The following text may have been generated by Optical Character Recognition, with varying degrees of accuracy. Reader beware!

'. Following a honeymoon . trip through New York * $tate, Mr. and Mrs. Valen- > tino Afonso will make their - home in Oshawa. The bride is the former Veronica Mary Halik, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Walter Halik, Oshawa, and her bridegroom is the son of Mrs. Maria Concea- cao Afonso, Caratao, Portu- gal, and the late Mr. An- tonio Afonso. --Ireland Studio 'WEDDING ALBUM Arecord for your Wedding Album is provided by The Oshawa Times Women's Page. Forms are available at The Oshawa Times office. Early publication of this wedding record is facilitated by submitting the completed form and ° a picture of the bride to the Women's Editor as soon as possible after the ceremony, names of out-of-town guests You are asked to submit the attending the wedding to the social editor either before or the day after the wedding. Afonso - Holy Cross Roman Catholic Church was the setting for the marriage of Veronica Mary, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Wal- ter Halik, Oshawa, to Valen- tino R. Afonso, Oshawa, son of Mrs. Maria Conceacao Afonso, Caratao, Portugal, and the late Mr. Antonio Afonso. The Reverend Marshall Beriault officiated, and the solo- ist was Mr. Frank Rosettani, Whitby, accompanied by Mrs. Gary Booth. Given in marriage .by her father, the bride wore a formal peau. de soie sheath gown. The fitted bodice was designed with a shell neckline and elbow- length sleeves, Alencon lace en- hanced the neckline and hem of skirt, which was enveloped by the full sweeping train attach- ed at the waist, Her crown of pearls and crystals held her double. bouffant veil of tulle and she carried a teardrop cascade of white butterfly roses, pink sensation roses and Stephanotis. Halik The matron of honor was Mrs. Michael Buczynski, twin sister of the bride. The brides- maids were Miss Joanne Ros- pond and Miss Carol Hyrcanuk and the bride's niece, Miss Bar- bara Buczynski, was the junior bridesmaid; They. were dressed alike in formal gowns of pink silk. The best man was Mr. Michael Buczynski and the ush- ers. were Mr. Matthew Halik and Mr. Ronald Gorycki, all of Oshawa. The reception was held at the Kinsman Community Centre, where the bride's mother re- ceived, wearing a dawn-green chiffon formal gown, matching hat, white accessories and a corsage of pink sensation roses. As the couple left- for their honeymoon trip through New York State, the bride was wear- ing a beige cashmere suit, white accessories and a corsage of similar roses, On their return Mr. and Mrs, Afonso will reside at 99 Thickson road south. Population Imperilling India's Development By FREDERIKA HIBBARD Bombay, its leading citizens assert proudly, is India's most cosmopolitan, progressive and prosperous city. And it probably is. But like its sister citles, Bom- bay is battling a galloping popu- lation problem that is sapping India's economic lifeblood and ieee | grinding poverty among her 483 million people. Bands of ragged beggars, hands perpetually outstretched, Bombay's streets, choked "with four million people, and haunt the hotels that cater to tourists. Green mold grows quickly on the unpainted, overcrowded, sour-smelling tenements. Muddy swamps fed by monsoonal rains creep into the shacks that in- fest the city like a malignant growth. Thousands of homeless bed down for the night on hard sidewalks and on steps and in doorways. With India's population grow- ing by over 11 million annually and three of four people living below the international subsis- tence norm of 2500 calories a) day, the nation is in crisis. An Indian population expert, Dr. Chidambara Chandra- sekeran, says: "Our problem is a massive one. Practically all that we do to raise living stand- ards and food production is eaten away by -- population growth." The huge nation has made massive efforts to improve liv- ing standards and increase food production, but since 1961 eco- nomic progress has slowed while population has continued to soar. --Senapatbeteteadeeee Pee cl Sg agi den gaa gener - Smith - Steeves Nuptial vows were exchanged Almonds United Church, Steeves and Sheldon Ral