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The Hungarian Commu- nity of Oshawa is present- ing the famous Kodaly En- FAMOUS TROUPE COMING HERE TOMORROW semble of Toronto in the Oshawa Folk Festival to- morrow night. The talented ensémble includes dancers, musicians, soloists and choir performing their national and original and dances. songs CHILD GUIDANCE Parents Can Conquer Self-Pity In Child By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD |as that she will have fewer and) | Child Born Of Rape' a | day that a child born beca' hospital \cover | Sues For Damage NEW YORK "|FOR THE BIRTHDAY jshould prove highly stimulating '\business and financial) matters jslow. side THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA FOR TOMORROW Generous Venus infil continue to éncottage creative and cultural pursuits to foster romance and stimulate school activities. Other aspects warn against being careless in finan- cial matters, however. Neither borrow nor lend on Thursday. If tomorrow is your birthday; this next year in your life on practically all counts. If have been somewhat on the for the past few weeks, do not be disheartened. In about six weeks, you will see an uptrend in these matters, which will last until Sept. 8, fol- lowed by a really excellent cycle between Sept. 20 and Nov. 16 when Jupiter, in your Sun- Sign, will bring you all the op- portunities for success for which this planet is famous, Next good period along these lines: Jan. 15, through April 15. If careful not to antagonize superiors during the latter half of October, when a Cancerian tendency to become overly ex- (AP) -- The|January and March. The suc- state court of claims ruled Fri-|cesses of those engaged in crea- use|tive pursuits will follow a cited at trifling situations may be unusually strong, you should do well where your occupational affairs are concerned, Outstand- ing months for accomplishment September, December, next ANN LANDERS Dear Ann Landers: When we moved to Phoenix from Miami the women I met were very cool. Not one woman seemed interested in getting to know me better, I didn't even get the ordinary courtesies shown to new neighbors--until they met my -husband. Then suddenly I became very popular. If you could sée my husband you'd understand. He is six-feet- one, has dark wavy hair, bed- room eyes and could pass for Peter O'Toole, I must be fair and tell you that he thoroughly enjoyed being pursued although I doubt that anything ever came of it. Now that we have moved from Phoenix to a suburb in Connecticut the same thing is happening again. I must say however, that these Connecticut suburban types are more bra- zen than the Phoenix women. One night a woman followed him into the kitchen when he went to get ice cubes. Later that same woman almost broke} her leg getting in line next to! him at the buffet supper. (All this right under my nose.) I am tired of being quiet and patient in a_ state mental/slightly different pattern, with was raped may Any child at four, 10 or 15 fewer friends and admirers if brought into the. world. Legal experts said the deci-|tember, throughout November, who has excessive fears of little bumps and injuries may seem! to most other people as imma- ture, even babyish. This child may annoy others by his bid for attention and pity and indulge often in self-pity. The older the child indulging in frequent self-pity, the more lowing letter from a mother: "7 find myself at a loss to know just how to react to a child who seems to seek undue) ful as a deep gash--if not more so. We dare not be too sympa- thetic, for when she dwells on a thing, it swells to undue \pro- portions. . "On the other hand, we want her to know that we are sym- pathetic and that we love her. Finding the middle line is ex- tremely difficult. Our. daughter is eleven, but we feel that the problem is more than a pre-| teen one because of the past) history of building up even minor mishaps. TEEN HYPOCHONDRIAC "This same problem presents itself when working with teen- agers. Occasionally one (who appears. to be developing into a first + class hypochondriac) seems to seek more attention by dramatizing every scratch, ailment or problem. How much attention should be given to satisfy this appar- ent need, without encouraging more hypochondriac tendencies later? My reply in part: It is my guess that you have been so eager to be kind and sympathetic with your daughter that you have encouraged her in making a great ado over the slighest physical injury or im- agined injury. Your fear that she might suppose you don't love her has driven you to feed her pleasure at attention over the slightest physical hurt she may face. I hope you can see how her growing bid for attention over pain and fear of pain has made her less: attractive to other children and adults. If you will think throlgh this problem, you will steel yourself to be less miserable and unlikable he may) become. Significant is the fol-| lshe doesn't grow more hard-| ened and smal! .cratches, cuts. more bumps but a persor of her age. her growing ened to injuries will prove in- youths and adults. in the future as you help)iar case. Some said it may|her to prove she's not a baby|aise the question of whether/emphasis on romance through-| jthe state has a duty to perform/out July (an exceptionally pro- When she enters the teens,/therapeutic abortions where re-|pitious. month), between reasonably hard-\quested in rape cases. From the time your child or|Hospital on Welfare Island. mine was very young, we felt by the way we acted--by the/th : 5 The mother, described by ajences are star-promised in late| attention, especially when sheiqeep concern about him every|lawyer as a _ psychotic, was|J uly, throughout September, | is hurt in any way. A stubbed time we thought he was suffer-| allegedly raped by another' in-|January, April and next June. |} toe can be as dramatically pain-|ing pain, was sick or hurt. Usu-|mate. The baby is believed to ally we betrayed our concern|be normal, Suit was brought by mother's father. way we breathed, by our voice and gestures. PARENTS SUFFER How we suffered when his arm had to be jabbed with a needle for a "'shot", when a cut had to have some stitches,) when he needed surgical dress-| ing or even simple first aid.| to have a tonsillectomy. ALL KEEP IN TOUCH DAUPHIN, Man. re-\fine periods damages for being|spiration promised between now of profitable in- and the end of July, in late Sep- less babyish about! sion js believed to be without|January, March and May. ; 0 and) parallel in the United States, Indeed, she will love yOu) and goes far beyond the partic- Personal relationships will be junder generally good aspects 1 f 115 and Oct. 4, next February, | ' } Judge Sidney Squire handed) April and May, Do not take} creasingly important to her self-|down his 16-page ruling in the|what may look like the "real! jesteem and regard by other|case of a girl born in Decem-|thing" in early August too ser-| iber, 1962, in Manhattan Stateliously, however. Both travel| ___|sionable, and will be extremely} jtenacious CP)--Only | es Aug. and stimulating social experi- A child born on this day will be highly sensitive and impres- the of in pursuit goals. |11 of the 84 graduates of Dau-! |Phin General Hospital's nursing course since 1901 could not be} |located for invitation to the June} reunion this year. Nurses came \from as far as California and N Scoti ; What an ordeal for us if he had 4 uhcaaoattgg a a Automatic Dryer Cleaning -- Service Reguler Cleaning Prevents FIR Dial 725-8915 When in his first. few years) he got a bump, fell as he began) walking or later skinned his) hands and knees, we were in-| clined to grab him up, reveal-| ing as we did so our concern) over how bad his injury might| be. Not controlling our emo-/ tions then, we may easily have caused him to suppose he was} badly hurt. His crying then in-| tensified our fears and