPTOMETRIST 14 King St. East 723-2721 ware from WEDDING GIFT In Athens, a favorite wedding) gift from the bride's parents to/ the groom is a quarter interest in a privately operated city sang a solo. The message was given by) Mrs. Allison, who closed with! everyone repeating the Lord's Prayer. The Rainbow Group was in charge of the tea. When you need "HOME-NURSING" Cali a V.0.N. Nurse 725-2211 'Home-Nursing Core for For The Finest North American and European Style Meats and Pastries LITZ @ SPECIALLY PROCESSED IN OUR OWN PLANT @ Locations: OSHAWA SHOPPING CENTRE DOWNTOWN 12 SIMCOE ST, N. EVERYONE" eo 728-1111 728.5487 K | 'Some parents, who evince) great concern about the prog-|help in would approve, and then let he may. do is to wear them,|her son or daughter go alone to choose as he or she likes from this group, The degree to which your school child will be prepared to of his clothes will depend on |how well you have gradually Dear Ann Landers: I came to this rather large city from a small town in Kansas. I was unable to get the kind of em- ployment I had hoped for and my money was running out, so I took a job as a_ cocktail waitress. The lounge where I work is a favorite hang out for adver- tising and public relations ex- ecutives. Their suit sleeves don't have creases in them like the. yokels I used to know back home. (My girl friend told me this is the first thing to look for.) } Yesterday one of the best-| looking men I ever saw. asked} me why a girl with such gor-) geous legs was waiting on ta-| bles. He said I ought to be a hosiery model and that he could) help me. But he doesn't want to talk about the job in his of- fice. He prefers my place. hosiery modelling? I used to} \read your column back in Kan-) Is A New Approach from her older sister who tried unsuccessfully to black mail Mary Alice into doing her) household chores. I didn't want! to make a big thing of the gift| so I said nothing. | That was two weeks ago. Since that time 1° have dis-| cussed the matter with some) friends and they all feel I) should insist that Mary Alice return the jewelry. 4 I would very much appre-| ciate your opinion.--AIR, | Dear AIR.: I believe, and} very strongly, that the jewelry | should be sent back at once,} and that you tell Mary Alice) she may not accept gifts from) joys. The thought of earrings for) a 13-year-ol nauseates me.) Such a gift clearly suggests) that these two are playing at being grown up. Wake up an smell the coffee, mother. That "sweet and innocent little girl" } the choice and purchase| Do you know anything about)nas you buffaloed. Dear Ann Landers: My hus- band would rather shoot craps) guided him in making choices/sas and I trust you, Ann. Please|than eat, and that's about the and decisions. Some children atjelp me.--TOUGH SLEDDING choice we've had for eight mis- the choice, purchase and care|8 or 10 evince amazing ability,) Pear Sledding: even when shopping alone; while some others have had lit- tle or no experience in this di- rection. BUDGETED ALLOWANCE Has your child operated on a budgeted allowance? Has _ his allowance included an amount \for a few items of clothing at/to get lost. and for more and more by the have a first, items later? Will he, time he is in his teens, some of the ways in which we may guide our children from early years to gradually take on more and more responsibil- ity in the choice, purchase and care of their clothes. PARENTS' QUESTIONS Ukrainetz have|he has on hand and their state} @ Our son, 6, makes up| two children a son John and ajof repair? Consider his mini-/.ome of the wildest- yarms--jnot, Ask him to label them. his which he tells as if they really/phen have him tell you some happened. A. Don't label them as lies. Make up some yarns yourself, , : | ' jsome which could have hap-jcriminate and _ still sented with a set of silver flat-| As he discovers the needs/pened, and some which couldicreating. That model jroutine is strictly off the cob. Model agencies have lists a jamie long of girls with beautiful) gams who are stepping all over) leach other trying to get jobs. | The man's sleeve may not have a crease but I think he's {got something up it. Tell him | Dear Ann Landers: Our 13- lyear-old daughter, MARY Alice, lis a sweet and innocent little and some earrings from a 14- jyear-old boy who lives in the neighborhood. I would guess the boy paid about $7 for the set.| | Mary Alice did not tell me labout the gift when she re- jeeived it. I learned about it jstories which could have hap- |penéd and some which could jnot. Thus he will learn to dis- keep on FABRICS 3000 COLORS TO CHOOSE FROM! By The Yard At - HARLEIG SUPPLIES (Oshawa Ltd.) Oshawa Shopping Centre 725-3012 H FN Sle) S| Jdinsabddadtyy ypitataansinny : @ SOFAS" e END TABLES @ DRAPERIES e LAMPS @ CHANDELIERS e CHAIRS e@ COFFEE TABLES e CUSHIONS e OIL PAINTINGS .@ FIGURINES oT n -@ DINING ROOM SUITES ALL AT Betty Haydl INTERIOR DECORATORS 15 KING ST, EAST DOWNTOWN OSHAWA 725-2686 erable years. Before I married Jack I knew he was a horse player. He promised to give up horses if I would marry him. He kept his word, but now it's dice instead of horses. 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