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Pra ee _1@_ THE OSHAWA TIMES, Thursday, December 31, 1964 CHILD GUIDANCE By GARRY C. MYERS, Ph.D There was a time when ju- venile delinquency was consid- ered a "pastime of the poor, Early Control Lessens Juvenile Delinquency named is the bad example of parents and other adults, But they once were children and youths themselves, just as the oo TASTY MORSELS New Year Toasts. For Career Girl _ By ROBERTA ROESCH . Now that the New. Year .is peeping around the bend of the calendar, it's time to lift your glass again for the usual sea- sonal toasts. : But this year give some toasts to your job and success in '65, For a few ideas on toasts to give, 20 are listed. Here's to new ideas for my job, and to backing them with brain power as well as plenty of push power. Here's to keeping an open mind and to being alert always so I can see in the coming' months new chances in a new year. Here's to getting started at Here's to winning achieve- ments by doing something extrs instead of living with set rou- tines and merely existing through life. 4 Here's to faith and ht and knowing I need both Here's to opportunities when- ever and wherever they come, |whether they come when I'm looking for them or when my is elsewhere. > Here's to 'love -- oe ge Here's to having a thick when I face trouble spots. Here's to concentrating what I want to do. Here's to catering to tt multitude of wild youths Make a Holiday Wreath the things I want to do instead and the oppressed and crowded." It's "'sure cure" was better houses, better schools, better economic bi cer aacarey iy A dream of young parents us be a home in suburbs to bring up their children where they couldn't easily become delin- quents, Now these dreams are being shattered. While the statistics from the courts and the census of youth in institutions of detention and correction put. the slums and other low-income areas ahead in measures of juvenile delin- quency, suburbs and suvurbia are rapidly catching up. Yet parents here have 80 many ways of keeping their wild youths from, being counted. The most amazing and dra- matic stories of wild youth in recent years, as reported by our news media, have been coming out of the more affluent areas. Judging from such reports, the rate of increase in juvenile delinquency seems to be high- est today in the more prosper- ous areas. Is it possible that young parents will someday be dreaming of poorer economic areas as a better place in which to bring up a family? WORLD-WIDE PROBLEM Also news reports coming out of other affluent nations or the world indicate that wild youth is becoming a world-wide prob- lem. Few persons will doubt that poor housing, crowded living, cultural deprivation. pov- erty and narrow economic op- portunities are good breeding ground of delinquency and crime. Yet there is no obvious proof that correction of these condi- tions will alone assure ideal behavior and citizenship in nearly all the youths of the foreseeable future. Parallel 'with rising living standards, the world over, it seems, is the ris- ing rate of juvenile delin- quency and crime. We may read and hear all sorts of reasons given for the rising tide of wildness in youth in our nation and other pros- perous nations. One often THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA FOR TOMORROW Resist any temptation to let down in your efforts now. As- sume full control of your obli- gations and _ responsibilities, carry on steadfastly and you will note gains. Congenial per- sonal relationships and pleas- ant social functions are also in- dicated. FOR THE BIRTHDAY If tomorrow is your birthday, your horoscope indicates that the next three months will be excellent where monetary and business matters are concerned. Other good periods on the financial front will occur in early July, September, late Oc- tober and late November. It will be important to use good judgment in all September} ventures, however. Despite the planetary blessing on your ma- terial affairs then, you could offset them by becoming in- volved in dubious schemes or infl d by impractical per- sons. Best periods for job advance- ment: late April, late October and early November, Except for brief periods dur- ing the. current January, when you may be under some tensi personal relationships will be governed by very generous in- fluences during the year ahead, which augurs well for social and domestic interests. Don't be dismayed if, during mid-July, there may be some unexpected changes on the do- mestic scene, perhaps in the way of environment. They should work out very well. For the single, the stars smile on