WEDDING ALBUM A record for your Wedding Album 1s provided by The Oshawa Times Woman's Page. Forms are available at The Oshawa Times office. Early publication of this wedding record is facilitated by submitting the completed form and a picture of the bride to the Women's Editor as soon as possible after the ceremony. You are asked to submit the names of out-of-town guests attending the wedding to the social editor either before or Spires - Eldad United Church was the setting for fhe marriage of Bar- bara Jean, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Burney Hooey, to Larry William Spires, son of Mr, and Mrs. Everett Spires, all of Hampton. The Reverend Charles Catto officiated and the soloist was Mr. Ross Metcalfe accompanied by Miss Gladys "Yellowlees, Given in marriage by her father, the bride wore a formal gown of white embroidered or- ganza, fashioned along empire lines with a round neckline and Jong sleeves. Three white tulle roses held her shoulder length veil of tulle and she carried a bouquet of red roses, The maid of honor was Miss Montpetit - The marriage of Joan Anne, daughter of Mr, and Mrs. James Edward Crawford and Frederick Ewart Montpetit, son of Mr. and Mrs. George Regi- the day after the wedding. Hooey Deanna Vance, Oshawa, and the other attendants were Mrs, A, N. Alexander, Cour- tice, and Miss Sharon Spires, Hampton. The best man was Mr. Keith Cryderman, Hampton, and the ushers were Mr. William Hen- ning, Bowmanville and Mr, 'Kenneth Spires, Hampton, Following the reception held in the Solina Community Hall, the couple left for a honeymoon trip to the West Coast. For travelling, the bride donned a two-piece wool suit in skipper blue, navy blue accessories, and white gloves. On their re- turn Mr, and Mrs. Hooey will reside in their new home in Solina. Crawiord nald Montpetit, all of Oshawa, 7 was solemnized in Cedardale United Church, The Rev 'end A. M. Butler f officiated with Mr, Stanley Locke: playing the wedding 7 music and soloist, Mr, Frank Stacey. The bride who was given in _marriage by her father, was attired in an empire silhouette gown of nylon over taffeta with a semi fingertip sleeves, Appliqued rose buds and leaves enhanced the high waistline and border- ed the cardinal train. A pearl- accompanying the © bateau neckline and 77 ized crown of delicate flowers 7 held her double, circular blush veil and she carried a cascade bouquet of pink roses. Mrs, Robert Crawford, Taun- ton, was the matron of honor and the bridesmaids were Miss Diane Gow and Miss Cheryl Mason, both of Oshawa, Mr. James Montpetit was the best man and the ushers were Mr. Robert Crawford and Mr. Gary Carey. A reception followed in the Civic Auditorium. As the couple left for a honey- moon at Lake Placid, New York, | MRS. FRED MONTPETIT the bride was wearing a suit of pink brocade with white acces- sories, P ELDAD UNITED Church was the setting for the mar- riage of Barbara Jean, daughter of Mr, and Mrs, The fathers of the bride and bridegroom officiated at the marriage in King Street Pente- costal Church of Helen Mary Krause, Oshawa, and Paul Proc- tor Ripley, Toronto. The bride is the daughter of the Reverend and Mrs, Lorne Welland Krause, Oshawa, and the bridegroom is the son of the Reverend and Mrs, Edward Ripley, Toronto, The soloist was Mr, Gordon Krause of Pembroke, Ontario, who was accompanied by Mr. Allan Smith, The bride's father also gave her in marriage. She wore a floor-length gown of Skinner satin with sheath sleeves and a scoop neckline, appliqued with lace, The skirt flared from two, double unpressed pleats in the front and back and rose motifs of the lace were appliqued on the chapel train held by a large bow above the waistline, A crown of pearls and orange blossom held her shoulder-length veil of tulle and she carried a CHILD GUIDANCE Students In The Summer Have A Responsibility By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD Some college men and women home for the summer will have jobs. Most, perhaps, will not, and will live with their parents. A certain number, especially women, will dutifully take care of aging or disabled parents or grandparents. A few of these college women may be pretty well worn out by the end of the summer, HELPING AT HOME A few other college children) will take over at home, -running the place, probably caring for young brothers and sisters. But, alas, some other college men and women, not many let's hope, will just be parasites. They will hardly turn a hand to do a thing, only add to the household burdens, sometimes to the financial sacrifices of their parents. | It's a bit disheartening to see the college man or woman at home in summer, using it as a free hotel, expecting to be waited on as if a paying hotel guest, sleeping to all hours in the morning, having the mother serve meals on demand, going out most nights, rarely com- panionable with the parents, using the family car on any or all nights, with the parents, could finance them at college and make possible this oppor- tunity for higher education. Their parents are proud of these children and the children are proud of their parents and truly grateful to them, GOOD SPORTSMANSHIP If any college student at home this summer happens to read the foregoing, I trust he will ponder it in his heart in the jlight of his sense of obligation, pong emg d and sportsman- ascertain precious values. He jmay dream of the time when he will be a parent of a college student who will also