anxiety. | LACK OF SELF-CONTROL Indeed, our very lack of self- control. can cause a child to} grow more fearful of being hurt and more ready to play for our excessive attention. } But as we see a skilled nurse or physician care for him when) he is sick or injured, we may see reasons to be more stoic. Hard as it may be for us not to increase his fears of being) hurt, we can see how import- ant it is for us to let him learn to be stoic, too. In this direction his fun with other children as time goes on) in the rough-and-tumble of nor- mal play usually helps him. LOAN FUND EXPANDS | WINNIPEG (CP)--The Farm/ concerned and to show less sympathy when she has slight physical injuries. FEAR LOSS OF LOVE Fear not so much that she will suppose you don't love her, than $154,813,000 HOOVER WASHER- SPIN DRYER Credit Corporation made 10,142 |loans in 1964, reported chairman |George Owen, beating the rec-| jord of 8,689 loans made in 1963.) |The total sum involved is more 0 he 190 KI @ FRIDAY, NG STREET EAST July 2, 4-9 p.m. J. A. JANSSEN & SONS GARDEN CENTRE @ Country Drive-In Fruit Market ®@ Garden and Nursery Centre @ Sales and Service Shop Will Be Open July Ist Dominion Day from 9 a.m. to 10 p.m. r J. A. JANSSEN & SONS GARDEN CENTRE 843 King St, W. Wash-rinse and spin dry 24 pounds of clothes in just 30 minutes Uses only 83% gallons wash water which can be saved to use over again NO INSTALLATION NECESSARY -- Use any- where, stores in a minimum space only 16%" wide, 292" long, 3142" high Gentle clothes -- Nothing touches them but water. Many clothes are ready to iron after spin drying: See It Nowat Fipestome STORES 725-6566 Sales Representative Bob Swain will be at your service... @ SATURDAY, July 3, 9-6 p.m. Can You Imagine .. . Washing a 6 Ib. Load of Clothes in 4 Minutes ? You can in this amazing washer spin dryer from Hoover 728-9429 His Wife Is Missing The Compliment -- What do you suggést I do to let them know 1 know?--Ex- Dummy . Dear Ex: What do you hope to accomplish? Obviously any woman who would follow your husband into the kitchen and "right under your nose" doesn't care 'whether you know or not. My advice is to maintain your dignity and keep quiet. You're one up in any event--you've got the man. Dear Ann Landers: I'm a Chicagoan who is stationed at Fort Hood, Texas. Your answer will settle a small civil war in our barracks. We haye guys in our outfit who hail from all parts of the country. The fellows from New York and Texas pro- nounce the letters '"'u" and "ew" as if there was a "Y" in front. It comes gut "You." For example they say "Nyoo York" and "nyoospaper." The mid- westerners and the West Coast guys say "Noo York" and "'noozpaper."' The words "produce," 'con- sume" and 'student' get the same treatment from the Tex- ans and New Yorkers. They put considered mousey and stupid. may/for the next 12 months, with| inl ie ! that Chet Buhtley says, "'N.B.C.jmust know the blood type of the) DRUGGISTS ARE WOMEN patient in case a transfusion is Nyoos, Nyoo York" and David Brinkley says, "N.B.C. Nooz, hasty conclusions, Lady. led. Don't jump to In Finland, 93 per cént of the any|pharmacists and 76 per cent of Washington." Can you tell us which is cor- ithe dentists are women. © 5 rect?--Fort Hood Gang Dear Gang: I have checked four dictionaries. No two agree. The best answer to your qués- tion is in Fowler's Modern Eng- lish Usage. It says "we deserve} not praise but censure, if well decline to accept the popular pronunciation of popular) words," This means there is no right or wrong, so imitate the natives. Good night, David. Good night, Chet. We enjoy your nooz in Chicago. Dear Ann Landers: I need tof know something but I'm afraid to ask questions for fear of giv- ing the wrong impression. A relative of mine was ad- mitted to a hospital last week. The doctor ordered blood tests made at once. I asked the nurse why this had to be done. She said, "It is routine." I have a hunch they were! checking to learn if the patient has a venereal disease. What else could it be? Naturally 1| was shocked and upset. Please) print my letter and your an- swer.