DISTAFF DIARY Summary of reports of meetings and activities of Oshawa women's organiaztions as compiled from reports submitted by their secretaries. OSHAWA PILOT CLUB At a recent meeting of the Oshawa Pilot Club held at Sim- coe Halil, Miss Mary MacLean, president, presided. Members of the Lionette Club were wel- comed to share an_ inspiring address given by Mrs. Walter Branch, who had recently re- turned from a trip around the world. Her talk was most in- formative, appreciated and en- joyed. Final plans were made for the "Annual Telephone Party." The object of this party is, to raise funds to support the Club's community projects, which in- clude transporting residents of Hillsdale Manor and Fairview Lodge to the Golden Age Club weekly; supporting a nine year old Korean child; collecting and wrapping Christmas Gifts ivr Ontario Hospital, Whitby, and packing kits for the Cancer So- ciety canvassers and helping impromptu model. A question and answer period followed. HAPPYDOUBLES CLUB The February meeting of the Happy Doubles Club was held tecently in King Street United Church, Mr. P. G. Fletcher and Mr. and Mrs. Glynn Pearse were in charge of the devotional per- iod held in the chapel. Mr. and Mrs. Vernon Osborne sang a duet "O Happy Home" accom- *|panied by Miss Hazel Rundle at the organ. The members returned to the Centennial Hall for the business part of the evening. The mem- bers were reminded of the an- nual Valentine dance being held Friday in Centennial Hall, Two new couples were wel- comed into the club, Mr. and Mrs. Fred Ayers and Mr. and Mrs. Morley Welch. A movie film and several. slides of the THE OLD - FASHIONED cold remedy baking soda and lemon juice turns into a fun - to - drink soda when youngsters sip it up through a fruit-flavored candy stick, straw-style. No Cure Found Yet For Colds An Ounce Of Prevention Helps THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA _|FOR TOMORROW As with yesterday, this day's planetary influences favor rou- tine tasks rather than the in- auguration of new programs or drastic changes in business and household schedules. Give fur- ther consideration, if you like, to plans and projects involving future security, but wait until a more propitious period to be- gin carrying them out. FOR 'THE BIRTHDAY If tomorrow is your birthday, your horoscope indicates that, while the next few months could be somewhat dull and dis- appointing where job and finan- cial matters are concerned, it would, nevertheless, be advis- able to keep plugging, since present efforts will pay off in the long run. In the case of occupational affairs, some rec- ognition or advancement is pre- saged for early May and mid- September and there is also in- dication of small financial gain in late April, mid-May and mid- August. However, not until late ANN LANDERS With a Smile Dear Ann Landers: This let- ter is for "Outa My Mind," the gal whose husband stays out till all hours and "forgets" to tele- phone her. This poor thing says she's been married only two years. Well, I've got news for her--it's going to get worse, so she'd bet- ter learn how to deal with it. After plenty of heartache I finally resorted to professional help and found the solution, I'll give it to "Outa'" for the price of this newspaper. First: The louse will come home. They always do. Second: Make up your mind that you will not greet him at the door with "Where have you been? Why didn't you call? I've been worried sick." Instead, say with a smile (if ate oui I ee a a (opel Bt eats THE OSHAWA TIMES, Tuesday, February 9,1965 1] Prick His Conscience the night before. Soon he will be apologizing all over himself. Then say, "It's all right dear," and smile when you say it. I followed this procedure for three months and it cured my husband completely -- Happy Now Dear Happy: Wonderful idea. Your formula of non-violence and passive resistance is not only saintly but wise. It also requires enormous self-control and understanding. The results are worth the effort and it does work, Dear Ann Landers: There is a rumor going around school that it is possible to get lip can- cer if you kiss a boy who smokes a lot and has the be- ginning of lip cancer. - by a physician without de- y. Dear Ann Landers: My sis- ter lost her husband several years ago. He left her well fixed, financially. They had no children, Recently my sister told me she has written her will and generous sums will go to our son (her nephew) and the daughter of my brother (her niece). We have an adopted daughter who is 17. We adopted her when she was an infant but she is just as dear to us as our son who is our flesh and blood. This sister was against the adoption and said so. She has always been pleasant to the girl, however, calls and asks her to run errands, and has invited her on some lovely trips. (We always paid the girl's way.) I think it is terrible that my sister. is not