romance--especially between now and Feb. 1, in late May, late June and late July. Best periods for travel: the next three weeks, late July, early September and December. A child born on this day will be endowed with the qualities required for success as @ writer, scientist or architect. of putting them off to '"'some- time"* which often only means 'no time," Here's to realizing I don't al- ways need to work at a jub with a paycheque to do really important work in the world. LISTEN AND LEARN Here's to listening to people and leaming from them. Here's to showing interest in everything I do, Here's to enthusiasm instead of being lackadaisical. Here's to hunting a little bit more instead of being slow. Here's to spreading praise|| employer to authorize Chire- around when it's genuine and . "It's yours for the sincere, knowing that others en- * joy it in the same way I lixe|| 100 King St. E. 728-5156: it myself. Pi tting know will be parents in the future, Me _ Poca BIG FACTORS No doubt the growing values placed on money and material things and the declining values placed on the imperishables are big factors. Has not religion waned in re- cent years throughout the' world as an influence on individual behavior? What about the long- prevailing philosophies which have ridiculed and denied val- ues of inhibitions and have warned against any sense of guilt? What about the prevailing doctrine of excessive permis- siveness in child rearing during the last 50 or more years which is spreading throughout the world? Y We have been reading and hearing warnings from some experts in child rearing that parents should stiffen up in home discipline of youth; and some parents whose youths are going wild are trying, usually in vain, to curb these youths, How can wild youths be trained who have had little or no restraint in their earlier years? NEW GENERATION In the meanwhile another generation of children in the hursery is growing up with rela- tively little restraint. Where do you hear and read warnings to parents of babies and tots to train them now in the unam- biguous meaning of "no" as the foundation of self-control and citizenship as they grow older? How futile it is to put all our emphasis on trying to curb wayward youth while we keep on bringing up children to do as they please in the nursery? .- If we are ever to curb the ominous rise of juveni! - quency, any place in the , vcid, we will have to face the need of better control of children during their earlier years; we will have to begin at the crib. Even then the evil influences from violence, and from cheap- ening of human life by many movies, comic books and TV programs will continue to make the ways of parents hard, PARENTS' QUESTIONS Q. Can a child develop a good life who does only what he wishes to do? A. Of course not. BABY PHOTOS SWAMP TIMES ' ened pictures are wonder- ul. However, at The Oshawa Times, photographs of cute little fellows and girls have proved again the adage that you can have too much of a good thing ,too! The growth of the city is just too great -- at year's end the editorial department has found that it is literally swamped with a backlog of pg than 150 pictures of tiny ots. The surplus has forced The Times to admit there is one phase of Oshawa's advance it cannot pace. The newspaper can no longer mark the birth- days of the junior set by pub- lishing pictures of the young- sters. The newspaper will en- deavor to publish the pictures on hand at present but will be unable to accept baby birthday photographs for pub- lication in the future. them Of Hot Bacon Appetizers Holiday entertaining calls for penne of j rgd be hg in 2 something a bit fancy in the|Covered Jar in a cool place way of party foods, Whether it's used for seasoning vegetables or f -frying. Use the dri; a holiday brunch, an after-the- eer wiibia, tes ouheng . show snack or an appétizer ' before dinner, Bacon Surprises For igen Fyre and Hot Bacon Crunches fit the appetizers holiday mood, A festive man-| 4% pound bacon ner of serving these delicacies 10 ounce package frozen is to tuck them in a styrofoam artichoke hearts wreath on the party table. 