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16 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Tuesday, June 29, 1965 CHILD GUIDANCE Suggestions To Protect The Too Trusting Child By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD. pa rresig Tore need hg se) eri where P< ren are. 10 grabtaae oy phrase Poin them' roam about and play for young children, Almost every long periods at a stretch with- day newspapers carry stories out knowing where they are or "of another atrocity; and many, what they are doing-is perilous many more occur than are re- for them physically: and mor- by the police. Such could ppen today to your young child or mine, The tot from two to six or older is friendly and trustful and hé innocently. supposes he can trust any person friendly to him. We usually like him to be this way, but as we face reality we know there may lurk -around some adults or much older children, who take advant-| age of his friendly and trustful ways. Much as we dislike ever to suggest to our young child that strangers can't always be trusted, we just have to come to the conclusion that we must teach him this for his physical and moral safety. It's not enough to protect children from such dangers. Their parents need to encour- age them to play with friends of about their own age in other than secret and dangerous places, even if their playmates are neighbor children. If your child often plays with children much younger or much older than himself he can't de- rive from these actiivties the most wholesome social play ex- perience, however safe they all are morally. The older child playing with much younger children can have his own way; he doesn't have to compete on equal terms. The younger child may The Crime Prevention Bur-|8tow too dependent and. lag in eau, 9538 Brighton Way, Bev- resourcefulness. erly Hills, Calif., makes avail-/ paRENTS' QUESTIONS able an attractive bulletin, The - How many students Cautious Twins, to be put into\tended college this year? the hands of children as soon' 4 §9 million. at- THE STARS SAY ' By ESTRELLITA Excellent Venus influences now faor all the interests which are close to y heart. Especially star - blessed> Ro- mance, family concerns, &: land cultural pursuits, social functions and group activities of any kind. FOR THE BIRTHDAY If tomorrow is your birthday, your horoscope promises that this new year in your life should be most pleasant. Both job and monetary gains are indicated, with emphasis on job and-or business boosts in September, December, next January and March. Be careful not to an- tagonize superiors or partners during the latter half of Octo- her, however, or progress could be stymied. Where financial in- terests are concerned, look to making forward strides between Aug. 15 and Sept. 8, followed by a really fine cycle for ex- pansion between Sept. 20 and Nov. 16 when a beneficent Ju- piter will govern all fiscal mat- ters. Next good period along the aforementioned lines: Be- jtween Jan. 5 and April 5. Do |be conservative, however, be- itween now and mid - August; also from late November throughout December. Those engaged in creative pursuits "Ishape up, here are some ques- " tions well worth asking yourseif: Before your wedding plans What kind of a wedding do both of you really want? Who else is involved in your wedding and what would they like? Your parents and family are much concerned with your wed- ding, and care very much about your marriage' being happy and successful. It mat- ters to them how the marriage takes place. ; Your wedding is impcertant also to your friends, and throughout November, Jan- uary, March and-or May. For the Cancerian, 1965-66 will be a truly big year for ro- mance, with the weeks between now and July 31 unusually glamorous in this connection, and other auspicious periods promised between Aug. 15 and Oct. 4, next February, April and May. Look for opportuni- ties to travel and for stimulat- ing social activities in late July, throughout September, January, April and next June, If careful' to avoid friction in close circles | during the latter half of Pane should have a_ splendid year, with outstanding periods of ac- complishment -- and profit --| promised between now and the} minor annoyances get you/ding that has true meaning for jend of July, in late September} ; and late September, you sh-=#é! have unusually smooth sailing) on the domestic seas. Don't let down. Deciding Type Of Wedding Takes Much Into Consideration "s and your hopes are of course involved most of all, really involved and who do not really care about the bride and impress enemies. |Lillian, 'and I want everything relationship between these goals cost. Basic costs include those of You, yourself, your dreams upper limit. _ e simplest way to make a Strangely, weddings often are wedding beautiful, planned for people who are not church, Reglious marriages have more chance for perman- groom. They are planned to im-|°"c® Morever, than others. press acquaintances and even For instance, David and Lil- lian spent on their wedding all her savings and a large sum her father borrowed. 