put first things - first. Consider the many children now two, five, eight or 13 who have never learned the meaning of "No,"' who usually have been allowed at home to do about as learned the alphabet of obedi- much they didn't care to do. Consider those who rarely had to wait but got what they wanted when they wanted it, Consider whose who rarely had to do what they didn't care to ido, Consider those, moreover, ship, Then. he will be trying to| they pleased, who have not) ence, who rarely have had to do| quet of red roses, Miss Judy Krause was her sister's maid of honor, The sen- ior bridesmaids were Miss Shar- on Ripley and Miss Judy Rip- ley, both of Toronto, and Miss Marilyn Hill, Peterborough, The junior bridesmaids were the Misses. Barbara and Brenda Lee Krause, both of Oshawa. They were all dressed in three tones of blue Skinner satin with matching wedding-band head- dresses and their flowers were yellow and white chrysanthe- mums, Mr. David Ripley, Toronto, lew the best man and the ush- ers were Mr, Philip Ripley, and \Mr, Peter Ripley, both of To- jronto, and Mr, Fred Howsare lof Pennsylvania, USA. | A reception was held in the |Memorial Hall of Simcoe Street United Church, The bride's mother received in rose peau de sole with match- jing hat and an orchid corsage. Guided by common sense, any one may easily arrive at the conclusion that how considerate la college student at home in summer is toward his parents depends pretty large on the at- titudes and ways he had gained in his family during his earlier years, You parents of young chil- ldren, looking forward to the |way you hope your youngsters, and college, will feel and act toward you, can easily see that you need to begin now and to continue to try to bring them up to be unselfish and respon- sible members of their family. |ANSWERING PARENTS ANN LANDERS ~ KEEP IN TRIM Callous Dentists Few, Far Between Dear Ann Landers: I've readjput she seems to dislike the letters in your column from|baby, I've seen her take the from people who complain be-\haby's bottle away and pinch cause doctors won't come to the|her, Glenda hits me when I hold Ripley - when they are in high. school) who never learned in earlier! Q. When Dad and I return) Burney Hooey, to Larry Wil- liam Spires, son of Mr, and Mrs. Everett Spires, all of Hampton, -Astor Studio Krause MRS, PAUL P. RIPLEY The bridegroom's mother chose shell pink crepe and lace with a white hat and a corsage of pink roses and carnations. As the couple left for a honey- moon on the west coast, the bride was wearing a gold suit with a matching hat with brown accessories and orange flowers in her corsage. Mr, and Mrs, Ripley will make their home at Matheson, Ontario, Guests attended from Penn-| jsylvania, USA; northern Sas- katchewan; Sudbury, Pem- broke, Golden Lake, Peterbor- jough, Toronto, London, Napan- ee, Belleville, Hamilton and Beamsville, Ontario. Junior IODE Attends Seminar HAMILTON (CP)--A_ six-day seminar conducted by the junior chapter of the Imperial Order Daughters of the Empire fin- ished during the weekend with the 63 delegates from seven provinces impressed but ex- hausted. | On Saturday the girls toured Hamilton, Brantford and Kitch- ener, Janet Scott, 15-year-old Sarnia member, said the schedule was "a little rushed" but it had given her a chance to see cities She usually by-passed on_holi- day trips. Some of the girls, eating house at night when someone sick, You have never printed a letter from a. person who is mad at a dentist who refused to do his duty, My son had a terrible tooth- ache last night, He didn't sleep a wink, and neither did I, 1 telephoned six dentists this morning and not one would give my son an appointment. Three dentists said they had busy schedules and couldn't work' him in, One dentist said he was ion his way out of town for a vacation and had come to the office to pick up his mail, The sixth dentist said he might be able to see my son next week, I was not asking for charity. I just wanted a dentist to re- lieve my son of the pain, Have you ever heard of a situation like this? Please answer in the paper, I'd like to make them all ashamed of themselves.-- 0, City Mother Dear Mother: No, I have never heard of such a situation and I am baffled, I checked with three Chicago dentists and asked for a plausible explana- tion, Two said they have re- fused to see a patient who had repeatedly broken appointments or refused to pay a bill. But all of them insisted they would never refuse an emer- gency appointment, under any circumstances, Dear Ann Landers: You've lprobably printed dozens of let- ters similar to mine but I don't read your column very often so I probably missed it, I hope you can help me, Our four-year-old daughter is very bright and very spoiled, Her grandparents live next door and they give her everything she asks for. Three months ago we sur- prised Glenda with a baby sis- ter. I thought she'd be thrilled THE STARS SAY By. ESTRELLITA FOR TOMORROW Restrictions where personal relationships are concerned con- tinue, unfortunately, so deter- mine to keep your spirit steady, to maintain a serene disposi- tion no matter what provoca- tions you face, This will not be a good period for either ro- mance or social activities, but be patient, Better. influences will prevail within the next 48 hours, FOR THE BIRTHDAY If tomorrow is your birthday, your horoscope indicates that, |no matter how slow your pro- gress may seem at the moment, it would be advisable to use all of your innate imagination in figuring out how, practically, to further job goals during the next few weeks. Long - range plans, initiated now, should reap fine rewards in September with further boosts indicated in December, also next January jand March, Where financial ad- |jtember (outstandingly good!); the new baby, She wants me put the baby down so she can sit on my lap, What can I do?