including our daughter in her will and I'd like to know 'if I should ask her why. Yes or no? -- Austin Heartache Dear Austin: No. an inherit- Capetown Wedding For Wendy Weston LONDON (CP)--Engagement ot Wendy Weston, fourth daugh- ter of Garfield Weston, Britain's Canadian-born food king, to Leslie Rebanks, an architect, was announced Thursday, Weston has nine children, seven daughters and two sons, An announcement said the mar- riage between Miss Weston, who has travelled abroad in recent years buying stock for Fortnum ard Mason, posh London store owned by her father, and Re- banks, son of a former police inspecto1, will be held "shortly" at Cape Town. Rebanks is the son of Mr, and Mrs. John Rebanks of St. Annes-on-Sea, Lancashire, POINTS WITH PRIDE MILVERTON, Ont. (CP) -- Tinda Strahm has an unusual hobby--she collects pencils. She now boasis 400, varying in size from 1%-inches to 14 inches long Is this true or not? Can you tell us what lip cancer looks like? Thanks a lot. You're a pal.--Troubled Group Dear Group: I'm a doctor now but not a physician--and only a physician is qualified to give medical advice. I con- sulted, however, with a physi- cian who specializes in skin cancer and he said it is not pos- sible to get lip cancer from kiss- ing a person--even if the per- son has lip cancer. It is unwise, however, to kiss anyone who has a sore on his lip because you could get some- thing deadlier than lip cancer, and I'm talking about syphilis. Sores which are stubborn about healing (particularly if they are around the mouth) should be a'd an iuch thick. But she is not unique in her family. Her cousin began Linda's collection with duplicates from her own. club's activities during the past year were shown by Mr. Frank Ball. : KING STREET UCW 10 The February meeting of Unit 10, King Street United Church Women, was held in the chapel. Following the worship service, Mrs. Roy Lee, presiding over the business meeting, introduc- ed Mrs. Harold Bell who out- lined plans for the UCW bazaar. The unit will sonsor a demon- stration of househoyd plastics on March 11 at 8 p.m. in Centennial Hall. Following the business meet- ing members shared in a social half-hour. BETA SIGMA PHI The regular bi-monthly meet- ing of Ontario Gamma Epsilon Chapter was held recently at the home of Mrs, Percy Brad- ance is a gift. Your sister does not owe either an explanation or apology. You sound a little money-hungry to me, Lady. Nevember will you see the real rewards for your endeavors in both lines. Do consolidate mone- tary gains in October, so that you will be able to plan properly for the good cycle which should get in full swing in early De- cember. Late April (an excellent per- iod for all Aquarians), June and mid-August will be exceptionally good for cultivating new friend- ships and for. social activities generally; also December and January. The first three of the aforementioned periods will also be auspicious for travel. Best periods for romance: late April, late June and late July (the latter period especially good--particularly if you have marriage in mind). Don't take it kills you) "Gee, I'm glad you are home honey. Now let's get some sleep." This is not easy to do when he'smells like a brewery and has trouble getting the key in the lock. The next morning don't utter one word about what happened with the canvassing. Miss MacLean, explained the party this way: "We hope hos- tesses throughout the City would entertain in their own homes at various kinds of parties--bridge, euchre, showing slides, or just a friendly get-together. In turn, the Piloi Club would see that each hostess had a gift, a table prize, and many favors and all her guesis would have a chance at the major prizes, viz: $25.00, $15.00 and $10.00. At least four guests were suggested. Each guest would be expected to do- nate one dollar. Each hostess should supply the names of her guests to the Pilot Club before the party on Thursday, Febru- ary 18 and at 10:00 p.m. from a central switchboard, Pilots would cail the hostesses to an- nounce the prize winners. The you aren't sensitive to aspirin. If you are, try taking a chaser of a half teaspoon of baking soda per half glass of water. Hot drinks are gvod providing you bundle up and keep warm afterwards, Baking soda and lemon juice . . . the juice of one fresh lemon, a half teaspoon of soda in a half glass of water taken several times a day is also good at the start of a cold. Let youngsters drink it up through a fruit-flavored candy stick, straw style. What with the straw and the f'zzing action of the soda, small iry will think they're: drinking a real soda. If the cold has aiready reach- ed the well established stage, a mild nose spray heips ease that stuffed-up feeling and a gargle made up of a half teaspoon of baking soda in a half glass of An ounce of prevention will help ward off colds during the upcoming sniffle - catching