Smith, both of. Whitby. bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Milton Steeves, and the bridegroom is the son of Mr. and Mrs, Ralph Roy Smith. The officiating clergyman was the Reverend John Rees and the soloist was Mr. George Jepma, accompanied by Mrs. Lee, the church organist. Given in marriage gown of pure silk organza over taffeta with the bodice and lily- point sleeves of Chantilly lace. The bouffant skirt had an over- ed by deep. bands of similar scalloped lace. The back of the gown was highlighted by a de- tachable lace-edged train caught at the shoulders by a self bow. Her lace-covered self wedding ring headdress held her bouf- fant veil and she carried a bou- quet of pink gladiolas, pink sweetheart roses and white car- nations. : The maid of honor was Miss Gail Steeves, Whitby, and the other attendants were Mrs, Gor- don Wilson, Toronto, Miss Linda Barrett, and Mrs. Peter Van Munster, both of Whitby, dressed alike. in pink formal gowns. The flower girls were Loraine Reeder in pink semi- The best man was Mr. Terry Harlow and the ushers were Mr. Douglas Loudfoot, Mr. Gordon by her father, the bride wore a formal skirt in redingote effect, border- formal gowns, | MRS. SHELDON R. SMITH all|/Wilson, and Mr. George Butter- worth, Following the reception held at Miss Angela Reeder and Miss|the Spruce Villa, Whitby, the couple left on a honeymoon trip to the United States, with the bride wearirg, for travelling, an off white dress and jacket, biuicia | FEW DON'TS hat and beige accessories, Women 10. THE OSHAWA TIMES, Mondoy, August 16, 1965 CHILD GUIDANCE Books On Good Manners Remain Over Centuries y GARRY C. MYERS, Ph.D. You may have read the rules on manners which George Washington in his early teens wrote down-in a copy book. No doubt most or all these rules came down in print from earlier centuries. In 1914 the Merrimount Press of Boston printed a translation of A Revassace Courtesy Book: Galateo of Manners and Be- havior, written by . Giovanni Della Casa, 1551-55. Below are some rules on manners from that book. They reveal the author's phil- osophy, "The function of good manners is to be found in the desire to please'"--in considera- tion of the rights and feelings of others. They make sense: basic rules' of good manners. whether he has heard them stated or not, SELF-CONTROLLED It is apparent that when we observe basic good manners we have learned to check and con- trol our ways of acting and speaking in the presence of other persons, This means that we have learned such inhibitions as are useful in all our' social relationships. It means we have learned self- control, which in turn means we have been restrained and. con- trolled in our earlier years by our parents and others con- cerned with our behavior, RESPECT ORDERS Can you imagine any child at We must not only refrain from five, eight, or 15 having reason- Last week 150 delegates from seven presbyteries, Belleville, Cobourg, Kingston, Lindsay, Peterborough, Oshawa and Ren- frew, were present at ed Church Women's school at Albert College, Belle- ville. Miss Marion Thompson, trav- elling secretary for the Board of Women of the United Church di- rected the Bible study, exploring the significance of Jesus' bap- tism and temptation and the conditions of discipleship. She outlined the elements necessary for the proper planning of a worship service. In her summation she spoke of the resurrection and subse- quent happenings, when Peter became the acknowledged head of the church, he saw that the church had to accept the gift of servanthood. She concluded: "As it is there is in the church too much harness and not enough horse.' Mrs. Benjamin' Garrett of Lindsay introduced a number of new methods of Bible study and the Lindsay delegates presented the third act of a religious play, "Bitter Heart'. Mrs. Carl Down of Oshawa led the vesper serice. Mrs. Stephen Saywell, Oshawa, chairman of the bursary fund committee an- nounced that students going into full-time work of the church would be assisted by the burs- ary fund when required. Mrs. John Halpenny, a mem- ber of the Board of Women of the United Church and Mrs. Smithrim, past-president of the Belleville Presbyterial UCW em- phasized a mother's need of faith