--Lady Needing Peace of! a little "y"' sound in. We notice!tion. Moreover the Mind | Dear Needing: A blood test is routine for all patients who en- ter a hospital. An analysis of a_ patient's blood can reveal valuable infor-| mation about his general condi-| St. physician | a DOMINION DAY SALE "One Day Only -- July ist -- 9 am, until 6 pm, NU-WAY RUG CENTR Due to the store being open on the Dominion Doy Holiday we shall be CLOSING SATURDAY, JULY 3rd To enable our staff to enjoy the weekend -- 'For Sav- ings Golore, Visit Our Store" -- 54 Church DOMINION DAY y 1867 -- 1965 RESULTS OF DRAW Ist Prize: Carol Maxymuik, 827 Hortop St. -- Lewn Mower, 2nd Prize: Dorothy Krusal, 300 Ballerd St. -- Pole Lamp _ 3rd Prize: Mrs. M, Stauffer, 338 Colborne St. &. _ Pole Lemp See You At The Oshowa FOLK FESTIVAL July Ist ROGER 50 Bond St. E. \. Holiday a a 3 = b-*) =) = ww = = nal J md, = > 7 = REMNANTS © Roll ENDS © Odd Size RUGS UP TO 19.95 PER SQ. YD. -- TO CLEAR NOTE! The New Indoor Outdoor "VECTRA" Carpet Is now available in Canada -- All colors are now in stock. This revolutionary new carpet -- colorful -- rugged -- weather proof -- won't shrink, mildew, stretch, colorfast and remarkably long wearing for in the home ---- recrea- tion rooms -- patios -- swimming pools -- boats and docks -- sundecks -- steam rooms -- Immediate Delivery -- 9' -- $7.95 sq. yd. Reg.4.95 I The Story Behind This Sale As you may know I have recently opened the largest broadloom showroom in Eastern On- tario, after having spent eighteen years on Mary Street, Naturally | now have a much lar- ger staff and | am determined to keep them fully employed through the traditionally slow month of July. To this end | have marked down every yard of broadloom to near cost for this one day event, choosing the Dominion Day Holiday'to coincide with the Folk Festival that brings many families together into town. If you shop Nu-Way Dominion Day I per- sonally guarantee you the best rug deal in town. Sincerely... +0 Bul Probel NU-WAY RUGS (Oshawa) LTD., 54 Church St. % Special sq. yd. ..... APPLIANCES & FURNITURE 728-2151 formerly Credit Union Bidg, (OSHAWA LTD.) > SALE STARTS TO-MORROW AT 9 A.M. 9' and 12' widths. Complete color range 1.95 12' only -- Gold -- Doeskin Golden "18,95 9x12' Wool Axminster, * sr tore on om = Reg, 119.95 now 78.88 ie 36" Round Scatter Mats -- wool Wilton Reg. (5.95 now 10.88 NYLON TWIST 12x12'6" Spanish gold, Wool Plush Del Rio Reg. 300.00 now 215.00 a ee ee 12x18'8" Trilan, Lime green Reg. 245.00 now 150.00 Repelee 99.9% = 49. 98. - 12x20'. Fawn Del Rio, Wool Plush, 4" pile Reg. 480.00 now 370.00 9x12' Royal Blue Acrilan, <* or une se Reg, 159.95 now 109.95 9x12' Honey Gold, Trilan Riviera Reg. 99.95 now 179.95 {2x14'9" Sky Blue, Dupont 501 Nylon Cosmos 'a 260.00 now 180,00 ee 12x11°10" Sand Beige, Scotch Twist Reg. 240,00 now 179,00 ee Hig pgallnn 12x22' Moss Green, Contract broadioom tweedReg. 470.00 now 325.00 12x15'7" Moss Green, Contract broadioom tweedReg. 330,00 now 225.00 9x9'10" Spice, Trilan Looped Textured Reg. 69.50 now 49.95 9xi7' -- Blue, Trilan High, Low Textured Reg. 119.00 now 85.00 501 Nylon Textured 9x12' Jade Green, Twist, all wool Brintwist Reg. 180.00 now 144,00 «hinge Boy, Sah (2x13' = Moss Green, Dupont 501, Nylon Reg, 225.00 now 173.00 9x12' Gold, Dupont 501, Nylon Textured Reg. 155.00 now 115,00 12x8'5" Sand Beige, Nylon High, Low pile Reg. 113.00 now 75.00 3 . 9x7'9" Spice, Trilan, cut and uncut Reg. 61.50 now 42.00 All Wool Plush 9x5'5" Champagne, Wool textured Reg. 49.00 now 29,00 12' only. Spanish gold -- pile is over 12x11'8" Cinnamon, Wool twist by Brinton Reg. 165.00 now 90,00 MAEM ceva 12x15'8" Cinnamon, Wool twist broadloom Reg. 250,00 now 167,00 Runners and Mat Remnants per sq. yd. $3.00 PHONE 728-4681-2 or 728-4201 3 eee Ye ORE TES BLESS pas