sea- son. Preventative measures rec- ommended by doctors include: not kissing anyone who has a cold; not drinking out of a glass or cup or drying your face with a towel used by a cold victim; not getting wet or chilled; not keeping the house too dry. An. overly dry atmos- phere removes some of the moisture from the lining of the nose and lessens its resistance to infection. If you abide by these warn- ings but a cold still breaks through your defenses and latches onto someone in the family you may stem its pro- gress as effectively with one of the old-fashioned remedies as with some modern concoction, FOR THE FINEST Custom Made DRAPES in the Latest Shades and Fabries SEE ae & DRY GOODS | & DRAPERIES 74 CELINA STREET PHONE 723-7827 TRACKS EXPERTLY INSTALLED March, May or October "'ro- mances" too seriously, how- ever. They could prove dis- appointing. May, June and Sep- tember will be highly stimulat- ing and inspiring for those en- gaged in creative lines. A child born on this day will be amiable and optimistic; ex- tremely versatile in the arts and literary fields. major prizes would be delivered to the hostess for delivery or presentation to the winner." ley, Grasmere avenue. Mrs. Harold Ball, ways and means and at a fraction of the cost. But start treatment at the first sign of a sniffle or raspy throat. water gently relieves that sore, scratchy throat. Stay in bed if possible, eat plenty of nourish- chairman, reported on the re- cent committee meeting and outlined the different projects for the spring. The new social convener, Mrs. Barry Hooper, reminded mem- bers of the dance being held at St. Gregory's on February 12, sponsored by Phi Phi Chapter. Several members volunteered their services as baby sitters in order that other chapter members might attend the dance. The programs scheduled for Some home drugs such asling food and drink plenty of aspirin are helpfui, providing'liquids. CHILD GUIDANCE Parents Often At Fault When Teenager Talks Back By GARRY C. MYERS, Ph.D. Mrs. Patrick J. O'Boyle is the convener of this "Night-of-Cards at-Home" undertaking, and fur- ther information may be ob- tained from Mrs. O'Boyle at 725-0380, Miss Lorraine Ostle at 725-6287 and Mrs, Albert H. Barnes at 725-2497--during the evenings, During the day calls will be received by Mrs. F. J. Goyne at 725-5378. Some hos- tesses have already arranged for their parties. Those known 'at the present time are--Mrs. Think of all the small cars you can buy for less than $1800* Now consider this: some of his good traits and re- T. D. Thomas, former Mayor of Oshawa, who is an honorary 'member of the Club; Mrs. N. H. Dunford, Mrs. Leslie Gorrie, 'Mrs. 'many others. BETA SIGMA PHI The president, Mrs: Philip Clark called the meeting of the Ontario Phi Phi Chapter of Beta Clifford Chambers, and because of the absence of Mrs be presented at a later date. It was announced that next meeting of the the evening were not presented Louis McCoy and Miss Heather Thomas. These programs will the chapter would be held at the home of Mrs. Barry Hooper, 1171 North- ridge on February 16. The One of the unhappy experi- ences of many a mother is to '|hear her child talk back to her. Frequently a child is unhappy hearing his mother or father talk back to him. The child, typically a teen - ager, often starts this wordy warfare. Why, then, should we not expect him to be the first to end it? He knows before he talks back -that solve ways to encourage them with him. Enlist your friends to work with you in this direc- tion. Consider ways of having more good times with-him. ~ "Emphasize activities in which you can cultivate a finer relationship with this boy. Try to build up the best in him. Dad might do a good deal at this. Doesn't it make sense to choose one that's built and backed speaker will be Mrs. Raymond Sigma Phi to order at the home he is likely to hear angry words of Miss Marilyn Larmer, It was reported that the Spring Preferential Tea would be held at the Oshawa Golf Club, on April 4, 1965 from 2:00 p.m. to 4:00 p.m. It was decided that the proceeds of the Blue and *Silver Ball, to take place Feb- Tuary 12, 1965 at St. Gregory's 'Auditorium, would again be given to the Cancer Fund. In keeping with the theme of the cultural program entitled 'Pomadour or Pixie' Mrs. Maureen Wahrer introduced the guests for the evening: Mr. John Weiss, a noted member of the Guild of Hair Design, and his assistant, Mr. Ronald DeNoble, who demonstrated hair care design. Mrs. Reginald McIntyre _ Speech". SOUTHMEAD NEIGHBORHOOD ASSOC. The monthly meeting of the Southmead Neighborhood Asso- ciation was held recently in Co- nant School. The association decided Crossley, whose program, taken from the current study book will be "Tools for the Art of Liv'ng to have a membership drive soon and also to purchase cards to remind all members of forth- coming meetings which will be held in