in a discussion on the Christian family in today's world. Mrs. Kenneth Farrow, confer-| ence press secretary, gave) some pointers on public rela-| tions. | Mrs, Claude Ives, Bowman- ville, as dean, introduced visi-/ tors: Miss Muriel Stevens, Bow- manville, on furlough from the Congo, Africa; Miss Hyacinth Booth, a student at Covenant College, from Jamaica; Mrs. Una Batten, from Kent, En- gland and Miss Rebecca Wong of Hong Kong, daughter of the secretary of the Council of Churches of Christ in China. Miss Wong, a talented pianist | Over 40 per cent of the popul: tion is under 14 years of age and the most intensive family- planning program will not slack- en the pressure for jobs for 20 years. Indian government efforts to limit population began as far back as 1951, but the programs to date have not met the need. On July 1, Prime Minister Lal Bahadur Shastri, himself the jfather of six (which is the na- |tional average)), made his first forthright commitment to birth control in a nationwide broad- cast. Shastri pointed out that food production remains stag- nant while the population swells. Family-planning clinics are NEGLECT INFANT WOUNDS MONTREAL (CP) -- Many mothers dismiss too casually the falls their children suffer during childhood, says a Mont- real pediatrician. 'Certainly minor cuts and bruises can be treated at home, but many a child walks around with scars which could have been pre- vented by a couple of stitches or time of the accident," he said. multiplying, yet the goal of 8200 set for 1966 is still miniscule in a nation with some 500,000 cities, towns and villages. NOTICE! LAKE VISTA PROPERTY OWNERS! We Need Your House WE CAN SELL IT! Call Today ; 48 SIMCOE ST. SOUTH For Fast Action 728-5157 . United Church Women Renew Purpose At Quinte Conierence who entertained the delegates on several occasions, is study- ing at the Royal Conservatory of Music, Toronto. She described the over-crowd- theling in Hong Kong due to the Bay of Quinte Conference Unit-|influx of refugees, boosting the annual| population from 600,000 to 2,500,- 000. The-Council-@f the Churches of Christ in China maintains a 250-bed sanatarium for TB pa tients and is a member of the Relief It also provides chil- dren's schooling and care of the Junk Medicine Council. Bay aged, sick and homeless. Miss Wong brought greetings to all Canadian churches. 'We are one in Christ," she said, "'in whom there is no East or West." Mrs. L. F. Richardson, con- the closing address, "A Responsible Church in a Changing World', developing the theme introduced by the Reverend H. M. Davis, president of the Bay of Quinte Conference, 'Eternal Values in ference president, gave a Changing World". Mrs. Richardson concluded "The church is the place from which we go to carry out its mission when we do something constructive about such things minority groups, poverty, disturbed and rebellious youth, the spread of retirement at an earlier age, the Indian situation and wherever there is work to as race relations, automation, be done. "Let us be prepared to let God guide us into creative and effective work in the community and the world," ably good manners who has never learned to respect the meaning of NO--who has al- ways done about as he pleased? PARENTS' QUESTIONS Q. Our two children, six and eight, often fight and quarrel on the way to Sunday school or church. They annoy Dad while he is driving. What should we do? A. The children annoying Dad driving may cause a serious accident. I. advise you make a brad, then paddle before next Sunday morning. Then if these kids quarrel Dad should pull off: the road and use this paddle soundly on them. One "dose" could be a permanent cure. It's more humane than killing the whole family. such things as be fowle, filthy, loathsome and nastie; but we must mot so much as name them, Let your apparel be very well made, and fit for your body. It ill becomes a man when he is in company to be sad, musing, and full of contempla- tion; or to sleep in the company of others, read a letter, or pare his fingernails. Don't stand too close to the person you are talking to. Don't claw or scratch yourself while sitting at the table. Don't rub teeth with napkins. much less with fingers; nor carry a