10 to 12 (% inch, cubes cheddar For holiday or everyday foods, it's important to' choose dependable brands. For exam- ple, the bacon for the festive appetizers should have a high proportion of lean to fat with uniformity of slices. This is an assurity when you buy the brand with the sweet smoke taste. You will be proud to serve the appetizers wrapped in the goodness of this sugar cured bacon, The hot Bacon Surprises are easy to prepare because only three ingredients are needed. Strips of partially cooked bacon are wrapped around cooked art- ichoke hearts sandwiched to- gether with cubes of cheddar cheese. The appetizers may be broiled until the bacon is done or grilled on a small hibachi at the table so the guests can watch the show. When preparing large quanti- ties of. bacon, a convenient method is to place separated slices on a rack in a shallow baking pan. Bake in a hot oven (400 degrees F.) 10 to 12 min- utes. There is no watching and no turning. Pan-frying is ideal for fewer strips. The bacon some cause even the driver's seat. Here's to making myself "dig in" as soon as I say "Happy New Year!" A Happy, Happy New Year from us to all of you! Ronald W. Bilsky,>-<. Chiroprecter 1f hurt on the job, esk your Cook artichoke hearts accord- ing to directions on package. Partially cook bacon. Place a cube of cheese between two artichoke hearts. Wrap a slice of bacon around each artichoke heart. and fasten with a wooden pick. Broil until bacon is done. Serve hot. HOT BACON CRUNCHES Yield: about 20 to 24 appetizers % pound bacon : Y, pound chicken livers tablespoon melted butter or margarine 1% teaspoons mayonnaise 1% teaspoons catsup 1% teaspoons grated onion ¥% teaspoon lemon juice Y, teaspoon dry mustard Dash of salt and pepper 5 ounce can water chestnuts Cook chicken livers in sim- mering water 10 minutes. Drain and cut in small pieces. Place with butter, mayonnaise, cat- sup, onion, lemon juice, mus- tard, salt and pepper in an electric blender. Blend to a smooth paste, cover and refrig- erate for several hours. Drain and slice water chestnuts: Spread about 1 teaspoonful of chicken liver pate on a slice of water chestnut. Cover with an- other slice of water chestnut. Cut each slice of bacon in half and partially cook, Wrap each water chestnut in a slice of bacon and fasten with a wooden pick. Broil until bacon is done. Serve hot. Alternate Method: Put cooked member for Niagara Falls; Mrs. Eloise Jones, Progres- sive Conservative member for Saskatoon; and Mrs. Robert Wadds, Progressive Conserva- tive member for Grenville- Dundas: (CP Photo) ber for Westmoreland; Mar- = Konantz, Liberal mem- er for Winnipeg South; Paul- line: Jewett, Liberal member for Northum berland; and from bottom left: Health Min- ister Judy La Marsh, Liberal Year End Review Reveals Record Number Of Women Members in Federal Government als in 1962 after Mervyn Hard- ie's death, RECORD NUMBER The result of the two byelec- tion victories in 1964 is that the House of Commons has a rec- ord number of women MPs-- six, Others are Health Minister tions,|Judy LaMarsh, Margaret Kon- antz and Pauline Jewett. This constituted an achieve- ment in the Canadian woman's campaign for acceptance in areas once reserved for men. And while 1964 perhaps wasn't a vintage year in this respect, it did produce a number of slother firsts. Mrs. Malcolm M,. Tait was appointed official reporter of the New Brunswick legislature, a post never before held by @ WOMEN'S representation in Commons reach- RELIABLE FURNITURE - INTERIORS 1 z Lan barring hatless women from the To Beautify legislative chamber, Mrs. Pritchard continued to wear @ hat herself, however. GAIN IN QUEBEC In Quebec, some change was made in the civil code to im- prove the legal standing of mar- ried. women. They are still bound by the community sys- tem of property allotment which, in Quebec, means the husband is sole administrator not only of joint property but of his wife's property. But leg- islation passed in June makes some exceptions. Women now are given re- sponsibility. if their husbands are absent.or incapable, for ex- ample, as a result of mental woman in Canada. illness, Wives now may admin- The lawyer wife of a lawyer,|ister property defined by law as Mrs. M. J. Batten of Humboldt,|their own. And a wife's consent now is required in more cases before her husband may sell or give away joint property. Claire Kirkland - Casgrain, sponsor of the bill and minister without portfolio in the Liberal government of Jean Lesage, was named minister of trans- port in November, the first woman to head a department in Quebec. Your Home WRITES ON NORTH SASKATOON (CP) -- Char- lotte Boissonault, instructor in French at the University of Saskatchewan at Regina, has received a $1,500 grant to as- sist in- writing a book on the influence of the North on Cana- dian literature. She received the grant from the Institute of Northern Studies at Laval Uni-|chicken livers through a grind- versity, Quebec. She hopes tojer twice, using fine plate, complete the book within two|-- years, Personal Home Decorating Service NINETY-SIX KING ST. EAST Ff : judge jurisdiction throughout the e Ada Pritchard