'I'm young to be married only once," said vice. Plan to invite all the people you love. They belong with you on this important occasion. It is to be perfect." Perfection for Lillian included down on your guest list. an elaborately decorated } dition and solemnity while re-jof the bride and groom stand-|to do. But while etiquette, good' that there is little|ing at the church door and greet-itaste and careful planning, all ing guests on their way out, usually there is some kind party, in. the church parlors, or clergyman's fee. There is no|the bride's home, or at a club. |An_outdoor reception is attrac tive but the danger of rain traditional|will keep the family jittery for and solemn is to hold it in a/days. The easy way, if you can ford a caterer, is to have it at a club or restayrant. In a chapel or church you) Eyen if the ceremony and may find no decorations are ne-|reception are very informal, a cessary, There may even be | white gown and veil are al- flowers from the previous ser-|ways appropriate for the | is a bride for the first time. And holding to some of the old traditions makes every- the wedding far better to make your recep-|have a sense of belonging to the tion inexpensive than to cut|past and to the future, There ate many books which The simplest reception is that'tell the "socially correct' thing who one involved in i] fing, the meen | is to make the buflhelp make a satisfying wed-lcouples and their ¢ al A B LE Ie) FURNITURE- INTERIORS (¢ © CUSTOM DRAPERIES ¢ FINE FURNITURE * BROADLOOM + rl church, dinner with champagne, { and a fabulous wedding gown. Afterwards, David and Lillian settled down in a one - room apartment. There are two possible explan- ations for such a splurge. First, the two didn't think, Second, it was more important to them to make one big splash than to put their mrriage on a firm fi- nancial foundation. We would guess that Lillian, like many brides, did not figure out what was most important to her. If you believe in yourself, your family and your husband or wife-to-be, you will not be overly concerned with making an im- pression. You will plan a wed- i. . 74 Celina Street FOR THE FINEST Custom and Ready Made DRAPES in the latest. Shades and Fobrics .. . see... Mé&C DRY GOODS & DRAPFRIES DRAPERY TRACKS EXPERTLY INSTALLED 723-7827 Personal Home Decorating Service OPEN THURS & FRI. TILL 9 PLM, NINETY-SIX KING ST. EAST | ou will want beauty, tra- as they can read, or earlier, to) ------__ be read to them. It is easy to) read and is effectively illus-| trated with pictures of young) children. | VALUABLE BOOKLET | More than 10,000,000 copies of | this booklet have been distri- buted to elementary schools in the United States and Canada, by local civic clubs, churches and other groups. This bulletin aims to teach children how to) avoid being molested. It is writ-| ten in rhyme. The cautious young twins ask their mother where to play in the neighborhood. They tell her who their playmates are and let her meet them. They don't talk to strangers or let strangers give them toys or things to eat. When offered such, they run away. If someone tells the twins) grabs them, they scream 80) that help may come to them. | They never get in a motor car) when a stranger offers them a ride. They don't wander off into) alleys and empty buildings or towards bushes and trees. | When the Cautious Twins play) with friends at parks and play- grounds they go home before it's dark. When they must go to a restroom at a z00, park) or playground, they ask a cau- tious friend to go with them. When at a show they get up) and move away or tell the) usher, if some one crowds be touches them; also when 4a) stranger pats their hand or) straightens up. their clothes. BOOK FOR ALL CHILDREN | While this booklet is directed) toward protection of children) under six or seven, what it) teaches also applies to older) UCW Delegates | Study Theology KINGSTON (CP)--More than 250 women delegates of the United Church of Canada's Bay of Quinte and Montreal and Ottawa conference took part in) a weekend study of the Chris-/ tian faith at Queen's Univer-| sity. Mrs. L. A. VanDuzer of Mont-/ real is conference chairman. Main study sessions of theol- ogy and the Bible were con- ducted by Dr. Georgia Hark- ness of Berkeley, Calif., a Methodist minister, and Mrs.) Joseph Fowler of Edison, N.J., wife of a Presbyterian minister and a graduate of Princeton Theological Seminary. Dr. Harkness said in an in- terview there is a heightened awareness of the part of Chris- tians of the need to know more about the theology of their faith. 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