the future on the first Sunday of every month. Results of the Christmas draw were announced and the winner of the bicycle was John McNee of Bloor street. is provoked to wrath and talks first to utter ugly talk. In any event the parent, be- ing older and with more exper- ience, should take the initiative in avoiding ugly, angry words. This conflict usually arises be- cause the parents had not ef- co-operation. OUTSPOKEN SON who wrote that her 13-year-old boy talks back to her and calls to her, "Hey you!" "I can see how you feel when your son talks back to you. But from his parent; sometimes he back because his parent was fectively taught the child in his early years to respect the little word '"'no" and had not won his Here is my reply to a mother WELCOME FRIENDS "IT hope you welcome to your ome his pals. "When he says, 'Hey, you,' that is not the time for you to get angry. Wait for some more favorable time when you might be able in your lovely way to get him to want to. say, 'Mother,' or the like. So many things are involved in your problem that I don't feel ade- quate in offering you a very detailed solution." PARENTS' QUESTIONS Q. What do you consider most important in helping a child be- ginning speech? A. Providing him with a com- fortable family atmosphere of love and understanding, so he by General Motors? and Mrs. Patrick Ryan made will want to talk. attractive models and mention must be made of Mrs. Philip Suggestions for taising funds and a hockey banquet for the Pee Wee hockey team, were dis- you hardly can hope to correct this ugly way of his by also Clark who volunteered as an cussed. talking back to him. If you can manage yourself at such times, you might be very effective if you waited for several hours or days when you felt very calm SETS AIR RECORD Tatyana Russiyan, the Soviet Union's most famous woman pilot, has established a world hcight record of 7,150 metres in Luggage Travels Lighter --So Let's Get Packing By ELEANOK ROSS Although the southern resort and cruise season is booming now, it'll soon be summer va- cation time. And in between, we'll be taking trips, too. All of which means that We can travel the year around. This, in turn, means that there's always some shopping to do for travel items, apart from the regular luggage. ON THE PROWL ' So here we are, in our favor- ite shopping world -- the good old notions counter -- prowling 'about for some excellent travel items, neatly priced. Much of today's travel is by air, so people are concerned with packing as many things as possible into the lightest car- riers available. A good item is the pocket valise that when not in use folds up and disappears into a man's pocket of a lady's hand- bag. REALLY LIGHTWEIGHT Weighing but 18 ounces, this practical traveller opens to 20x15x4% inches. It comes in waterproof canvas or rayon sharkskin or in handsome, im- ported tapestry and navy nylon, and it is a treat when there is luggage storage space prob-| All this at under eight dollars. lems. So, let's get packing! Away Something good, too, is alwe go! featherweight container for al woman traveller's 'personal items." Made of sturdy rayon and cotton, it has soft fabric handles and zips all around. When opened fiat, it reveals transparent satin-lmed compart- ments that hold slips, bras, hose, girdles, gloves and slip- and companionable with him, to ask whether he wants to keep talking back to you. "Apparently you parents) have not worked out very good measures of control and have not discovered effective punish- ments such as denials of a very highly cherished privilege. In- stead, you are inclined to get angry and just talk. "I think you parents should sit down together in private and try to figure out the few places in which you wish to re- strain your child with some rules to this effect. Be careful] to centre on only those plans you) can carry out. Name together! a helicopter. WHAT IS A CAT & DOG SALE? (See, Wednesday's Paper For The Answer) GET YOUR YARDSTICK AND MEASURE YOUR ROOMS -- MARK THEM DOWN' AND WAIT FOR WEDNESDAY'S PAPER. IT'S WORTH WAITING FOR. NU-WAY RUG CENTRE 54 CHURCH ST. thereby lightening the luggage, load and also thereby saving the expense of extra weight. SETS THAT MATCH Marvelous new matching totes, also available individ- ually, are made of imported tapestry in a unique "travel" print design. All of these are rubberlined and waterproofed. Tote bags these days come in a variety of patterns, materials and shapes, but most of them side zippered pockets and spe- cial carrying handles. To be prepared for weather is a "must" for the woman traveller, who, if she is smart, wears a good rain or-shine coat and also invests in a_ light- weight, reversible job that has many uses and weighs so little. DOES THE JOB Whether one is on a plane, ship or car, it's possible that vecdy joints may ache. 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