struck a blow; while women were general for women's rights shortly after making gains in the gore taking her seat in the Ontario) arena, one of the most colorful legislature as a Conservative) or them lost out when Charlotte member from Hamilton. She/whitton was defeated in her her male colleagues|rifth (and first unsuccessful) the Liber-ito abolish a 93-year-old rule/yiq for the mayor's chair in Ot- tawa. Outside politics, Dr. Helen Hogg of Toronto was elected 73rd president of the 115-year- old Royal Canadian Institute, the first woman to head the scientific honor society. FIGHTS CANCER Mrs. Egmont Frankel, also of Z Toronto, became the first Ca- ma |nadian to receive a humanitar- jan award from the U.S. Na- tional Institute of Social Sci- ences. It was in recognition of her 17 years of work in the fight against cancer. The British Open Highland Dancing championship left Scotland for the first time when 17 - year - old Linda Christine Campbell of Toronto won it. Joanne Ruth Nichols, now a Grade 12 student in Vancouver, took first prize in an interna- tional literary contest sponsored by the Indian government, top- ping 3,000 entries with a 13,000- word .novelette about Renais- sance intrigue, written when she was 14. Mabel Pokiak, 23, of Tuktoy- aktuk, N.W.T., became the first Eskimo registered nurse when she graduated from the Winni- peg General Hospital school of nursing, The woman as a representa- tive of consumer interests re- ceived clear recognition in July when the 15-member Council of Consumers was formed under the federal food and drug di- rectorate, Fourteen members| are women, most of them rep- resenting wom en's. onganiza- tions. They are to advise Health Minister LaMarsh on the con- sumer's point of view in some food and drug matters, In June the Vanier Institute of the Family was initiated at the Canadian Conference on the Family held in Ottawa. The Catholic Women's League was HG 3 é seat for Sutta's T25-1521 LEAR ~NEW LARGER LOCATION > 10% KING ST, WEST Phone 725-0444 OPEN FRIDAY NIGHT VRVARAIAVAAAD Iced Shrimp Cocktall 80 Choice of: Consomme with Sherry Tomate Juice J In Dance of Life Chicken Soup Grapefruit Dear Ann Landers: I am 4 steady reader of your column' and I respect your opinions. I had to laugh at the letter from the person who said he thought you made up the stuff that ap- peared in the newspaper be- cause people couldn't be that loony. I, for one, can tell you he is' plenty mistaken. A situation exists right under my nose that nobody would believe if you printed it. Some friends of ours (two couples) love to dance. They started to go to public dances together. Suddenly they discov- ered each one danced better with the other one's mate. So they switched. Right now they are just a happy bunch of nuts, getting ready to divorce each other so they can change partners for life. And get a load of this-- they are looking to buy one big house 60 they can live together. Nobody is mad at anybody; it's just as cozy as it can be. Print this as proof that people are wacky.--Veritas Dear Veritas: So who needs proof? Ann Landers: My heart is broken in a thousand pieces. This geen | I went shopping for my wee' zy ey of grocer- ies and this is what I saw: A little, sandy - haired boy, about 11 years old accidentally bumped the grocery cart against his mother's heels. She let out a stream of curses and slapped the boy across the face five or. six times. As I walked out of the store tears rolled down my cheeks, What I wouldn't give if my own: son had lived, and could comejis doing." with me to the grocery store] Please, Ann, help me.--Petri- and push my cart. I thought,ifled. too, of the thousands of mothérs| Dear Pet: A person 89 is old who have lost little ones. Ijenough to know what she's do- thoaght of the mothers of crip- a fact is, she may be too pled youngsters who cannotiold. ': walk. Each one would gladly} It is unfair of your husband change places with that mother|to disregard the safety of his who so cruelly struck her son. |family because he is afraid of offending his mother. I hope If a mother would treat her child that way in public, whatione day he doesn't regret his stubbornness. does she do at home? Please, Apple x x x Assorted Relish Tidbits Giant Ripe Olives Sweet Gherkins x Ann Landers, print my letter. Maybe the mother--and other mothers who are equally guilty will see themselves as others see them.--R.L. Dear R.L.: Here is the letter. I hope it helps. I've said it be- fore but it bears repeating -- children should not be slapped across the face, A- blow on the head can cause permanent damage. 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