stick 'lin your mouth from the table when you rise. Be cheerful at the table. Don't talk about the baby and family all the time. Be a good listener--don't try to steal the show. He will incline to observe them). SINGS TO WIN Beverley Henderson, 14, daughter of Mr, and Mrs, Fred Henderson, Veterans road, has obtained the high- est mark in Ontario in Grade IV _ singing in the examinations of the Royal Conservatory ¢* Music, To- ronto, She has been award- ed the Frederick Harris scholarship and a silver medal, awarded once a year to the top student, In Peter- borough Kiwanis Music Fes- tival last year, Beverley took first place in the 15- years and under class for vocal solos, She is a pupil of Elsie Drygala, RMT. ARCT, | | SOCIAL NOTICES 4 FORTHCOMING MARRIAGE Mr. and Mrs. Victor Tilling, Oshawa, announce the forthcom- ing marriage of their daughter, Joyce Victoria, to Mr. Alistair Jackson Reed Sanderson, son of Mr. and Mrs. Thomas Sander- son, Ajax. The ceremony is to take place on Saturday, August 28, 1965, at 2.00 p.m. 7 hin Street United Church, Oshawa| WIFE PRESERVER FORTHCOMING MARRIAGE | New way to iron puffed sleeves: put your hand jn a pot- holder mitt, insert it up the sleeve and iron. ; te The. forthcoming marriage is announced of Ardythe Janette Greenfield, daughter of Mr. Arthur Greenfield, Oshawa, and the late Mrs. Janet Greenfield, nd Ggerh oi Richard McGarry, son. of Mrs, Dean: Kelly, Osh- awa. The ceremony is to take place on Friday, September 10, 1965 at 7.30 p.m. in the rectory of St. Gregory the Great Roman Catholic Church. HOUSEHOLD HINT | Polish chrome appliances with paper towelling dampened with clear ammonia, Rub until clean! and dry and until. no streaks appear. Decide To' Donce? LEARN ALL THE NEW STEPS Brush up on the old favorites ARTHUR MURRAY franchised. studio, 11 Simcoe $. 728-1681 4, LAUNDRY || SHAUIA = ARE-- HOUSEHOLD HINT Use an ice cream scoop to form meat balls or to measure ground meat for all-alike ham- burgers. AND pRY | CLEANERS Jj WORK AS NURSES they already have. MONTREAL (CP)--So far, 14\f} housewives have begun work at suburban Lasalle hospital as volunteer nurses, to alleviate a shortage of trained staff. All were trained as nurses but can- not take on full duties after five years outside the profession without taking a refresher course.' But as volunteers, they say, they can offer the training OPEN During the Holiday Period ASK OUR PICK-UP MAN OFFENDING ACTIONS Things to avoid because they offend the senses: Coughing, sneezing or yarning in company's presence; greedi- ness and carelessness in eating, not even mentioning what might be an indelicate act. Don't talk about inappropriate things or) mention indelicate- matters or brag or lie. Don't turn your back to other persons or be careless about the way you! stand. | The author has much to say about table manners, The con-| stant emphasis is on awareness} of other persons and how they! feel, in your presence, Modern books on etiquette! seem to be concerned most with) the veneer of good manners) rather than with consideration for all other persons regardless of their status or social rank. Any person who is constantly sensitive to all others will not need to try to remember the FASHIONS SINCE 1867 ABOUT OUR AUGUST SPECIALS Phone 723-9531 723-1471 50 MILL STREET OSHAWA ALTERATIONS & TAILORING DONE AT PLANT WESTINGHOUSE -INVENTORY SALE PRICE Come see the Westinghouse line -- Refrigerators, Ranges, Freezers, Home laundry equipment, Use your CREDIT! Open an account! Buy the appliance you have been wanting at Semi-Annual Inventory Savings. It's A Refrigerator FURNITUORE WORL » 80 KING ST. EAST IN DOWNTOWN OSHAWA 11.2 CU. FT, REFRIGERATOR WITH SEPARATE FREEZER Big 62-Ib. zero-zone freezer Automatic defrost refrigerator Full-width porcelain crisper Deep door shelf area includes egg shelves ... dairy bar section. And Your Old Refrigerator - Freezer, All-In - One D Bi Enter OSHAWA SHOPPING CENTRE Monthly FAMILY ALLOWANCE DRAW! @ SIMPLY CASH YOUR FAMILY ALLOWANCE CHEQUE AT THE CENTRE AND ASK FOR | FREE ENTRY FORMS. @ DEPOSIT ENTRY FORM INTO BALLOT BOX--- AT FLAG POLE IN THE MALL, @ ENTRY SELECTIONS THIS MONTH WILL BE MADE ON THURSDAY, AUG. 26, 1965, > 7 OS ee apt omnia tan aaa EH iN ak