-- Distressed Mother Dear Mother; Your first mis- take was "surprising" Glenda with the new baby, You should have prepared her for the ar- rival and made her feel eager and pleased, ; Often the first-born feels dis- placed when the second baby comes. You must now give Glenda extra love and attention and ask her to "help" care for the little sister, And keep an eye on Glenda, Until she overcomes the fear that she has lost her place in your heart she should be care- fully watched, Dear Ann Landers; 1 am 18 and very fond of John, I've known him since the 7th grade and we have been going steady for 10 months, The other night we were dis-| cussing the future, namely, the army. I hate to think of being) separated from John for six months, He feels the same about me. He asked if I would like to marry him so he would- n't have to leave, We would both be almost 20 by then, I don't think I want to get married so young. I came from a family that was always hard up for money and it's no fun to live from hand to mouth. I'm not sure we could make it financially and I'm afraid to risk it. I'm getting physically Forget The Word Diet-- Think Of Sound Nutrition THE OSHAWA TIMES, Tussdoy, July 13, rh time casuistry takes half the joy out of eating but does little to curb calories, The power of an energizing idea, put on a plane of action, is amazing, On homemaker, overweight for 36 years, tri- umphed by changing her atti- tude, She wrote; "I was in the helpless cate- gory until T decided to develop built-in strength. I resolved to be the master of the food and not let it master me. This turned the trick, You have to continue to tell yourself, and believe it, My weight is now 121 pounds, For a' time I weighed so much more that I'll never tell, In 10 years I'll re- port again!" There it is; Attitude determ- ines action, Examine your at- titide toward weight control. Design a positive plan of ac- tion. You need not hew to a narrow diet path. No one knows) your food preferences, your in "Fly now, pay later"! BOAC's new Budjet-Air Plan brings Europe within easy reach of almost any travel budget. You pay only 10% down-- with up to 24 months to settle the balance, What's more if you take an all inclusive tour, you can now budget the entire cost of your holiday--hotels, meals, coach travel, car hire, even tips, See your Travel Agent and plan to fly this Fall when fares are lowest, >" BOAC BRITISH OVERSEAS AIMWAYS CORPORATION WITH AIR CANADA mood of the moment, or your budget. Forget the word diet, apply nutrition know-how, and decide to be in the driver's seat, | How do you feel around 11) a.m.? An all-gone feeling can stem from a lack of protein at 57 King St. East Oshawa's Authorized Agent FOUR SEASONS TRAVEL (OSHAWA) LIMITED Se a Tg 728-6201-2-3 ill from not being able to make} up my mind, Can you help?-- Thinking | Dear Girl: I can't imagine a more senseless reason for get- ting married than to duck mili- tary service Urge John to go into the army. The separation would be! a healthy testing period, It) sounds as if the relationship} could use it, I piter, Next good period to in-| crease assets: Between Jan. 15 and April 15, Do be conserv-| ative between mid - November and Jan, 1, however, | Stars also bless your private) concerns during the next 12 months--especially where senti-| mental interests are concerned. | Best periods for. romance The} next three weeks, which could prove truly glamorous in this| connection; the period between) Aug. 15 and Oct, 4; next Febru- ary, April and May, If planning to travel, consider your most auspicious weeks The last two of this month and all of Sep- also next January, April and June, Except for possible brief periods of tension in late Aug- ust and-or late September, you should find domestic affairs sailing smoothly along for most of the next year, A child born on this day will) be endowed with many talents) and lofty ambitions, but may) lack the self - confidence to achieve as he could, vancement is concerned, youl may also feel somewhat stym-| ied as of now, but take heart. 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INTERIOR DECORATOR lyears to take responsibility jafter an evening out, our baby-|javish meals supplied by IODE, ahve tn the heme dredeeria sitter often tells us of the bad/chapter members, complained eve DRAPERIES having to stay home, ENJOYING THE FAMILY On the other hand, how pleas- ant it is to observe the college student at home in summer en- joying his parents, joining in fun and hours of companionable conversation with them, going places with them, sharing in the drudgeries of the home, proving themselves responsible and delightful members of the family. How impressive it is to see some of these college students being especially considerate of their parents and eager to pro- mote their comforts and enjoy- ments. Such teen-age children make their parents glad they |How could they be expected, What should we ithings our-children have done. do? .. when in college, to be unselfish) A. 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